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The Dildorks

Billy Lore, Kate Sloan

Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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  • 491 episodes
  • Updated July 28
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  • Jun 2, 2020 · 1 hr 7 min

    Stripping From Home

    This week we talked with sex educator, columnist, and stripper Andre Shakti about how she’s transitioned her sex work career onto the internet in the wake of COVID-19. Hopefully you’ll find this useful if you’re thinking about doing the same. Also: Black Lives Matter, ACAB, stay safe out there if you can, friends.

  • May 26, 2020 · 59 min

    The 5-Knuckle Shuffle

    Hope you’ve had a lovely Masturbation Month, despite the circumstances! This week we’re answering more listener questions about jerkin’ it.

  • May 19, 2020 · 58 min

    Polyamory Plus Pandemic

    This week we had a great chat with authors and polyamory educators Kevin Patterson and Dr. Liz Powell about their 6-week online course, Unfuck Your Polyamory. We also got their advice on some of the polyamory pitfalls people are experiencing these days due to the coronavirus lockdown.

  • May 12, 2020 · 55 min

    Maysturbation

    Happy Masturbation Month! To celebrate, we’re answering some of your most pressing questions about what some people euphemistically call self-lovin’.

  • May 5, 2020 · 55 min

    Smackrilege

    This week, we’re chatting with journalist, author, and theologian Tara Isabella Burton. Her forthcoming book Strange Rites is about how the “religiously unaffiliated” seek meaning and fulfilment through non-religious means – like sex, kink, and polyamory, to name but a few!

  • Apr 28, 2020 · 52 min

    Signed, Sealed, & Quivered

    This week we’re joined by erotic letter writer, tarot reader, and oral historian Jamie Beckenstein to discuss the joys of sexy snail mail!

  • Apr 21, 2020 · 49 min

    Riffin' and Spliffin'

    Happy 4/20! This week's episode is our annual Highpotheticals special, where we get high off our asses and answer sex questions sent in by listeners. Enjoy!

  • Apr 14, 2020 · 53 min

    Queerantine

    We’re back answering more of your COVID questions! Tune in to hear our thoughts on maintaining relationship momentum during the crisis, balancing different libido levels, and Skype date etiquette, among other things.

  • Apr 7, 2020 · 1 hr

    SexyDorkyQuarantine

    Want to liven up your self-isolation with some sex and/or kink? We’ve got more suggestions this week than you can shake a dick at!

  • Mar 31, 2020 · 51 min

    Jokester Kinksters

    This week we’re joined by kink educator Carter Brûlée to discuss one thing the three of us have in common: being silly, playful, and giggly during sex and kink!

  • Mar 24, 2020 · 56 min

    Sexual Distancing

    Wow, what a week. This episode we’re answering questions about the thing that’s on everyone’s mind – COVID-19 – and how it intersects with sex and dating. Hope you find this helpful and comforting, friends!

  • Mar 17, 2020 · 1 hr 5 min

    Self-Serve Perv

    How do you do kinky stuff if you don’t have (or don’t want) someone to do them with? This week we’re talking about solo kink: why it’s fun, how to do it safely, and (of course) how it’s relevant to the current global pandemic.

  • Mar 10, 2020 · 1 hr 20 min

    Deepening... Our Friendship

    Don’t listen to this episode while driving! This week Kate busted out her fledgling hypnosis skills and hypnotized Bex, after an extended scene negotiation. You’ll learn about communication, recreational hypnosis, and what Kate’s hypno top voice sounds like…!

  • Mar 3, 2020 · 54 min

    Depression Transgression

    This week, we’re chatting with writer and mental health advocate JoEllen Notte about her incredibly helpful soon-to-launch book on sex and depression, The Monster Under the Bed!

  • Feb 25, 2020 · 53 min

    Arousing Carousing

    We’re talking about play parties again this week, and this time we’re focusing on what happens once you get to the party. Hear our best advice on approaching people, negotiating pickup play, saying “no” nicely, and more!

  • Feb 18, 2020 · 56 min

    Love in the Time of Collars

    This week Kate is joined by her partner Matt (they/them) to talk about collars: what they are, why people like them, and how to go about buying one, negotiating one, and wearing one!

  • Feb 11, 2020 · 1 hr 6 min

    A Queer Lens

    This week we’re joined by Ashe, the photographer extraordinaire behind Rose Glass Photos, who also happens to be Bex’s partner! We discuss how photography interacts with gender expression, kink, personal branding, and more.

  • Feb 4, 2020 · 46 min

    Fete-ish

    Play parties are so fun, but also confusing and scary at times! This week we’re demystifying the processes of finding play parties to attend, mentally preparing yourself to play, and putting together your party outfit.

  • Jan 28, 2020 · 1 hr

    Kinkquiries

    This week we’re answering some of your big kink questions, including how to keep things casual in a kinky friendship-with-benefits and what to do when a top safewords!