The Dildorks

Billy Lore, Kate Sloan

Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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491 episodes
Updated July 28
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Sep 30, 2025 · 55 min
Ass Is In Session
People believe all kinds of nonsense about anal play, so this week we’re busting myths about butt stuff.
Sep 24, 2025 · 49 min
Get the Word Out
Are some sexual labels more cringe than others? Do our public labels differ from our private ones? And what’s up with people who don’t think we should use labels at all? This week, we’re continuing to dive deep on sex & gender identity labels.
Sep 16, 2025 · 45 min
What It Says On the Tin
When it comes to sex and gender, labels can be helpful and affirming, but they can also be limiting and divisive. This week, we discuss our own labels, and what we think they achieve for us.
Sep 9, 2025 · 58 min
Ace of Hearts
Asexuality is a highly misunderstood identity, so this week we’re discussing what it means to be ace – and why Kate is newly identifying that way!
Sep 2, 2025 · 53 min
Carpe DM
This week, we give more advice on play parties, including how to become a DM, how to approach a stranger for play, and how to take care of yourself emotionally during an event.
Aug 26, 2025 · 55 min
Bedding Crashers
Party time! This week, we discuss etiquette and preparation for attending a play party, whether it’s sex-focused, kink-focused, or both.
Aug 19, 2025 · 50 min
Explosively Erotic
We always love learning about interesting fetishes, and this week we’ve got a bunch of juicy ones to discuss, from bomb-shaped women to pig-shaped men.
Aug 12, 2025 · 46 min
Keep It Rolling
Watching movies and TV shows with a partner can be surprisingly bonding and eye-opening! This week we discuss the ways our relationships have benefited from enjoying media with partners.
Aug 5, 2025 · 55 min
Was It Good For Me?
This week we dig deeper into the subject of sexual selfishness, answering questions like: Can it be selfish to give pleasure? How can you satisfy a stone person? And is there really a top shortage?
Jul 29, 2025 · 46 min
Sweetly Greedy
What does it mean to be selfish in bed, and is it always necessarily a bad thing? This week we discuss our relationships to “selfishness” and receiving pleasure.
Jul 22, 2025 · 1 hr 3 min
Meet in the Middle
Talking about sex is hard, which is why so many sex educators try to “meet people where they’re at,” a concept we unpack this week to help you have better conversations about sex.
Jul 8, 2025 · 53 min
Lip Service
This week, we celebrated International Kissing Day by answering listener questions about kissing!
Jul 3, 2025 · 48 min
Home Sweet Homo
This week, while Kate’s moving from Toronto to New York, Billy chats with his partner Dee Darkholme about THEIR recent move, and what it’s been like adjusting to living together with Dee’s other partner.
Jun 24, 2025 · 43 min
Emotional Blue Balls
How do you get over a friend who doesn’t like you back? This week, we wade deeper into the topic of unrequited feelings within a friendship.
Jun 17, 2025 · 57 min
Probably Platonic?
What happens when you catch feelings for your friend? This week, we discuss the tricky art of keeping a friendship afloat while attraction rocks the boat.
Jun 10, 2025 · 45 min
Copulationships
Friendships with benefits are an important part of our sexual landscape, so this week we discuss how to navigate casual ongoing sexual partnerships with kindness and grace.
Jun 3, 2025 · 41 min
Pleasure for the Better
Sexual pleasure can be wonderful self-care, even during some low-libido times. This week we discuss our favorite methods of sexual self-care.
May 27, 2025 · 45 min
Take the 'E' Train
This week Kate chats with her wife mb about how HRT (hormone replacement therapy) can affect transfeminine people’s skin sensitivity, orgasm intensity, desire levels, and more!
May 13, 2025 · 38 min
Do It Yourself
Happy Masturbation Month to those who celebrate! This week we’re answering listener questions on jerkin’ it.
May 6, 2025 · 40 min
Let's All U-Haul
Living with your polycule: bad idea, or best idea? This week we discuss the emotional and practical realities of Billy’s recent decision to move in with his partner and metamour!