The Dildorks

Billy Lore, Kate Sloan

Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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491 episodes
Updated July 28
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Jun 25, 2024 · 1 hr 3 min
At First Blush
Why are first times so hot? This week we’re interrogating our feelings on first times, both real and roleplayed.
Jun 18, 2024 · 1 hr 8 min
You Asked, We Rambled
We’re answering listener questions this week about rimming, condoms, masturbation, fetishes, and more!
Jun 11, 2024 · 54 min
Sure, Why Not?
This week Billy talks with his partner Dee Darkholme about some of the unusual kinks and dynamics that have emerged in their relationship.
Jun 4, 2024 · 1 hr 4 min
Giving Good Hole
This week we’re chatting with the brilliant author and podcaster Tina Horn about her new book, Why Are People Into That?: A Cultural Investigation of Kink!
May 30, 2024 · 25 min
What Makes the Magic Wand So Magic?
Here's the first episode of Kate's podcast miniseries on the Magic Wand, Making Magic!
May 21, 2024 · 53 min
Just Like Magic
Kate’s about to launch a project she’s been working on for a year, a podcast miniseries about the Magic Wand called Making Magic: How the Magic Wand Became the World’s Most Famous Vibrator. This week, we talk about the series and how it all happened!
May 14, 2024 · 54 min
Switching Things Up
Changes in your kinky power dynamic can be scary and destabilizing, but they can also be exciting, healing, and necessary. This week, we discuss shifts in power we’ve experienced within our own relationships, and how we navigate them.
May 7, 2024 · 59 min
Skilful Self-Love
Happy Masturbation Month! We’re celebrating by answering listener questions about jerking off.
Apr 30, 2024 · 46 min
Immerse Me, Queen
What do sex, kink, Michelin-star restaurants, Disney World, and Dungeons & Dragons have in common? This week we’re talking about the concept of immersiveness, and what we can learn about sex and kink from studying immersive experiences.
Apr 23, 2024 · 1 hr 4 min
Hard-Won Wisdom
What’s the best lesson you’ve ever learned about sex, dating, or masturbating? This week we’re celebrating Kate’s birthday by distilling some key pieces of wisdom we’ve learned on several of our favorite topics.
Apr 16, 2024 · 47 min
Come Fly With Me
Traveling with a partner can be magical, or it can be stressful as hell. This week, we’re discussing the pitfalls and best practices of taking trips with someone you’re dating.
Apr 10, 2024 · 1 hr 10 min
Standard Practice
What does it mean to have “high standards” or to be “too picky” in the realms of dating and sex? This week we’re talking about standards, boundaries, “leagues,” dealbreakers, and more.
Apr 2, 2024 · 55 min
A Huge Turn-On
There are a ton of ways that size differences can be eroticized, from age play to giantess porn to vore fantasies. This week, we share our thoughts and feelings on various forms of size kink.
Mar 26, 2024 · 1 hr 13 min
Art Smarts
This week we’re joined by Addison Finch, the artist who created our new logo! We talk with him about how the art came together, plus his work as a tattoo artist.
Mar 19, 2024 · 1 hr 4 min
That Escalated Quickly
Love doesn’t always lead to cohabitation, marriage, or kids, contrary to cultural norms – and that's fine! This week we had a giggly discussion about the “relationship escalator.”
Mar 12, 2024 · 1 hr 18 min
Messy Masculinity
Is porn addiction real? Is the NoFap community just a bunch of chastity fetishists? Are men okay? This week Kate chats with Kris Taylor, an academic from New Zealand who has studied porn addiction discourse and the NoFap movement, about all of the above and more.
Mar 6, 2024 · 1 hr 11 min
Commit to the Bit
Humor is a big component of our sex and kink, but it’s not always appropriate during scenes. This week we talk about how and when to deploy humor to improve your flirting, domming, or subbing.
Feb 27, 2024 · 1 hr
Porn Scorn
Watching porn while in a relationship can be more contentious than watching it while single; this week, we theorize on why that is, and answer listener questions about watching porn with partners.
Feb 20, 2024 · 57 min
Romantic Antics
With Valentine’s Day having just passed, this week we tried to figure out what “romance” actually is.
Feb 13, 2024 · 55 min
Buzzkill
What happens when a sex toy reviewer quits using vibrators? This week Kate and her spouse mb discuss her recent break from using vibes, the reasons for it, and the results of the experiment.