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Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.

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Today · 16 min
How To Get Better At Public Speaking Fast
The fastest way I know to become a better communicator, storyteller, and leader: https://bit.ly/006-26-Ford Most people think great speeches are about confidence, natural talent, or finding the perfect words. But if you study the speeches people remember for years, from Harrison Ford to Steve Jobs, they all follow the same underlying structure. In this video, you'll learn a simple five-step framework for giving speeches that capture attention, connect emotionally, and leave people thinking differently, whether you're giving a wedding toast, leading a team, interviewing for a job, or getting called up to speak with zero preparation. 0:00 - Intro 1:12 - F: Start with humor 2:52 - A: Acknowledgements 3:41 - R: Relate to the audience 7:02 - T: The Takeaway 9:13 - S: Your signoff 10:00 - Improve your confidence & charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Charlie Houpert Edited by Sousa Marães Directed by Andre Ringkjeob Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 7 min
3 Body Language Habits That Make People Dislike You
Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: https://goo.gl/D6dy72 Chris Evans Charisma - What Your Hands Say About You See how Chris Evans comes across as more likable and charismatic simply by the way he uses his hands when he speaks. The power of gesticulating can't be underestimated. When you compare Chris Evans to Jonah Hill, it's impossible not to feel that Chris looks far more confident. And it's not immediately evident, but a large part of that comes down to how they use their hands when speaking. So check it out: these 3 tips are easy to implement and will help you look more confident talking with your hands. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 11 min
How To Make Someone Realize They Can't Control You
The fastest way I know to build calm, grounded confidence in high-stakes moments: https://bit.ly/007-26-Draper This Mad Men scene is a masterclass in grounded confidence. Don Draper does not argue, defend himself, or try to convince anyone of his worth. He simply accepts the other person’s choice, states his own, and stays in control. In this video, we break down how to use that same energy in conflict, sales, leadership, dating, and any moment where you feel tempted to prove yourself. This video covers principle 4 of the 6 charismatic mindsets: you don’t need to convince anyone of anything. If you want the full framework for staying calm, honest, and grounded when it counts, watch all 6 here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWFwUwMoMl8 0:00 - Intro 0:14 - The situation 1:00 - Where Don shines 2:58 - 1. Slow Down Your Response 3:13 - 2. Accept their choice, then name yours 3:44 - 3. Invite them to a solution 6:36 - The best way I know to work on this Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Charlie Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 7 min
How To Not Drink: Dealing With Peer Pressure
Get the Video on The 4 Emotions to Make An Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2slu28Y As soon as you've decided that you don't want to drink, you can probably expect a million people to start hassling you. This is the hardest part of learning how to not drink: dealing with the peer pressure. The good news is that you can use these tips to tell people you don't want to drink in a way that gets them to stop bothering you AND commands their respect. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 13 min
Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EsiXrr Will Smith Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups Group interactions can be so difficult when trying to exude confidence and charisma. Unlike a 1:1 conversation you might find it hard to get a word in. You might find it hard to hold people's attention. This is totally normal, but it doesn't make it any more fun when you're a shrinking wallflower. The good news is that there are clear ways how to be more charismatic in groups. And Will Smith provides an amazing firsthand example. He manages to come across as genuine and likeable while steering the conversation. Take a look and be sure to implement these charisma tips in your own life! Check out our book : http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/ Or if you want more on strong presentation skills: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=videodesc&utm_campaign=blog Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 8 min
Stop Playing The Social Script. Do This Instead
The fastest way I know to become more naturally magnetic, confident, and authentic: https://bit.ly/008-26-LoganLoTS Most people hold back the parts of themselves that would actually make them more charismatic. They try to act cool, hide their enthusiasm, and stay trapped in safe social scripts. In this video, we break down what Love on the Spectrum teaches about real charisma, from saying the honest thing, to making simple jokes, to expressing appreciation without needing anything back. You’ll learn how to be more charming without acting fake, and how to bring more of your real personality into every interaction. 0:00 - Intro 0:46 - Literal jokes 2:07 - Cocky jokes 2:58 - Tension diffusers 3:56 - Honest appreciation 5:24 - The fastest way to become more charismatic Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Charlie Houpert Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 11 min
How To Actually Tell Better Stories
Public Speaking tips are something we get asked for all the time. I think it's because Public Speaking applies to so many things, whether it's speaking to a group of friends, presenting at work, or speaking from a stage, the skill set is the same. https://goo.gl/LSuAmN There's a TON that goes into being good at public speaking. Some tips include speaking in the present so that people can follow your stories emotions, gesticulating, speaking with emotion, and on and on. But in this video, I cover a little known trick to telling stories that captivate. Because if you can captivate your listener, you will be seen as an amazing speaker. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 14 min
4 Jokes That Make Women Notice You
Master your confidence and charisma step by step with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3LCkP5g We all know women like men who can make them laugh. But you may not realize there are 4 specific types of jokes that women absolutely love. So in this video you’ll learn how to use these 4 to create a fun flirty conversations with anyone you’re interested in 0:00 - Intro 0:22 - The Ice Breaker 1:30 - Build a fake world 3:38 - Portable Jokes 4:49 - Innuendo 5:17 - Innuendo Level 1 5:50 - Innuendo Level 2 6:53 - Innuendo Level 3 8:00 - The core mindset Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 12 min
How To Influence People With Your Word Choice
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2simGTt How To Influence People (And What Not to Do) Want to know how to influence people? Well, first it is helpful to know what NOT to do. This clip breaks down two different persuasive strategies used on The Voice by Ricky Martin and Joel Madden. You'll learn how self-esteem plays a role in convincing people to do the things you'd like them to do and how to frame your reasons so that people are more influenced by what you have to say. Make sure to implement these charismatic tips in your own life so that people respond to you positively when you make requests of them. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 16 min
Unlock The Forgotten Masculine Power Modern Men Crave
Join the in person event waiting list: https://charismaoncommand.activehosted.com/f/70 Some men seem to see what’s coming. They spot where the market will move, guess how competitors will act, and position themselves to win. In this video, I’ll show you how to build that skill, read patterns, predict outcomes, and influence what happens next. To do so, we’re going to dive into what depth psychology calls the archetype of the Magician. 0:00 - Intro 2:02 - Unlearn what you have learned 3:29 - Enter non ordinary states of consciousness 5:02 - Surrender to something larger 9:18 - It's not about you 11:15 - Join my in person event Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 16 min
The Masculine Move Most Men Are Too Afraid to Make
Build the confidence to take direct action in conversations, dating, and real life: https://bit.ly/009-26-DDvsReacher Most men think attraction works like this: become successful, get in shape, build status, then wait for women to notice. But that fantasy keeps a lot of men stuck. In this video, you’ll learn the difference between indirect attraction and direct action, using Jack Reacher and Matt Murdock as examples. You’ll see the attraction signals most men miss, how to flirt without being awkward, and why what you want is usually on the other side of fear. This isn’t just about dating. It’s about the same pattern that keeps men from starting the business, writing the book, making the move, or going after the life they actually want. 0:00 - Intro 0:29 - The Fantasy Holding Men Back 1:34 - Indirect Attraction vs Direct Action 2:47 - The Signals Most Men Miss 4:02 - The 12 Stages of Intimacy 6:00 - Why Reacher Gets Stuck 7:00 - The Right Way to Flirt 10:25 - Build the confidence to take direct action Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 11 min
How To Be The Center Of Attention
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nSrMjP Why People Love Will Smith (And Not Jaden) Will Smith is one of the most charismatic men alive. His son, Jaden, is not. In this interview with Graham Norton, we can break down exactly why. It's the difference between being an inclusive competent leader and struggling to keep up. In this interview you'll see how the leadership dynamic plays out in a group. Will Smith very quickly winds up as the de facto leader, while Jaden gets cut off and has trouble getting a word in. The good news is that it isn't impossible to move upwards from the position of being trampled over in conversation. Watch this video and learn how to be a leader in a way that makes people happy to have you around. Book: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 18 min
If You Only Watch One Charisma Video, Make It This
Click here to build your charisma with daily reps 👉 https://bit.ly/010-26-7Principles Charisma is not something you’re born with. It’s a set of social skills you can train, rep by rep, until confidence, connection, and self-expression become second nature. In this video, Charlie shares the 7 principles that helped him build his charisma from the ground up, and how you can start doing the same. 0:00 - Intro 0:36 - Charisma is a muscle 2:44 - Charisma has 5 types 4:55 - Confidence is "I'll be okay" 6:05 - You are always broadcasting 7:43 - Trying to be liked backfires 9:22 - The leader humanizes first 10:41 - Fear is the wall Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Indy Fullstop Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Rinkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 26 min
How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on Command
How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on Command Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 43 min
5 Lies About Being A Man You Probably Still Believe
Get Joe's free transformation guide + $300 off his upcoming Connection Course. Just use the discount code CHARISMA at checkout. This only is available when the cohorts are about to launch: https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/course/the-connection-course Or if checkout isn't open, join the email list to be notified of upcoming Connection course cohorts: http://s.artofaccomplishment.com/iVRQ3h Most men are taught a very narrow version of masculinity: be tough, be dominant, never show weakness, and always stay in control. But Joe Hudson argues that a lot of those ideas are actually keeping men disconnected, reactive, and less powerful than they could be. In this video, we break down 5 lies modern men believe about masculinity, and what real strength looks like instead. 0:00 - Intro 1:37 - Lie 1 8:12 - Lie 2 14:41 - Lie 3 21:09 - Lie 4 27:11 - Lie 5 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 12 min
How To Compliment Anyone Without Sounding Fake
The fastest way to improve your confidence and charisma: https://bit.ly/001-26 If you want people to love being around you, there is almost nothing like delivering great compliments. But most people don’t realize there are 3 levels of compliments that lead to better and better connection. They stay stuck on the first level, and too many level 1 compliments can make people feel uncomfortable. 0:00 - Intro 0:28 - Level 1: Social Flow Compliments 2:50 - Level 2: MC Compliments 4:42 - Level 3: Heartfelt Compliments 6:59 - The essential mindset 7:36 - Try this challenge Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 9 min
How To Instantly Get A More Attractive Smile
Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nM4cpO How To Smile Perfectly For Men Will Smith has one of the most winning smiles on the planet. How does he do it? And can you learn how to smile better? You can. There are 3 key tips that lead to people finding your smile more attractive and Will Smith demonstrates them all. Two of them are in your direct, immediate control. And the third comes from learning how to smile genuinely so that you activate the muscles under the eye, which signals that you are being real. When you've mastered all three, you'll be able to smile batter and smile perfectly. So whether you want to learn how to smile for pictures or you'd just like to have a good smile in your normal life, practice these tips. They'll make those pearly whites shine even more and help you come across as more genuine. Check out our book: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 24 min
This Is Not Confidence
The fastest way I know to build your confidence and social skills: https://bit.ly/KevVsClav Most people think confidence comes from fixing everything they dislike about themselves. But the more you treat yourself like a problem to solve, the easier it becomes to believe you’ll never be enough. In this video, we compare Kevin Hart and Clavicular to reveal two very different ways of responding to insecurity. You’ll see how Kevin turned the thing he once felt ashamed of into one of his greatest sources of charisma, why appearance-based self-improvement can become an endless checklist, and what real confidence looks like when you stop managing how everyone sees you. Because confidence isn’t having nothing to feel insecure about. It’s no longer needing to hide it. Timestamps: 0:00 Everyone Has An Insecurity 1:52 Kevin Hart's Height Complex 3:04 The Mask: Lil Kev The Bastard 5:02 "Comedy Isn't For You" 6:33 The Characters We All Play 7:43 Mindset #6: I Go First 8:28 Nothing Left To Protect 10:23 The Other Path: Looksmaxing 13:51 The Checklist That Never Ends 15:12 Kevin vs. Clavicular 16:29 Try This Yourself Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 7 min
How To Have Fun Without Drinking
"How Do I have Fun Without Drinking?" https://goo.gl/0uDf6E It can be tough to have fun when you are learning how to not drink when everyone else is. People will peer pressure you incessantly, implying that you're no fun or a buzzkill. That's why it's good to come up with a plan for having fun despite not having anything to drink. So if you've watched this video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTkX4wfkj1A) and decided to quit drinking, take a look at these tips for having a good time when you're sober and everyone else around you isn't. Obviously there are a million ways how to have fun without drinking, but the big question is, "How do you do it in an environment where everyone else is?" Hopefully these musings help :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 14 min
How To Instantly Make Someone Like You
How To Make People Like You - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nN0H2C People like people who are like them. When you enter into a state of feeling that "sameness" with someone, you've entered into rapport. That's the short answer of how to get people to like you. In practice, there are many small things you can do to enter into rapport with someone. From smiling genuinely, to nodding while they speak, to focusing first on agreements. Bruce Lee's charisma demonstrates a number of these traits and I break 'em all down in this video so that you learn exactly how to make people like you. Use these charisma tips in your own life to make friends quickly and connect with the people you'd like to get to know. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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