Libido LoungeHow a Time Limit on the Fight Saves Your Marriage with Kameran Alareqi (Part 1)
By now it feels safer to stay quiet than risk another talk that ends with one of you walking off and the other chasing them down the hall. In this episode you'll see that what looks like a communication problem is usually a safety problem — and that giving a tense conversation a clear time limit is often the one small move that keeps one of you from bolting and the other from pushing until you both shut down. When the words have stopped coming easily, start there: grab Dr. Diane's free Yes, No, Maybe Checklist at mylibidodoc.com/freebies — a five-minute way back into the conversation. About the Guest: *Kameran Alareqi Expertise: Kameran is a Gottman certified marriage coach, the host of The Married and Connected Podcast, and the founder of the Recognizing Potential Coaching Program. In this program, Kameran meets monogamous couples where they’re at to help them strengthen their marriage by coaching them to deepen connection, improve communication, and apply tools needed to create the healthy marriage they envision and desire. https://substack.com/@marriedandconnected IG: www.instagram.com/married.and.connected YouTube: www.youtube.com/@marriedandconnected Join my Skool Community: https://www.skool.com/married-connected-4920/about Buy my book- Connected To Me: The Blueprint: https://a.co/d/0a3d2hPx My podcast: Married and Connected found anywhere you get your favorite podcasts Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU ✨ Auto GRO Men's Pump: https://link.urlfun.com/ujsvrpouu ✨ Stimulate Red Light Pump Accessory: https://link.urlfun.com/gdnfgwroh ✨ AndroDEEP Traction Extender: https://link.urlfun.com/zncbmgfrj ✨ Supplements: https://link.urlfun.com/tprmmtbai ✨ LadyPump: https://link.urlfun.com/drpeyytjy Timestamps: 0:00 How little time couples spend alone and the real root of marital issues 0:48 Introduction and guest introduction 1:26 Key topics: divorce-proofing, nervous system in fights, and more 1:41 What it means to divorce-proof your marriage 2:18 "Playing baseball" as a metaphor for marriage communication 4:00 Turning towards emotional bids from your partner 5:41 Emotional safety as the foundation of strong relationships 10:03 Attraction and emotional regulation in marriage 13:19 Chemistry versus the stages of long-term relationships 15:29 Sponsor: Penis and labia pumps 19:14 Why seeking help for marriage issues matters 20:22 Preview of next week’s episode on recurring fights 20:59 Tools for managing emotional dysregulation 22:42 Resources for couples by Kameran Alareqi 23:32 Free resources and community information 23:51 Upcoming topics and episode preview 24:15 Closing remarks and Dr. Diane Mueller’s contact information (0:00) How little time couples spend alone and the real root of marital issues (0:48) Introduction and guest introduction (1:26) Key topics: divorce-proofing, nervous system in fights, and more (1:41) What it means to divorce-proof your marriage (2:18) "Playing baseball" as a metaphor for marriage communication (4:00) Turning towards emotional bids from your partner (5:41) Emotional safety as the foundation of strong relationships (10:03) Attraction and emotional regulation in marriage (13:19) Chemistry versus the stages of long-term relationships (15:29) Sponsor: Penis and labia pumps (19:14) Why seeking help for marriage issues matters (20:22) Preview of next week’s episode on recurring fights (20:59) Tools for managing emotional dysregulation (22:42) Resources for couples by Kameran Alareqi (23:32) Free resources and community information (23:51) Upcoming topics and episode preview (24:15) Closing remarks and Dr. Diane Mueller’s contact information
