
Think Fast Talk Smart: "What Other People Teach You About Your Communication"
What if purpose is what drives us to act, but meaning comes from how those actions affect other people? This week on If/Then, we’re sharing a conversation between two Stanford GSB colleagues: Think Fast, Talk Smart host Matt Abrahams and organizational behavior professor Brian Lowery. Recorded live at Stanford’s LEAD Me2We event, Matt and Brian explore the difference between purpose and meaning, why meaning is rooted in our relationships with others, and how the way we show up shapes the people around us. They also discuss sincerity, leadership, and how to give feedback that helps people feel seen rather than judged. It’s a conversation about the ripple effects of our interactions — and what they mean for how we work, lead, and connect with others. Related Content: Think Fast Talk Smart, the podcast Matt Abrahams Brian Lowery Chapters: 00:00:00 Introduction 00:01:14 Meaning vs. purpose 00:02:14 How to find purpose 00:02:50 Finding meaning through service to others 00:04:49 How relationships shape identity 00:05:54 The leader’s role in shaping others 00:09:32 Self-awareness and psychological safety 00:11:10 Respecting perspectives you don’t share 00:12:23 Sincerity vs. authenticity 00:13:28 Giving feedback that people can hear 00:17:47 What it means to be a better human 00:18:57 Conclusion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.













