
170. Your Red Flag Obsession Is Killing Your Relationships
We’ve all heard of red flags and green flags when it comes to relationships. But what if the way we’ve been using them is actually doing more harm than good? In today’s episode, we’re diving into the good old-fashioned red flag versus green flag debate, why we’ve started treating people like they’re disposable, and how this obsession with finding the perfect partner might be getting in the way of building the relationships we actually want. Because here’s the thing: not every flaw is a red flag, and not every uncomfortable moment means it’s time to walk away. We’re human beings. We have baggage, we have patterns, and we have things we’re still learning how to navigate. So when did we start expecting people to show up perfectly, with zero maintenance required? Today, I’m sharing my own experience navigating the ups and downs of my marriage, why I think we’ve become a little too quick to throw in the towel, and a different way of looking at red flags that might just change how you approach your relationships. And no, this isn’t about tolerating toxic behaviour or staying in relationships that are hurting you. It’s about learning to recognize the difference between a genuine red flag and something that might just require a conversation, a little accountability, or a willingness to grow. So if you’ve ever found yourself questioning a relationship because of something you saw online, or wondering whether every bump in the road is a sign that something isn’t right, this episode is for you. Let’s dive in, baby! __________________________ EXTRAS + SOCIALS * JOIN THE MEMBERSHIP HERE * Curious to check out my writing for Love, Sunday? SEE HERE Enjoyed this episode + want to send some love? SEE HERE For more about Brianne, her work and content SEE HERE Connect on Instagram: Brianne Roberge Go Regulate Yourself Connect on Facebook: Brianne Roberge Go Regulate Yourself
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