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Vanessa Van Edwards

I will teach you how to communicate with confidence. I share science-backed, practical strategies to help you thrive in business, life, and love. Even if you're an introvert!

I'm Vanessa Van Edwards, bestselling author of Captivate and Cues. My brand-new book, Conversation, comes out October 6th 📗 I also teach a course at Harvard University and have taught millions of students how to be more memorable and get the recognition they deserve in my online courses. My goal is to help you level up your people skills.

Want advanced communication tips? Join ambitious professionals in People School, our advanced online communication course. Attend live office hours with me where I answer your questions. I'll give you tools to master your interpersonal success.

I'll help you out! vanessa.live

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Science of People: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vanessavanedwards/
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  • Saturday · 12 min

    How to Be Happier

    Learn how to be happy in life and how to find happiness within yourself. Stop waiting for happiness and wake up excited with these easy-to-implement happiness steps. The power of happiness comes from yourself. In this video, you will find some tips on how to be happier and I am going to teach you how you can control and influence your happiness with your behavior, mindset, and day-to-day activities. Want more details on the science of happiness and our power of happiness course? 👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/courses/happiness/ In this video: 0:00 Intro 0:22 Can we make ourselves happier? 1:34 We are in control of our happiness 2:15 How to find out what you need to do to be happier 3:55 Happiness experiment 5:37 Partner in joy 6:59 Gratitude ****** If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR People School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve all of the things you know you’re capable of, People School was created for you. With 12 modules – each one built around a unique human behavior law – People School is the only science-based training program that provides you with actionable lessons to learn the skills you need to succeed. Step-by-step, People School will teach you how to create authentic and meaningful connections with anyone… and accelerate your success. People School has already helped thousands of smart, driven, people from all over the world go from feeling “stuck” to leapfrogging their peers, landing clients, and becoming top performers at places like Google, Hertz, Microsoft and many more. Join the waitlist for People School here 👉 http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/ My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of: Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators. My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again. PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com + Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ ****** Vanessa Van Edwards is a national bestselling author and founder at Science of People. She is also a recovering awkward person. She is the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People which has been translated into 15 different languages. Vanessa’s unique approach has been featured on CNN, BBC, CBS, Fast Company, Inc., Entrepreneur Magazine, USA Today, Today Show and many more. Vanessa shares tangible skills to improve interpersonal communication and leadership, including her insights on how people work. She’s developed a science-based framework for understanding personalities, decoding body language and improving people skills to help people communicate professionally, socially and romantically. Vanessa works with entrepreneurs, growing businesses, and trillion dollar companies; and has spoken to thousands of audiences at TEDx London, MIT and CES to name a few. Science of People looks at the hidden forces that drive our behavior. It’s mission is to help people achieve their goals faster and understand what makes peo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Saturday · 8 min

    Step Out of Your Comfort Zone with these Unique Ideas

    Ready to break free from your comfort zone? Here are 50 unique ideas to explore, from easy to challenging! Stepping out of your comfort zone is the key to growth and fresh opportunities. I challenge you to take on at LEAST three of these suggestions and spill the beans in the comments! 💪😊 #comfortzonechallenge Read more about breaking out of your comfort zone here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/comfort-zone/ In this video: 0:13 - Leaving the Comfort Zone 0:19 - The Fear Zone 0:35 - The Learning Zone 1:04 - Ideas to Step Out of Your Comfort Zone 2:04 - Try Something Different 2:19 - Small and Exciting Ideas 1:54 - Commit to Three Ideas 2:04 - Playlist Challenge 2:19 - Ordering a Surprise Meal 2:26 - Sending Compliments 2:40 - Exploring New Exercises 2:47 - Joining a Reddit Forum 2:54 - Sharing at an Open Mic 2:59 - Posting on Social Media 3:07 - Asking Librarian for Book Recommendation 3:15 - Exploring New Places 3:19 - Trying a New Hairstyle 3:20 - Taking a New Class 3:29 - Watching Tutorials 3:39 - Saying Yes to Every Request 3:42 - Writing a Poem 3:49 - Learning a New Language 3:57 - Visiting a Garage Sale 3:58 - Negotiating at a Garage Sale 4:03 - Cooking Something New 4:07 - Saying Good Morning to Everyone 4:10 - Reading a Challenging Book 4:20 - Trying a New Coffee Drink 4:25 - Donating Unworn Clothes 4:30 - Taking an Improv Class 4:31 - Creating a Vision Board 4:38 - Asking for Cooking Recommendations 4:41 - Waking Up Early 4:42 - Ordering Unfamiliar Food 4:47 - Voice Lessons 4:50 - Going to a Movie Alone 4:51 - Getting to Know Someone New 4:53 - Taking a Confidence Course 4:57 - Learning with Science of People 5:01 - Being a Yes Person 5:11 - Learning a People Skill 5:12 - Creating or Buying a Gift 5:16 - Commitment and Conclusion 5:17 - Poem for Someone You Care About 5:18 - Bravely Stepping Out of Comfort Zone 5:31 - Additional Challenges 5:31 - Cold Plunge 5:35 - Learning Tango 6:08 - Finding a Reason to Like Disliked Things 6:14 - Taking a Break from Social Media 6:21 - Exploring New Coffee Shops 6:43 - Changing Profile Photo 7:10 - Starting a Book Club *** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/capti...) and creator of People School (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/peopl....) My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/ PS - Join the conversation on social! ☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ ☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/ ☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Saturday · 10 min

    The Look of Power: An Excerpt from Cues Analyzing Nixon vs. Kennedy

    I got permission to share one of my favorite excerpts from my Cues Audiobook. Learn how simple nonverbal cues changed the course of history and can help you look more powerful. Listen to how Richard Nixon's 1960 presidential debate nonverbal cues rewrote political fate! 🎙️ Explore the captivating tale of Nixon's fateful gestures, from posture to expressions, that reshaped an election. Discover how Kennedy's composed cues spoke volumes of confidence. 🤝 Join us as we unravel the untold impact of nonverbal cues on power and perception. 🕵️‍♂️🔍 #CuesBook #Audiogram This is from our latest bestselling book: Cues Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/ Read it on Amazon, Audible or wherever books are sold! ****** In this video: 0:06 - Nixon's String of Bad Luck 0:22 - Negative Cues and the First Presidential Debate 0:57 - The Difference in Nonverbal Cues 1:08 - Runner's Feet 2:03 - White Knuckling 2:49 - Self-Soothing 3:56 - Gaze Direction 4:48 - Nixon's Shifty Reputation 5:07 - Contempt and Disdain 5:58 - Kennedy's Calm and Confident Demeanor 6:12 - Nixon's Cue Signals and the Election Outcome PS - Join the conversation on social! ☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ ☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/ ☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards Read More: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Saturday · 9 min

    The Science of Soulmates

    How many Americans do you think believe in the concept of soulmates? Which part of the percentage do you stand in? In this video, I talk about the science of soulmates and the difference between destiny believers vs. growth believers in romantic relationships. Whether you believe in the idea of soulmates or not, the concept can really affect your mindset when searching for a partner, what the longevity of a relationship looks like for you, and success rate. Want more details on the science of soulmates? 👉https://www.scienceofpeople.com/soulmate/ Succeed with people with my book Captivate!: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/ Learn how to read your soulmate's cues with my new book Cues!: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/ In this video: 0:00 Intro 0:30 Statistics on Soulmates 2:05 Destiny vs. Growth Beliefs 3:15 Shift In Beliefs 4:00 The Demise of Destiny Believers 4:28 Advice to Destiny Believers ****** If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR People School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. People School focuses on the four core competencies of Business PQ: • Empower Leaders and Managers • Leverage Science-Backed Communication Tools • Activate Effective Teamwork and Collaboration • Improve Client Relations & Sales Join the waitlist for People School here 👉 http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/ My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of: Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators. My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again. PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com + Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ ****** Vanessa Van Edwards is Lead Investigator at Science of People — where she unlocks the formulas and patterns behind human behavior for hundreds of thousands of students in over 200 countries. She is the national bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding With People, available in 14 languages around the world. Her work has been featured on CNN, NPR, BBC, Fast Company and dozens more. Can’t get enough of Science of People? Check out our Praiseworthy Performance audio guide 👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/start/ ****** Did you enjoy the video? If so, give it a like above! Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies 👉 https://youtube.com/c/VanessaVanEdwardsYT/ P.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Friday · 6 min

    What Type of Laugh Do You Have?

    You'll have to tell me what type of laugh you have from these 12. If i'm laughing really hard, I have the chortle 😂 are there more types of laughs? I hope that you laugh just from watching this video! In this video: 0:00 - Intro 0:55 - Laugh #1 1:06 - Laugh #2 1:15 - Laugh #3 1:27 - Laugh #4 1:42 - Laugh #5 1:59 - Laugh #6 2:11 - Laugh #7 2:30 - Laugh #8 2:53 - Laugh #8 3:00 - Laugh #10 3:20 - Laugh #11 3:38 - Laugh #12 ****** If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR People School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. People School focuses on the four core competencies of Business PQ: • Empower Leaders and Managers • Leverage Science-Backed Communication Tools • Activate Effective Teamwork and Collaboration • Improve Client Relations & Sales Join People School here 👉 www.scienceofpeople.com/enroll ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/ My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of: Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators. My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again. PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com + Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ ****** Did you enjoy the video? If so, give it a like above! Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies 👉 https://youtube.com/c/VanessaVanEdwardsYT/ P.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Friday · 7 min

    A Formula for Introducing Yourself Perfectly Every Time

    Do you know how to introduce yourself so people want to get to know you? Learn the essential formula for introducing yourself with confidence and charisma. Perfect for beginners and pros alike, we've got some awesome tips to help you make those introductions unforgettable. Read more about how to introduce yourself: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/introduce-yourself/ Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction 0:20 - Nonverbal Introductions 1:01 - Handshakes and Greetings 1:33 - Visible Hand for Greeting 1:50 - Angling Towards the Person 2:27 - Avoid Rushing Through Your Name 3:18 - Using Positive Words 3:51 - Stating Your Title 4:07 - Adding a Fun Fact 4:49 - Importance of Introducing Yourself 4:56 - Conversation Mastery Course ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards, and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/), Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/), and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/). My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted, or forgotten again. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/training/be-the-most-likable-person-in-the-room/ ****** PS - Join the conversation on social! ☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/ ☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards ☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Friday · 8 min

    How to Be Instantly Irresistible

    Did you know that making a good impression happens in just 7 seconds? How can we make those first 7 seconds count? We studied and coded hundreds of hours of Ted Talks based on charisma, credibility, and intelligence and we found a few different patterns that I want to share. And guess what? Most of these aren't even verbal! We found that nonverbal cues matter a lot more than verbal cues. I want to give you the body language hacks that we've studied to be successful so that you can use them to be unforgettable, likable, and trustworthy. In this video: 0:00 Intro 0:17 How can you teach us how to be more irresistible? 2:46 Irresistible quality #1 3:58 Irresistible quality #2 5:00 Irresistible quality #3 ****** If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR People School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. People School focuses on the four core competencies of Business PQ: • Empower Leaders and Managers • Leverage Science-Backed Communication Tools • Activate Effective Teamwork and Collaboration • Improve Client Relations & Sales Join the waitlist for People School here 👉 http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 01:07 Non-verbal communication matters! 02:27 The first 7 seconds 02:48 Use your hands 03:55 Vocal Charisma 04:59 The classic one: a genuine smile! Want more information on how to make a grand entrance and leave a lasting impression? 👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/secrets-of-a-successful-ted-talk/ ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/ My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of: Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators. My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again. PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com + Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ ****** Did you enjoy the video? If so, give it a like above! Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies 👉 https://youtube.com/c/VanessaVanEdwardsYT/ P.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell! #vanessavanedwards #howtobeirresistible #tedtalkbodylanguage #howtobelikeable Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Friday · 11 min

    Discover Your Core Values

    Get ready to dive into the world of core values! We're talking about those fundamental beliefs that make you who you are and drive your daily choices. I'll present you with a list of the top 50 core values, and together, we'll whittle it down to your top five. Buckle up because knowing your core values isn't just fun, it's a game-changer. It'll help you make better decisions and give you a sneak peek into what makes the people in your life tick. Let's get started! 🚀 Read more here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/core-values/ In this video: 0:00 - Understanding Core Values 0:12 - Examples of Core Values 0:50 - Honor and Support Core Values 0:58 - Identifying Your Core Values 1:11 - Selecting Your Top Five Core Values 1:54 - Practical Application of Core Values 2:06 - Exploring a List of 50 Core Values 2:33 - Making Your Selection 3:53 - Continuing the Selection Process 4:49 - Prioritizing Your Core Values 6:50 - Applying Core Values in Decision Making 7:37 - Conclusion and Invitation ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards, and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/), Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/), and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/). My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted, or forgotten again. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/training/be-the-most-likable-person-in-the-room/ ****** PS - Join the conversation on social! ☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/ ☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards ☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Friday · 9 min

    7 Powerful Hand Gestures You Should Be Using

    Research has shown that hand gestures make anyone more trustworthy, likable and charismatic. In this video, I'm going to teach you what hand gestures you should be using on a daily basis. Hand gestures support memorability, trustworthiness, and clarity. These powerful hand gestures can be used in normal social interactions, networking events, or presentations and can leave a great lasting impression! For some people, hand gestures come naturally, but others must practice. For example, in this video I mention how politicians have to learn how to point in a non-aggressive way. Practice with a friend or in the mirror and nail this powerful nonverbal social cue! Order Cues on Amazon and learn more valuable cues like this here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/ Want even more hand gestures? 👉https://www.scienceofpeople.com/hand-gestures/ Or order Captivate to learn how to Captivate any room with your social skills: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/ In this video: 00:00 The importance of hand gestures 01:04 Hand Gesture #1 01:30 Hand Gesture #2 02:21 Hand Gesture #3 02:56 Hand Gesture #4 04:03 Hand Gesture #5 04:37 Hand Gesture #6 05:22 Hand Gesture #7 05:43 How hand gestures relate to charisma ****** If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR People School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. People School focuses on the four core competencies of Business PQ: • Empower Leaders and Managers • Leverage Science-Backed Communication Tools • Activate Effective Teamwork and Collaboration • Improve Client Relations & Sales Join the waitlist for People School here 👉 http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/ My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of: Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators. My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again. PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com + Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ ****** Did you enjoy the video? If so, give it a like above! Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies 👉https://youtube.com/c/VanessaVanEdwardsYT/ P.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell! #vanessavanedwards #handgestures #handgestureswhilespeaking Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Friday · 8 min

    How to Eliminate Toxic People and Build Your Inner Circle

    🎥 Join me as I reveal the biggest mistake we make when setting goals. Learn how to eliminate toxic people and strategically build your inner circle. 🔄 Ready to take control of your goals? Watch now and join my free goal-setting class on 12/29 for extra guidance and support! 🚀✨ Register here! www.scienceofpeople.com/2024goals ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards, and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/), Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/), and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/). My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted, or forgotten again. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/training/be-the-most-likable-person-in-the-room/ ****** PS - Join the conversation on social! ☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/ ☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards ☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Friday · 5 min

    The SECRET to getting along with EVERYONE

    Are you a good people person? Do you always know what to say and who to say it to? People skills did not come naturally. Can you learn how to be charismatic? Learning how to develop charismatic personality will help you to influence people around you. In this video, I’ll tell you a story about what I’ve learned about being charismatic. Want more details on charisma? 👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/charisma/ In this video: 0:00 Intro 0:35 The secret to getting along with anyone 1:35 No one is boring 1:59 Final thoughts ****** If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR People School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve all of the things you know you’re capable of, People School was created for you. With 12 modules – each one built around a unique human behavior law – People School is the only science-based training program that provides you with actionable lessons to learn the skills you need to succeed. Step-by-step, People School will teach you how to create authentic and meaningful connections with anyone… and accelerate your success. People School has already helped thousands of smart, driven, people from all over the world go from feeling “stuck” to leapfrogging their peers, landing clients, and becoming top performers at places like Google, Hertz, Microsoft and many more. Join the waitlist for People School here 👉 http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/ My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of: Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators. My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again. PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com + Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ ****** Vanessa Van Edwards is a national bestselling author and founder at Science of People. She is also a recovering awkward person. She is the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People which has been translated into 15 different languages. Vanessa’s unique approach has been featured on CNN, BBC, CBS, Fast Company, Inc., Entrepreneur Magazine, USA Today, Today Show and many more. Vanessa shares tangible skills to improve interpersonal communication and leadership, including her insights on how people work. She’s developed a science-based framework for understanding personalities, decoding body language and improving people skills to help people communicate professionally, socially and romantically. Vanessa works with entrepreneurs, growing businesses, and trillion dollar companies; and has spoken to thousands of audiences at TEDx London, MIT and CES to name a few. Science of People looks at the hidden forces that drive our behavior. It’s mission is to help people achieve their goals faster and understand what makes people tick. 👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate ****** Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies 👉 http://bit.ly/37ZWNHS P.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell! **** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Friday · 8 min

    The 7 Types of Toxic People

    Do you feel drained from a person in your life? A parent, a friend, a significant other? In this video, I talk about the traits of 7 types of toxic people, how to spot them, and how to deal. We all deserve to have supportive people in our lives that we enjoying seeing and LOVE to hang out with, so my hope is that from this video you can spot the toxicity from a mile away and stop it dead in its tracks. Want more details on toxic people and how to avoid them?  👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/toxic-people/ In this video: 0:00 Intro 0:37 Toxic Type #1 1:10 Toxic Type #2 1:47 Toxic Type #3 2:22 Toxic Type #4 2:56 Toxic Type #5 3:36 Toxic Type #6 4:06 Toxic Type #7 4:41 How to deal Learn how to be captivating instead of toxic with my book Captivate! Get your book here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/ Read the body language of a toxic person with my new book Cues! Get yours here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/ ****** If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR People School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. People School focuses on the four core competencies of Business PQ: • Empower Leaders and Managers • Leverage Science-Backed Communication Tools • Activate Effective Teamwork and Collaboration • Improve Client Relations & Sales 👉People School registration is now OPEN! Sign up here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/training/people-school/ ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/ My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of: Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators. My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again. PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com + Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ ****** Vanessa Van Edwards is Lead Investigator at Science of People — where she unlocks the formulas and patterns behind human behavior for hundreds of thousands of students in over 200 countries. She is the national bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding With People, available in 14 languages around the world. Her work has been featured on CNN, NPR, BBC, Fast Company and dozens more. Can’t get enough of Science of People? Check out our Praiseworthy Performance audio guide  👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/start/ ****** Did you enjoy the video? If so, give it a like above! Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies 👉 https://youtube.com/c/VanessaVanEdwardsYT/ P.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Friday · 11 min

    How to stop your nervous laughs

    Nervous laughter can come during the worst time and can create a VERY awkward moment... As a recovering nervous laugher, I am sharing my tips on how to prevent these awkward moments! Learn more about nervous laughter with our Science of People guide: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/nervous-laughter/ FREE Training: How to Deal With Difficult People at Work https://www.scienceofpeople.com/training/how-to-deal-with-difficult-people-at-work/ In this video: 0:10 What is nervous laughter? 0:33 The 3 causes of nervous laughter 1:00 The problem with nervous laughing 1:10 The 3 tactics you can use to stop nervous laughter 4:17 How to excuse yourself from the conversation ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards, and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/), Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/), and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/). My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted, or forgotten again. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/training/be-the-most-likable-person-in-the-room/ ****** PS - Join the conversation on social! ☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/ ☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards ☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Friday · 6 min

    Post Traumatic Growth

    Have you or a loved one been through a difficult experience? Sometimes things happen in life that we just can't control. Sometimes they are good things, but sometimes they are bad things. Failures, challenges, and mistakes happen to the best of us today. I want to introduce you to a completely new way of thinking about the bad things that happen to us, specifically this is a concept called post-traumatic growth. Want more details on how to get post-traumatic growth? https://www.scienceofpeople.com/post-traumatic-growth/ 00:00 intro 01:03 Post-Traumatic Growth 01:53 Growth Areas 02:50 How to Transition into PTG ****** If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR People School is a 12-step video-based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve all of the things you know you’re capable of, People School was created for you. With 12 modules – each one built around a unique human behavior law – People School is the only science-based training program that provides you with actionable lessons to learn the skills you need to succeed. Step-by-step, People School will teach you how to create authentic and meaningful connections with anyone… and accelerate your success. People School has already helped thousands of smart, driven, people from all over the world go from feeling “stuck” to leapfrogging their peers, landing clients, and becoming top performers at places like Google, Hertz, Microsoft and many more. 👉People School registration is now OPEN! Sign up here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/train... ****** Vanessa Van Edwards is a national bestselling author and founder at Science of People. She is also a recovering awkward person. She is the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People which has been translated into 15 different languages. Vanessa’s unique approach has been featured on CNN, BBC, CBS, Fast Company, Inc., Entrepreneur Magazine, USA Today, Today Show and many more. Vanessa shares tangible skills to improve interpersonal communication and leadership, including her insights on how people work. She’s developed a science-based framework for understanding personalities, decoding body language and improving people skills to help people communicate professionally, socially and romantically. Vanessa works with entrepreneurs, growing businesses, and trillion dollar companies; and has spoken to thousands of audiences at TEDx London, MIT and CES to name a few. Science of People looks at the hidden forces that drive our behavior. It’s mission is to help people achieve their goals faster and understand what makes people tick. 👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate ****** Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies 👉 http://bit.ly/37ZWNHS P.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell! ****** ✔ W E B S I T E https://www.scienceofpeople.com Follow Us on: ✔ I N S T A G R A M https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards ✔ T W I T T E R https://twitter.com/vvanedwards ✔ L I N K E D I N https://www.linkedin.com/in/vanessavanedwards ✔ F A C E B O O K https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards #PostTraumaticGrowth #Trauma #Stress #VanessaVanEdwards Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Friday · 7 min

    Tips for Being Charismatic on Video

    If you've recently been searching for a new job, you've probably noticed that video interviews are getting more and more popular. Have a Skype interview coming up? Do you want to know how to prepare for a video interview and how to build a quick connection when you're communicating through a screen? Here are the 5 steps to an awesome video chat. Find out more at http://ScienceofPeople.com In this video: 00:00 Intro 00:41 Prep Your Set 01:49 Dress to Impress 02:34 Digital First Impression 02:50 Virtual Body Language 03:43 End on a High ****** If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR People School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve all of the things you know you’re capable of, People School was created for you. With 12 modules – each one built around a unique human behavior law – People School is the only science-based training program that provides you with actionable lessons to learn the skills you need to succeed. Step-by-step, People School will teach you how to create authentic and meaningful connections with anyone… and accelerate your success. People School has already helped thousands of smart, driven, people from all over the world go from feeling “stuck” to leapfrogging their peers, landing clients, and becoming top performers at places like Google, Hertz, Microsoft and many more. 👉People School registration is now OPEN! Sign up here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/train... ****** Vanessa Van Edwards is a national bestselling author and founder at Science of People. She is also a recovering awkward person. She is the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People which has been translated into 15 different languages. Vanessa’s unique approach has been featured on CNN, BBC, CBS, Fast Company, Inc., Entrepreneur Magazine, USA Today, Today Show and many more. Vanessa shares tangible skills to improve interpersonal communication and leadership, including her insights on how people work. She’s developed a science-based framework for understanding personalities, decoding body language and improving people skills to help people communicate professionally, socially and romantically. Vanessa works with entrepreneurs, growing businesses, and trillion dollar companies; and has spoken to thousands of audiences at TEDx London, MIT and CES to name a few. Science of People looks at the hidden forces that drive our behavior. It’s mission is to help people achieve their goals faster and understand what makes people tick. 👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate ****** Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies 👉 http://bit.ly/37ZWNHS P.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell! ****** ✔ W E B S I T E https://www.scienceofpeople.com Follow Us on: ✔ I N S T A G R A M https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards ✔ T W I T T E R https://twitter.com/vvanedwards ✔ L I N K E D I N https://www.linkedin.com/in/vanessavanedwards ✔ F A C E B O O K https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards #VideoChat #VideoInterview #Interview #VanessaVanEdwards #interviewskills #videochat #skype #zoom #firstimpression #bodylanguage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Friday · 6 min

    My Favorite Text Conversation Starters

    Whether you're chatting with your best friend, crush, group chat, or family, these conversation starters will spark engaging discussions. From opinion-based questions and gossip teasers to deep and thought-provoking queries, there's something for everyone. Read more: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/text-conversation-starters/ Learn more about conversation mastery: scienceofpeople.com/cm In this video: 0:45 - Opinion-based questions 1:00 - Plans for the weekend 1:13 - Random check-in 1:26 - Teasing with drama 1:44 - Choosing a meal 2:01 - Food preferences 2:15 - Deeper questions 3:22 - Professional check-in 4:07 - Checking in on old friends 4:52 - Conversation starters for holidays 5:38 - Excuse to text 5:55 - Planning future activities 6:04 - Expressing a desire to hang out 6:32 - Conclusion and course promotion ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards, and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/), Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/), and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/). My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted, or forgotten again. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/training/be-the-most-likable-person-in-the-room/ ****** PS - Join the conversation on social! ☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/ ☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards ☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Friday · 11 min

    The Science of the Perfect Handshake

    Did you know that a poor handshake can kill your first impression? It is so important when we're making that first impression because a lot of how we judge someone's personality is based on their handshake. Knowing how to shake hands with someone is very important in the professional and personal world. Watch this video to know how to give a perfect handshake. Want more on how to give a great handshake? https://www.scienceofpeople.com/handshake/ ****** If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/training/people-school/ People School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve all of the things you know you’re capable of, People School was created for you. With 12 modules – each one built around a unique human behavior law – People School is the only science-based training program that provides you with actionable lessons to learn the skills you need to succeed. Step-by-step, People School will teach you how to create authentic and meaningful connections with anyone… and accelerate your success. People School has already helped thousands of smart, driven, people from all over the world go from feeling “stuck” to leapfrogging their peers, landing clients, and becoming top performers at places like Google, Hertz, Microsoft and many more. 00:00 Intro 00:24 The importance of a good handshake 01:15 Proper hand position 02:14 Eye contact 03:16 Firmness 04:16 Dry your hands! 05:06 Duration 5:30 How to get out of an awkward handshake 6:15 Handshake or hug? ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/ My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of: Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators. My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again. PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com + Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ ****** Vanessa Van Edwards is a national bestselling author and founder at Science of People. She is also a recovering awkward person. She is the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People which has been translated into 15 different languages. Vanessa’s unique approach has been featured on CNN, BBC, CBS, Fast Company, Inc., Entrepreneur Magazine, USA Today, Today Show and many more. Vanessa shares tangible skills to improve interpersonal communication and leadership, including her insights on how people work. She’s developed a science-based framework for understanding personalities, decoding body language and improving people skills to help people communicate professionally, socially and romantically. Vanessa works with entrepreneurs, growing businesses, and trillion dollar companies; and has spoken to thousands of audiences at TEDx London, MIT and CES to name a few. Science of People looks at the hidden forces that drive our behavior. It’s mission is to help people achieve their goals faster and understand what makes people tick. 👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate ****** ✔ W E B S I T E https://www.scienceofpeople.com Follow Us Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Friday · 5 min

    Box Breathing: How to Calm Your Nerves

    Unlock the secret weapon of Navy Seals - Box Breathing! Learn the simple yet powerful 4-step process of inhaling, holding, exhaling, and holding again, each for four seconds. This technique is scientifically proven to be one of the quickest ways to bring tranquility to your mind and body. Read more here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/box-breathing/ Feeling overwhelmed? We’ve got you covered with our FREE burnout training to help you combat stress like a pro. Go to scienceofpeople.com/beatburnout to claim your free training. In this video: 0:13 - Box Breathing Technique 0:48 - Importance of Calming Thoughts 1:03 - Four Rounds of Box Breathing 1:33 - Steps of Box Breathing 1:54 - Try Box Breathing Yourself 2:00 - Using Box Breathing for Burnout 2:21 - Free Burnout Training 2:34 - Join the Recorded Class on Burnout 3:48 - Conclusion ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards, and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/), Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/), and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/). My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted, or forgotten again. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/training/be-the-most-likable-person-in-the-room/ ****** PS - Join the conversation on social! ☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/ ☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards ☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Friday · 8 min

    How to Snap Out of a Funk

    Stop feeling depressed with these helpful, mood-lifting, and engaging tips! There are a lot of ways to stop being depressed or even prevent depression from happening. In this video, I am going to teach you about the hormones that make us feel moody and off-center and how to control them in order to snap out of your funk. Want more on the power of emotion and body language? 👉https://www.scienceofpeople.com/get-out-funk-depressed/ Are you depressed and need help? 👉 https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline 00:00 Intro 00:43 More Seratonin 01:42 Dopamine 02:51 Testosterone 03:43 Oxytocin 04:49 Endorphins ****** If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship online course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR People School is a 12-step video-based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. If you want to learn how to rapidly build trust, spark excitement, develop meaningful connections, stand out from your peers, and finally achieve all of the things you know you’re capable of, People School was created for you. With 12 modules – each one built around a unique human behavior law – People School is the only science-based training program that provides you with actionable lessons to learn the skills you need to succeed. Step-by-step, People School will teach you how to create authentic and meaningful connections with anyone… and accelerate your success. People School has already helped thousands of smart, driven, people from all over the world go from feeling “stuck” to leapfrogging their peers, landing clients, and becoming top performers at places like Google, Hertz, Microsoft, and many more. 👉People School registration is now OPEN! Sign up here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/train... ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/ My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of: Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators. My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again. PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com + Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ ****** Vanessa Van Edwards is a national bestselling author and founder at Science of People. She is also a recovering awkward person. She is the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People which has been translated into 15 different languages. Vanessa’s unique approach has been featured on CNN, BBC, CBS, Fast Company, Inc., Entrepreneur Magazine, USA Today, Today Show and many more. Vanessa shares tangible skills to improve interpersonal communication and leadership, including her insights on how people work. She’s developed a science-based framework for understanding personalities, decoding body language, and improving people skills to help people communicate professionally, socially, and romantically. Vanessa works with entrepreneurs, growing businesses, and trillion-dollar companies; and has spoken to thousands of audiences at TEDx London, MIT and CES to name a few. Science of People looks at the hidden forces that drive our behavior. It’s mission is to help people achieve their goals faster and understand what makes people tick. 👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate ****** Subscribe to our channel for more human Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Friday · 5 min

    20 Deep Conversation Starters for Couples

    Instead of getting caught in the web of mundane logistics, these thought-provoking questions are crafted to ignite meaningful conversations. Whether you opt to ask them all at once during a special occasion or pose one question per week, these prompts are designed to bring you and your partner closer together. Explore topics ranging from success and favorite music to expressing love and discussing aspirations. Challenge yourselves by delving into the questions that make you a little nervous and witness how they deepen your connection. Ready to enhance your communication and strengthen your bond? Watch now! 🌟 Read more: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/conversation-starters-for-couples/ In this video: 1:59:46 - Do not get stuck in this couple trap. 1:59:49 - Having the same conversation about logistics all the time. 1:59:53 - Realizing repetitive questions to spouse. 2:12 - Favorite deep conversation starters for couples. 2:27 - Challenge to try the ones that make you a little bit nervous. 0:37 - Question 1: Biggest win or success this year? 0:48 - Question 2: Music you listen to when alone or driving. 0:57 - Question 3: Who makes you feel the happiest? 1:03 - Question 4: Skill you would like to learn most. 1:10 - Question 5: Optimist or pessimist? 1:15 - Question 6: Place or time you wish to return to. 1:23 - Question 7: Where would you want to go on a big trip together? 1:31 - Question 8: How did your family express love when you were growing up? 1:36 - Question 9: Goals as a couple. 1:50 - Question 10: What do you worry about the most? 1:54 - Question 11: Favorite self-care ritual. 2:04 - Question 12: How do you think others would describe you? 2:11 - Question 13: How would you describe yourself? 2:17 - Question 14: Most significant trouble in school. 2:24 - Question 15: Reconnecting with someone you don't talk to anymore. 2:33 - Question 16: Reassessing spending habits. 2:41 - Question 17: Uncomfortable topics to discuss. 2:44 - Question 18: Improving response to uncomfortable topics. 2:53 - Question 19: Giving back to the community. 2:55 - Question 20: Volunteering together. 2:59 - Question 21: Strangest thing you've ever eaten. 3:04 - Question 22: Choosing a new name and its match to personality. 3:11 - Question 23: Spending enough time together. 3:19 - Question 24: Making changes to ensure spending enough time together. 3:23 - Aim of sparking different conversations and learning new things. ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards, and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/), Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/), and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/). My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted, or forgotten again. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/training/be-the-most-likable-person-in-the-room/ ****** PS - Join the conversation on social! ☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/ ☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards ☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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