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Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.

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Saturday · 12 min
This Simple Trick Makes People Love Talking to You
The fastest way I know to stop having boring conversations and become more magnetic: https://bit.ly/004-26 Most people are stuck having the same boring conversations on repeat. They play it safe, ignore the obvious, and stay trapped in rigid social scripts that kill connection and charisma. In this video, you’ll learn the conversation techniques Ryan Gosling uses to instantly make interactions more fun, magnetic, and memorable, so you can stop running out of things to say, connect faster, and become someone people genuinely love talking to. 0:00 - Intro 0:21 - Why conversations feel repetitive 1:10 - Escape the frame 2:07 - Follow the shiny thing 2:50 - Open the circle 4:22 - Imply friendship fast 4:46 - Acknowledge others emotions 7:00 - The fastest way to become more charismatic Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Joe Cordle Edited by Simba Mahachi Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 7 min
How To Not Drink: Dealing With Peer Pressure
Get the Video on The 4 Emotions to Make An Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2slu28Y As soon as you've decided that you don't want to drink, you can probably expect a million people to start hassling you. This is the hardest part of learning how to not drink: dealing with the peer pressure. The good news is that you can use these tips to tell people you don't want to drink in a way that gets them to stop bothering you AND commands their respect. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 9 min
How To Permanently Boost Your Confidence
Link to tip to master your emotions: https://goo.gl/UHklkp The Core of Self-Confidence Self-confidence is one of those things the we recognize when we see it. But we don't usually know how to build it. The reason is because we often misattribute self-confidence. We feel good when people give us compliments and assume that's where self-confidence must come from. After all, if we heard those nice things all the time, how could we not be confident. But while praise and compliments may help temporarily boost self confidence, they don't last long. The leave us searching for the next hit. What truly contributes to enduring self-confidence is building self-esteem. Because nothing inhibits confidence like low self esteem. Self-esteem can be a tricky concept, but it really boils down to how you feel about you. If you are proud of the way you are living, you'll have high self-esteem. If you're not, all the compliments in the world can float that sinking ship. Your have low self esteem. This video explores a few of the fundamentals of self-esteem so you know how to build your self-esteem from a rock solid foundation. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 11 min
4 Activities That Will Dramatically Boost Your Attractiveness
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2Bimt5J 4 Activities That Will Dramatically Boost Your Charisma I often get asked what things people can do on a day to day basis to improve their charisma. There isn't a gym or dojo that you can go to to work on your charisma and confidence. But there are ways for people to take certain types of classes that will indirectly boost their confidence and increase their charisma. The four things that I have see had the most impact on my confidence and charisma were 1. Improv comedy 2. Toastmasters 3. Martial Arts 4. Mini experiments in normal social environments. Taken together, those four activities account for almost all of the real world practice I was able to get in developing my self-confidence and charisma. So if you're interested in signing up for something that is likely to have a huge positive effect on your charisma, start with this list. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 24 min
This Is Not Confidence
The fastest way I know to build your confidence and social skills: https://bit.ly/KevVsClav Most people think confidence comes from fixing everything they dislike about themselves. But the more you treat yourself like a problem to solve, the easier it becomes to believe you’ll never be enough. In this video, we compare Kevin Hart and Clavicular to reveal two very different ways of responding to insecurity. You’ll see how Kevin turned the thing he once felt ashamed of into one of his greatest sources of charisma, why appearance-based self-improvement can become an endless checklist, and what real confidence looks like when you stop managing how everyone sees you. Because confidence isn’t having nothing to feel insecure about. It’s no longer needing to hide it. Timestamps: 0:00 Everyone Has An Insecurity 1:52 Kevin Hart's Height Complex 3:04 The Mask: Lil Kev The Bastard 5:02 "Comedy Isn't For You" 6:33 The Characters We All Play 7:43 Mindset #6: I Go First 8:28 Nothing Left To Protect 10:23 The Other Path: Looksmaxing 13:51 The Checklist That Never Ends 15:12 Kevin vs. Clavicular 16:29 Try This Yourself Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 12 min
Dwayne Johnson Has Unbeatable Confidence… HERE’S WHY!
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2GY7leb The 5 Charismatic Habits Of The Rock (Dwayne Johnson) Dwayne Johnson (aka The Rock) has been successful in 3 very different careers. He was an excellent football player at Miami (until he injured himself). Then he made the transition to the WWE where he became famous as "The Rock." And then he made an even more incredible career leap to movies, starring in the Fast and Furious franchise. Now he is moving into the comedy real in a new movie called Central Intelligence with Kevin Hart. To be successful in all of those careers, particular the second two, where he was the most successful, you need a great deal of charisma. The wrestling fans need to like you. People need to want to see your movies. And Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson has been able to accomplish that. So in this video we explore what makes Dwayne Johnson so charismatic. Starting back in his WWE days we can see exactly how he learned to gesticulate, to command the attention of a crowd and then moving on, we see how he also learned to show leadership and vulnerability. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 10 min
How To Instantly Become More Persuasive
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2C4Crx5 Trump vs Brand: The Power Of Word Choice Donald Trump and Russell Brand are two very influential people with devoted followings. Yet they have nearly opposite styles of speaking. Trump uses simple words. His announcement speech for his presidential bid came in at a 4th grade reading level according to the Flesch - Kincaid readability test. Russell Brand, on the other hand, speaks using words that you're unlikely to ever hear in normal conversation and may need a thesaurus just to understand. So after watching how effective Trump has been in his campaign I began to ask myself: which is better? Big words or small ones? Short words or long words? Have I been mistaken in trying to expand my vocabulary? In this video, I explore the different speaking styles of Trump and Brand and try to answer those questions. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 7 min
Stop Doing This When You Speak
Master your confidence step by step with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/026-25 There is one common mistake that kills your confidence. It makes you look weak, it makes you feel smaller, and it pushes people away. In this video, we’ll use Ned Fulmer’s recent podcast with his ex-wife Ariel Fulmer, to show the habit that destroys both your confidence and people’s trust. 0:00 - Intro 0:16 - Context 0:41 - His voice is constricted 1:47 - What you should do instead 2:31 - Do this when you start to feel constricted 4:35 - Want more tips like this? Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 16 min
Trying to Get Respect Doesn’t Work, This Does
The fastest way I know to build real confidence and strong social skills: https://bit.ly/005-26 Most people lose respect in ways they don’t even notice. They try too hard to look confident, dominate conversations, or prove their worth, but those moves usually backfire. In this video, you’ll learn the respect killing habits that make people take you less seriously, how Tommy Shelby avoids them, and how to build real self-respect so you can stay calm under pressure, stop chasing approval, and become someone people naturally respect. 0:00 - Intro 0:20 - The 3 respect killing moves 0:40 - Respect killer #1 1:22 - The body language that earns respect 2:07 - Why fake confidence backfires 2:51 - Respect killer #2 3:40 - How Tommy Shelby stays calm 4:01 - The 3 to 5 second pause 5:03 - The Joffrey Rule 5:51 - Respect Killer #3 6:51 - How to handle underhanded comments 7:31 - When to walk away 8:30 - The deeper reason people lose respect 9:41 - How to build self-respect 11:17 - The fastest way to become more charismatic Connect With Us Further: Website: [http://www.charismaoncommand.com](http://www.charismaoncommand.com) Facebook: [http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand](http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand) Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Joe Cordle Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 16 min
6 Mindsets That Make You Incredibly Charismatic
Link to tip to master your emotions: https://goo.gl/7G2Go2 6 Mindsets That Will Make You Magnetic When it comes to charisma, you can learn a lot of surface level stuff. Body language, eye contact, tonality, all of these things can be tweaked to make you appear more confident, charismatic, and magnetic. But when it comes to making long-lasting change, you need to change the beliefs and mindsets that underpin all your actions. Only when you've done this will your charisma begin to emanate more naturally. In this video we boil the 12 charismatic convictions (from the book Charisma on Command) down to 6 beliefs. If you can internalize these beliefs, you will find yourself behaving in ways that draw people to you. Those charismatic beliefs are 1. No matter what, I will be okay 2. I care more about my character than my reputation 3. I have impeccable honesty and integrity 4. I don't need to convince anyone of anything 5. I share my purpose proactively 6. I go there first in humanizing interaction If you can incorporate those convictions into your life, you will become much more charismatic in all of your interactions and magnetic to the type of people who you want in your life. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Snapchat: @charliehoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 16 min
How Charles Manson Controlled His Followers (Toxic Partners Do This Too)
The best way I know to quickly improve your confidence: https://bit.ly/CU-2525 It’s a scary truth that the most powerful psychological tricks cult leaders use to brainwash their followers can just as effectively be used by toxic partners, manipulative friends, and predatory organizations against people like you and me. That’s why in this video, we’re breaking down each of those tricks - so hopefully you can spot the red flags and avoid falling victim to them too. 0:00 - Intro 1:06 - They impersonate the family unit 3:02 - They isolate you from your real family unit 4:31 - They twist language to disguise what's happening 5:52 - They demonize asking questions 7:24 - They reward blind obedience 9:21 - They use fake reciprocity Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 14 min
The “Mature” Habit That Quietly Destroys Relationships
Join the email list. Get your discount for the Art of Accomplishment Connection Course: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/aoa-discount In a recent interview, Anthony Hopkins is asked about his estranged daughter. At first, he avoids the question. Then he gives an answer that reveals far more than he likely intends. The language he uses shuts down vulnerability and blocks connection. This video breaks down why those kinds of phrases feel protective in the moment, and why they quietly damage the relationships you care about most. 0:00 - Intro 0:32 - Shut down phrases 1:15 - The real problem 2:21 - The staircase of vulnerability 3:49 - Go First 4:04 - Show Care 5:04 - Just Listen 5:27 - Acknowledge Your Part 6:03 - Share Your Story 7:23 - Stop Treating Yourself Harshly Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 5 min
Daily Tip: What your Body Language says about your Charisma
Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meet https://goo.gl/janZ3F Daily Tip: What your Body Language says about your Charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 7 min
How To Have Fun Without Drinking
"How Do I have Fun Without Drinking?" https://goo.gl/0uDf6E It can be tough to have fun when you are learning how to not drink when everyone else is. People will peer pressure you incessantly, implying that you're no fun or a buzzkill. That's why it's good to come up with a plan for having fun despite not having anything to drink. So if you've watched this video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTkX4wfkj1A) and decided to quit drinking, take a look at these tips for having a good time when you're sober and everyone else around you isn't. Obviously there are a million ways how to have fun without drinking, but the big question is, "How do you do it in an environment where everyone else is?" Hopefully these musings help :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 13 min
Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EsiXrr Will Smith Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups Group interactions can be so difficult when trying to exude confidence and charisma. Unlike a 1:1 conversation you might find it hard to get a word in. You might find it hard to hold people's attention. This is totally normal, but it doesn't make it any more fun when you're a shrinking wallflower. The good news is that there are clear ways how to be more charismatic in groups. And Will Smith provides an amazing firsthand example. He manages to come across as genuine and likeable while steering the conversation. Take a look and be sure to implement these charisma tips in your own life! Check out our book : http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/ Or if you want more on strong presentation skills: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=videodesc&utm_campaign=blog Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 8 min
4 Simple Questions To Find Your Passion
Link to tip to master your emotions: https://goo.gl/VTGFwi How To Find Your Passion People often write me asking what they should do with their lives. They lack a sense of purpose. They have this sense that they should "follow their passion" but they don't really know what it means. Plus half the world is telling them that following a passion is stupid or misinformed. They encourage them to develop the skills they are already good at and that society values. That way they can get a good job and get paid. I'm all for developing skills that can land you gainful employment. But as to sticking to making that your sole focus? Screw that. And as for sticking only to what you're already good at? Screw that too. Start with what excites you. If you care enough, you'll put in the work to become fantastic in that field. And the way the world is going, you can get paid for most anything (hell, I make money talking about how celebrities exude charisma!) This video answers the question "How do I find my passion?" It is there is to help you overcome some of the hidden doubts you might have. The things that might be holding you back from discovering what your passion really is and committing to developing it. Ask yourself these 4 questions and write down the answers. Then pick the common thread and do it more. You'll be a happier person for it, and you might just get a chance to earn a living doing something you love. 1. What makes you lose track of time? 2. What do you spend money to do? 3. Where do you fear judgment? 4. What makes your heart race? Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 16 min
Stop Reacting To Rude People. Do This Instead.
Join Over 21,000 Members at Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-006-25 What if you could take someone who started a conversation insulting you and end that conversation with them saying they appreciated and respected you? That’s what we’re covering today - the 7 simple steps to make a rude person take back what they said, show you respect, and wish they hadn’t begun with the rudeness in the first place. Full Sneako/Dr K video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sf1LlVHsusU&t=0s Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 0:45 - Set a boundary 1:25 - State what YOU are going to do 2:06 - Don’t engage with unwanted behavior 2:48 - Respond slowly 4:06 - Ask open questions 6:30 - Two useful tricks 7:21 - Ask them this… 8:34 - Drop trying to change them 9:38 - How to level up your confidence and charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: / charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 16 min
The Podcaster's Secret To Instant Connection
Level up your charisma in the fastest way possible: https://bit.ly/CU-2425 For the first time in history we have professional conversation havers - they’re called podcasters. And one of the most overlooked social skills that make them successful - is the ability to connect with anyone, even when they have nothing in common. So in this video, I’ll show you 6 techniques - that the best conversationalists use, and that you can use today - to connect with anyone and begin a more meaningful relationship. 0:00 - Intro 0:29 - #1: Let them know this 2:03 - #2: Navigate the talk towards... 3:49 - #3: Parroting 4:34 - #4: Advocate for things people... 6:32 - #5: Pause and take a moment 7:29 - #6: Go there first 9:06 - A challenge for you 9:49 - The fastest way to level up your charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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