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Charisma on Command · Yesterday · 16 min

How To Show Up For Someone In A Rough Time

The fastest way to build the confidence and charisma to make friends as an adult: https://bit.ly/002-26 Most people want to help a friend who is struggling, but they get it wrong. They give advice too fast, push too hard, or try to carry emotional burdens that are not theirs to carry, which can actually hurt the friendship. In this video, you will learn how to support a friend in hard times, build deeper connections, and become someone people trust, using Samwise Gamgee as the example of what real friendship and support look like when life gets tough. 0:00 - Intro 0:47 - Offer help before they ask 1:25 - Offer help without hooks 4:37 - Honor their boundaries 7:23 - Support them without this... 8:55 - See them as mid-story Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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The fastest way to build the confidence and charisma to make friends as an adult:
https://bit.ly/002-26


Most people want to help a friend who is struggling, but they get it wrong. They give advice too fast, push too hard, or try to carry emotional burdens that are not theirs to carry, which can actually hurt the friendship.

In this video, you will learn how to support a friend in hard times, build deeper connections, and become someone people trust, using Samwise Gamgee as the example of what real friendship and support look like when life gets tough.


0:00 - Intro
0:47 - Offer help before they ask
1:25 - Offer help without hooks
4:37 - Honor their boundaries
7:23 - Support them without this...
8:55 - See them as mid-story


Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:
http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe

Connect With Us Further:
Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com
Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand
Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):
Instagram: @CharlieHoupert
Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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