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Charisma on Command · Saturday · 12 min

How to Be Loved for Your Quiet Presence

Join Over 21,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-00225 Full podcast episode: https://youtu.be/SRLljn_GEHk?si=flYq1iwyUwEC22-T The most underrated social skill is so subtle it often goes unnoticed—but it has the power to change lives, including yours. In this video, I reveal the transformative art of "holding space," a skill that's not about fixing, advising, or encouraging, but simply being present for someone in their moments of vulnerability. Through Theo Von's deeply empathetic interaction with Sean Strickland, who shares harrowing stories of his past, we explore how this skill can create profound connections. You'll learn to recognize dissociation, switch conversational modes, and offer support without an agenda. 0:00 - Intro 0:11 - Here is the skill 0:46 - Disconnected emotions 1:32 - The underlying emotions break through 1:57 - Switch conversational modes 3:49 - Just listen 4:45 - Encourage emotional exploration Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Written by: Charlie Houpert Edited by: Io Anastasaki Henry Houpert Andre Ringkjøb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Join Over 21,000 Members At Charisma University:
https://bit.ly/CoC-00225

Full podcast episode:
https://youtu.be/SRLljn_GEHk?si=flYq1iwyUwEC22-T

The most underrated social skill is so subtle it often goes unnoticed—but it has the power to change lives, including yours. In this video, I reveal the transformative art of "holding space," a skill that's not about fixing, advising, or encouraging, but simply being present for someone in their moments of vulnerability.

Through Theo Von's deeply empathetic interaction with Sean Strickland, who shares harrowing stories of his past, we explore how this skill can create profound connections. You'll learn to recognize dissociation, switch conversational modes, and offer support without an agenda.


0:00 - Intro
0:11 - Here is the skill
0:46 - Disconnected emotions
1:32 - The underlying emotions break through
1:57 - Switch conversational modes
3:49 - Just listen
4:45 - Encourage emotional exploration


Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:
http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe

Connect With Us Further:
Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com
Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand
Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand


Written by:
Charlie Houpert

Edited by:
Io Anastasaki
Henry Houpert
Andre Ringkjøb

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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