The Dildorks

Billy Lore, Kate Sloan

Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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491 episodes
Updated July 28
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Nov 19, 2024 · 56 min
Nuttin' in Common
This week Kate and her spouse mb discuss the politics and philosophy of No Nut November, and how it compares to chastity play.
Nov 12, 2024 · 57 min
You Don't Know Me, But...
We’ve experienced parasocial relationships from both sides of the coin, so this week we’re discussing our experiences with this sometimes-nice, sometimes-yikes type of attraction.
Oct 29, 2024 · 55 min
Phantasms & Fantasies
Happy Halloween! This week we’re discussing our favorite fantasies outside the realm of realism.
Oct 22, 2024 · 49 min
Wand-ering Down Memory Lane
We’re taking the week off, so here’s the full, previously-unreleased conversation we had when Kate interviewed Billy for Making Magic in September of last year! We touched on the Magic Wand’s role in queer sex, trans sex, porn, kink, and our lives as a whole.
Oct 15, 2024 · 52 min
Are You Mad At Me?
This week, we dig deeper into the fear of rejection, sharing some ways we cope with this fear in our own lives and discussing how cultural and hormonal factors can influence it.
Oct 8, 2024 · 1 hr 1 min
The Brush-Off Blues
Halloween is coming up, so we decided to talk about fear… of rejection! Fear Fluctuations | Self-Soothing | Vulnerability Points | Pandemic Changes | Building Resiliency | What Are We Afraid Of? | Scarcity Mindset | “Hey, Fuck You!” | Rejecting vs. Rejected | “Beggars Can’t Be Choosers” | Guilt vs. Shame | Non-Monogamy | Rejection-Sensitive Dysphoria | Vote for Making Magic! Credits: Music by PROTODOME Artwork by Addison Finch Become a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.
Oct 1, 2024 · 55 min
We Heart Sadists!
Sadists get a bad rap sometimes, so this week we’re discussing some of the things we love about them.
Sep 24, 2024 · 1 hr 2 min
Eat Me, Drink Me
This week Billy chats with his partner, Dee Darkholme, about their shared love of cannibalism kink.
Sep 17, 2024 · 59 min
Gender Splendor
Friend of the show Mx. Nillin Lore has a new book out called How Do I Sexy?: A Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers, so this week we spoke with them about trans sexuality, furries, body modifications, and more!
Sep 10, 2024 · 1 hr 3 min
Ready For Anything
This week, we discuss how we’d prepare for a first date, a threesome, a first sex/kink conference, and a new crush, in honor of National Preparedness Month.
Sep 3, 2024 · 1 hr 1 min
Service with a Smile
Can people-pleasers be into service kink? This week, we’re discussing our evolving relationships to providing and receiving service (sexual, domestic, and otherwise) within kink dynamics.
Aug 27, 2024 · 1 hr 7 min
The 400th One
Can you believe we’ve done 400 episodes?! This week, we look back at some of our old “hot takes” and see whether we still agree with them.
Aug 20, 2024 · 49 min
The Vore, The Merrier
Vore is one of the most interesting and fantastical kinks out there, and this week we’re doing a deep-dive on it while continuing to discuss animated porn.
Aug 14, 2024 · 51 min
A Flirtation with Animation
Is animated porn as hot as “the real thing”? Sometimes it’s even hotter! This week we’re discussing what animated porn can do that live-action porn can’t, and the elements we most love to see in these clips.
Aug 6, 2024 · 1 hr 14 min
Ghost in the Machine
Ghosting may not be the most mature way to end things with someone, but it does happen – so this week we’re discussing the ethics of ghosting, and offering our best advice for people on both sides of this practice.
Jul 30, 2024 · 53 min
Pretty Little Head
Intelligence play, such as bimbofication, is an edgy-yet-intriguing kink for many people – so this week we’re discussing our own feelings about it, and about intelligence in general.
Jul 23, 2024 · 1 hr 7 min
Tongue-in-Cheek
This week we’re diving deeper into our discussion of kissing, covering common issues people have with making out, like finding tongues gross or not knowing what to say between kisses.
Jul 16, 2024 · 58 min
Lip-Lock Talk
Kissing is hot, and can tell you a lot about a person. This week we’re answering listener questions about making out.
Jul 9, 2024 · 56 min
Shock, Horror!
We're continuing our discussion on emotional sadomasochism this week, covering hypnosis, negotiation, mid-scene troubleshooting, and how to subvert harmful experiences into hot scenes.
Jul 2, 2024 · 58 min
When Hard Feelings Make You Hard
Sadomasochism isn’t just physical – many kinksters play with pain and discomfort in the emotional and psychological realms, too. This week we’re discussing the art of emotional S&M!