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Vanessa Van Edwards · Yesterday · 31 min

How to Be Cool...and Be Popular Authentically

As we get older, our definition of "cool" changes. What we felt was important back then, can be different now that we've experienced life and learned our lessons. Codie Sanchez and I talked all about what it means to be a cool kid, how cool kids interact in social interactions, and how being cool can serve you in business transactions. This was a fun conversation to be a part of! Check out all of Codie's stuff! Codie's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/CodieSanchezCT @CodieSanchezCT Codie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/codiesanchez/ Codie's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@realcodiesanchez In this video: 0:00 Intro 1:44 What is a cool kid? 5:10 Codie's interest in buying boring businesses 7:00 How does confidence tie into being "cool"? 9:20 Boring can be cool 10:54 Cool people are generous 11:30 How to introduce yourself in a cool way 14:27 How to grow your friend group 18:16 Paypal mafia 21:22 How to attract other adult cool kids 22:40 Upcoming for Codie Codie's car renting video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukgd1jkO7Tg Codie's CIA video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PrdX1T41jYs ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/ My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of: Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators. My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again. PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com + Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ ****** PS - Join the conversation on social! ☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/ ☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards ☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ #cool #coolkid #howtobepopular #popular #popularity #authenticity #authentic #codiesanchez #vanessavanedwards #captivate #captivatebook #cues #cuesbook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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As we get older, our definition of "cool" changes. What we felt was important back then, can be different now that we've experienced life and learned our lessons.

Codie Sanchez and I talked all about what it means to be a cool kid, how cool kids interact in social interactions, and how being cool can serve you in business transactions. This was a fun conversation to be a part of!

Check out all of Codie's stuff!
Codie's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/CodieSanchezCT @CodieSanchezCT
Codie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/codiesanchez/
Codie's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@realcodiesanchez

In this video:
0:00 Intro
1:44 What is a cool kid?
5:10 Codie's interest in buying boring businesses
7:00 How does confidence tie into being "cool"?
9:20 Boring can be cool
10:54 Cool people are generous
11:30 How to introduce yourself in a cool way
14:27 How to grow your friend group
18:16 Paypal mafia
21:22 How to attract other adult cool kids
22:40 Upcoming for Codie

Codie's car renting video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukgd1jkO7Tg
Codie's CIA video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PrdX1T41jYs

******
Hi, I’m Vanessa!
You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you.
Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/

My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:
Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators.
My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.
PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com
+ Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/
******
PS - Join the conversation on social!
☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/
☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards
☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/

#cool #coolkid #howtobepopular #popular #popularity #authenticity #authentic #codiesanchez #vanessavanedwards #captivate #captivatebook #cues #cuesbook

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