The Dildorks

Billy Lore, Kate Sloan

Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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Aug 24, 2021 · 55 min
What's in the Cards?
This week we’re joined by sex blogger and tarot reader Wendy Phillips of The Wench Works. We chat about blogging, self-esteem, and the intersections of kink and spirituality – and Wendy gives us each a heartfelt tarot reading about self-love.
Aug 10, 2021 · 59 min
Bookish Hookups
Our guest this week is the sex educator and author Allison Moon! Her wonderful new book, Getting It, inspired this deep-dive discussion of casual sex.
Aug 3, 2021 · 1 hr 12 min
Sex, Dating, & Celebrating
We’re celebrating our 250th episode by doing something a little different this week: our partners, Ashe and Matt, put us in the hotseat to interview us about our show’s evolution, what we’ve learned these past 250 episodes, and more!
Jul 27, 2021 · 55 min
Not Tonight, Honey
Many people get nervous about sexually rejecting partners, or get sad when someone sexually rejects them. This week we’re giving advice on common sexual rejection scenarios!
Jul 20, 2021 · 59 min
Thanks, But No Thanks
Being rejected is hard, and rejecting someone might be even harder. This week we’re delving into the intricacies of romantic rejection!
Jul 13, 2021 · 43 min
Meta-More
Navigating polyamory can be difficult even in the best of times, so this week we’re answering listener questions about non-monogamy!
Jul 6, 2021 · 58 min
Helping the Horny
This week we’re answering questions from the /r/Sex forum on Reddit, on topics such as threesome etiquette, strap-on psychology, and the definition of infidelity!
Jun 29, 2021 · 55 min
It's All Relative
Talking to your family about sex can be awkward, but we’re here to help! This week we answer your questions on navigating various sexuality-related situations in family dynamics.
Jun 22, 2021 · 57 min
Sex Drive Nosedive
Lots of folks are struggling with libido issues due to pandemic stress, so this week we thought we’d discuss ways to rekindle your libido when it’s waned.
Jun 16, 2021 · 1 hr 6 min
Ex-Rated
Whether your ex is now your best friend or your sworn enemy, it’s evident that relations with exes can be tricky… This week we advised listeners on their various ex dilemmas!
Jun 8, 2021 · 1 hr
On the Other Hand...
Hands and fingers and fists, oh my…! This week we’re talking about hand sex: how to do it, why some people are hesitant to do it, and what makes it feel so damn good.
Jun 1, 2021 · 57 min
Coquettish Fetish
We talk about kink a lot, but what about fetishes? This week, we’re discussing what it means to have a fetish, what to do if you’re sexually incompatible with a partner, and why hooking up with fetishists is super fun.
May 25, 2021 · 54 min
Casual Copulation
This week, we discuss our ever-evolving feelings about casual sex, hookups, and one-night stands!
May 18, 2021 · 45 min
Cummunal Space
This week we’re answering more listener questions about public sex, including sex in locations like fitting rooms, graveyards, and a moving car!
May 11, 2021 · 55 min
Out in the Open
With the weather warming up and vaccines being administered, we figured now would be a good time to talk about public sex, something we’ll be able to do again pretty soon!
Apr 27, 2021 · 53 min
Hurt Me Harder
We’re revisiting the topic of masochism this week to discuss our current, ever-evolving relationships to pain, and our fave mental techniques for getting through intense masochistic scenes!
Apr 20, 2021 · 56 min
Oh High There
Happy 4/20, y’all! One again this year, as is tradition, we’re getting high and asking each other silly sex questions. Enjoy!
Apr 13, 2021 · 48 min
"Nope" is a Complete Sentence
This week we’re continuing our discussion of limits in kink! Can limits be a fetish? Can limits be toxic? Can limits be gently and safely pushed?
Apr 6, 2021 · 51 min
The Limit Does Exist
Your limits are valid! This week we’re talking about hard and soft limits in the realms of sex and kink: what they are, why they’re important, and how to set them clearly and kindly.
Mar 30, 2021 · 58 min
What Cums Next?
What will dating be like after COVID? This week, we’re discussing how (and whether) to re-enter the dating scene after the pandemic.