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Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.

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  • Tuesday · 7 min

    Daily Tip: Charismatic Body Language Exercises

    Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meet Link to tip to strengthen your frame & build confidence: https://goo.gl/OJ4dxk Daily Tip: Charismatic Body Language Exercises Deadlift tutorial: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8ghzmmF_FA Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Tuesday · 15 min

    4 Jokes That Make Women Notice You

    Master your confidence and charisma step by step with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3LCkP5g We all know women like men who can make them laugh. But you may not realize there are 4 specific types of jokes that women absolutely love. So in this video you’ll learn how to use these 4 to create a fun flirty conversations with anyone you’re interested in 0:00 - Intro 0:22 - The Ice Breaker 1:30 - Build a fake world 3:38 - Portable Jokes 4:49 - Innuendo 5:17 - Innuendo Level 1 5:50 - Innuendo Level 2 6:53 - Innuendo Level 3 8:00 - The core mindset Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Tuesday · 9 min

    How To Be Extremely Captivating To Those Around You

    Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nRAxuA Body Language Tips - Tony Robbins Charisma Breakdown Tony Robbins is a master of body language. These body language tips will break down how he is able to communicate so effectively by using his body in ways that most people don't during speeches or presentations. By the way, if you haven't been to an event, check him out. He is the most charismatic man I have ever seen in person and a huge portion of that is because of his emphatic body language, which is on full display in this video. If you want to learn how to inspire a crowd of 7,000 people, there is no one better to learn from than Tony. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Tuesday · 6 min

    How To Stick To Your New Years Resolutions

    Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTD So I made an early resolution that I hope you'll like: more YouTube videos!! Specifically I am going to create and release a video at least once a week. Let me know in the comments if there is something specifically you'd like me to cover. Happy 2016 - excited to make these videos a serious priority :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Tuesday · 16 min

    Unlock The Forgotten Masculine Power Modern Men Crave

    Join the in person event waiting list: https://charismaoncommand.activehosted.com/f/70 Some men seem to see what’s coming. They spot where the market will move, guess how competitors will act, and position themselves to win. In this video, I’ll show you how to build that skill, read patterns, predict outcomes, and influence what happens next. To do so, we’re going to dive into what depth psychology calls the archetype of the Magician. 0:00 - Intro 2:02 - Unlearn what you have learned 3:29 - Enter non ordinary states of consciousness 5:02 - Surrender to something larger 9:18 - It's not about you 11:15 - Join my in person event Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Tuesday · 11 min

    How To Actually Tell Better Stories

    Public Speaking tips are something we get asked for all the time. I think it's because Public Speaking applies to so many things, whether it's speaking to a group of friends, presenting at work, or speaking from a stage, the skill set is the same. https://goo.gl/LSuAmN There's a TON that goes into being good at public speaking. Some tips include speaking in the present so that people can follow your stories emotions, gesticulating, speaking with emotion, and on and on. But in this video, I cover a little known trick to telling stories that captivate. Because if you can captivate your listener, you will be seen as an amazing speaker. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Tuesday · 12 min

    This Scene Will Change How You Handle Conflict

    Build real confidence in conversations, relationships, and high-pressure moments with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/013-26-Mike There are two kinds of calm. One gets you treated like a doormat. The other earns respect and makes people think twice before pushing you. This Better Call Saul scene shows the difference. 0:00 - Intro 2:05 - Be Explicit 3:14 - Be Interested In Whether, Not Why 3:56 - Don't Take Full Responsibility Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Written by Charlie Houpert Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Tuesday · 13 min

    How To Be Confident Under Pressure (Even if You're Shy)

    The fastest way I know to build your confidence and social skills: 👉 https://bit.ly/016-26-Inde Pressure can destroy your confidence when you need it most. Your mind goes blank, you stumble over your words, and opportunities slip away. In this video, we break down how Inde Navarrette stays charismatic in high-pressure moments, despite being naturally shy. You’ll learn how to prime yourself for confidence, mirror the energy in any room, and turn nervousness into connection. You’ll also discover why admitting you’re nervous can make you look more confident, and how to stop holding back so you can express yourself freely at work, on dates, and in your social life. 0:00 - Intro 1:10 - Priming 4:00 - Energy Mirroring 5:29 - Announce Your Nerves Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Tuesday · 16 min

    The Quiet Skill That Attracts Feminine Women

    Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/015-25 I used to think being attractive was all about confidence, teasing, and strong body language, but I was missing something deeper. In this video, I break down the 3 traits of grounded masculinity that most men overlook. These are the traits that make women feel emotionally safe, connected, and irresistibly drawn in. 0:00 – Why Typical Attraction Advice Falls Short 2:39 – Containment: The Balance Between Holding Space and Setting Limits 4:18 – Empathetic Attunement: Feeling Without Getting Lost 7:08 – Grounding Someone in the Now (Not the Logic) Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Edited by: Andre Ringkjoeb Christopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Tuesday · 10 min

    Speak Up Confidently And Stop Getting Ignored

    Master your confidence step by step with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/43aLj3G When people interrupt you, it’s easy to feel small, overlooked, or ignored. But you don’t need to be loud to make others listen. In this video, you’ll learn four simple ways to stop people cutting you off, command attention, and speak with quiet authority. 0:00 - Intro 0:28 - Preface with a hype line 2:01 - Use gravity pauses 2:59 - Use gravity gestures 4:25 - Finish your sentence Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Tuesday · 15 min

    How to Apologize Without Shame: The Upright Apology

    Learn more about Charisma University: https://bit.ly/021-25 Most apologies, whether public or personal, feel fake because they are. This video breaks down why apologies often miss the mark, how shame gets in the way of real growth, and what it takes to make a genuine, meaningful apology. My podcast with Joe Hudson: https://youtu.be/KxiPnflbwJI?si=ocYol2HiZU3DpIB3 Joe Hudson's YouTube channel: ‪@ArtofAccomplishment‬ Get $300 off Joe Hudson's Connection Course: https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/charisma-on-command 0:00 - Intro 1:30 - The problem 2:28 - How this applies to your life 3:02 - A real apology 3:19 - How can we fix it? 3:54 - The Shame "Hot Potato" 6:14 - The problem with shame 5:52 - Why I made this video 7:34 - The 4 steps to an upright apology 9:26 - How to further improve relationships Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Tuesday · 7 min

    This Needs To STOP: Copyright BS

    Ugh. I wish this video didn't exist Our video on Conor McGregor received a takedown notice despite the fact that everything on it was commentary and fell within the bounds of fair use. Which means it was ripped off YouTube fraudulently because the owner of one of the clips has too much damn power. This abuse has been happening on YouTube more and more. Fair Use is getting destroyed and it sucks. I don't know how, but I'd like to figure how to fight back rather than just by complaining about it. If you have any ideas and you want to reach out to me, you can contact me via YouTube messenger or via email at charlie@charismaoncommand.com Hopefully, together we can end this shit. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Tuesday · 5 min

    Daily Tip: Charismatic Body Language Evaluation

    Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meet https://goo.gl/XTcjzH Daily Tip: Charismatic Body Language Evaluation Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Tuesday · 18 min

    The Masculine Archetype That Builds Quiet Power

    Join over 21,000 members at Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-004-25 This video explores the archetype of the king, its defining traits, and how embodying that mature king energy can boost your self-confidence. 0:00 - Intro 0:39 - #1) The King has little interest in changing other people's minds 1:55 - #2 ) King Energy inspires people around to feel confidence 4:18 - #3) Kings define themselves by what they love 7:16 - The Burden Test 8:18 - How to offer support 8:36 - You must be committed to clear seeing 12:07 - Want more? Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Edited by: Ryan D'Souza Andre Ringkjøb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 11 min

    How To Take Control Of Any Conversation Without Trying

    How To Talk To People - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown (Part 2) Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2ENXoza Learning how to talk to people is a super important skill, but one we are never taught in school. In fact, sometimes we get so wrapped up trying to make small talk that we lose the opportunity to really connect with someone. Bruce Lee doesn't make that mistake in this interview. This video will show you how to talk to people and how to lead a conversation towards topics that make you more likely to make a lasting connection. There are lots of ways, but this is one that will present itself as soon as the other person starts asking questions. You'll be able to build rapport quickly and potentially walk away with a new friend. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 9 min

    3 Simple Voice Tweaks To Captivate Anyone

    Link to confidence tip: https://goo.gl/gQT6DN Elliott Hulse's tip for a deeper voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P41ER1Wmkj0 Original video: https://youtu.be/wiOwqDmacJo?t=2m14s 3 Simple Voice Tweaks To Captivate Anyone Neil deGrasse Tyson is an amazing speaker. He's one of the select group of science educators that appeal to mainstream America. Truly, some of the topics he covers are fascinating. But the truth is that the majority of his appeal comes from the way in which he speaks. In this video, we cover three simple vocal tips that will make you a more captivating speaker. You'll learn how to use your voice in a way that gets people leaning forward and hoping you tell them more. Those tips are, in short 1. Take longer, deeper breaths to lower your voice 2. Strategically use silence to hook people's attention 3. Develop vocal range in terms of speed, cadence, and style Enjoy, and let us know if you're enjoying the throwback videos! Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 21 min

    6 Things Nice Guys Do That Kill Attraction

    Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/011-25 Alec Baldwin’s interview with his wife spirals as she loses all respect for him on camera. But what most people missed is how his 'nice guy' behavior quietly led to this. In this video, we break down 6 common habits that make women lose attraction—and how to stop doing them. 0:00 - Intro 2:55 - Apologizing to escape discomfort 3:27 - Over explaining and rambling 4:42 - Seeking approval 6:46 - Roping in other people 9:08 - Resentment 12:51 - Compliment sandwiching Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 7 min

    3 Body Language Habits That Make People Dislike You

    Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: https://goo.gl/D6dy72 Chris Evans Charisma - What Your Hands Say About You See how Chris Evans comes across as more likable and charismatic simply by the way he uses his hands when he speaks. The power of gesticulating can't be underestimated. When you compare Chris Evans to Jonah Hill, it's impossible not to feel that Chris looks far more confident. And it's not immediately evident, but a large part of that comes down to how they use their hands when speaking. So check it out: these 3 tips are easy to implement and will help you look more confident talking with your hands. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 11 min

    How To Be The Center Of Attention

    Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nSrMjP Why People Love Will Smith (And Not Jaden) Will Smith is one of the most charismatic men alive. His son, Jaden, is not. In this interview with Graham Norton, we can break down exactly why. It's the difference between being an inclusive competent leader and struggling to keep up. In this interview you'll see how the leadership dynamic plays out in a group. Will Smith very quickly winds up as the de facto leader, while Jaden gets cut off and has trouble getting a word in. The good news is that it isn't impossible to move upwards from the position of being trampled over in conversation. Watch this video and learn how to be a leader in a way that makes people happy to have you around. Book: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 16 min

    The Art Of Funny Storytelling

    Get the exercise to build enthusiasm and commitment in under 1 minute: https://goo.gl/Hg42Mi Kevin Hart's 3 Secrets To Hilarious Storytelling Kevin Hart is one of the funniest men alive. Whether in interviews with Ellen Degeneres or George Lopez, or his standup specials, he tells absolutely hilarious stories. In fact, most of his standup routine consists of him telling stories. But he does it in such a way that hooks an audience and never lets go, partially because he is able to include so many jokes. It's not that Kevin Hart's life is inherently more interesting than the rest of ours. He is just a better storyteller. The good news is that storytelling is not something you're born with or you're not. Anyone can learn to tell the kind of funny stories that made Kevin famous. You just need to know the most important pieces. While there are many storytelling techniques and styles that will enable you to captivate an audience, ultimately, the best storytellers share a few things in common: they get attention, they commit, and they are constantly refining their craft. These fundamentals can be used in any kind of story but they are especially useful for funny stories So if you want to know how to tell a story better or you are just are interested in what makes Kevin Hart's stories so engaging, check out the video. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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