The Dildorks

Billy Lore, Kate Sloan

Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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Jun 13, 2018 · 59 min
Episode 91: The Puppisode
This week, Bex is chatting with YouTuber and kink sexpert [Pup Amp](https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCokRyLsHxh-NykvT4uA6n2g) and educator and queer historian [Pup Dane](http://talkingdogproductions.ca/) about their mutual interest: puppy play! Getting Started | Basics | D/s Dynamics | Pup on Pup | Play & Silliness | Headspace | Gear | Bondage | Hypnosis | Chastity | Scent | Training | Treats | Bonding | Studies | Community | Pun Game | Compatibility | Collars | Breeds
Jun 5, 2018 · 49 min
Episode 90: Forget to Remember
This week Kate is joined by [DJ Pynchon](https://twitter.com/DJPynchon), blogger, author, and erotic hypnosis enthusiast, for a lively discussion about hypnotic amnesia, winking kink, and lots more! [Mind Play](https://www.amazon.com/Mind-Play-Guide-Erotic-Hypnosis/dp/1484841034) | Media Influences | Puns | Misconceptions | Negotiation | [Hypnotic Amnesia](https://www.amazon.com/Hypnotic-Amnesia-LeeAllure/dp/1517055369/) | Consensual Non-Consent | Company Name | Ethics | Therapeutic? | Face-
May 29, 2018 · 49 min
Episode 89: Puber-T
Bex has been on testosterone for a whole year! This week, Kate interviews him about how his body, brain, and sexuality have changed over the past year. Greedy | [Deciding to Start](http://www.bextalkssex.com/changing-love-considering-hormones-youre-non-binary/) | Self-Injecting | Coming Out | Mania | Genital Growth | Body Hair | Fat | [Face Shape](http://www.bextalkssex.com/puberty-pupdate-physical-changes/) | Body Smells | Social Energy | Assertiveness | Anger | Voice | Orgasms | Attraction
May 23, 2018 · 51 min
Episode 88: Hazy 'n' Spacey
This week, we're having a risk-aware discussion of sex and altered states: doin' sex and kink stuff while drunk, high, sleepy, and more. Find out how we navigate these complex states and the scenes we like to incorporate them into! Consent Issues | Agency | Negotiation | [High Sex vs. Drunk Sex](https://www.ignitepleasureproducts.com/blog/marijuana-vs-alcohol-sex-study) | Trance | Consensual Non-Consent | Suggestibility | Pain | Masturbation | Harder Drugs | Sleepy Sex | [Arousal Non-Concord
May 16, 2018 · 52 min
Episode 87: Say It Somehow
This week, we answer the question: how do you communicate well, and with love? Find out our “love languages,” our best tips for giving good compliments, and why we hate unsolicited advice from Twitter strangers. Communication Degree | Clarity | Empathy | Active Listening | Compliments | [Love Languages](http://www.5lovelanguages.com/) | Problem-Solving | Texting | Strangers
May 9, 2018 · 50 min
Episode 86: Porn This Way
Bex just launched his new porn store as [Billy Lore](https://twitter.com/billylore), so this week we’re talking about making porn! What’s fun about doing cam shows? Which porn stars do we admire? How did we pick our porn names? Tune in to find out! [ManyVids Store](https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/1001489346/BillyLore/) | Porn Names | [CherryStems](http://www.cherrystems.com/) | [Hella Positive Pinup](https://www.hellapositivepinup.com/) | [Spit](http://spit.exposed/) | [PervCave Productions
May 2, 2018 · 51 min
Episode 85: Let's Get Little
CONTENT NOTES for this episode: consensually roleplaying as a little girl, little boy, daddy, mommy, or siblings; incest roleplay and actual incest; child abuse; adult baby roleplay and diapers; teenage sex; consensual and nonconsensual bullying; nonconsensual spanking; student and teacher roleplays; coerced sex; prison; homophobia and homophobic slurs; drunk sex; high sex; rape fantasies This week we're discussing a complex and controversial kink: age play! Find out why we think it's hot, s
Apr 24, 2018 · 40 min
Episode 84: Highpotheticals
It's our traditional yearly 4/20 episode! Hear us get blazed and debate the merits of clone sex, impact toys as zombie murder weapons, and whether or not we'd fuck Buzz Lightyear, among other things. Clones | Zombie Apocalypse | Sex Toys | Googly Eyes | New Kinks | Muffins | Parents & Porn | Aliens | Monsters, Inc. & Toy Story | Workshops | Ideal Porn Scene
Apr 18, 2018 · 45 min
Episode 83: Ready For This Jelly
This week we’re gigglin’ with sex blogger [Mx Nillin](http://mxnillin.com/) about their ingenious blog series “[Mx Nillin Fucks](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks/),” wherein they masturbate with various weird objects. This conversation was so fun! Girl Cock | [Mx Nillin Fucks](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks/) | [Apple Pie](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks-apple-pie/) | [Teddy Bear](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks-a-teddy-bear/) | Safety | Absurdity | [Peanut Butter Sandwich](h
Apr 11, 2018 · 57 min
Episode 82: Grown-Up Playtime
This week we’re talking with [Dawn Serra](https://www.dawnserra.com/), sex educator, sex and relationship coach, and founder of the [Explore More Summit](https://gumroad.com/a/678081651)! We chatted about parenting, play, self-acceptance, and more. [Explore More Summit](https://gumroad.com/a/678081651) | Watersports | Curiosity & Play | Barbara Carrellas | Sex-Positive Parenting | [MakeLoveNotPorn.TV](https://makelovenotporn.tv/) | Karen BK Chan | Sinclair Sexsmith | Coming Out | Self-Love &
Apr 4, 2018 · 39 min
Episode 81: More Paprika
In part 2 of our sex educator FAQ, learn how to get good at dirty talk, how we got so confident talking about sex, and what the Dildorks TARDIS would look like, among other things. American Idiot | Squirting | TARDIS | Dirty Talk | [Yes/No/Maybe List](http://www.bextalkssex.com/yes-no-maybe/) | [Sexting](http://www.powells.com/book/sexting-9781592337057?partnerid=44315&p_ti) | Confidence Journey | Spicing Things Up | Normal | [Sensate Focus BJ](https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a19635461
Mar 28, 2018 · 55 min
Episode 80: FAQs of S-E-X
This week we’re answering some sex-educator FAQs! Hear our Hot Takes on butt stuff, deepthroating, and dick size, among other things… “Educate Me” | Convincing a Partner | Disclosures | The Best Sex Toy | Invasive Creeps | Butt Stuff | The Butters | Njoy Pfun | Fun Factory Bootie | Tantus Neo | Dick Size | BigDickProblems | How to Orgasm | Deepthroating | 4/20 Episode
Mar 21, 2018 · 46 min
Episode 79: Luv 2 Negoti8
Negotiation is a crucial kink skill, and this week we’re sharing our best tips! Find out our fave questions to ask, common negotiation pitfalls, and how to navigate awkward pre-scene discussions. Vanilla Negotiation | Trans Folks | [Negotiation Cheat Sheet](http://www.robot-hugs.com/negotiation-resources/) | Mid-Scene | Contracts | Blame Someone | Options | Kink Voices | Limits | When Scenes Fail | Marks | Aftercare | Doms’ Needs | Fave Questions | Going Nonverbal | Pausing | [NobEssence Sed
Mar 13, 2018 · 49 min
Episode 78: Happy Spending
This week we’re giving you our two cents about financial domination, cash fetishism, and sugar daddies! Find out why we’re into these kinks, how you can play with them, and how to navigate awkward money situations on dates. [Why Are People Into Cash?](https://www.acast.com/yapit/51-loreleilee-cashpt1) | Paying For Dates | Cheap Dates | Findom | Sugar Daddies | Bank Balance | Presents | Cash | Money Anxiety | [Peepshow Toys](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/) | [Cissplaining](https://twitter.com/
Mar 7, 2018 · 47 min
Episode 77: Con-persion
We just got back from the [Playground Conference](http://playgroundconf.com/) in Toronto! Find out what we learned from the sessions we attended, what conference protocol is and why we like it, and what kinds of sex we had at the con! Cum-Covered Clothes | [Opening Plenary](http://playgroundconf.com/sessions/living-out-loud/) | Overwhelm | [Kevin Patterson](https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/portfolio/episode-73-polygoals/) | [Turning Fantasies Into Realities](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/
Feb 27, 2018 · 48 min
Episode 76: Just Plane Hot
Here’s the live show we recorded at the [Playground Conference](http://playgroundconf.com) in Toronto! We talked about sex and travel: which toys are our suitcase must-haves, how we handle TSA snafus, why we love hotel sex so much, and more! Hellish Bus Ride | Bag of Dicks | Travel Locks | [We-Vibe Tango](../../10-reasons-we-vibe-tango-favorite-clitoral-vibrator/) | [Tenga SVR](https://shevibe.com/tenga-smart-vibe-ring-silicone-rechargeable-vibrating-cock-ring-black.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Crave
Feb 21, 2018 · 50 min
Episode 75: Screws Your Own Adventure
This week Kate interviews porn legend [Joanna Angel](https://www.joannaangel.com), of the [Burning Angel Empire](https://www.burningangel.com/en), about her new venture: a choose-your-own-adventure erotic novel, [Night Shift](https://www.amazon.com/Night-Shift-Choose-Your-Own-Erotic-Fantasy/dp/1627782885/)! We talked masturbation, erotica ethics, tattoos, and more. Authorly Ambitions | Porn Scripts | Book Feedback | [Night Shift](https://www.amazon.com/Night-Shift-Choose-Your-Own-Erotic-Fant
Feb 15, 2018 · 49 min
Episode 74: Vibration Frustration
Not all sex toys live up to their hype! This week we discussed some of the most overrated toys on the market, why they suck, and how they could be better. #SexToyReviewerLyfe | Toy Hype | [Stronic Eins](../../review-fun-factory-stronic-eins/) | Rabbit Vibes | [We-Vibe Nova](../../review-vibe-nova/) | [Magic Wand](../../review-magic-wand-rechargeable/) | [TooTimid.com](http://tootimid.com/) | Discreet Sex Toys | [Pink BOB Lust Silicone Rechargeable Wand](https://www.tootimid.com/Pink-BOB-Lust
Feb 7, 2018 · 48 min
Episode 73: PolyGoals
This week we talked to Kevin Patterson from [Poly Role Models](http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/), a blog about the diversity of experiences and identities in polyamorous communities. We touched on jealousy, compersion, poly screw-ups, and more! [Poly Role Models](http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/) | Caribana Threesome | [Cautionary Poly](http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/post/150786381352/cautionary-poly-kevin-patterson) | Customer Service | Edu-Dating | Communication | Identities | Poly & R
Jan 30, 2018 · 44 min
Episode 72: Vanilla With Sprinkles
Relationships between kinksters and vanilla people aren’t inherently doomed! This week we discuss navigating these mixed-orientation connections: how to make compromises, assuage fears, and communicate clearly. Kink Without Sex | Service | Vanillas vs. Kinksters | Tickling | Inner Monologues | Why Do You Like That? | [How to Get a Vanilla Person to Spank You](../../how-to-get-a-vanilla-person-to-spank-you-properly/) | Media Hints | [50 Shades of Kink](https://www.amazon.com/50-Shades-Kink-In