The Dildorks

Billy Lore, Kate Sloan

Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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491 episodes
Updated July 28
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Oct 20, 2020 · 58 min
24/Heaven
What does it mean to be in a 24/7 D/s dynamic, why is it hot, and why is it comforting? This week we're discussing round-the-clock power exchange!
Oct 13, 2020 · 51 min
Perv Parameters
This week we’re addressing some of your questions about boundaries, especially as they pertain to sex, friendships, and non-monogamy!
Oct 6, 2020 · 52 min
The F*ck Stops Here
Setting boundaries is hard, but important! This week we’re discussing the tricky business of drawing a line in the sand, with romantic partners and in general.
Sep 29, 2020 · 1 hr 6 min
Vet Your Bottom Dollar
How do you figure out whether a potential kink partner is safe enough and a good enough match with you before you do anything with them? This week we’re discussing the fine art of vetting!
Sep 22, 2020 · 49 min
Anxious4Avoidant
This week we’re talking with polyamory-experienced psychotherapist Jessica Fern about her excellent new book, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, & Consensual Nonmonogamy.
Sep 15, 2020 · 59 min
For Crying Out Loud
Crying is good for the soul, but did you know it can also be good for the libido? This week we’re discussing the kinky appeal of crying: cathartic sadomasochism, dacryphilia, emotional sex, and more!
Sep 8, 2020 · 1 hr 6 min
Key to My Heart
This week Kate is joined by her partner Matt (they/them) to talk about their recent forays into chastity play!
Sep 1, 2020 · 1 hr 1 min
Spaced Out
We’re returning to the topics of subspace and topspace this week to answer some great questions from listeners about these phenomena!
Aug 25, 2020 · 52 min
Space Cadets
Subspace and topspace are two highly sought-after types of experience in the kink world – but what are they, and how do you access them? This week we’re discussing kinky headspaces!
Aug 18, 2020 · 58 min
Twitillating
This week we’re discussing the intersections of sexuality and social media with Katrin Tildenberg, Ph.D., and Emily van der Nagel, Ph.D., two researchers and lecturers who just released a fascinating new book called Sex & Social Media!
Aug 11, 2020 · 47 min
Charts 'n' Hearts
This week we’re talking to Aryn, an astrologer, podcaster, and sex and relationship coach. They fill us in the answers to our crucial sexual astrology questions, such as: Which planets govern your kink identities? Are all Pisceans bottoms? Is Capricorn the daddy dom sign?
Aug 4, 2020 · 52 min
The 200th One
It’s our 200th episode! Join us as we discuss some other milestones in our lives – specifically our sex lives.
Jul 29, 2020 · 1 hr
Putting the "D" in ADHD
Conditions like ADHD can affect your whole life, including your sexuality and relationships, in really interesting ways! This week Kate interviews Bex about how his ADHD manifests and how he manages the difficulties that come with it.
Jul 21, 2020 · 55 min
Achy Breaky Bod
Chronic pain can make your sex life tricky, but it doesn't have to ruin it! This week Bex interviews Kate about her mysterious chronic pain disorder, how it manifests in her sex/kink, and what makes it easier to handle.
Jul 14, 2020 · 56 min
Social Lubricant
This week we’re answering your conversational queries! We explain how to deduce someone’s openness to chatting, ask questions people actually want to answer, navigate discussions when you’re low on spoons, and more.
Jul 7, 2020 · 58 min
Verbal Intercourse
What does it mean to be good at conversation? We’re not claiming to be experts, but we have our preferences… This week, we’re discussing conversational skills: why they matter, how to develop them, and what to avoid.
Jun 30, 2020 · 1 hr 8 min
Fair Play
Why do we sometimes call kink “play”? How does it relate to the games we played as children? This episode is a meandering philosophical discussion of the role of play in our lives – including our sex lives!
Jun 23, 2020 · 57 min
Here Comes the Pride
It’s a weird time to be celebrating Pride, to say the least… This week we’re talking about some ways you can access a little Pride magic even in these stressful times.
Jun 16, 2020 · 1 hr 4 min
Nerves & Pervs
Hope y’all are doing okay in this very stressful time. This week we’re discussing how high stress levels affect sex and dating, from dissociation to guilt to trauma triggers.
Jun 9, 2020 · 59 min
Adora-ble
This week, we’re joined by self-made porn queen Gwen Adora to discuss how her online sex work business has changed in light of the pandemic – and how the online porn landscape is shifting more generally in these trying times.