The Dildorks

Billy Lore, Kate Sloan

Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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491 episodes
Updated July 28
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May 31, 2022 · 55 min
The Hair Down There
People have a lot of feelings about body hair, so this week we thought we’d discuss pubes, armpit hair and leg hair: our feelings about them, our removal tips, and how we incorporate them (or don’t) into our sex lives.
May 24, 2022 · 58 min
Tickle the Ivories
This week Bex interviews Kate about her other creative outlet besides writing about sex: writing songs (including songs about sex!). We discuss the songwriting process and how it relates to kink, porn, and sex education, as well as what it’s like to write and perform vulnerable songs about one’s own sexuality.
May 17, 2022 · 48 min
Boy Juice
Bex’s partner Ashe recently celebrated 6 months on testosterone, and Bex has been on it for 5 years – so this week the two of them sat down to chat about their experiences on T.
May 10, 2022 · 50 min
If You Want Something Done Right...
We’re talking about masturbation again this week! Tune in to hear us answer listener questions about solo sex.
May 3, 2022 · 52 min
Wank You Very Much
Happy Masturbation Month! This week we’re answering complex questions from listeners about the logistics and ethics of masturbation.
Apr 26, 2022 · 52 min
Money Honey
Ever enjoyed spending money on someone, or being spoiled by someone? This week we’re discussing financial domination: why it’s hot, how to do it (with or without actual cash), and what kinks it pairs well with.
Apr 19, 2022 · 1 hr
Smokes 'n' Jokes
A very happy 4/20 to all who celebrate! Once again this year, we’re celebrating by doing “Highpotheticals,” i.e. getting high and answering your weirdest, wildest hypothetical questions about sex and dating.
Apr 12, 2022 · 53 min
Hitting the Right Notes
This week, we’re so excited to be talking to sex-positive singer/songwriter Rachel Lark, who we’ve both adored for many years! We chat about her new rock musical, the vulnerability of writing explicit songs, getting over sexual shame, and more.
Apr 5, 2022 · 57 min
Life of the Party
This week we’re diving deeper into the topic of sex parties: how to break the ice, handle conflicts, communicate what you are and aren’t up for, and more.
Mar 29, 2022 · 59 min
It's My Party & I'll Squirt If I Want To
Throwing a great play party is a surprisingly complex task. This week we’re discussing the ins and outs (so to speak) of planning a fantastic sex party.
Mar 22, 2022 · 56 min
Moral Oral & More
Sexual ethics is always an interesting subject, so this week we’re weighing in on ethical dilemmas, like sex with a coworker, faking orgasms, and having a sexual history with your therapist.
Mar 15, 2022 · 51 min
Ravenous Reverence
What does it mean to “worship” someone sexually? This week we’re discussing how body worship makes us feel (while giving or receiving), the various ways we like to do it, and even its spiritual implications.
Mar 8, 2022 · 58 min
Professor Pervert, Esq.
The names and titles we use in bed (or in the dungeon) can really affect how we feel about our partners and ourselves. This week we’re discussing kinky honorifics: the ones we use, the ones we don’t use, and the advice we have for other kinksters who are horny for honorifics.
Mar 2, 2022 · 56 min
Doll Face
We’re returning to the topic of objectification to answer listener questions about dirty talk, dysphoria, combining this kink with other ones, and more!
Feb 22, 2022 · 48 min
Critical Hit
This week we’re pleased to welcome back Kenton from Funkit Toys to discuss his latest project: the Random Encounters sex dice! Join us for a nerdy discussion of sex toy creation and the joys of sexual randomness.
Feb 15, 2022 · 55 min
O is for Object
Objectification can be so so bad or so so good, depending on context and consent. This week we’re discussing how consensual, kinky objectification relates to – and differs from – more mainstream concepts of sexual objectification.
Feb 8, 2022 · 56 min
No Pain, No Gain
This week we’re delighted to chat with Leigh Cowart, the author of one of our favorite recent books, Hurts So Good: The Science & Culture of Pain on Purpose! We discuss sexual and nonsexual masochism, some of the brain science behind pain, and the process of writing their incredible book.
Feb 2, 2022 · 54 min
Serves You Right
This week we’re discussing the ways service kink manifests in our relationships currently, and what our biggest service-related fantasies are.
Jan 25, 2022 · 51 min
Peen Machines
Sex toys for penises are seldom discussed, compared to their vulva-focused counterparts, so this week we’re shining a light on our favorite toys for dicks and how to use them!
Jan 18, 2022 · 56 min
Archetypes After Dark
How can we use the idea of “archetypes” in our kink scenes? This week we’re discussing some of our favorite kinky archetypes and how we incorporate them into our play.