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Dr. Diane Mueller

If your marriage still looks fine from the outside but something has quietly disappeared — this podcast is for you. Dr. Diane Mueller, Board Certified Sexologist, goes deep on what's really happening and what works

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  • Thursday · 21 min

    Is Your Marriage Stuck in the Same Fight? with Dr. Jessica Higgins Part 2

    You've had this fight so many times you could script both sides, and you're starting to wonder if the two of you are just fundamentally incompatible. In Part 2, you'll learn why that recurring argument almost never means what it appears to — and how naming the fear underneath your own frustration can change the conversation before you've said a word to your partner. When you're ready to translate all of that into something you can actually do together, grab Dr. Diane's free Yes, No, Maybe Checklist at mylibidodoc.com/yesnomaybe — a low-pressure way to start saying out loud what's been going unspoken. About the Guest: *Dr. Jessica Higgins Expertise: Dr. Jessica Higgins holds two graduate degrees in psychology, two coaching certifications, and over 20 years of experience helping clients achieve successful results. As the host of the Empowered Relationship Podcast, she helps people navigate the terrain of long-lasting intimacy more skillfully and mindfully. Through her coaching and online course, cl https://www.facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins/ https://www.instagram.com/drjessicahiggins/ https://in.pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation/ https://twitter.com/DrJessHiggins Website: https://drjessicahiggins.com/ Download Dr. Jessica's free guide - SHIFTING CRITICISM FOR CONNECTED COMMUNICATION: https://drjessicahiggins.com/shifting-criticism-for-connected-communication Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU ✨ Auto GRO Men's Pump: https://link.urlfun.com/ujsvrpouu ✨ Stimulate Red Light Pump Accessory: https://link.urlfun.com/gdnfgwroh ✨ AndroDEEP Traction Extender: https://link.urlfun.com/zncbmgfrj ✨ Supplements: https://link.urlfun.com/tprmmtbai ✨ LadyPump: https://link.urlfun.com/drpeyytjy Timestamps: 0:00 Understanding vulnerability and conflicts in relationships 2:22 Communication breakdowns and deeper issues 4:16 The importance of listening beyond words 7:17 Strategies for better communication and understanding 9:26 Breaking the rejection cycle in the bedroom 10:10 Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society 11:33 Expanding the definition of intimacy and pleasure 14:40 Sponsor: Doctor Joel Kaplan’s Lady Pump 16:14 Unspoken expectations about sex in long-term relationships 18:38 Practical tip to improve your relationship tonight 19:36 Free guide and shifting out of critical tendencies 20:18 Closing remarks and listener engagement (0:00) Understanding vulnerability and conflicts in relationships (2:22) Communication breakdowns and deeper issues (4:16) The importance of listening beyond words (7:17) Strategies for better communication and understanding (9:26) Breaking the rejection cycle in the bedroom (10:10) Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society (11:33) Expanding the definition of intimacy and pleasure (14:40) Sponsor: Doctor Joel Kaplan’s Lady Pump (16:14) Unspoken expectations about sex in long-term relationships (18:38) Practical tip to improve your relationship tonight (19:36) Free guide and shifting out of critical tendencies (20:18) Closing remarks and listener engagement

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  • Monday · 22 min

    Is Your Marriage Stuck in the Same Fight? with Dr. Jessica Higgins Part 1

    t's the same argument on a loop — different night, same wall, same silence afterward — and you keep thinking if you could just explain it better this time, it would finally land. By the end of this episode you'll see the fight was never really about the dishes or the schedule; you're both running protective moves that quietly hurt the other, and once you name what's underneath, the same conversation that used to blow up can actually move mountains. Bring Dr. Diane's free Yes, No, Maybe Checklist to your next talk — a five-minute, low-stakes way to say what you mean before it turns into a fight: mylibidodoc.com/yesnomaybe. About the Guest: *Dr. Jessica Higgins Expertise: Dr. Jessica Higgins holds two graduate degrees in psychology, two coaching certifications, and over 20 years of experience helping clients achieve successful results. As the host of the Empowered Relationship Podcast, she helps people navigate the terrain of long-lasting intimacy more skillfully and mindfully. Through her coaching and online course, cl https://www.facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins/ https://www.instagram.com/drjessicahiggins/ https://in.pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation/ https://twitter.com/DrJessHiggins Website: https://drjessicahiggins.com/ Download Dr. Jessica's free guide - SHIFTING CRITICISM FOR CONNECTED COMMUNICATION: https://drjessicahiggins.com/shifting-criticism-for-connected-communication Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU ✨ Auto GRO Men's Pump: https://link.urlfun.com/ujsvrpouu ✨ Stimulate Red Light Pump Accessory: https://link.urlfun.com/gdnfgwroh ✨ AndroDEEP Traction Extender: https://link.urlfun.com/zncbmgfrj ✨ Supplements: https://link.urlfun.com/tprmmtbai ✨ LadyPump: https://link.urlfun.com/drpeyytjy Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction, communication breakdown, and deeper needs in conflict 4:23 Strategies for effective listening 7:16 Steps for addressing conflict in relationships 9:40 Breaking the rejection cycle in the bedroom 11:41 Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society 12:13 Expanding the definition of intimacy 15:08 Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's Lady Pump 16:43 Expectations about sex in long-term relationships 19:22 One simple tip to improve your relationship tonight 20:07 Free gift from Dr. Jessica Higgins 21:02 Announcement and closing remarks (0:00) Introduction, communication breakdown, and deeper needs in conflict (4:23) Strategies for effective listening (7:16) Steps for addressing conflict in relationships (9:40) Breaking the rejection cycle in the bedroom (11:41) Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society (12:13) Expanding the definition of intimacy (15:08) Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's Lady Pump (16:43) Expectations about sex in long-term relationships (19:22) One simple tip to improve your relationship tonight (20:07) Free gift from Dr. Jessica Higgins (21:02) Announcement and closing remarks

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  • August 13 · 24 min

    Do this for 3% of the day to save your marriage with Monica Tanner Part 2

    You lie next to someone you love and feel more like co-managers of a household than a couple — and you couldn't name the day it started. In this second part, Dr. Diane Mueller reframes the resentment you've been quietly swallowing as a warning light on the dashboard, not a death sentence — and shows how handing each other just 3% of your week patches the small leaks before the boat takes on real water. Before your next date night, grab her free Yes, No, Maybe Checklist (mylibidodoc.com/yesnomaybe) and use it to finally say the small things out loud — the ones that pile up when they stay unspoken. About the Guest: *Monica Tanner Expertise: Monica Tanner, Relational Life Therapy Certified, Relationship Coach and host of the Secrets of Happily Ever After podcast, transforms marriages with simple communication, connection, conflict resolution and commitment strategies. Her mission is to lower the divorce rate and improve marital satisfaction. Through her engaging podcast, new Amazon Best-Selling book, Bad Marriage Advice, vibrant social media community, and couple’s coaching practice, Monica's expert guidance has impacted thousands of couples, by helping them ditch resentment and roommate syndrome and get back to living their happily ever after love story. Website: https://monicatanner.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/monitalksmarriage 50 Connecting Questions to Ask Your Spouse - https://monicatanner.com/connect Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Roommate syndrome and myths in long-term relationships 3:20 How common is roommate syndrome? 4:42 The 3% rule for maintaining connection 7:22 Using connecting questions to deepen intimacy 10:03 The power of a yearly getaway 13:00 Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society 14:28 Recycling connecting questions over time 15:50 Addressing and resolving resentment 20:11 Skills for tackling small issues early 22:27 How to work with Monica and her book 23:36 Free gift from Monica and closing remarks (0:00) Roommate syndrome and myths in long-term relationships (3:20) How common is roommate syndrome? (4:42) The 3% rule for maintaining connection (7:22) Using connecting questions to deepen intimacy (10:03) The power of a yearly getaway (13:00) Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society (14:28) Recycling connecting questions over time (15:50) Addressing and resolving resentment (20:11) Skills for tackling small issues early (22:27) How to work with Monica and her book (23:36) Free gift from Monica and closing remarks

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  • August 6 · 24 min

    Do this for 3% of the day to save your marriage with Monica Tanner Part 1

    You're not fighting — but you're not really reaching for each other either, and somewhere between the mortgage and the bedtimes the two of you started living like polite roommates who happen to share a bed. By the end of this episode you'll see the thing no one told you: "meeting in the middle" hasn't kept the peace — it's quietly made you both lose, and the way back isn't more compromise, it's getting curious about your partner again instead of managing them. If that curiosity is the part that's gone cold, start small and start solo — take the free Sex Code Language quiz to learn how you're wired and how your partner is, at mylibidodoc.com/freebies. About the Guest: *Monica Tanner Expertise: Monica Tanner, Relational Life Therapy Certified, Relationship Coach and host of the Secrets of Happily Ever After podcast, transforms marriages with simple communication, connection, conflict resolution and commitment strategies. Her mission is to lower the divorce rate and improve marital satisfaction. Through her engaging podcast, new Amazon Best-Selling book, Bad Marriage Advice, vibrant social media community, and couple’s coaching practice, Monica's expert guidance has impacted thousands of couples, by helping them ditch resentment and roommate syndrome and get back to living their happily ever after love story. Website: https://monicatanner.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/monitalksmarriage 50 Connecting Questions to Ask Your Spouse - https://monicatanner.com/connect Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Monica Tanner's childhood beliefs, parental divorce, and introduction to today's topic 2:07 Monica's realization about bad marriage advice and her study of marriage 4:38 Monica's motivation to write her book and personal marriage experience 6:12 Sharing relationship lessons with children and the problem with "happy wife, happy life" advice 11:43 Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society 13:16 Impact of constant serving on masculinity and intimacy 15:25 The issue with compromising in marriage 17:24 Collaboration as a better alternative to compromise 21:02 Importance of being on the same team in a relationship 22:33 Teaser for part two: roommate syndrome and resentment 23:09 Monica's freebie and ways to work with her 24:36 Conclusion and call to action (0:00) Monica Tanner's childhood beliefs, parental divorce, and introduction to today's topic (2:07) Monica's realization about bad marriage advice and her study of marriage (4:38) Monica's motivation to write her book and personal marriage experience (6:12) Sharing relationship lessons with children and the problem with "happy wife, happy life" advice (11:43) Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society (13:16) Impact of constant serving on masculinity and intimacy (15:25) The issue with compromising in marriage (17:24) Collaboration as a better alternative to compromise (21:02) Importance of being on the same team in a relationship (22:33) Teaser for part two: roommate syndrome and resentment (23:09) Monica's freebie and ways to work with her (24:36) Conclusion and call to action

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  • July 30 · 27 min

    Why You Can't Tell Your Husband What You Want Part 2 with James Bullard

    You're lying awake next to them wondering when reaching over became the hardest thing in the room — and whether asking out loud would fix it or finally break it. In this episode, Dr. Diane Mueller unpacks why a partner's "no" isn't a verdict, why most of the resentment between you is built from assumptions neither of you said out loud, and how non-sexual touch can rebuild the bridge before either of you has to be brave about anything bigger. If you want a way to start the conversation without it turning into a fight, grab Dr. Diane's free YES, NO, MAYBE Checklist at mylibidodoc.com/yesnomaybe — it gives you the language to say what you actually want, hear what they want, and find where you two still meet. About the Guest: *James Bullard Expertise: James Bullard is a storyteller, public speaker, and host of the podcast Radical Joy — part therapy session, part stand-up set, part permission slip to want more out of life. Through his speaking engagements and one-on-one coaching, he helps people who are secretly terrified of success as much as failure finally chase the big, scary, honest goal instead of settling for "fine.” YouTube freebie, Sustainable Audacity: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F6ciBFVNjR8 Join The Bullard Brand community (includes Sustainable Audacity master class and BONUS PDF download): https://tinyurl.com/Sustainable-Audacity Schedule a 30-minute connection session: https://calendly.com/thebullardbrand/30min Opt-in/lead magnet: https://james-bullard.mykajabi.com/apply-to-work-with-me Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction, recap, and the problem of assumptions and resentment 1:54 Asking your partner for permission to share your wants 2:38 Respecting boundaries and finding support in your tribe 5:41 Identifying and clarifying wants and needs in a relationship 7:00 Preparing for and initiating discussions about relationship needs 8:51 Addressing small grievances before they escalate 10:52 Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society 12:11 Importance of communication to avoid resentment 18:42 Apologizing and acknowledging impact in relationships 20:09 Addressing desire mismatches and intimacy issues 23:21 Promises versus guarantees in relationships 24:20 Importance of clear and open communication 24:39 Announcing James E. Bullard's free giveaway 26:10 Upcoming episodes preview 26:38 Closing remarks and key takeaways 26:48 Where to find Dr. Diane Mueller online (0:00) Introduction, recap, and the problem of assumptions and resentment (1:54) Asking your partner for permission to share your wants (2:38) Respecting boundaries and finding support in your tribe (5:41) Identifying and clarifying wants and needs in a relationship (7:00) Preparing for and initiating discussions about relationship needs (8:51) Addressing small grievances before they escalate (10:52) Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society (12:11) Importance of communication to avoid resentment (18:42) Apologizing and acknowledging impact in relationships (20:09) Addressing desire mismatches and intimacy issues (23:21) Promises versus guarantees in relationships (24:20) Importance of clear and open communication (24:39) Announcing James E. Bullard's free giveaway (26:10) Upcoming episodes preview (26:38) Closing remarks and key takeaways (26:48) Where to find Dr. Diane Mueller online

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  • July 23 · 27 min

    Why You Can't Tell Your Husband What You Want Part 1 with James Bullard

    The longer you're married, the harder it gets to even identify what you want from each other — let alone say it out loud without it sounding like a complaint. This first episode breaks down why naming your own wants feels riskier than staying quiet, and gives you a simple method for turning years of unspoken frustration into language your partner can actually act on. Grab Dr. Diane's date night checklist at mylibidodoc.com/freebies to start that conversation this week instead of letting it sit for another year. About the Guest: *James Bullard Expertise: James Bullard is a storyteller, public speaker, and host of the podcast Radical Joy — part therapy session, part stand-up set, part permission slip to want more out of life. Through his speaking engagements and one-on-one coaching, he helps people who are secretly terrified of success as much as failure finally chase the big, scary, honest goal instead of settling for "fine.” YouTube freebie, Sustainable Audacity: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F6ciBFVNjR8 Join The Bullard Brand community (includes Sustainable Audacity master class and BONUS PDF download): https://tinyurl.com/Sustainable-Audacity Schedule a 30-minute connection session: https://calendly.com/thebullardbrand/30min Opt-in/lead magnet: https://james-bullard.mykajabi.com/apply-to-work-with-me Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Communication, vulnerability, and conflict in relationships 0:28 Introduction to the episode and guest 1:07 Difficulty in identifying what we want 2:25 Welcoming James Bullard from Radical Joy podcast 2:30 The importance of direct, kind communication 3:19 James Bullard's background in performance and joy 4:41 Understanding what you don't want 5:03 The human brain's preference for safety and familiarity 7:03 Practical examples of identifying likes and dislikes 10:22 Addressing serious relationship issues 13:50 The evolution of relationship dynamics 15:09 Revisiting and updating relationship questions 18:17 Methodology for analyzing relationship wants and needs 20:49 Teaser for next episode and free gift from James Bullard 24:15 Importance of confidence and efficiency in personal growth 25:00 James Bullard's coaching programs and sustainable audacity 25:30 Addressing core issues and efficiency in coaching 26:06 Wrap-up and reminders to subscribe and download freebies 26:26 Preview of next episode on desire mismatch 26:48 Closing thanks and acknowledgements 26:52 Outro and where to find Dr. Diane Mueller online (0:00) Communication, vulnerability, and conflict in relationships (0:28) Introduction to the episode and guest (1:07) Difficulty in identifying what we want (2:25) Welcoming James Bullard from Radical Joy podcast (2:30) The importance of direct, kind communication (3:19) James Bullard's background in performance and joy (4:41) Understanding what you don't want (5:03) The human brain's preference for safety and familiarity (7:03) Practical examples of identifying likes and dislikes (10:22) Addressing serious relationship issues (13:50) The evolution of relationship dynamics (15:09) Revisiting and updating relationship questions (18:17) Methodology for analyzing relationship wants and needs (20:49) Teaser for next episode and free gift from James Bullard (24:15) Importance of confidence and efficiency in personal growth (25:00) James Bullard's coaching programs and sustainable audacity (25:30) Addressing core issues and efficiency in coaching (26:06) Wrap-up and reminders to subscribe and download freebies (26:26) Preview of next episode on desire mismatch (26:48) Closing thanks and acknowledgements (26:52) Outro and where to find Dr. Diane Mueller online

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  • July 16 · 27 min

    The Attachment Style Quietly Running Your Marriage with Dr. Diane

    You're lying six inches apart every night, and it still feels like the loneliest room in the house. This episode explains why that distance usually isn't about attraction fading at all — it's a childhood-built nervous system pattern deciding, without asking you, whether closeness is safe. Start there tonight with our free Date Night Checklist — one small, pressure-free way back toward each other: mylibidodoc.com/freebies Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Understanding low desire, safety, and attachment theory 1:57 Misconceptions and awareness about low desire and attachment 3:32 Contributions of John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth 4:19 Formation of attachment styles and subconscious behaviors 4:52 Overview of the four attachment styles 5:50 Secure attachment and its impact on relationships 7:10 Anxious attachment and its effects 7:33 Avoidant attachment and its effects 8:42 Disorganized attachment and its effects 9:52 How attachment styles show up in the bedroom 11:18 Differences in arousal and desire between men and women 12:41 Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society 13:17 The pursue-withdraw cycle in relationships 17:42 Responsive vs. spontaneous desire 20:03 Healing through naming and self-awareness 22:15 Exercises for avoidant and anxious attachment 24:21 Addressing multiple root causes for healthy desire 24:59 Sponsor: Libido quiz 25:43 Sponsor: Libido quiz continued 26:18 Upcoming relationship topics 26:48 Social media and contact information (0:00) Understanding low desire, safety, and attachment theory (1:57) Misconceptions and awareness about low desire and attachment (3:32) Contributions of John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth (4:19) Formation of attachment styles and subconscious behaviors (4:52) Overview of the four attachment styles (5:50) Secure attachment and its impact on relationships (7:10) Anxious attachment and its effects (7:33) Avoidant attachment and its effects (8:42) Disorganized attachment and its effects (9:52) How attachment styles show up in the bedroom (11:18) Differences in arousal and desire between men and women (12:41) Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society (13:17) The pursue-withdraw cycle in relationships (17:42) Responsive vs. spontaneous desire (20:03) Healing through naming and self-awareness (22:15) Exercises for avoidant and anxious attachment (24:21) Addressing multiple root causes for healthy desire (24:59) Sponsor: Libido quiz (25:43) Sponsor: Libido quiz continued (26:18) Upcoming relationship topics (26:48) Social media and contact information

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  • July 9 · 26 min

    The Four Horsemen Destroying Your Marriage With Dr. Diane Mueller

    If you and your partner stopped fighting but also stopped connecting, you're not in a better place — you're in a more dangerous one. This episode breaks down the four communication patterns silently poisoning your relationship (and why fixing just one of them could shift the entire dynamic in bed and out). Take Dr. Diane's free Yes, No, Maybe Checklist at mylibidodoc.com/yesnomaybe — it's a five-minute conversation starter that opens the door when words have stopped coming naturally. Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction, New Year greetings, and the importance of safety for sexual intimacy 1:04 Emotional and mental safety in sexual relationships 2:03 The impact of feeling unsafe on intimacy and energy flow 3:08 Scientific validation of acupuncture meridians and energy flow 4:31 Connection between emotions, energy, safety, and trust 6:15 Breaking trust and unmet promises in relationships 9:09 Introduction to Mystery Vibes products 12:34 Sponsor: Mystery Vibes 12:45 Sponsor: Mature Allure by Sherry O 13:09 Communication and trust in relationships 15:01 Emasculation and its impact on men 19:12 Communication strategies to avoid emasculation 20:52 The neurological impact of stress on libido 23:18 Understanding the connection between trust, safety, and libido 24:39 The importance of communication in relationships 25:17 Libido club and exclusive content 25:49 Closing remarks, gratitude, and where to find Dr. Diane Mueller online (0:00) Introduction, New Year greetings, and the importance of safety for sexual intimacy (1:04) Emotional and mental safety in sexual relationships (2:03) The impact of feeling unsafe on intimacy and energy flow (3:08) Scientific validation of acupuncture meridians and energy flow (4:31) Connection between emotions, energy, safety, and trust (6:15) Breaking trust and unmet promises in relationships (9:09) Introduction to Mystery Vibes products (12:34) Sponsor: Mystery Vibes (12:45) Sponsor: Mature Allure by Sherry O (13:09) Communication and trust in relationships (15:01) Emasculation and its impact on men (19:12) Communication strategies to avoid emasculation (20:52) The neurological impact of stress on libido (23:18) Understanding the connection between trust, safety, and libido (24:39) The importance of communication in relationships (25:17) Libido club and exclusive content (25:49) Closing remarks, gratitude, and where to find Dr. Diane Mueller online

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  • July 2 · 20 min

    Is It Low T — Or Is Something Else Wrong? with Arthur L. "Bud" II, MD, MBA, FACS

    If you've been quietly wondering whether low testosterone is the reason you've stopped wanting to touch your wife — or stopped wanting to at all — this episode is for you. You'll walk away understanding why a hormone fix alone almost never brings back the connection you've lost, and what actually has to happen first. If you're not sure where to start, take the free "Why Is My Desire Low?" quiz at mylibidodoc.com/libido-quiz — it maps both the physical and emotional roots, and it's completely free. About the Guest: *Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, MD, MBA, FACS Expertise: Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, MD, MBA, FACS is a globally recognized Johns Hopkins urologist, researcher, and educator whose pioneering work in men’s health and erectile function has transformed care worldwide. Dr. Burnett's website: https://drarthurburnett.com/ For interviews, commentary, speaking engagements, or professional inquiries, listeners are encouraged to visit Manifest Greatness Media at https://manifestgreatnessmedia.com/contact/ to get in touch or contact Dr. Burnett directly through his website at https://drarthurburnett.com Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction and overview of testosterone’s role in libido 0:45 Myths and facts about testosterone 1:48 Testosterone’s impact on sexual desire 3:30 Testosterone replacement therapy: effects and considerations 4:31 When to seek professional help for testosterone issues 5:54 Testosterone and erectile dysfunction 7:16 Recommended tests and evaluation for testosterone 8:12 Criteria and decision-making for testosterone therapy 9:17 Comparing DHEA and testosterone therapy 10:18 Methods of testosterone delivery and patient preferences 13:08 Patient experiences and lifestyle factors in testosterone therapy 16:14 Testosterone therapy for non-symptomatic men 17:54 Root causes of low testosterone and closing remarks (0:00) Introduction and overview of testosterone’s role in libido (0:45) Myths and facts about testosterone (1:48) Testosterone’s impact on sexual desire (3:30) Testosterone replacement therapy: effects and considerations (4:31) When to seek professional help for testosterone issues (5:54) Testosterone and erectile dysfunction (7:16) Recommended tests and evaluation for testosterone (8:12) Criteria and decision-making for testosterone therapy (9:17) Comparing DHEA and testosterone therapy (10:18) Methods of testosterone delivery and patient preferences (13:08) Patient experiences and lifestyle factors in testosterone therapy (16:14) Testosterone therapy for non-symptomatic men (17:54) Root causes of low testosterone and closing remarks

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  • June 25 · 48 min

    Menopause Stole Her Brain — Not Just Her Drive with Andrea Donsky

    If your wife has felt like a different person these last few years — foggy, irritable, checked out of the bedroom — and her doctor keeps telling her everything looks fine, this episode is for both of you. You'll walk away understanding that what's happening in her body has a name, 103 of them actually, and that 90% of what menopause does lives in the brain — which means the disconnection you're feeling isn't personal, it's physiological. If you want to understand where her head is right now before your next conversation, start with Dr. Diane's free "Why Is My Desire Low?" quiz at mylibidodoc.com/freebies — it's designed for exactly this moment. About the Guest: ** Andrea Donsky* Expertise: Andrea Donsky is a nutritionist (RHN), 7X Published Menopause Researcher & Entrepreneur with 26 years of experience in health and wellness. She is a respected multi-award-winning influencer, media personality, speaker, and author. Andrea hosts the popular podcast “Menopause Reimagined” and she is the co-founder of www.wearemorphus.com, a company that empowers women to feel heard and supported as they go through perimenopause and menopause with nutrition, lifestyle and high-quality, science-backed supplements. Her new book, Nourishing Menopause: Powerful Nutrition and Lifestyle Strategies to Feel Your Best, published by Simon and Schuster, was released on May 5th. Follow her on TikTok, Instagram and LinkedIn @andreadonsky @wearemorphus. www.nourishingmenopausebook.com?www.wearemorphus.com?TikTok: @andreadonsky IG: @andreadonsky and @wearemorphus YouTube: @wearemorphus Facebook: @wearemorphus This is a link to our libido survey: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeEDrQyT-aA8J2LYRuhvAdrDEUQf8nYyErbixOkncecwqW9Fg/viewform?usp=send_form https://wearemorphus.com/pages/symptoms-list : This is a list of the 103+ symptoms women can print off and bring to their doctors or healthcare providers Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: Medical gaslighting is a significant issue affecting forty percent of women during menopause, leading to a lack of support and understanding from healthcare professionals. Women in perimenopause and menopause experience a wide range of symptoms, with ninety percent being related to cognitive, brain, or mental health, and libido significantly decreasing for ninety-one percent of participants in the survey. Effective communication and understanding between partners are crucial, as the changes women go through during this stage of life also impact their relationships, causing feelings of walking on eggshells and emotional disconnect. (0:00) Introduction, Andrea Donsky on menopause, symptoms, and impact on libido (1:07) Menopause effects on relationships and importance of conversations (2:29) Medical gaslighting and lack of support from healthcare professionals (3:28) Andrea Donsky's research and published work on menopause (4:22) Unfair treatment of women during menopause and personal experiences (6:08) Overview of menopause symptoms and research findings (8:27) Recognizing, validating, and discussing menopause symptoms (9:29) Unique symptoms: phantom smells and cognitive changes (12:44) Cognitive, mental health, and stress management during menopause (16:23) Libido, sexual health, and decreased desire in menopause (18:11) Men’s perspectives and relationship impacts (18:47) Communicating advice and support for low libido (19:59) Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society (22:12) Vaginal dryness and practical tips for relief (24:05) Understanding blood work, laser rejuvenation, and fatigue (25:29) Mindset, self-esteem, and sexual health (27:36) Importance of blood flow and clitoral pumps (28:06) Andrea Donsky's book and further research (30:27) Weight gain, self-blame, and perimenopause (32:10) Relearning sex, lifestyle changes, and essential nutrients (38:33) Magnesium and high-level dietary advice (40:24) The balance blueprint for menopause health (41:43) Bio-individuality and choosing the right diet (42:41) Understanding your body and supplements (44:08) Men’s perspectives on partners in menopause (46:01) Mindset, relationships, and encouragement to get Andrea’s book (46:49) Importance of taking the survey and downloadable resources (47:59) Closing remarks, subscription reminder, and outro

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  • June 18 · 27 min

    How One Person Can Fix a Dead Marriage with Dr. Lee Baucom

    You've been managing the household, the kids, and the calendar together — but somewhere along the way you stopped actually being together, and now it feels like you're sharing a life with a stranger. In this episode, marriage coach Dr. Lee Baucom explains why the real problem usually isn't communication — and what one person can quietly do to shift the entire dynamic, even when their partner has already checked out. If you're not sure where to start, the Yes, No, Maybe Checklist at mylibidodoc.com/freebies is a simple, low-pressure way to open a door that's been closed for a while. About the Guest: *Dr. Lee Baucom Expertise: Dr. Lee Baucom is a marriage coach who believes something most therapists won’t tell you: you don’t need your spouse on board to start saving your marriage. For over two decades, he’s helped thousands of people in hurting marriages discover that real change begins when one person decides to stop waiting and start acting. Lee doesn’t do endless processing or dwelling on what’s broken. Instead, he teaches people how to shift from “me versus you” thinking to seeing their marriage as a system they can influence, even when they feel completely alone in the effort. His approach is hope-infused and action-oriented, because he knows that the people who find him are tired of feeling stuck and ready for a new direction. http://UnPauseYourMarriage.com http://SaveTheMarriage.com Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 The pause button, subconscious disconnection, and introduction to Libido Lounge 1:31 Different categories of couples in trouble and common scenarios 4:18 The pause button vs. autopilot in relationships 7:02 Report vs. rapport in daily conversations 8:14 Starting points for one-sided efforts to revive a marriage 12:31 Guiding one person to initiate change 13:25 Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society 15:05 The three C's: Connecting, changing, and creating a 'we' 19:18 Mistakes therapists and couples make in the beginning 20:40 Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's pump systems 21:12 Common mistakes in therapy and communication issues 24:39 Lee's methods: Unpause Your Marriage and Save Your Marriage models 25:07 The Unpause Your Marriage app: How it works 25:50 The Save Your Marriage program and crisis action steps 26:18 One-on-one coaching, team support, and resources 27:13 Outro, subscription reminder, and sponsor acknowledgment (0:00) The pause button, subconscious disconnection, and introduction to Libido Lounge (1:31) Different categories of couples in trouble and common scenarios (4:18) The pause button vs. autopilot in relationships (7:02) Report vs. rapport in daily conversations (8:14) Starting points for one-sided efforts to revive a marriage (12:31) Guiding one person to initiate change (13:25) Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society (15:05) The three C's: Connecting, changing, and creating a 'we' (19:18) Mistakes therapists and couples make in the beginning (20:40) Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's pump systems (21:12) Common mistakes in therapy and communication issues (24:39) Lee's methods: Unpause Your Marriage and Save Your Marriage models (25:07) The Unpause Your Marriage app: How it works (25:50) The Save Your Marriage program and crisis action steps (26:18) One-on-one coaching, team support, and resources (27:13) Outro, subscription reminder, and sponsor acknowledgment

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  • June 11 · 46 min

    Your Marriage Isn't Broken. You're Just Too Close with Dr. Corey Allan

    You haven't had a big blowup — you've just quietly become two people sharing a house, and you're not sure when that happened. Dr. Corey Allan explains why the problem isn't that you've grown apart, but that you may have lost yourselves trying to become one — and why you going first is the only move that actually breaks the stalemate. Start the conversation tonight with Dr. Diane's free Yes, No, Maybe Checklist at mylibidodoc.com/yesnomaybe. About the Guest: *Dr. Corey Allan Expertise: Corey Allan (if you want to be formal it’s Dr. Corey Allan, but he's usually pretty casual) is a husband, father, author, speaker, as well as a Marriage and Family Therapist with a Ph.D. in Family Therapy. He and his wife Pam host a weekly podcast, Sexy Marriage Radio, where they help frame conversations and actions that help couples create a marriage fully alive. ??Corey has a private practice and is the founder of SMR, an online resource aimed at helping marriages not just survive, but thrive. Pam is a CPA at a small firm in Frisco TX as well as a cohost with Corey's work. Marriage is more about developing character and wisdom as a human than it is about the two people being happy.??Love is a process, not just a feeling. It produces action. Added to this, life is choice (so is marriage). Therefore we work to help people: Grow deeper Spiritually, Keep it simple, Be passionate, Live in community with others and Enjoy the ride. https://smr.fm @sexymarriageradion (on all social platforms) https://smr.fm/gofirst Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction and welcome with Dr. Corey Allan 1:27 Dr. Corey Allan's journey into marriage therapy 2:36 The complexity of couple's therapy 4:12 Common mistakes in marriage therapy 8:24 Handling reactions in relationships 12:02 Dealing with infidelity in relationships 17:28 Addressing the feelings of the betrayed partner 20:02 The impact of shame and guilt in relationships 21:27 Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society by Dr. Diane Mueller 23:00 Differentiating between guilt and shame 23:59 Addressing the innate worthiness in people 25:18 Differences between guilt and shame 26:28 Approaching shame and its origins 29:16 Introduction to the book "Go First" 30:37 Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's pumps 32:03 Internal vs. external locus of control 34:45 The importance of renegotiating agreements in relationships 39:02 Concept of "Go First" in creating better intimacy 41:33 Common issues causing connection loss in couples 44:16 Information on Dr. Corey Allan's resources and podcast (0:00) Introduction and welcome with Dr. Corey Allan (1:27) Dr. Corey Allan's journey into marriage therapy (2:36) The complexity of couple's therapy (4:12) Common mistakes in marriage therapy (8:24) Handling reactions in relationships (12:02) Dealing with infidelity in relationships (17:28) Addressing the feelings of the betrayed partner (20:02) The impact of shame and guilt in relationships (21:27) Sponsor: Hot Monogamy Society by Dr. Diane Mueller (23:00) Differentiating between guilt and shame (23:59) Addressing the innate worthiness in people (25:18) Differences between guilt and shame (26:28) Approaching shame and its origins (29:16) Introduction to the book "Go First" (30:37) Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's pumps (32:03) Internal vs. external locus of control (34:45) The importance of renegotiating agreements in relationships (39:02) Concept of "Go First" in creating better intimacy (41:33) Common issues causing connection loss in couples (44:16) Information on Dr. Corey Allan's resources and podcast

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  • June 3 · 31 min

    Highly Sensitive People: Your Sensitivity Is a Sex Superpower with Rachel Dorneanu

    If you've ever pulled away from your partner not because you don't love them, but because the lighting was wrong, the sheets felt scratchy, or the noise in your head wouldn't stop — this episode was made for you. You'll learn why your nervous system has a "window" for feeling safe enough to connect, and what's actually happening when you check out, go cold, or just… can't get there — even when you want to. If you want to go deeper on understanding your own turn-on and turn-off patterns, take Dr. Diane's free Your Sex Code Language quiz at mylibidodoc.com/libido-code. About the Guest: *Rachel Dorneanu Expertise: Rachel Dorneanu (she/her) is a licensed therapist, AASECT- certified sex therapist, and board-certified coach specializing in Anxiety, HSPs, People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Sex Therapy, with a passion for helping people reconnect with their bodies, reduce shame, and find freedom in their wellness journey. She holds a Master's in Counseling and brings over 8 years of experience working with millennial women and moms.?Through her work as a therapist and coach, Rachel integrates evidence-based approaches with compassionate education to normalize topics often left in the dark—like pelvic pain, pleasure, and embodiment. She is known for her relatable, down-to-earth style and her ability to make complex or uncomfortable topics accessible and affirming.??Outside of her professional life, Rachel enjoys practicing yoga, spending time with her husband and 2 children, and traveling. Learn more at: www.sagecounselingtherapyandwellness.com or www.racheldorneanu.com https://SageCounselingTherapyAndWellness.com/ www.RachelDorneanu.com https://www.facebook.com/SageCounselingWellness https://www.instagram.com/sage_counseling_wellness/ https://www.tiktok.com/@sagecounselingwellness https://www.pinterest.com/SageCounselingWellness https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachel-butler-dorneanu/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/sage-counseling-wellness https://youtube.com/@sagecounselingandwellness https://www.amazon.com/shop/rachel_butler_counseling Intro to Sex Therapy Freebie https://sagecounselingtherapyandwellness.com/shop/ Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction and overview with Rachel Dorneanu 1:22 Orgasm through music and sexy sensitivity 2:11 Medical insights on highly sensitive brains 2:49 Deconstructing negative connotations of sensitivity 4:07 Impact of sensitivity on sexual experiences 5:45 Practical tips for partners and addressing gaslighting 8:05 Advocating for sensitivity needs and communication strategies 10:29 Sound sensitivity in intimacy and curiosity about partner's needs 13:06 Turn ons and turn offs for highly sensitive people 15:03 Hot Monogamy Society and mindfulness in intimacy 18:29 Sensory sensitivities, intimacy, and handling sound issues 21:00 Training partners and nervous system regulation 21:50 Sponsor: Lioness and Lexus 23:51 The window of tolerance and stress responses 25:50 Calming techniques, body awareness, and communication 27:35 Routine, novelty, and downstream effects of high sensitivity 29:00 Rachel Dorneanu's freebie and contact information 30:06 Product links and part two (0:00) Introduction and overview with Rachel Dorneanu (1:22) Orgasm through music and sexy sensitivity (2:11) Medical insights on highly sensitive brains (2:49) Deconstructing negative connotations of sensitivity (4:07) Impact of sensitivity on sexual experiences (5:45) Practical tips for partners and addressing gaslighting (8:05) Advocating for sensitivity needs and communication strategies (10:29) Sound sensitivity in intimacy and curiosity about partner's needs (13:06) Turn ons and turn offs for highly sensitive people (15:03) Hot Monogamy Society and mindfulness in intimacy (18:29) Sensory sensitivities, intimacy, and handling sound issues (21:00) Training partners and nervous system regulation (21:50) Sponsor: Lioness and Lexus (23:51) The window of tolerance and stress responses (25:50) Calming techniques, body awareness, and communication (27:35) Routine, novelty, and downstream effects of high sensitivity (29:00) Rachel Dorneanu's freebie and contact information (30:06) Product links and part two preview (30:57) Subscribe, share, and closing remarks

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  • May 28 · 32 min

    Feel Sexy Again In Bed and In Your Own Skin with Rebecca Whitman

    If you've tried everything and your bedroom is still quiet, this episode is going to feel like someone finally said the thing out loud. You'll walk away understanding why focusing on your partner's behavior is actually what's keeping you stuck and what you can start doing today that's entirely within your own control. If you're ready to stop waiting and start shifting, grab the free "Yes, No, Maybe Checklist" at mylibidodoc.com/yesnomaybe, it's a small, low-pressure step you and your partner can do together tonight. About the Guest: *Rebecca Whitman Expertise: Rebecca Whitman, the Abundance Mentor, an international best-selling author, graduated with honors from Princeton University. She received the awards of Mindset Coach of the Decade and Empowered Woman of the Year by International Association of Top Professionals. “USA Today” rated her in the top 5 entrepreneurs to watch in 2024.? ?Host of the top 1% globally ranked “Balanced, Beautiful, and Abundant” podcast that won the Positive Change Award. Her philosophy divides life into 7 Pillars of Abundance which include: spiritual, physical, emotional, romantic, mental, social, and financial. She coaches people to achieve alignment within these seven areas, so they can experience a life of joy and freedom. Http://pillar.io/rebeccaewhitman Balanced Beautiful Bundle: https://link.meetyourva.co/widget/form/MlMHCyc0SlifQJIduDPS Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction and Rebecca Whitman’s romantic challenges 3:00 Rebecca’s journey to finding her soulmate 6:20 What it means to be "romantically challenged" 7:11 The four A's of transformation 10:23 Applying the four A's to performance anxiety 11:49 Acceptance and its role in personal growth 14:18 Effective use of affirmations 16:28 Self-interest and improving relationships 19:09 Affirmations vs. limiting beliefs 22:39 Creating personalized affirmations 24:29 Working on multiple pillars of abundance 27:33 Applying success across life pillars 27:42 Scheduling intimacy and social interactions 28:50 Framework for daily, weekly, and interconnected activities 28:57 Sponsor: Balanced Beautiful Bundle 30:13 Rebecca Whitman’s mentorship programs 31:06 Closing strategies and final encouragement 31:27 Subscribe, share, and where to find Dr. Diane Mueller online (0:00) Introduction and Rebecca Whitman’s romantic challenges (3:00) Rebecca’s journey to finding her soulmate (6:20) What it means to be "romantically challenged" (7:11) The four A's of transformation (10:23) Applying the four A's to performance anxiety (11:49) Acceptance and its role in personal growth (14:18) Effective use of affirmations (16:28) Self-interest and improving relationships (19:09) Affirmations vs. limiting beliefs (22:39) Creating personalized affirmations (24:29) Working on multiple pillars of abundance (27:33) Applying success across life pillars (27:42) Scheduling intimacy and social interactions (28:50) Framework for daily, weekly, and interconnected activities (28:57) Sponsor: Balanced Beautiful Bundle (30:13) Rebecca Whitman’s mentorship programs (31:06) Closing strategies and final encouragement (31:27) Subscribe, share, and where to find Dr. Diane Mueller online

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  • May 21 · 27 min

    Why He Can't Stay Hard (And How To Actually Fix This) with Jeff Nuziard

    You've been lying there wondering if this is just... what marriage becomes now — and that quiet resignation is the most unfair thing, because this episode makes the case that what's happening in your body has a name, a mechanism, and a 97% fix rate. You'll understand, maybe for the first time, that the slowdown isn't about attraction or effort — it's about collagen, blood flow, and testosterone shifts that started in your 30s without anyone warning you. If you want to understand what's actually going on in your body before your next appointment, take Dr. Diane's free "Why Is My Desire Low?" quiz at mylibidodoc.com/freebies — it covers both the physical and emotional side and points you toward real solutions. About the Guest: *Jeff Nuziard Expertise: Jeff Nuziard is the founder of Sexual Wellness Centers of America and the innovator of REGENmax®, the only patented protocol proven to cure and prevent erectile and vaginal dysfunction. More than 3,000 patients have completed the program, with outcomes that consistently reflect the remarkable 97.2% success rate first demonstrated in his clinical trial.??His work began with personal experience. At 40, Jeff faced erectile dysfunction himself and found that pills eventually stopped working. Instead of accepting decline as inevitable, he approached the problem differently. Free from the confines of traditional medical training, he asked questions others weren’t asking, which led to 15 years of digging into white papers, conducting cadaver studies, and testing ideas with physicians willing to challenge convention. His persistence paid off: Jeff uncovered why dysfunction happens, why standard treatments fail, and how a multi-layered protocol could restore natural function and prevent decline before it begins. In recognition of this work, he was later awarded an honorary PhD. https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeff-nuziard-24930920b/ https://www.instagram.com/regenmax_ed/?igsh=MTRhdHZuZThmYzFwbQ%3D%3D https://www.facebook.com/people/REGENmax/61557429745690/ https://regenmax.com/ Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction and Jeff Nuziard’s background with erectile dysfunction 1:31 Age-related sexual dysfunction and common misconceptions 4:39 The role of testosterone, collagen, and discovering root causes 11:12 Development of new protocols and laser treatments 14:49 Addressing root causes of sexual dysfunction 15:02 Introduction of the LUXIS device for sexual wellness 17:22 Importance of pelvic floor health 21:02 Accessing resources and preview of part two 23:58 Understanding "sexual dysfunction" and its impact on men 24:58 Encouraging men to seek help with age-related changes 25:35 Introduction of the Lioness device for tracking female orgasms 26:16 Further resources, part two, and closing remarks 26:48 Connecting with Dr. Diane Mueller (0:00) Introduction and Jeff Nuziard’s background with erectile dysfunction (1:31) Age-related sexual dysfunction and common misconceptions (4:39) The role of testosterone, collagen, and discovering root causes (11:12) Development of new protocols and laser treatments (14:49) Addressing root causes of sexual dysfunction (15:02) Introduction of the LUXIS device for sexual wellness (17:22) Importance of pelvic floor health (21:02) Accessing resources and preview of part two (23:58) Understanding "sexual dysfunction" and its impact on men (24:58) Encouraging men to seek help with age-related changes (25:35) Introduction of the Lioness device for tracking female orgasms (26:16) Further resources, part two, and closing remarks (26:48) Connecting with Dr. Diane Mueller

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  • May 14 · 20 min

    He Lost His Drive. Is It His Testosterone? with Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, MD, MBA, FACS

    You've watched him pull away and wondered if something is actually wrong with his body — and you were right to wonder. Dr. Arthur Burnett, Johns Hopkins urologist, breaks down exactly what testosterone does (and doesn't) do for men's drive, erections, and mood — and why a basic blood test isn't the whole picture. If your husband has quietly gone cold and neither of you knows why, take the free "Why Is My Drive Low?" quiz at mylibidodoc.com/libido-quiz — it takes three minutes and points you toward real answers. About the Guest: *Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, MD, MBA, FACS Expertise: Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, MD, MBA, FACS is a globally recognized Johns Hopkins urologist, researcher, and educator whose pioneering work in men’s health and erectile function has transformed care worldwide. Dr. Burnett's website: https://drarthurburnett.com/ For interviews, commentary, speaking engagements, or professional inquiries, listeners are encouraged to visit Manifest Greatness Media at https://manifestgreatnessmedia.com/contact/ to get in touch or contact Dr. Burnett directly through his website at https://drarthurburnett.com Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction, hormones, and testosterone's link to libido 1:19 Testosterone's effects on libido, cognition, and physical function 3:30 Testosterone replacement therapy: effectiveness and considerations 4:55 When and why to test testosterone levels 5:54 Testosterone and erectile dysfunction 7:16 Lab tests recommended for testosterone evaluation 9:17 Treatment options and delivery methods for testosterone 14:48 Lifestyle factors affecting testosterone therapy (0:00) Introduction, hormones, and testosterone's link to libido (1:19) Testosterone's effects on libido, cognition, and physical function (3:30) Testosterone replacement therapy: effectiveness and considerations (4:55) When and why to test testosterone levels (5:54) Testosterone and erectile dysfunction (7:16) Lab tests recommended for testosterone evaluation (9:17) Treatment options and delivery methods for testosterone (14:48) Lifestyle factors affecting testosterone therapy

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  • May 7 · 22 min

    Why She Goes Cold When You Try to Flirt with Maureen Pound

    If you've stopped flirting with your partner because it never lands — or you feel like you need a manual just to send a text — you're not broken, and neither is she. In this episode, you'll learn why a non-response to a flirty message isn't rejection, and how to read the real signal so you stop pulling back at exactly the wrong moment. And when things do start moving again, make sure you're set up for success — grab Dr. Diane's free Lube Guide at mylibidodoc.com/lube-guide, because not all lube is created equal and the wrong one can kill the mood before it starts. About the Guest: *Maureen Pound Expertise: Maureen Pound is committed to supporting people with sex, relationships and money. ??From her dating book where she provides practical steps for men to connect with women for fun or relationships to her viral TikTok videos where she shares how she became a millionaire and what women do wrong during sex. ??She is said the things that people are thinking but too afraid to say. http://howtogetlaidontinder.com/ Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction, Maureen Pound’s background, and today’s topic 3:02 Maureen’s research and writing her book 4:01 Key learnings from Maureen’s book 7:07 Compliments and their impact in relationships 9:46 Communicating sexual desires with specificity 10:42 Mistakes men make when initiating sexting 12:20 Tips for sexting in long-term relationships 15:00 How to handle receiving a sext 17:20 Responding to sexts when feeling unsure 19:41 Managing sexting amidst a busy day 21:22 Preview of part two and concluding thoughts (0:00) Introduction, Maureen Pound’s background, and today’s topic (3:02) Maureen’s research and writing her book (4:01) Key learnings from Maureen’s book (7:07) Compliments and their impact in relationships (9:46) Communicating sexual desires with specificity (10:42) Mistakes men make when initiating sexting (12:20) Tips for sexting in long-term relationships (15:00) How to handle receiving a sext (17:20) Responding to sexts when feeling unsure (19:41) Managing sexting amidst a busy day (21:22) Preview of part two and concluding thoughts

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  • April 30 · 19 min

    She Never Finishes. He Finishes Too Fast. Here's Why With Dr. Diane Mueller

    She's been faking it. He's been finishing too fast. And neither of you has said it out loud yet. After this episode, you'll understand the exact arousal technique that trains your body to build longer, reach deeper, and actually close the gap — for both of you, using the same method. If you want to go further, take Dr. Diane's free Orgasm Perception Quiz at https://mylibidodoc.com/orgasmic-perception-questionnaire/ — many women are already having orgasms and don't know it. (0:00) Introduction, welcome, and importance of sexual satisfaction (1:15) Addressing the orgasm gap, desire mismatch, and oxytocin's role (3:18) Trust adaptation and its impact on relationships (4:31) Benefits of regular sex for health and relationships (5:16) Ancient Chinese sexual practices for health (6:27) Invitation to take the libido quiz (7:10) The arousal scale for men and women (8:55) Techniques for men to last longer and women to enhance orgasm (13:06) Importance of blood flow and genital health (14:03) Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan (16:34) Holistic approach to improving sexual health (17:57) Lifelong sexual activity and maintaining genital health (18:36) Invitation for feedback and guest recommendations (18:56) Outro and contact information

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  • April 23 · 27 min

    She's Not Broken. He Just Doesn't Know How Yet with Dr. Saida Désilets & Aaron Michael

    If sex has started to feel like something that works for him and not really for you or you're the one quietly wondering why she never seems to get there you're not broken, and you're not alone. In this episode, Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael reveal why the orgasm gap has almost nothing to do with effort and everything to do with a system nobody taught you including why lasting longer actually means feeling more, not less. Take the free Orgasm Perception Quiz at mylibidodoc.com/orgasmic-perception-questionnaire to find out what your body might already be doing that you're missing. About the Guest: *Dr. Saida Désilets & Aaron Michael Expertise: Dr. Saida Désilets wants to live in a world filled with audacious, sexually sovereign people, living life on their own terms. As a Tedx speaker, counter-culture creatrix, and author, her scientifically proven work on sexual sovereignty globally impacts professionals and the public. When not facilitating transformational programs, Dr. Saida enjoys leading Wilderness Safaris in South Africa and swimming in the Aegean Sea. Aaron Michael is your coach’s coach, helping others discover, explore and integrate their sex life by providing a no BS, pleasure-based sex education. He’s the author of medical & therapeutic protocols, the book Optimal Sex Life, creator of Bedroom Masterclass, and Founder of SuctionSexTM—an Enactive Sexual method that’s changing how the world makes love and how sex therapy and coaching is done. YeahFap.com 9NaughtyNights.com AwakenSensualWoman.com EmbodiedLoveUniversity.com Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction, orgasm gap statistics, and guest welcome 1:14 The orgasm gap and intimacy 2:26 Defining and understanding the orgasm gap 3:07 Orgasm rates and relationship status 4:22 Root causes of the orgasm gap 5:34 Pleasure anatomy and mutual pleasure 7:00 Misconceptions about lasting longer 10:33 Overview of the AFAP program 14:23 Motivation, performance anxiety, and breaking the cycle 15:46 Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's penis pumps 17:44 Strategies to address performance anxiety 20:30 Active receivers and adaptive givers 21:38 Mental arousal and psychological triggers 22:10 Phases of engorgement and sexual response 23:48 Clever cock and clever pussy concepts 24:27 Preview of part two and upcoming topics 25:07 Techniques for deeper connection and couple’s toys 26:05 Free resources, Embodied Love University, and foundational videos 26:56 Closing remarks, appreciation, and reminders (0:00) Introduction, orgasm gap statistics, and guest welcome (1:14) The orgasm gap and intimacy (2:26) Defining and understanding the orgasm gap (3:07) Orgasm rates and relationship status (4:22) Root causes of the orgasm gap (5:34) Pleasure anatomy and mutual pleasure (7:00) Misconceptions about lasting longer (10:33) Overview of the AFAP program (14:23) Motivation, performance anxiety, and breaking the cycle (15:46) Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's penis pumps (17:44) Strategies to address performance anxiety (20:30) Active receivers and adaptive givers (21:38) Mental arousal and psychological triggers (22:10) Phases of engorgement and sexual response (23:48) Clever cock and clever pussy concepts (24:27) Preview of part two and upcoming topics (25:07) Techniques for deeper connection and couple’s toys (26:05) Free resources, Embodied Love University, and foundational videos (26:56) Closing remarks, appreciation, and reminders

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  • April 16 · 24 min

    We Never Said What Cheating Was — And That Was the Problem with Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S

    You've been stewing over something your partner did — or maybe you're the one who did something and keeps telling yourself it didn't count — and either way, nobody in this marriage ever actually wrote the rules down. After listening, you'll understand that most betrayals don't start with a choice to cheat; they start with two people who assumed their definitions of "faithful" were the same without ever checking. If this episode made you want to start rebuilding that physical connection, Dr. Diane's free video e-book gives you a step-by-step strategy to get there — grab it at mylibidodoc.com/libido-video-ebook. About the Guest: *Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S. Expertise: Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S., is a therapist-turned-relationship coach, writer, and speaker whose work centers on love, desire, and authenticity. Courtney is the author of Not Tonight Honey and Opened. She has been featured in The New York Post, Cosmopolitan, The Huffington Post, and BBC Radio Live. Drawing on her background in mental health and sex therapy, she brings a unique blend of professional expertise and lived experience to conversations around relationships and identity. When she isn’t writing or coaching, Courtney can be found chasing joy—traveling, reading, or savoring delicious coffee and deep conversation. She is passionate about helping women break free from shame, reclaim their bodies and voices, and create relationships rooted in honesty and autonomy.?Courtney lives in Germany with her husband and three children, where she is still learning, unlearning, and writing the next chapter of her story. https://linktr.ee/coachcourtneyboyer https://tr.ee/2ofFKmEhSK Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction and overview of infidelity with Courtney Boyer 2:43 Misunderstandings, definitions, and emotional responses to infidelity 5:17 Assessing motivation and investment in repairing relationships 7:14 First steps: Creating emotional safety after infidelity 8:28 The role of initial agreements and assumptions in monogamy 11:29 Navigating conversations about boundaries and agreements 17:35 Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's penis pumps 19:30 Setting up successful conversations and maintaining emotional safety 22:33 Preview of part two and communicating boundaries 23:11 Courtney Boyer's free resources and pleasure practices 24:04 Encouragement to explore Courtney Boyer's work 24:18 Farewell, subscribe reminder, and how to connect with Dr. Diane Mueller (0:00) Introduction and overview of infidelity with Courtney Boyer (2:43) Misunderstandings, definitions, and emotional responses to infidelity (5:17) Assessing motivation and investment in repairing relationships (7:14) First steps: Creating emotional safety after infidelity (8:28) The role of initial agreements and assumptions in monogamy (11:29) Navigating conversations about boundaries and agreements (17:35) Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's penis pumps (19:30) Setting up successful conversations and maintaining emotional safety (22:33) Preview of part two and communicating boundaries (23:11) Courtney Boyer's free resources and pleasure practices (24:04) Encouragement to explore Courtney Boyer's work (24:18) Farewell, subscribe reminder, and how to connect with Dr. Diane Mueller

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