The Dildorks

Billy Lore, Kate Sloan

Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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491 episodes
Updated July 28
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Mar 27, 2019 · 51 min
Nutbusters, Part 2
This week we’re busting more shitty sex-negative myths! Hear our hot takes on libido imbalances, biphobia, STI stigma, and more…
Mar 20, 2019 · 49 min
Nutbusters, Part 1
It’s time for us to bust some sex-negative myths! Hear us take down the concepts of virginity, slutty loose vaginas, and immoral masturbation, among others.
Mar 13, 2019 · 59 min
BFFs in Love
We’re already basically in love, but this week we decided to ask each other the 36 questions recommended by psychologist Arthur Aron for falling in love with a stranger. Romantic friendships for the win!
Mar 5, 2019 · 55 min
Penetration and Beyond
There's penetration, and then there's PENETRATION. This week we're discussing some of the more advanced ways you can stick stuff in your holes, like using huge toys or perhaps more than one!
Feb 26, 2019 · 36 min
Episode 127: Full of Hot Air
This week we’re discussing breath play, one of the most controversial categories of kink acts! Choking and smothering and facefucking, oh my…
Feb 20, 2019 · 42 min
Episode 126: Crush Rush
Ah, crushes: bane of our existence, light of our lives. This week we're discussing how we handle crushes, both unrequited and perhaps-requited. And also Kate talks to herself for a few minutes in the middle because of a tech mishap.
Feb 12, 2019 · 48 min
Episode 125: An Invaluable NREsource
Feeling smitten and also kind of like your brain's gonna explode? Sounds like New Relationship Energy! This week, we're discussing the pleasures and perils of NRE.
Feb 6, 2019 · 49 min
Episode 124: Bless This Depressed Mess
Ready to get thoughtful and a bit heavy? This week we’re discussing our mental illnesses – depression, hypomania, anxiety, and more – and the ways they intersect with sex, kink, and dating.
Jan 30, 2019 · 58 min
Episode 123: Cumpatibility
What does it mean to be compatible with someone – for love, sex, friendship, or all of the above? This week we're discussing the concept of compatibility in all its many dimensions!
Jan 23, 2019 · 43 min
Episode 122: Mind the Strap
This week we're talkin' strap-on sex! Harnesses, dildos, technique, fantasies, pleasure, and more...
Jan 16, 2019 · 56 min
Episode 121: Fantastical
Your sexual fantasies are an incredibly intimate window into your soul, and that's the topic of this week's episode! Find out what we fantasize about, why, and how.
Jan 8, 2019 · 40 min
Episode 120: The Ill-dorks
This episode is short and silly because we were both too sick to think! We discuss our best and worst sex of the past year, assess how we did on our 2018 sex goals, and set new ones for 2019. Illdorks | Best Sex | Gender Euphoria | Sadists | Best Kink | Dry-Humping | Cocks | Just One More | Worst Sex | Challenging Assumptions | Sexual Identity | Pleasure | CBT | Relaxing Sex | Topping & Domming | Submission | Apologies | No Expectations | Hypno-Topping | Roleplay | Pickup Artists | Storytell
Jan 2, 2019 · 45 min
Episode 119: Is That Piss or Champagne?
What kind of year did you have, sex-wise? That’s the topic of this goofy, uncut (lolol) episode where we wrap up our 2018 and touch on what we’d like to try next. No Second Takes | Gender | Phone Sex | Spreadsheet | Number of Partners | Dating??? | Locations | Hotel Sex | Rope Suspension | Sexperiments | Watersports | Kink Satisfaction | Bootblacking | Hypnosis | Kicking | Femdom | Being Stepped On | Wax Play | Tickling | E-Stim | Subspace | Roleplay | Flirting | Vixen Gambler | Uberrime Nig
Dec 20, 2018 · 49 min
Episode 118: Perv Emergence
Once “Where do babies come from?” has been asked and answered, obviously the next question to tackle is: “Where do kinks come from?” This week, we’re theorizing on the origins of kinks! Japanese Whiskey | Narnia | Kinks As Hobbies | Breaking Bones | Authority Figures | Trauma | Baking | Childhood | [Samuel Hughes’ Kink Identity Development Theory](https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/standard-deviations/201805/growing-kinky-research-shows-how-kink-identity-is-formed) | Perception vs. Iden
Dec 12, 2018 · 49 min
Episode 117: Gift Rifts
As it’s holiday time, this week we’re discussing whether or not you should ever buy someone a sex toy, our fave and least fave toys we’ve received as gifts, and our top tips for getting through the holidays. Christmas Music | Should You? | How to Know | Impact Toys | Favorites | Worst/Weirdest | Gifts for Anyone | [JeJoue MiMi](https://shevibe.com/je-joue-mimi-classic-waterproof-rechargeable-silicone-vibrator-black/#oid=1056_1_banner_1) | Sex Nerds | Kinksters | [RodeoH](https://shevibe.com/
Dec 4, 2018 · 53 min
Episode 116: Objectively Hot
We have lots of feelings 'n' fantasies about objectification, whether the sexual kind or the kind where you literally take on the role of an object. This week we discuss this contentious kink! Fucktoy | Sexual vs. Literal | Favorite Toy | Holding Still | Exhibitionism | Service | Human Furniture | Cum | Sex Doll | Humanity | Voyeur | Implements | Loving vs. Degrading | [Enough to Make You Blush](https://www.amazon.com/Enough-Make-You-Blush-Humiliation/dp/0692534911) | [Kneeling in Spirit](ht
Nov 27, 2018 · 49 min
Episode 115: BDSM BFFs
While together in Toronto, we sat down for a discussion of platonic kink! Find out what it is, why we like it, and how to partake of it responsibly. Reasons Why | Non-Sexual Enjoyment | Low Pressure | Context | Emotional Topping | Jealousy | Non-Monogamy | Impact | Arousal | Negotiation | Aftercare | Crying at a Party | Post-Breakup Comfort | Aftercare Dad | Rope Suspension | How to Ask | Service | Little Space | Sports
Nov 20, 2018 · 52 min
Episode 114: Boots, Etc.
Get out your leather boots, straitjackets, and stethoscopes: it’s time to talk about fetish objects! This week, we discuss some of our fave sexualized possessions, and the role they play in our fantasies and sexcapades. Leather Belt | Fetish vs. Kink | Talismans | Corset Fetish | “I Wish I Was…” | Boots | [The Slave](http://lantoniou.com/the-slave-chapter-1/) | Bootblacking | White T-Shirts | Suits | Sleeves Rolled Up | Pantyhose | Bible | Leather Care | Associations | Service | Underwear |
Nov 14, 2018 · 48 min
Episode 113: Uncumtrollable
Hold your horses: this week we’re talking about orgasm control! We discuss forced orgasms, chastity, abstinence, and various other facets of this fascinating kink. Definition | Fanfiction | Consent | Asking Permission | Power | Signposts | Chastity | Sex vs. Kink | Pre-Sex Abstinence | [Forced Orgasms](../../5-props-forced-orgasm-scene/) | Beginner Tips | Mindfulness | Solo Play | Abstinence Movements | Conditioning | Quiet | Multiple Partners | Orgasm Difficulties | [Funkit Toys IndieGogo](
Nov 6, 2018 · 50 min
Episode 112: Peepin' and Creepin'
Take a peek inside our minds as we discuss voyeurism! Learn about ways we've explored this kink, why we find it hot, and what voyeuristic fantasies we hope to live out. Porn | Watersports | Consent | Interest | Play Party | Introversion & Anxiety | Voyeurism for Beginners | Closet Photographer | Subtle Signals | Ghost Sex | Fake Sleep | Group Sex | Trust | Service Bottom | Sunglasses | Dark Odyssey | Sex Clubs | High Masturbation | Getting Caught | The Marketplace | Sex Doll | Teaching & Lea