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Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.

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  • Today · 16 min

    Unlock The Forgotten Masculine Power Modern Men Crave

    Join the in person event waiting list: https://charismaoncommand.activehosted.com/f/70 Some men seem to see what’s coming. They spot where the market will move, guess how competitors will act, and position themselves to win. In this video, I’ll show you how to build that skill, read patterns, predict outcomes, and influence what happens next. To do so, we’re going to dive into what depth psychology calls the archetype of the Magician. 0:00 - Intro 2:02 - Unlearn what you have learned 3:29 - Enter non ordinary states of consciousness 5:02 - Surrender to something larger 9:18 - It's not about you 11:15 - Join my in person event Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Yesterday · 16 min

    The Masculine Move Most Men Are Too Afraid to Make

    Build the confidence to take direct action in conversations, dating, and real life: https://bit.ly/009-26-DDvsReacher Most men think attraction works like this: become successful, get in shape, build status, then wait for women to notice. But that fantasy keeps a lot of men stuck. In this video, you’ll learn the difference between indirect attraction and direct action, using Jack Reacher and Matt Murdock as examples. You’ll see the attraction signals most men miss, how to flirt without being awkward, and why what you want is usually on the other side of fear. This isn’t just about dating. It’s about the same pattern that keeps men from starting the business, writing the book, making the move, or going after the life they actually want. 0:00 - Intro 0:29 - The Fantasy Holding Men Back 1:34 - Indirect Attraction vs Direct Action 2:47 - The Signals Most Men Miss 4:02 - The 12 Stages of Intimacy 6:00 - Why Reacher Gets Stuck 7:00 - The Right Way to Flirt 10:25 - Build the confidence to take direct action Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Yesterday · 11 min

    How To Be The Center Of Attention

    Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nSrMjP Why People Love Will Smith (And Not Jaden) Will Smith is one of the most charismatic men alive. His son, Jaden, is not. In this interview with Graham Norton, we can break down exactly why. It's the difference between being an inclusive competent leader and struggling to keep up. In this interview you'll see how the leadership dynamic plays out in a group. Will Smith very quickly winds up as the de facto leader, while Jaden gets cut off and has trouble getting a word in. The good news is that it isn't impossible to move upwards from the position of being trampled over in conversation. Watch this video and learn how to be a leader in a way that makes people happy to have you around. Book: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Yesterday · 18 min

    If You Only Watch One Charisma Video, Make It This

    Click here to build your charisma with daily reps 👉 https://bit.ly/010-26-7Principles Charisma is not something you’re born with. It’s a set of social skills you can train, rep by rep, until confidence, connection, and self-expression become second nature. In this video, Charlie shares the 7 principles that helped him build his charisma from the ground up, and how you can start doing the same. 0:00 - Intro 0:36 - Charisma is a muscle 2:44 - Charisma has 5 types 4:55 - Confidence is "I'll be okay" 6:05 - You are always broadcasting 7:43 - Trying to be liked backfires 9:22 - The leader humanizes first 10:41 - Fear is the wall Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Indy Fullstop Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Rinkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Yesterday · 26 min

    How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on Command

    How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on Command Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Yesterday · 38 min

    5 Lies About Being A Man You Probably Still Believe

    Get Joe's free transformation guide + $300 off his upcoming Connection Course. Just use the discount code CHARISMA at checkout. This only is available when the cohorts are about to launch: https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/course/the-connection-course Or if checkout isn't open, join the email list to be notified of upcoming Connection course cohorts: http://s.artofaccomplishment.com/iVRQ3h Most men are taught a very narrow version of masculinity: be tough, be dominant, never show weakness, and always stay in control. But Joe Hudson argues that a lot of those ideas are actually keeping men disconnected, reactive, and less powerful than they could be. In this video, we break down 5 lies modern men believe about masculinity, and what real strength looks like instead. 0:00 - Intro 1:37 - Lie 1 8:12 - Lie 2 14:41 - Lie 3 21:09 - Lie 4 27:11 - Lie 5 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Yesterday · 12 min

    How To Compliment Anyone Without Sounding Fake

    The fastest way to improve your confidence and charisma: https://bit.ly/001-26 If you want people to love being around you, there is almost nothing like delivering great compliments. But most people don’t realize there are 3 levels of compliments that lead to better and better connection. They stay stuck on the first level, and too many level 1 compliments can make people feel uncomfortable. 0:00 - Intro 0:28 - Level 1: Social Flow Compliments 2:50 - Level 2: MC Compliments 4:42 - Level 3: Heartfelt Compliments 6:59 - The essential mindset 7:36 - Try this challenge Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Yesterday · 9 min

    How To Instantly Get A More Attractive Smile

    Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nM4cpO How To Smile Perfectly For Men Will Smith has one of the most winning smiles on the planet. How does he do it? And can you learn how to smile better? You can. There are 3 key tips that lead to people finding your smile more attractive and Will Smith demonstrates them all. Two of them are in your direct, immediate control. And the third comes from learning how to smile genuinely so that you activate the muscles under the eye, which signals that you are being real. When you've mastered all three, you'll be able to smile batter and smile perfectly. So whether you want to learn how to smile for pictures or you'd just like to have a good smile in your normal life, practice these tips. They'll make those pearly whites shine even more and help you come across as more genuine. Check out our book: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Yesterday · 24 min

    This Is Not Confidence

    The fastest way I know to build your confidence and social skills: https://bit.ly/KevVsClav Most people think confidence comes from fixing everything they dislike about themselves. But the more you treat yourself like a problem to solve, the easier it becomes to believe you’ll never be enough. In this video, we compare Kevin Hart and Clavicular to reveal two very different ways of responding to insecurity. You’ll see how Kevin turned the thing he once felt ashamed of into one of his greatest sources of charisma, why appearance-based self-improvement can become an endless checklist, and what real confidence looks like when you stop managing how everyone sees you. Because confidence isn’t having nothing to feel insecure about. It’s no longer needing to hide it. Timestamps: 0:00 Everyone Has An Insecurity 1:52 Kevin Hart's Height Complex 3:04 The Mask: Lil Kev The Bastard 5:02 "Comedy Isn't For You" 6:33 The Characters We All Play 7:43 Mindset #6: I Go First 8:28 Nothing Left To Protect 10:23 The Other Path: Looksmaxing 13:51 The Checklist That Never Ends 15:12 Kevin vs. Clavicular 16:29 Try This Yourself Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Yesterday · 7 min

    How To Have Fun Without Drinking

    "How Do I have Fun Without Drinking?" https://goo.gl/0uDf6E It can be tough to have fun when you are learning how to not drink when everyone else is. People will peer pressure you incessantly, implying that you're no fun or a buzzkill. That's why it's good to come up with a plan for having fun despite not having anything to drink. So if you've watched this video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTkX4wfkj1A) and decided to quit drinking, take a look at these tips for having a good time when you're sober and everyone else around you isn't. Obviously there are a million ways how to have fun without drinking, but the big question is, "How do you do it in an environment where everyone else is?" Hopefully these musings help :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Yesterday · 14 min

    How To Instantly Make Someone Like You

    How To Make People Like You - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nN0H2C People like people who are like them. When you enter into a state of feeling that "sameness" with someone, you've entered into rapport. That's the short answer of how to get people to like you. In practice, there are many small things you can do to enter into rapport with someone. From smiling genuinely, to nodding while they speak, to focusing first on agreements. Bruce Lee's charisma demonstrates a number of these traits and I break 'em all down in this video so that you learn exactly how to make people like you. Use these charisma tips in your own life to make friends quickly and connect with the people you'd like to get to know. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Yesterday · 8 min

    Vocal Tips - Neil deGrasse Tyson Charisma Breakdown

    Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: https://goo.gl/lWf9gA Vocal Tips - Neil deGrasse Tyson Charisma Breakdown: Neil deGrasse Tyson's voice is like butter. He has the rare ability to talk about science in a way that makes people want to know more. And it's not necessarily because the subject is so interesting. After all, most of us weren't riveted in 9th grade biology. Neil is so captivating because his voice is so damn fun to listen to. And the good news is, we can learn to speak like he does. So check out these vocal tips and implement them in your own life. That way you'll be able to hook people's attention. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Yesterday · 15 min

    Stop Trying to Look Confident, Do This Instead

    The fastest way I know to build secure confidence and social skills: https://bit.ly/012-26-Cena Most people think confidence means looking strong, staying composed, and hiding anything that could make them seem weak. But the harder you try to control how others see you, the more fragile your confidence becomes. In this video, we break down John Cena’s five signs of secure confidence, and why they are the opposite of what most people expect. You’ll see why genuine enthusiasm draws people in, how silliness can signal deep self-acceptance, and why sharing your struggles can make others respect you more. Because real confidence isn’t about protecting a perfect image. It’s being comfortable enough to let people see your full range. 0:00 - What is secure confidence? 1:53 - Sign 1 3:27 - Sign 2 6:04 - Sign 3 7:35 - Sign 4 9:05 - Sign 5 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Yesterday · 6 min

    The Quickest Way To Make ANYONE Laugh

    Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: https://goo.gl/2pFTj7 How To Make Someone Laugh (The Easiest Way) This video breaks down of the easiest way how to make someone laugh. You don't have to be clever. You don't have to have good comedic timing. You don't funny or complicated jokes. In fact, it's almost so easy to do that it is frustrating. But hey, it works. Even Ellen can't contain her laughter. So if you want to maThe nice thing is, once you've made somebody laugh, they are more likely to open up and connect with you. You're more likely to make a friend. So when you want to make somebody laugh, remember: it doesn't take a brilliant joke. It just takes someone who is really into the joke they are telling! (featuring Ellen Degeneres and Julia Roberts) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Yesterday · 8 min

    How To Be Extremely Captivating To Those Around You

    Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nRAxuA Body Language Tips - Tony Robbins Charisma Breakdown Tony Robbins is a master of body language. These body language tips will break down how he is able to communicate so effectively by using his body in ways that most people don't during speeches or presentations. By the way, if you haven't been to an event, check him out. He is the most charismatic man I have ever seen in person and a huge portion of that is because of his emphatic body language, which is on full display in this video. If you want to learn how to inspire a crowd of 7,000 people, there is no one better to learn from than Tony. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Yesterday · 12 min

    This Scene Will Change How You Handle Conflict

    Build real confidence in conversations, relationships, and high-pressure moments with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/013-26-Mike There are two kinds of calm. One gets you treated like a doormat. The other earns respect and makes people think twice before pushing you. This Better Call Saul scene shows the difference. 0:00 - Intro 2:05 - Be Explicit 3:14 - Be Interested In Whether, Not Why 3:56 - Don't Take Full Responsibility Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Written by Charlie Houpert Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Yesterday · 10 min

    How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma Breakdown

    How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma Breakdown How to make eye contact - learn from one of the masters... Bill Clinton. The 1992 Presidential debate was a huge turning point in the race and Clinton's superb eye contact is what so endeared him to voters. When you break down Bill Clinton's charisma it's obvious that there is a lot more going on than eye contact. But by focusing on these 3 simple charismatic tips to improve your eye contact, you'll find that your ability to connect with people immediately jumps. Bill Clinton used it to advance his campaign all the way to the Presidency - so you should be able to use it to make a few friends :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Yesterday · 22 min

    The One Social Skill That Beats All The Others

    Want to become more charismatic and confident in any conversation? 👉 https://bit.ly/014-26-MatthewStory Watch the full podcast episode here: 👉 https://youtu.be/QMzxNfX-uAg Most people answer questions by explaining. Great storytellers turn their answers into moments you can see and feel. In this video, Charlie breaks down how Matthew McConaughey uses storytelling to hold attention, connect with people, and make ordinary answers memorable. You’ll learn why Matthew spent 47% of his interview telling stories, compared with Charlie’s 24%, and how to turn your own experiences into stories people actually want to hear. __________________ 0:00 The Secret Skill of Charismatic Leaders 2:06 Mastering the Art of the Hook 5:06 Building the Emotional Roller Coaster 9:22 The Power of the False Ending 13:22 The Confidence to Tell Your Story __________________ Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Yesterday · 5 min

    Daily Tip: What your Body Language says about your Charisma

    Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meet https://goo.gl/janZ3F Daily Tip: What your Body Language says about your Charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Thursday · 19 min

    The 3 Traits That Make You Impossible to Ignore

    Build the confidence and charisma to express yourself authentically: 👉 https://bit.ly/015-26-Mamdani Zohran Mamdani and Donald Trump have completely different personalities, politics, and values. But both used a similar charisma playbook to overcome opponents with more money, status, and establishment support. In this video, we break down the three traits that made them impossible to ignore: the courage to risk ridicule, the conviction to stay on offense, and a consistent emotional identity. You’ll learn why charisma begins when you stop choosing social safety over honest self-expression, plus how to apply that principle in your career, relationships, and social life without copying anyone else’s personality. 0:00 The Unlikely Rise of a Political Outsider 0:35 The Surprising Parallel Between Two Rivals 4:01 The Courage to Be Disliked 7:25 The Power of a Consistent Emotional Signature 11:17 The Choice Between Safety and Self-Expression Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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