The Dildorks

Billy Lore, Kate Sloan

Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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491 episodes
Updated July 28
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Aug 20, 2019 · 1 hr 2 min
Happily Ever Laughter
There’s so much bullshit discourse about dating and relationships out there, so this week we’re busting romantic myths! Hear us debate first-date protocols, compatibility adages, gender stereotypes, and more.
Aug 13, 2019 · 53 min
Protracted Attraction
Kate recently came out as demisexual, so this week we’re discussing that identity: what does it mean, how does it manifest, and how does it relate to other concepts like sluttiness, responsive desire, and demiromanticism?
Aug 6, 2019 · 56 min
Safety First
Safer sex protocols don’t have to be boring or a mood-killer! Today we’re diving into our thoughts and feelings on condoms, dental dams, STI testing, and more.
Jul 30, 2019 · 55 min
The Nineteen-Filthies
Step back in time with us and let’s discuss 1950s household dynamics! Hear us weigh in on why this style of D/s is hot, complicated, and even potentially empowering.
Jul 23, 2019 · 59 min
Interior Dickorator
Home is where the heart is, and also (often) where the sex is! This week we’re discussing the ways home decor can interplay with your sex and dating life, from beds to lighting to lube dispensers.
Jul 16, 2019 · 1 hr 9 min
Bawdy Language
Ever noticed how sometimes you can say a lot without saying anything at all? This week we're discussing the delicate art of non-verbal communication – in flirting, sex, kink, and more!
Jul 9, 2019 · 1 hr
TES Friends Forever
Bex just got back from TES Fest, a thought-provoking kink conference in New Jersey. This week, he recaps what he learned there, and we discuss some kinky fantasies that the workshops brought up.
Jul 2, 2019 · 53 min
Get This Party Started
Getting the ball rolling is hard sometimes, so this week we’re discussing the intricacies of initiating sex. What are the best and worst ways to do it – and what should you do if there’s an initiation imbalance in your relationship?
Jun 18, 2019 · 57 min
Kinksters 4 Inksters
We’re talking about body mods this week: tattoos, piercings, and how they interplay with our sex and dating lives. Tune in for tattoo advice, kinky feelings, and tales of piercings gone awry.
Jun 11, 2019 · 49 min
Stride of Pride
Happy Pride month! This week we’re discussing our favorite and least favorite things about Pride, from tutus and play parties to biphobia and cops.
Jun 4, 2019 · 50 min
The Drive That Thrives
Up, up, and away: this week we’re discussing our sex drives! What is the libido, what stokes it, what tempers it, and what can you do when yours doesn’t match your partner’s?
May 29, 2019 · 44 min
I Only Have Eyes For You
Do you see what I see? This week, we’re discussing the visual aspects of sex, and how the acts of looking and seeing (or not) play into our sexuality.
May 21, 2019 · 37 min
Pheromoans
Take a deep breath now: it’s time to discuss sex smells (and tastes)! We divulge our fave and least fave olfactory experiences during sex, our thoughts on our own smells and tastes, and more.
May 14, 2019 · 54 min
Cumpetence
This week we’re discussing what it means to be “good at sex” – physically, mentally, and otherwise.
May 7, 2019 · 50 min
Etiqueer
You asked, we answered: in this episode, we discuss queer etiquette quandaries, from pronouns to flagging to threesomes.
Apr 30, 2019 · 58 min
Sir-ious Business
This week Kate invited her partner Matt onto the show for an interview about sadism, hypnokink, productivity domming, and other aspects of their relationship!
Apr 23, 2019 · 50 min
Sounding (No, Not That Kind)
Warm up those vocal cords – this week we’re discussing sex noises! Hear us pontificate on our favorite and least favorite sounds, the best erotic audio mediums, and how we learned to let loose.
Apr 17, 2019 · 50 min
Highpotheticals: The Redux
Happy (early) 4/20, stoners! This week is our annual Highpotheticals episode: we’re gettin’ blazed and asking each other weird questions about sex, dating, and masturbating. Enjoy!
Apr 9, 2019 · 52 min
Habitual Ritual
This week we’re digging into the comfort and excitement we glean from rituals and protocols! Hear us explain why we love these kinky traditions.
Apr 2, 2019 · 45 min
Touch Much?
We talk so much about sex that sometimes we forget to discuss non-sexual touch! In this episode, we’re getting into the fine points of cuddling, hugging, wrestling, foot rubs, and other types of not-explicitly-sexy touch.