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The Dildorks

Billy Lore, Kate Sloan

Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

  • 491 episodes
  • Updated July 28
  • Explicit

Episodes491

  • Oct 25, 2022 · 55 min

    Cheater-o-Meter

    This week we’re discussing more behaviors that might be cheating, or might not be – like keeping your ex’s nudes, neglecting to use condoms, or crushing on a friend.

  • Oct 18, 2022 · 1 hr 2 min

    Trick or Cheat

    There’s a lot of confusion over what constitutes cheating on someone, so this week we’re discussing what we think cheating is, and what it definitely isn’t.

  • Oct 11, 2022 · 54 min

    Bonus Boners

    We’re releasing this bonus episode, originally recorded for our $12+ Patreon supporters, on our main feed this week because Billy is out sick. Enjoy our discussion about exhibitionism, hypnosis, rough body play, and more!

  • Oct 5, 2022 · 1 hr 9 min

    Eat, Spray, Love

    What the hell is squirting, anyway? This week we discuss our experiences with squirting, our theories on the controversies that surround it, and our favorite toys and techniques for making it happen.

  • Sep 27, 2022 · 57 min

    Live and Let Bi

    We’re busting more bisexuality myths this week, like: Are bi people more likely to want to have a threesome? What’s the difference between bi and pan? And do bi femmes exist?

  • Sep 20, 2022 · 1 hr 2 min

    I Don't Bi It

    Since it’s Bisexuality Day on Friday, this week we thought we’d bust some common myths and misconceptions about bisexuality and bi people.

  • Sep 13, 2022 · 1 hr 5 min

    Pervs Have Feelings Too

    Lately we’re both unenthused about doing kink with people we don’t have an emotional connection with, so this week we’re discussing the role of connectedness and intimacy in kink and sex.

  • Sep 6, 2022 · 1 hr 1 min

    Natural Kinklinations

    How do our kinky tendencies affect other areas of our lives? This week Kate and her spouse mb discuss how dominance, submissiveness, toppiness and bottominess can manifest in not-directly-kinky situations.

  • Aug 30, 2022 · 55 min

    Screwing the Whole Crew

    This week we revisit the topic of group sex: threesomes, foursomes, and orgies. We discuss how our mindsets about group sex have changed over the pandemic, and offer some tips on initiating and negotiating.

  • Aug 23, 2022 · 58 min

    Quirky Creations

    We’ve both tried a lot of sex toys, and this week we’re talking about some of the weirdest ones we’ve ever encountered, from the Lelo dick tuxedo to the butt plug-shaped shoes.

  • Aug 16, 2022 · 1 hr 5 min

    Strap Chat

    We both love strap-on sex, and this week we’re discussing our fave harnesses and dildos and our top tips for giving good strap.

  • Aug 9, 2022 · 1 hr 9 min

    We've Done This 300 Times

    This week we’re celebrating our 300th episode by talking about our “top 3” choices in a bunch of different categories!

  • Aug 2, 2022 · 1 hr

    Keeping Our Privates Private

    Privacy can be a tricky subject to navigate in sexual relationships, so this week we’re answering listener questions on the fine line between privacy and secrecy when it comes to sex and dating.

  • Jul 19, 2022 · 54 min

    Femmes 4Ever

    Femmes are somehow both erased and revered in the queer community. This week we’re discussing Kate’s femme identity: what it means, how she arrived at that label, and the joys and difficulties of being femme.

  • Jul 12, 2022 · 1 hr 1 min

    Illicit Ingenuity

    This week we set out to have a discussion of creativity in kink, and it turned into a meandering discussion of that, Bex’s adventures at kink camp, our traumas, roleplay, boundaries and more.

  • Jul 5, 2022 · 45 min

    Robot Revelry

    This week Kate’s spouse Matthew Bischoff returns for a discussion of kinky apps, sex machines, electrostimulation and other fun sex tech.

  • Jun 29, 2022 · 55 min

    The Future is Cumming

    Could sex apps, high-tech vibrators and sex robots ever replace sex with actual humans? This week Kate is joined by her spouse Matthew Bischoff, a technologist, app developer and cohost of the Absolutely Crushed podcast, for a discussion of sex tech.

  • Jun 21, 2022 · 59 min

    Games, Toys & Bi Guys

    This week we’re joined by our friend Brent Black (a.k.a. Brentalfloss), who’s currently working on a sequel to his hilarious party game Use Your Words. We chat about games, being a public figure who’s out as bisexual, weird sex toys for penises, and more.

  • Jun 14, 2022 · 54 min

    Beyond Your Wildest Dreams

    This week we discuss sex dreams, romantic dreams, wet dreams, and other ways that crushes and carnality show up when you’re dreaming!

  • Jun 7, 2022 · 51 min

    Utterly Entranced

    It’s been a while since we talked about erotic hypnosis, so this week Bex interviews Kate about how hypno is manifesting in her relationship and kink life currently.