
How Do I Overcome Performance Anxiety? The Fear Behind Performance
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Shelly Qualter, an expert counselor, joins Kristie and Felicia to talk everything on performance anxiety. Drawing from Shelly’s experience as an expert counselor, they break down performance anxiety as a fear-based emotion arising from uncertainty, feeling threatened, or being out of control.
Some takeaways:
- The difference between helpful "nervous energy" and debilitating panic
- How externalizing anxiety (like giving it a name) fosters control and self-compassion
- Distinguishing between fact-based worry and baseless "what if" worries
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- 0:00Chapter 1
- 0:30Introduction
- 4:26Defining Performance Anxiety
- 8:41Common Anxiety Triggers & Physical Sensations
- 13:12Physiological Similarities Between Anxiety and Excitement
- 16:46Externalizing Anxiety: The Visualization Technique
- 22:38The Window of Tolerance and Optimal Anxiety
- 34:52The 93/7 Rule: Facts vs. Feelings
- 45:49Story 1: Performance Anxiety in the Bedroom
- 52:17Story 2: Work Anxiety and Complex PTSD
- 1:01:48How to "Worry Well" and Problem Solve
- 1:04:27Final Thoughts: Don't Sweat the Small Stuff