The Dildorks

Billy Lore, Kate Sloan

Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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491 episodes
Updated July 28
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Apr 4, 2023 · 1 hr 7 min
Horny Story Lore
This week Billy is joined by his partner, Dee Darkholme, for a nerdy discussion of kinky roleplay: how characters get developed, which characters and tropes come up most often in their relationship, and how to make roles feel natural and authentic.
Mar 28, 2023 · 1 hr 1 min
Constructive Cliticism
We’ve both reviewed a LOT of sex toys, so this week we’re talking about the intricacies of sex toy reviewing: what makes a good review, how we test toys, and how readers can find reviewers whose opinions they trust.
Mar 21, 2023 · 56 min
Living on the Edge
Edging and denial go together very well, and this week we’re talking about both: why they can be fun, why they can be annoying and difficult, and how to do them well as a top and as a bottom.
Mar 14, 2023 · 1 hr 4 min
Mental Help
Depression can put a strain on relationships, but it doesn’t have to! This week we’re talking to our friend JoEllen Notte, an author and mental health advocate, about her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends & Family.
Mar 7, 2023 · 54 min
Thanks, I Hate It
Sometimes. paradoxically, it’s fun to suffer! This week we’re talking about suffering in a kink context: why we (sometimes) like it, how to do it safely, and how it differs from plain ol’ sadomasochism.
Feb 28, 2023 · 58 min
Not Now, Honey
It can be embarrassing (or hot! or both!) to come at the “wrong” time. This week we’re talking about inopportunely-timed orgasms, why they can be sexy as hell, and how to navigate any shame or awkwardness they might trigger.
Feb 21, 2023 · 1 hr 6 min
Role Me Over
Roleplay is a big part of both our sex/kink lives, but what does it actually mean to play a role? This week we’re diving into the intricacies of playing a character in scenes.
Feb 14, 2023 · 1 hr
Roses Are Red, Etc.
Happy Valentine’s Day to all who celebrate! This week we’re discussing the pros and cons of this “Hallmark holiday” and answering listener questions about Valentine’s celebrations.
Feb 7, 2023 · 1 hr 3 min
Sanitize Me Daddy
Even though we both make sex media, we’ve both felt pressured to “sanitize” what we do from time to time. This week we discuss professionalism, personas, posting nudes on main, and other aspects of this balancing act.
Jan 31, 2023 · 1 hr 6 min
Hate 2 Date
Why are dating apps so bad?! This week, we discuss some of our issues with dating apps and (maybe) some ways to work around these problems.
Jan 24, 2023 · 58 min
Yeet Those Teets
Billy’s partner Dee Darkholme just got top surgery, so this week, the two of them discuss the process of deciding to get it, what the actual procedure was like, and how recovery has been.
Jan 17, 2023 · 52 min
Anal Ambitions
We both want to do more butt stuff this year, so in this episode we discuss our experiences with anal play, our reasons for wanting more of it, and our tips for doing it well.
Jan 10, 2023 · 1 hr 1 min
What's Next in Sex?
What did we accomplish sexually in 2022, and what are our sex & kink goals for 2023? This week we’re discussing all that, plus our best sex sessions of the year.
Jan 3, 2023 · 50 min
A Hole New Year
Happy new year! This week we’re reflecting on our sex/kink/dating lives in 2022: new things we tried, new toys we enjoyed, new fantasies we couldn’t stop thinking about, etc.
Dec 6, 2022 · 1 hr 6 min
Come Here Often?
This week we had a wide-ranging discussion about “picking people up,” pickup artists, social skills, the ethics of seduction, building confidence, and more.
Nov 29, 2022 · 56 min
Shop Til You Top
How do you find kink implements that are both practical and pretty? This week we’re sharing our best tips for kink toy shopping, as well as sex toy storage.
Nov 22, 2022 · 1 hr 7 min
Buysexual
This week we offer our best advice on shopping for sex toys, interspersed with some anecdotes about our wacky days working in sex toy retail.
Nov 15, 2022 · 59 min
A Stroke of Genius
Is it safe to use a banana, an electric toothbrush, or a wooden spoon as a sex toy? This week, we’re discussing makeshift and homemade “sex toys”!
Nov 8, 2022 · 56 min
Get Revved Up
Not everyone gets horny in the same way or at the same pace! This week we’re discussing the difference between responsive desire and spontaneous desire, and how to be respectful of your partner’s desire style even if it differs from yours.
Nov 1, 2022 · 1 hr 3 min
Tough Talks
Navigating conflict is one of the trickiest parts of being in a relationship, so this week we’re discussing our best tools and techniques for having hard conversations with loved ones.