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Not As We Planned

Tash Gershfield & Carly Harris

New episodes every Thursday, with exclusive bonus episodes every Monday on Patreon.

Welcome to Not As We Planned, the honest podcast about relationships, dating, marriage, divorce and motherhood, and all the things no one really talks about.

From becoming a mum and navigating divorce, to rebuilding life as a single mum and dating again in your 30s, we’re sharing the real, messy and unexpected sides of it all.

Life doesn’t always go to plan, and neither do relationships. This is a space for open conversations, shared experiences and saying the things most people avoid.

If you have a question or want to share your story, email us at notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com


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  • Aug 10, 2023 · 50 min

    6. Our First Holiday As Solo Parents

    <p>Going on holiday with your children is hard enough but going without your partner was definitely a new challenge for us both in different ways. Also chatting about other firsts as single parents and accepting those changes.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/</p>

  • Aug 3, 2023 · 40 min

    5. Trusting Again After Heartbreak

    <p>When trust is broken it’s hard to believe you will ever get it back. We share our experiences as well as some of yours and what we feel are the next steps in helping to feel like one day you can trust.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Producer: Tristan Hehir</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https:

  • Jul 27, 2023 · 43 min

    4. Red Flags

    <p>Talking about those red flags in relationships that we might be aware of but choose to ignore, or just find it hard to notice when we are living with them.</p><p><br></p><p>Producer: Tristan Hehir </p><p><br></p><p>City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/</p><p><br></p>

  • Jul 20, 2023 · 59 min

    3. New Beginnings

    Episode 3 - Finding our feet with our new solo parenting journey and discussing the highs and lows of coparenting. Giving advice on how to tell your children about separation and sharing some of your stories and experiences.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

  • Jul 13, 2023 · 42 min

    1. It's Over

    When two single mums come together to talk about the realisation of their marriages ending. Chatting all about the new challenges and changes one goes through and managing it around your children whilst trying to heal.Come and join us on our journey and we would love to hear anything you want to share to. Email us on notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.comProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music

  • Jul 13, 2023 · 46 min

    2. Having your psycho moment

    We are talking all about healing and trying to move on from a break up.Learning that this stage isn't linear and hearing some of your stories about those crazy moments you had after a break upProducer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/