The Dildorks

Billy Lore, Kate Sloan

Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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491 episodes
Updated July 28
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Jan 15, 2020 · 1 hr 11 min
Started From the Bottom
What skills do bottoms develop that allow them to take more sensation, feel good about doing so, and make their tops happy? This week’s episode is all about bottoming skills, which are sometimes underacknowledged in the kink world.
Jan 7, 2020 · 52 min
Vagic Tricks
Vulvas and vaginas are great! This week we’re discussing our feelings about these widely venerated and vilified parts – both our own and other people’s.
Dec 31, 2019 · 1 hr 5 min
Twentybyeeeteen
Happy New Year! This week we’re reviewing how our sex lives progressed in 2019, and looking forward to discuss our 2020 sex goals.
Dec 18, 2019 · 1 hr 9 min
Taboos 2: Electric Taboogaloo
We’re back to chat more about taboo kinks! Hear us unpack incest porn, edgy ethnoreligious roleplays, forced feminization, and more.
Dec 10, 2019 · 1 hr 5 min
Hidden & Forbidden
This week we’re talkin’ taboos! Hear us discuss some of our favorite taboo kinks, like intoxication, consensual non-consent, and sleepy sex. More to come next week!
Dec 3, 2019 · 1 hr 16 min
Shall We Trance?
Almost everyone’s curious about hypnosis, so we’re back this week doing Hypno 101! Learn about how trance works, what it feels like, and what kinky stuff you can do with it.
Nov 26, 2019 · 45 min
Very, Very Sleepy
We attended a hypnokink event together recently so this week we decided to chat about erotic hypnosis! Hear about our fantasies surrounding this kink, some scenes Kate has done, and some hypnosis misconceptions we love to debunk.
Nov 19, 2019 · 1 hr 14 min
Lady HD
This week Bex sits down with Rachael Rose, a chronically ill and disabled sex educator, to talk about their shared diagnosis: ADHD! Find out how this condition intersects with sex, dating, creativity, and more.
Nov 12, 2019 · 1 hr 6 min
Skype Hype
This week we’re tackling the sex and kink elements of long-distance relationships! Tune in to hear our best Skype sex tips, how protocol works in LDRs, and whether we would have sex on an airplane.
Nov 5, 2019 · 56 min
Go the Distance
We’ve both been in multiple long-distance relationships, so today we’re discussing the weird, wonderful, and sometimes wistful realities of LDRs!
Oct 29, 2019 · 53 min
Doc Worship
Bex is back from the hospital after his top surgery! This week he’s telling us the story of his experience (with some contributions from Kate, who was there too).
Oct 22, 2019 · 1 hr 8 min
Attachment Not Found
We sat down with therapist and educator Aida Manduley to discuss the psychological model known as attachment theory – how it works, why it matters, and (of course) how it relates to non-monogamy and kink!
Oct 15, 2019 · 48 min
Chesterday's News
In preparation for Bex’s long-awaited top surgery, we had a conversation about his reasons for getting it, what he’s been doing to get ready for it, and what he thinks will happen during recovery and beyond.
Oct 8, 2019 · 50 min
Separation Anxiety
This week rounds out our 3-part series on breakups! We’re addressing some awkward post-split situations, like reclaiming your possessions, saying goodbye to your ex’s family, and dealing with passive-aggressive tweetstorms.
Oct 1, 2019 · 1 hr 3 min
Breakup Breakdown
We had more to say about breakups, so here’s another episode about the ends of relationships!
Sep 24, 2019 · 1 hr 7 min
It's Not You, It's...
How did it take us this long to do an episode about breakups? This week we’re discussing some of our worst splits, how we think they should be done, and what should happen afterward.
Sep 17, 2019 · 1 hr 3 min
Revolutionizing Romance
This week we’re interviewing Dr. Liz Powell, psychologist, speaker, and author of our favorite book on non-monogamy, Building Open Relationships. We touch on polyamory struggles, love as a verb, and creating the relationships you want, among other things!
Sep 11, 2019 · 58 min
Gaming the System
Truth or dare? We DARE you to join us this week for a discussion of sex games: different types, ways to play them, and why they might be beneficial.
Sep 3, 2019 · 58 min
A Song of Nerds & Queers
This week Bex interviews his friend and roommate, sex educator and queer pirate Jo Goforth, about finding identity through fandom, positive representations of masculinity, and their new sex ed comic, among other things.
Aug 27, 2019 · 55 min
Dating is Grating
We’re back to smash more romantic myths this week! Hear our takes on unconditional love, jealousy, internet relationships, and more.