The Dildorks

Billy Lore, Kate Sloan

Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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491 episodes
Updated July 28
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Aug 29, 2023 · 1 hr 3 min
Smooth Move
This week we’re discussing “sex moves” that have been propagated by the internet, like the shocker, the rusty trombone, and the knee trick.
Aug 22, 2023 · 1 hr 8 min
Deal or No Deal?
This week we’re parsing the differences between limits, boundaries, and dealbreakers – and explaining some of our own rules in each category.
Aug 15, 2023 · 53 min
Seeing Red
We’re discussing safewords again this week, including how to know when to safeword, how to safeword if you tend to go non-verbal during scenes, and how doms and tops can safeword too.
Aug 8, 2023 · 1 hr
Just Say the Word
Safewords are an important tool for many kinksters, so this week we’re discussing what safewords are, when they’re useful, and some tips on how to use them well.
Aug 1, 2023 · 52 min
Selectively Social
Sure, we’re pretty sexual people, but are we social? This week we’re discussing our current thoughts on, and strategies for, socializing while the pandemic is still ongoing.
Jul 25, 2023 · 51 min
Sperminology
This week we’re discussing some more new-ish additions to the sex/kink lexicon, some of which we like and some of which we find baffling.
Jul 18, 2023 · 1 hr 8 min
Play on Words
This week, your two millennial cohosts debate and discuss the definitions of various sex/kink terms popularized by Gen Z.
Jul 11, 2023 · 56 min
Intimate Brutality
Billy just got back from kink camp (Dark Odyssey Fusion) as well as TES Fest, and this week he tells us about what it was like to do both of those kink events back-to-back.
Jul 4, 2023 · 1 hr 3 min
Cis & Tell
In light of Elon Musk recently declaring “cis” to be a slur on Twitter (it’s not), this week Kate is interviewed by her spouse mb about what it means to be cis and how her gender presentation has shifted over time.
Jun 27, 2023 · 52 min
Break the Bank
This week Kate chats with pro financial dominatrix and kinky comedian Lane Kwederis about findom and her one-woman show, Sex Job!
Jun 20, 2023 · 52 min
Tears for Queers
Crying can be hot, challenging, painful, cathartic, pleasurable, or all of the above. This week we’re talking about our current relationship to crying, in and out of scenes.
Jun 13, 2023 · 56 min
Brat Chat
Continuing our discussion of brats, “bad” subs, and “good” subs, this week we talk about how rebellion, humor, and colorful language can be worked into D/s scenes, among other things.
Jun 6, 2023 · 57 min
Bad to the Bone
Some submissives like to be “good,” some like to be “bad,” some like to be “bratty,” and some prefer a combination or like to mix things up. This week we discuss the motivations and manifestations of these various orientations to submission.
May 30, 2023 · 55 min
Gremlin Container
This week Billy is interviewed by his boyfriend Dee Darkholme about “free use” kink, a type of consensual non-consent… while planning a free use scene they’re gonna do after the recording!
May 23, 2023 · 1 hr 6 min
State of the Masturbation Nation
Happy Masturbation Month! This week we’re talking about our ever-evolving relationships to masturbation and how it all relates to self-love, self-compassion, and living a good life.
May 16, 2023 · 56 min
Mommy Dearest
This week we’re (belatedly) celebrating Mother’s Day by talking about mommy kink – plus a decent amount of daddy kink thrown in for good measure.
May 9, 2023 · 1 hr 4 min
Sublime Submission
We’re so excited this week to be chatting with Mollena Lee Williams-Haas, a kink educator, podcaster, author, and performer. We got into a fascinating discussion about how kink can help you reconnect with your body, deepen your intimacy, push your boundaries and heal from your trauma.
Apr 25, 2023 · 55 min
Going Under
This week Kate has a nerdy chat with Sleepingirl, an author, podcaster, and long-time hypnokinkster who has created numerous erotic hypnosis resources, including LearnHypnokink.com.
Apr 18, 2023 · 1 hr 12 min
Your Ass is Grass
It’s that time again: this week we’re celebrating 4/20 by getting blazed and answering “highpothetical” questions about sex and kink! Tune in for a jam-packed, silly discussion of questions like “Would you want to be able to read your partner’s mind during sex?” and “What one kink implement would you take on a desert island?”
Apr 11, 2023 · 1 hr 4 min
Facials, Furries, & Fingering
This week we’re answering random sex advice questions, like: Is it hotter to wear a suit, or sweatpants? How can you enjoy sex when you’re trying not to come? And does jerking off to Lola Bunny make you a furry?