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Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.

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Today · 19 min
The Recurring Dream You've Been Having Is Trying To Tell You Something
Candace Owens says she has recurring dreams where Charlie Kirk’s soul visits her from purgatory. In the dreams, he warns her about a betrayal and gives her a name. Candace takes the dreams literally and reaches out to the person he mentions. In this video, I explain why this is a mistake. You will learn how to interpret dreams properly using Carl Jung’s iceberg model. We break down what dreams are, what they are not, and how confusing symbols with reality leads to bad conclusions. 0:00 - Intro 1:49 - Carl Jung 2:43 - The Consciousness Iceberg 9:44 - Step 1 10:01 - Step 2 10:28 - Step 3 11:08 - Step 4 Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 19 min
The 3 Traits That Make You Impossible to Ignore
Build the confidence and charisma to express yourself authentically: 👉 https://bit.ly/015-26-Mamdani Zohran Mamdani and Donald Trump have completely different personalities, politics, and values. But both used a similar charisma playbook to overcome opponents with more money, status, and establishment support. In this video, we break down the three traits that made them impossible to ignore: the courage to risk ridicule, the conviction to stay on offense, and a consistent emotional identity. You’ll learn why charisma begins when you stop choosing social safety over honest self-expression, plus how to apply that principle in your career, relationships, and social life without copying anyone else’s personality. 0:00 The Unlikely Rise of a Political Outsider 0:35 The Surprising Parallel Between Two Rivals 4:01 The Courage to Be Disliked 7:25 The Power of a Consistent Emotional Signature 11:17 The Choice Between Safety and Self-Expression Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 18 min
4 Covert Attacks To Your Character And How To Beat Each One Calmly
Join over 21,000 members inside Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-00325 Malcolm Gladwell’s debate missteps offer valuable lessons in handling arguments and conflict. This video breaks down key mistakes like passive aggression, straw-manning, and defensiveness—and shows you how to avoid them while staying calm and persuasive. Learn how to respond when others twist your words or act rude, and recognize when you’re shutting down so you can stay in control and confident in any situation. 0:00 - Intro 0:46 - #1: Covert Sniping 2:30 - How To Reverse Rudeness 3:03 - #2: Straw-Manning 5:34 - Refuse Burdens 6:17 - Use The "That's Exactly Why" Response 6:40 - Can you pass this test? 8:14 - #4: Projecting Bad Faith 9:33 - How To Avoid This In Your Own Life 10:42 - Notice When You Lose Your Capacity To Listen 12:16 - Want To Build That Unshakable Confidence? Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Written by: Charlie Houpert Video editing by: Io Anastasaki Andre Ringkjøb Christopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 11 min
How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpower
How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpower https://goo.gl/rsuAzZ Everyone gets excited about the idea of self-improvement. But when it comes time to actually put in the work over the long haul, things change. We find excuses. We don't follow through. This video explores how you can stay motivated and on track long after the initial excitement of improvement has passed. It covers a few surprising ways to better manage your own willpower so that you stick to your resolutions and become the person you want to be. When you've mastered your willpower and learned how to stay motivated even through arduous tasks, achieving the goals you've set for yourself becomes much, much easier. Enjoy :-) Inspired by the book Willpower by John Tierney and Roy Baumeister http://amzn.to/1Ocr1Je Join the newsletter to get tips on being more charismatic and confident in the moments that matter most: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 9 min
The One Thing That Saved James Gunn’s Career
Learn the social skills to build powerful connections: https://bit.ly/CU-2225 When James Gunn lost his career overnight, he thought it was all over. But what happened next completely changed how he saw himself and the people around him. In this video, we break down his story and the simple lesson you can use to turn your worst moment into your strongest comeback. 0:00 - Intro 0:37 - James Gunn's Worst Moment 1:48 - Wait a second... 3:02 - The Buffer Against Feeling Loved 4:03 - A Practical Takeaway 5:48 - Learn To Build Powerful Connections Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 25 min
Wharton Business School: Entrepreneurship Speech (former private equity Associate)
Went back to Wharton Business School to talk with some MBAs about entrepreneurship. It's a bit long so feel free to skip around or watch on 1.5x ;-) Link mentioned: http://bit.ly/COC-FirstImpressionYTD If just one person escapes investment banking because of this I will be proud! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 10 min
5 Subtle Habits That Build Massive Respect
Join Charisma University today: https://bit.ly/016-25 Give me seven minutes and I will teach you five psychological tricks that you can use to command respect instantly. 🕒Timestamps🕒 0:00 – Intro 0:24 – Fill Your Calendar 1:18 – Move Like a Predator 2:34 - The Friendly Extension 3:51 – Remove filler words 5:00 – Embrace Silence Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 19 min
The Concerning Way Modern Men Have Changed
Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/012-25 Jack Reacher and Geralt from the Witcher are fearless in combat, unstoppable in crisis… So why do they shut down around women? In this video, we break down how modern masculinity became passive, what it says about young men today, and how tapping into what you really want can bring your life back online. 00:00 - Intro 00:18 - Jack Reacher 01:00 - The Problem 03:30 - How The Male Fantasy Genre Evolved 06:06 - The Difference 06:44 - James Bond 07:20 - Risking Rejection 08:08 - The Witcher 08:34 - Social Media 09:32 - Monk Mode 10:00 - What's Going On? 10:46 - The Connection To Male Passiveness 12:23 - How To Overcome Your Fears Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Video editing: Ajit Singh Christopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 16 min
What To Say When A Conversation Gets Awkward
Join Charisma University and boost your confidence and charisma: https://bit.ly/010-25 Today we're using the power of AI and hindsight to fix some of the most awkward celebrity interviews, showing exactly how you can avoid these cringe-worthy situations in your own life. Learn to handle passive-aggressive comments and uncomfortable moments with confidence. 0:00 - Intro 0:31 - Blake Lively 1:16 - Blake Lively Fixed With AI 2:38 - Turn Passive Aggression Into Active Aggression 3:18 - Jonah Hill & Jimmy Kimmel 4:21 - Agree, Exaggerate & Let It Go 4:27 - Jonah Hill Fixed With AI 5:53 - Ellen DeGeneres & Dakota Johnson 6:37 - Allow Awkwardness To Exist 7:13 - Ellen Fixed With AI 7:35 - Jim Carrey 9:37 - Jim Carrey Fixed With AI 10:41 - Learn how to boost your confidence & charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 17 min
Your Dark Side Is The Key To Your Confidence
Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/014-25 Most people spend their lives wearing a mask—trying to be “good,” while hiding the parts of themselves they fear will be rejected. But those rejected parts don’t disappear. They become the shadow. This video breaks down the psychology of the shadow self, inspired by Fight Club and the work of Carl Jung. 0:00 The Hidden Force Sabotaging Your Potential 0:46 What Exactly Is the Shadow? 3:59 How Defense Mechanisms Control Your Life 7:17 The Dangers of Ignoring Your Shadow 9:05 The Path to True Integration Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Video editing: Ajit Singh Ikjot Singh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 15 min
Why People Tell Him Things They’ve Never Said Before
The fastest way to learn to express yourself confidently: https://bit.ly/028-25 Diary Of A CEO Podcast: @TheDiaryOfACEO My Diary Of A CEO Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zg4Ta7vXiIM Most people think charisma is about how you talk. But the real superpower lies in how you listen. In this video, we break down the subtle listening habits that make Steven Bartlett one of the most captivating conversationalists alive. You’ll learn how to hold silence, guide emotion, and create moments where people feel seen in ways they rarely do. 0:00 - Intro 1:14 - #1: Steven almost never interrupts 3:52 - #2: Offer the least invasive support possible 7:00 - #3: Offer an empathetic mirror 8:51 - #4: Ask chunky questions 9:32 - #5: Presence matters more than technique Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 14 min
Diary of a CEO: The WORST Interview of My Life
The Diary of a CEO podcast: https://youtu.be/zg4Ta7vXiIM I went on The Diary of a CEO, and it didn’t go how I expected… In this video, I break down what happened and what this experience taught me about charisma, confidence, and being truly authentic. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 0:24 - My charisma mistakes 0:45 - How I wound up there 2:15 - The question that got me... 3:36 - Body language analysis 4:50 - The interview drops 5:54 - The phases of learning 9:21 - Wrapping up Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 16 min
Charisma Has 4 Levels. Most People Never Get Past 2.
In Stage 2? Here’s your next step: https://bit.ly/020-25 In this video, I break down the 4 stages of growth that guide all of my content going forward. Each stage needs a different approach — and knowing where you are helps you get the most out of my advice. Watch this to understand how my videos fit into your journey. 01:24 - Stage 1 02:34 - Stage 2 04:21 - Stage 3 06:58 - Stage 4 08:20 - What do you do with this? Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 10 min
How to stop blowing it on dates
Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/rH8Dvb One of the most common questions I get from guys is: "I thought the date went great....but she didn't want a second date. Why not?" That's what this video covers: how to get a second date. There are a million reasons why she may not want to see you again, but outside of serious compatibility issues, there are 3 main reasons it might be. Once you know what they are, you can pay attention to how you might be making these 3 mistakes and avoid them in the future. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 16 min
Listen First, Then Use This Trick To Influence Someone
Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nUgFXJ Game of Thrones - Why Tyrion Can't Be Killed Tyrion Lannister has a knack for staying alive. He is constantly getting into trouble and talking his way out. But Tyrion's genius is replicable if you learn how he thinks. And one of the first thing he thinks of is what other people want. That is how he manages to continue through season after season in Game of Thrones. We cover 3 ways to figure out what people want by examining how Tyrion Lannister survives through Game of Thrones: 1. Cold reading - watch how Tyrion cold reads Bronn . Contrast that with Lommy, who never even attempts to cold read Polliver before he kills him 2. Listening - Tyrion listens very carefully to what people say. When the pirates take him hostage and mention they will sell his "manhood" to the cock merchant, he comes up with a clever reason for them to keep him alive. Cersei provides a foil to this in how she behaves with Joffrey. 3. Asking people for their stories - Tyrion asks the members of the Night's Watch for their stories, learning about Grenn and Pip. Jon Snow, on the other hand, just assumes that they hate him because he is better. If you put those 3 things into place you might not win The Game of Thrones, but you can still display some of Tyrion's genius. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 7 min
The Quickest Way To Make ANYONE Laugh
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: https://goo.gl/2pFTj7 How To Make Someone Laugh (The Easiest Way) This video breaks down of the easiest way how to make someone laugh. You don't have to be clever. You don't have to have good comedic timing. You don't funny or complicated jokes. In fact, it's almost so easy to do that it is frustrating. But hey, it works. Even Ellen can't contain her laughter. So if you want to maThe nice thing is, once you've made somebody laugh, they are more likely to open up and connect with you. You're more likely to make a friend. So when you want to make somebody laugh, remember: it doesn't take a brilliant joke. It just takes someone who is really into the joke they are telling! (featuring Ellen Degeneres and Julia Roberts) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 9 min
Stop Playing The Social Script. Do This Instead
The fastest way I know to become more naturally magnetic, confident, and authentic: https://bit.ly/008-26-LoganLoTS Most people hold back the parts of themselves that would actually make them more charismatic. They try to act cool, hide their enthusiasm, and stay trapped in safe social scripts. In this video, we break down what Love on the Spectrum teaches about real charisma, from saying the honest thing, to making simple jokes, to expressing appreciation without needing anything back. You’ll learn how to be more charming without acting fake, and how to bring more of your real personality into every interaction. 0:00 - Intro 0:46 - Literal jokes 2:07 - Cocky jokes 2:58 - Tension diffusers 3:56 - Honest appreciation 5:24 - The fastest way to become more charismatic Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Charlie Houpert Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 19 min
If You Only Watch One Charisma Video, Make It This
Click here to build your charisma with daily reps 👉 https://bit.ly/010-26-7Principles Charisma is not something you’re born with. It’s a set of social skills you can train, rep by rep, until confidence, connection, and self-expression become second nature. In this video, Charlie shares the 7 principles that helped him build his charisma from the ground up, and how you can start doing the same. 0:00 - Intro 0:36 - Charisma is a muscle 2:44 - Charisma has 5 types 4:55 - Confidence is "I'll be okay" 6:05 - You are always broadcasting 7:43 - Trying to be liked backfires 9:22 - The leader humanizes first 10:41 - Fear is the wall Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Indy Fullstop Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Rinkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 15 min
How To Instantly Make Someone Like You
How To Make People Like You - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nN0H2C People like people who are like them. When you enter into a state of feeling that "sameness" with someone, you've entered into rapport. That's the short answer of how to get people to like you. In practice, there are many small things you can do to enter into rapport with someone. From smiling genuinely, to nodding while they speak, to focusing first on agreements. Bruce Lee's charisma demonstrates a number of these traits and I break 'em all down in this video so that you learn exactly how to make people like you. Use these charisma tips in your own life to make friends quickly and connect with the people you'd like to get to know. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 8 min
STOP DRINKING: Why alcohol kills self-improvement
I get a lot of questions about the steps to take to be more charismatic. And this one always surprises people: STOP DRINKING! https://goo.gl/RyWH6V It seems like improvement is something you do between the gym and work. But the truth is, every social interaction is a chance to learn something. Except when you're drunk, that goes out the window. Rather than dealing with social anxiety, we tend to numb it. Rather than learning how to "turn on" a raucous sense of humor, we rely on alcohol do free up spontaneity. We sacrifice self-improvement for the the quick fix of a drunk buzz. So I know it may seem unrelated, but stopping your habit of drinking is one of the fastest ways to boost your charisma. Plus there's a lot of other benefits of not drinking that you get to enjoy as well, like waking up without a splitting headache :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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