The Dildorks

Billy Lore, Kate Sloan

Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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491 episodes
Updated July 28
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Apr 29, 2025 · 42 min
Leather Whenever
This week, Kate chats with friend of the show Addison Finch about the ritual and reverence of bootblacking, and what we can learn about our current political moment from studying the history of kink.
Apr 22, 2025 · 1 hr 3 min
Blaze of Gloryhole
As is tradition, this week we celebrate 4/20 by getting intoxicated and answering silly hypothetical questions about sex.
Apr 15, 2025 · 56 min
Who, What, Where, & When?
Whether you prefer to plan dates or have them planned for you, a date’s location or activity can play a big role in how well it goes – so this week we discuss how to successfully plan early dates with a new person.
Apr 8, 2025 · 1 hr 2 min
Put Your Best Tit Forward
Lots of people like to incorporate multimedia into their sexting, so this week we discuss the benefits of sending voice memos and provocative pictures, among other things.
Mar 25, 2025 · 1 hr 1 min
Textual Healing
This week we discuss some of our favorite things about sexting – like how it can build rapport, establish compatibility, and even increase your empathy.
Mar 18, 2025 · 52 min
Ask Me (Almost) Anything
This week, we answer more questions about asking questions – including questions that can help you suss out somebody’s politics or kinks, negotiate safer sex protocols, and (maybe) call the whole thing off.
Mar 11, 2025 · 52 min
And How About You?
Diving deeper into our recent discussion on how curiosity is sexy, this week we discuss the practice of asking questions on dates: why it matters, why it’s hot, and what kinds of questions we like to ask and be asked.
Mar 4, 2025 · 58 min
Dating While Taken
Polyamorous dating can be pretty different depending on whether you’re single versus in a long-term relationship already; this week we discuss our experiences of both kinds.
Feb 25, 2025 · 56 min
Fetishes Are Fabulous
This week we’re discussing some interesting and unusual fetishes we’ve stumbled across recently, from glossy magazines to nail-biting to haircutting.
Feb 18, 2025 · 56 min
Tell Me More
This week we discuss two crucial qualities that can make you exponentially better in bed (and out of bed, too): curiosity and creativity.
Feb 11, 2025 · 55 min
Pleasure Under Pressure
Pursuing pleasure isn’t always as easy as it may seem, so this week we’re discussing some common hurdles to pleasure and how to overcome them, among other things.
Feb 4, 2025 · 55 min
Please Please Me
When times get tough, pleasure becomes more important than ever. This week, we discuss our favorite ways of accessing pleasure, and the role it plays in our lives, both in and out of the bedroom.
Jan 28, 2025 · 59 min
Flip the Script
This week we’re continuing to discuss some of our favorite films about the LGBTQ+ experience – plus a few about non-monogamy and sex work, for good measure!
Jan 21, 2025 · 53 min
Queens on the Silver Screen
We needed a dose of queer resilience this week (maybe you do too!), so we’re talking about some of our favorite queer films and the evolution of LGBTQ+ cinema.
Jan 14, 2025 · 1 hr 11 min
Tell Me What You Want, What You Really Really Want
This week we get real vulnerable (and a li’l intoxicated) and tell you about some of our favorite new fantasies from 2024, the goals we set for our sex lives last year, and what we want to try in 2025.
Jan 7, 2025 · 56 min
Long Story Short
How did you grow and change in 2024 when it comes to sex and relationships? This week, we’re reflecting on our biggest (and kinkiest) shifts over the past year, plus discussing our current favorite sex toys.
Dec 17, 2024 · 58 min
Leave a Message At the Tone
Vocal tone can have a big effect on kink scenes and everyday conversations alike, so this week we’re discussing our feelings on voices and dirty talk.
Dec 10, 2024 · 52 min
One Singular Sensation
People are always coming up with new and interesting fetishes, and this week we discuss some unusual ones we’ve seen lately.
Dec 3, 2024 · 1 hr 10 min
Access Denied
This week, a conversation about denial kink devolves into a wide-ranging discussion of gendered sex narratives, the kinky legacies of trauma, and the Big Nut.
Nov 26, 2024 · 56 min
Hello, Stranger
What if celebrity crushes can be healthy, actually? This week, we discuss some of the benefits of parasocial relationships, for people on both sides of the slash.