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Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.

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Friday · 14 min
Sydney Sweeney Controversy Reveals Something Darker About Us
Want to build real prestige and improve the way people see you? Join Charisma University here: https://bit.ly/CU2325 Check out more of Rob Henderson’s work here: https://substack.com/@robkhenderson Sometimes outrage is not really about politics or beliefs, but about hidden strategies we use to compete for attraction and status. In this video, I dive into the controversy around Sydney Sweeney’s American Eagle ad with insights from psychologist and author Rob Henderson. Through the lens of evolutionary psychology, he reveals four cunning strategies driving outrage, rivalry, and reputation attacks. Beneath all of that lies an even bigger trap, the universal status game that shapes our lives, often without us realizing it. 0:00 - Intro 1:54 - Lower Rivals Eligibility 2:51 - Police and Limit What Rivals Can Offer 4:53 - Align With High Status Individuals to Improve Own Position 6:13 - Develop Skills That Benefit the Coalition 6:55 - Two Strategies To Gain Status 8:15 - The Direct Route 8:41 - The Indirect Route 9:20 - Learn To Make More REAL Connections Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Video editing: Andre Ringkjoeb Christopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 14 min
How To Be Charming When Talking To People
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EbqMm1 Jennifer Lawrence - Funny, Self-Deprecating Stories Jennifer Lawrence is the most famous actress in the world. Scroll through the comments on any of her interviews and they are filled with people who support her and sing her praises. She is considered extremely funny and grounded. Yet despite her fame, Jennifer Lawrence has never garnered the type of hate that many accomplished people do. And a huge piece of that is in the stories she tells. In her interviews, she makes herself appear vulnerable and down to earth when she reveals embarrassing stories from her past. They might seem like simple anecdotes, but they endear her fans to her. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 12 min
How to Be Loved for Your Quiet Presence
Join Over 21,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-00225 Full podcast episode: https://youtu.be/SRLljn_GEHk?si=flYq1iwyUwEC22-T The most underrated social skill is so subtle it often goes unnoticed—but it has the power to change lives, including yours. In this video, I reveal the transformative art of "holding space," a skill that's not about fixing, advising, or encouraging, but simply being present for someone in their moments of vulnerability. Through Theo Von's deeply empathetic interaction with Sean Strickland, who shares harrowing stories of his past, we explore how this skill can create profound connections. You'll learn to recognize dissociation, switch conversational modes, and offer support without an agenda. 0:00 - Intro 0:11 - Here is the skill 0:46 - Disconnected emotions 1:32 - The underlying emotions break through 1:57 - Switch conversational modes 3:49 - Just listen 4:45 - Encourage emotional exploration Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Written by: Charlie Houpert Edited by: Io Anastasaki Henry Houpert Andre Ringkjøb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 17 min
How To Persuade Anyone
Donald Trump Is Actually A Master Psychologist Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/dqNQaw Could Donald Trump really win in 2016?? It seems like a ridiculous question, but Donald Trump's 2016 campaign has defied all the expectations from the pundits. Initially considered a joke candidate, he now leads the Republican pack in most national polls and the polls for the most important caucuses. At the same time, a huge portion of America would be mortified if Trump were to win. He's made remarks about Muslims and Mexicans that many have found offensive and those same people are baffled about how he could be the Republican frontrunner. It's no accident though. Trump has an incredible amount of charisma and an intuitive understanding of human psychology. We'll dive into how he's used it to garner support in what many thought was an impossible campaign. We'll see Donald Trump can take the nomination for presidency in 2016. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 17 min
How To Show Up For Someone In A Rough Time
The fastest way to build the confidence and charisma to make friends as an adult: https://bit.ly/002-26 Most people want to help a friend who is struggling, but they get it wrong. They give advice too fast, push too hard, or try to carry emotional burdens that are not theirs to carry, which can actually hurt the friendship. In this video, you will learn how to support a friend in hard times, build deeper connections, and become someone people trust, using Samwise Gamgee as the example of what real friendship and support look like when life gets tough. 0:00 - Intro 0:47 - Offer help before they ask 1:25 - Offer help without hooks 4:37 - Honor their boundaries 7:23 - Support them without this... 8:55 - See them as mid-story Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 44 min
5 Lies About Being A Man You Probably Still Believe
Get Joe's free transformation guide + $300 off his upcoming Connection Course. Just use the discount code CHARISMA at checkout. This only is available when the cohorts are about to launch: https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/course/the-connection-course Or if checkout isn't open, join the email list to be notified of upcoming Connection course cohorts: http://s.artofaccomplishment.com/iVRQ3h Most men are taught a very narrow version of masculinity: be tough, be dominant, never show weakness, and always stay in control. But Joe Hudson argues that a lot of those ideas are actually keeping men disconnected, reactive, and less powerful than they could be. In this video, we break down 5 lies modern men believe about masculinity, and what real strength looks like instead. 0:00 - Intro 1:37 - Lie 1 8:12 - Lie 2 14:41 - Lie 3 21:09 - Lie 4 27:11 - Lie 5 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 13 min
Why Modern Men Are Lost (The Missing Energy)
Watch my King Archetype video: https://youtu.be/Qe3moydLS8w Try the Warrior Breathwork: https://youtu.be/aelfMAhl2hg If you want to build unshakable confidence and reconnect with your full potential, check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/018-25 In today’s video, I dive into why so many modern men feel lost, lonely, and disconnected—and reveal how the forgotten masculine archetypes, especially the warrior, hold the key to reclaiming our purpose, power, and inner fire. 0:00 - Intro 0:58 - Archetypes explained 1:46 - The final masculine archetype 2:25 - Part I: Channel Your Aggression 4:04 - Part II: Embrace Solitude 5:25 - Part III: Take Risks 6:50 - Part IV: Wield The Fire of Death Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 13 min
It's actually pretty easy to flirt with women
Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/VVVAjE Russell Brand flirting with women is a sight to behold....As men, we're never really taught how to flirt with women. That's a problem. Because many men get caught in the trap of "creep flirting" where they come on too strong. Other's stick to the "goofball guy" and wind up in the friend zone. The style of interaction that Russell Brand and Craig Ferguson demonstrate in this video will actually teach you how to flirt with women. It's not the ONLY way, but it is a great way to show interest without creeping anyone out. So check out Russell Brand's special version of "push pull" and see if it matches your style of flirting. Also, pay close attention to the moments when the women start to fall for Russell. They will teach you a lot about flirting with women. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 9 min
How To Make People Like You Immediately
One Simple Tip To Make People Like You - Tom Hiddleston Charisma Breakdown https://goo.gl/qgN8BY Watch Tom Hiddleston and Grae Drake banter back and forth and learn how you can boost your charisma just by shifting the way you crack jokes. It's a simple technique that you can use to make just about anyone like you, guy or girl. After all, we like people who make us feel good about ourselves, and this tip will do that for you. Subscribe to Charisma On Command. https://goo.gl/qgN8BY Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 17 min
How To Quietly Take Control of a Room
The fastest way I know to build your social confidence: https://bit.ly/003-26 Dr K is about to win over this chaotic room in 13 minutes, going from the ignored outsider to the person everyone loves. He does it using five techniques most people get wrong, but anyone can learn. 0:00 - Intro 1:11 - Find out what people respond to 1:58 - Join the chaos 3:37 - Make the agreement explicit 6:03 - Change HOW you talk about it 8:12 - Take them somewhere new 11:24 - The fastest way to build your social confidence Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Visko Matich Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 13 min
Public Speaking: How To Make An Audience Love You In 90 Seconds
6 Public Speaking Tips To Hook Any Audience Public speaking is hard. We all know it. But if you master a few basic public speaking tips and techniques, you can absolutely hook any audience. https://goo.gl/IpBEnO In this video you'll get the public speaking training to hook an audience n 30 seconds. The public speaking skills to tell stories that have people hanging on every word. And the techniques to nail a finale that moves people to action. Public speaking shakes a lot of people's confidence, but if you use these tips and techniques, you'll be on your way to giving presentations that TED would be proud of :-) You can watch the full speech here: https://youtu.be/Iqq1roF4C8s For the written version: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=videodesc&utm_campaign=blog Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 17 min
Adele: How to Be Authentic
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2BjiwgX Adele: How to Be Authentic Adele might be the best singer alive. Her music is soulful and moving. What’s fascinating about her is that the “honesty” in her music extends to her interviews and offstage interactions. So in this video I want to explore what makes Adele come across as so genuine. We'll watch her interviews with Jimmy Fallon on the Tonight Show, James Corden on Carpool Karaoke on The Late Late Show, and Fredrik Skavlan on Skavlan. We'll also listen in on her song "Someone Like You" to watch how she delivers it with such pure emotion. Learning where that feeling arises from will make it easier for you to spot fakers and it will make it possible for you to become more genuine yourself, which will make people you barely know trust you and want to get to know you better. James Corden And Adele Singing Carpool Karaoke: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nck6B... The three things that Adele does so well that will we cover are: 1) Smiling Genuinely 2) Being Honest And Congruent With Her Feelings 3) Praising Others Openly And Freely Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Thursday · 13 min
How To Compliment Anyone Without Sounding Fake
The fastest way to improve your confidence and charisma: https://bit.ly/001-26 If you want people to love being around you, there is almost nothing like delivering great compliments. But most people don’t realize there are 3 levels of compliments that lead to better and better connection. They stay stuck on the first level, and too many level 1 compliments can make people feel uncomfortable. 0:00 - Intro 0:28 - Level 1: Social Flow Compliments 2:50 - Level 2: MC Compliments 4:42 - Level 3: Heartfelt Compliments 6:59 - The essential mindset 7:36 - Try this challenge Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Thursday · 16 min
Stop Trying to Look Confident, Do This Instead
The fastest way I know to build secure confidence and social skills: https://bit.ly/012-26-Cena Most people think confidence means looking strong, staying composed, and hiding anything that could make them seem weak. But the harder you try to control how others see you, the more fragile your confidence becomes. In this video, we break down John Cena’s five signs of secure confidence, and why they are the opposite of what most people expect. You’ll see why genuine enthusiasm draws people in, how silliness can signal deep self-acceptance, and why sharing your struggles can make others respect you more. Because real confidence isn’t about protecting a perfect image. It’s being comfortable enough to let people see your full range. 0:00 - What is secure confidence? 1:53 - Sign 1 3:27 - Sign 2 6:04 - Sign 3 7:35 - Sign 4 9:05 - Sign 5 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Thursday · 14 min
How To Dominate Any Debate
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2H1opA6 Donald Trump's Debates: 5 Mental Tricks You Didn't Notice Donald Trump has proven himself to be a master persuader. His unlikely rise to prominence in the Republican primaries has riden on the fact that he knows how to work the media during interviews as well as his performances in the GOP debates against the likes of Jeb Bush and Ted Cruz. When watching the debates, many of his detractors criticize Trump's apparent lack of substance. For instance, he ducked Megyn Kelly's question about sexism with a joke about Rosie O'Donnell. He seems to repeat buzz words more than other candidates and often justifies his positions by referring to other people who support his stances, rather than defending them outright. While this may seem like weak arguments, Donald Trump's debate strategies actually align perfectly with the way humans think and process information. For that reason, Trump's arguments tend to sink in more than his opponent's (like Jeb Bush and Ted Cruz) do. In this video we'll look at the top 5 relatively unknown psychological truths that Trump exploits to get his point across during interviews and debates. Link to Scott Adams' blog: http://blog.dilbert.com/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Thursday · 9 min
How To Instantly Get A More Attractive Smile
Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nM4cpO How To Smile Perfectly For Men Will Smith has one of the most winning smiles on the planet. How does he do it? And can you learn how to smile better? You can. There are 3 key tips that lead to people finding your smile more attractive and Will Smith demonstrates them all. Two of them are in your direct, immediate control. And the third comes from learning how to smile genuinely so that you activate the muscles under the eye, which signals that you are being real. When you've mastered all three, you'll be able to smile batter and smile perfectly. So whether you want to learn how to smile for pictures or you'd just like to have a good smile in your normal life, practice these tips. They'll make those pearly whites shine even more and help you come across as more genuine. Check out our book: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Thursday · 12 min
This Simple Trick Makes People Love Talking to You
The fastest way I know to stop having boring conversations and become more magnetic: https://bit.ly/004-26 Most people are stuck having the same boring conversations on repeat. They play it safe, ignore the obvious, and stay trapped in rigid social scripts that kill connection and charisma. In this video, you’ll learn the conversation techniques Ryan Gosling uses to instantly make interactions more fun, magnetic, and memorable, so you can stop running out of things to say, connect faster, and become someone people genuinely love talking to. 0:00 - Intro 0:21 - Why conversations feel repetitive 1:10 - Escape the frame 2:07 - Follow the shiny thing 2:50 - Open the circle 4:22 - Imply friendship fast 4:46 - Acknowledge others emotions 7:00 - The fastest way to become more charismatic Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Joe Cordle Edited by Simba Mahachi Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Thursday · 8 min
How To Not Drink: Dealing With Peer Pressure
Get the Video on The 4 Emotions to Make An Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2slu28Y As soon as you've decided that you don't want to drink, you can probably expect a million people to start hassling you. This is the hardest part of learning how to not drink: dealing with the peer pressure. The good news is that you can use these tips to tell people you don't want to drink in a way that gets them to stop bothering you AND commands their respect. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Thursday · 10 min
How To Permanently Boost Your Confidence
Link to tip to master your emotions: https://goo.gl/UHklkp The Core of Self-Confidence Self-confidence is one of those things the we recognize when we see it. But we don't usually know how to build it. The reason is because we often misattribute self-confidence. We feel good when people give us compliments and assume that's where self-confidence must come from. After all, if we heard those nice things all the time, how could we not be confident. But while praise and compliments may help temporarily boost self confidence, they don't last long. The leave us searching for the next hit. What truly contributes to enduring self-confidence is building self-esteem. Because nothing inhibits confidence like low self esteem. Self-esteem can be a tricky concept, but it really boils down to how you feel about you. If you are proud of the way you are living, you'll have high self-esteem. If you're not, all the compliments in the world can float that sinking ship. Your have low self esteem. This video explores a few of the fundamentals of self-esteem so you know how to build your self-esteem from a rock solid foundation. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Thursday · 11 min
4 Activities That Will Dramatically Boost Your Attractiveness
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2Bimt5J 4 Activities That Will Dramatically Boost Your Charisma I often get asked what things people can do on a day to day basis to improve their charisma. There isn't a gym or dojo that you can go to to work on your charisma and confidence. But there are ways for people to take certain types of classes that will indirectly boost their confidence and increase their charisma. The four things that I have see had the most impact on my confidence and charisma were 1. Improv comedy 2. Toastmasters 3. Martial Arts 4. Mini experiments in normal social environments. Taken together, those four activities account for almost all of the real world practice I was able to get in developing my self-confidence and charisma. So if you're interested in signing up for something that is likely to have a huge positive effect on your charisma, start with this list. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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