The Dildorks

Billy Lore, Kate Sloan

Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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491 episodes
Updated July 28
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March 3 · 51 min
Words of Jizzdom
Giving advice can get tricky when you’re polyamorous (or just prone to messy romantic drama), so this week we’re offering more advice on giving advice!
February 24 · 44 min
Penny For Your Thoughts?
We love giving advice, so this week we’re advising you on advising – how and when to give helpful advice, the best ways to ask for it, and the common mistakes we’ve made in these areas.
February 17 · 46 min
How F*cking Romantic!
Happy (belated) Valentine’s Day! This week we celebrated by answering listener questions about love and romance.
February 10 · 55 min
Making an Impact
We used to talk about spanking all the time, but is it still one of our favorite kinks? This week we discuss our current feelings on impact play!
February 3 · 1 hr 2 min
Flirt Alert!
This week, we chat with dating coach/columnist (and former pickup artist) Harris O’Malley, a.k.a. Doctor Nerdlove, whose work we’ve admired for a long time! He gave us some advice on flirting, dating, conversational skills, and more.
January 27 · 43 min
Yearn, Baby, Yearn
Romantic yearning can be deeply painful, but it’s also kinda hot and fun. This week we discuss our experiences with this unique emotion in contexts like long-distance relationships and unrequited love.
January 20 · 56 min
New Queers' Resolutions
This week, we discuss our favorite sexual fantasies of 2025, the sex & dating goals we set for ourselves last year, and our new goals for 2026.
January 13 · 51 min
Take It From the Top
Happy new year! This week we’re reflecting on the biggest changes in our sex & dating lives in 2025, the sex toys we loved most, and the weirdest sex we had all year.
Dec 24, 2025 · 45 min
Gag Gift
Happy holidays to those celebrating! We’re discussing objectification kink again this week, through a seasonal lens.
Dec 16, 2025 · 52 min
An Object Lesson
What does it mean to be ‘objectified’ in a kink scene, and how is that different from the other, less-hot ways one can be objectified? This week we’re discussing the nuances of this complex kink.
Dec 9, 2025 · 48 min
Working Out the Kinks
This week we dive deeper into kinky-on-vanilla relationships, discussing how to tell if someone might be vanilla, how to explore kink outside of a newly-opened relationship, and whether fantasy and porn can be good substitutes for IRL kink.
Dec 2, 2025 · 48 min
Vivaciously Vanilla
Can a kinkster be truly satisfied dating a vanilla person, and vice-versa? This week we discuss bridging the gap between kinky and vanilla partners!
Nov 25, 2025 · 47 min
Bewitched, Bruised, & Bewildered
Can it be romantic to get spanked, stepped on, and bossed around? Absolutely! This week, Billy interviews Kate about how her submissiveness is deeply entangled with her romantic desires.
Nov 18, 2025 · 45 min
Sexy Eccentrics
This week we’ve got a whole new batch of interesting fetishes from Reddit to discuss, from trees to heavy metal music to illusionists.
Nov 11, 2025 · 52 min
Full of Yourself
What is self-confidence and why does it matter? This week, we’re unpacking what it means to feel confident, why it’s hot, and how to cultivate it.
Nov 4, 2025 · 58 min
Straight to the Point
This week we continue our discussion of heterosexual culture, discussing straight wedding traditions, gender reveal parties, the kinkification of straight gender roles, and more.
Oct 28, 2025 · 53 min
Set the Record Straight
To celebrate Halloween, this week we’re discussing some of the scarier aspects of heterosexual culture!
Oct 21, 2025 · 56 min
We Good?
Regularly-scheduled “check-in” conversations are one way to keep a relationship strong – so this week, we discuss our favorite ways of checking in, and how we manage anxiety that may come up around it.
Oct 14, 2025 · 54 min
Gender & the City
This week, Kate and mb interview the brilliant Tuck Woodstock, host of the Gender Reveal podcast and co-editor of the hilarious new anthology Sex Change and the City! We couldn’t help but wonder: Does Sex and the City ‘hold up’ for modern viewers, especially queer and trans ones?
Oct 7, 2025 · 52 min
Sweet Sweet Service
How has our relationship to service kink changed as we’ve gotten older, done more therapy, and moved in with our partners? This week we discuss our currently thoughts and feelings on service.