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Charisma on Command · Yesterday · 16 min

Trying to Get Respect Doesn’t Work, This Does

The fastest way I know to build real confidence and strong social skills: https://bit.ly/005-26 Most people lose respect in ways they don’t even notice. They try too hard to look confident, dominate conversations, or prove their worth, but those moves usually backfire. In this video, you’ll learn the respect killing habits that make people take you less seriously, how Tommy Shelby avoids them, and how to build real self-respect so you can stay calm under pressure, stop chasing approval, and become someone people naturally respect. 0:00 - Intro 0:20 - The 3 respect killing moves 0:40 - Respect killer #1 1:22 - The body language that earns respect 2:07 - Why fake confidence backfires 2:51 - Respect killer #2 3:40 - How Tommy Shelby stays calm 4:01 - The 3 to 5 second pause 5:03 - The Joffrey Rule 5:51 - Respect Killer #3 6:51 - How to handle underhanded comments 7:31 - When to walk away 8:30 - The deeper reason people lose respect 9:41 - How to build self-respect 11:17 - The fastest way to become more charismatic Connect With Us Further: Website: [http://www.charismaoncommand.com](http://www.charismaoncommand.com) Facebook: [http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand](http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand) Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Joe Cordle Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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The fastest way I know to build real confidence and strong social skills:
https://bit.ly/005-26


Most people lose respect in ways they don’t even notice. They try too hard to look confident, dominate conversations, or prove their worth, but those moves usually backfire.

In this video, you’ll learn the respect killing habits that make people take you less seriously, how Tommy Shelby avoids them, and how to build real self-respect so you can stay calm under pressure, stop chasing approval, and become someone people naturally respect.


0:00 - Intro
0:20 - The 3 respect killing moves
0:40 - Respect killer #1
1:22 - The body language that earns respect
2:07 - Why fake confidence backfires
2:51 - Respect killer #2
3:40 - How Tommy Shelby stays calm
4:01 - The 3 to 5 second pause
5:03 - The Joffrey Rule
5:51 - Respect Killer #3
6:51 - How to handle underhanded comments
7:31 - When to walk away
8:30 - The deeper reason people lose respect
9:41 - How to build self-respect
11:17 - The fastest way to become more charismatic

Connect With Us Further:
Website: [http://www.charismaoncommand.com](http://www.charismaoncommand.com)
Facebook: [http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand](http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand)
Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Credits:
Written by Joe Cordle
Edited by Akash Rajpurohit
Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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