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Tanya & Erin

What do therapy, ’80s and ’90s nostalgia, today’s hottest shows and movies—and a surprising number of Adam Sandler films—have in common?

Tanya Dos Santos and Erin Gray—two licensed psychotherapists with a wicked New England twist—are here to spill the tea and the therapeutic insights.

On The Wicked Psychotherapists Podcast, Tanya and Erin break down the mental health themes that matter most—anxiety, identity, burnout, self-worth, relationships, and resilience—through the lens of pop culture. From the rad classics of the ’80s and ’90s to today’s buzziest series and films, nothing is off-limits… especially when it somehow connects back to Adam Sandler.

Yes, we said it.

From revisiting old favorites to analyzing newer Sandler movies—and exploring the six degrees of separation of Adam Sandler—this podcast blends humor, nostalgia, and psychological insight in a way that’s smart, entertaining, and refreshingly real.

Whether you’re comfort-watching a childhood favorite, bingeing something new, or wondering why a goofy comedy hit you right in the feelings, we’re here to help you connect the dots between what you watch and how you feel.

Expect:

Candid therapy talk with heart and humor
Pop culture deep dives with a mental health lens
’80s, ’90s, and today’s movies and shows (yes, including lots of Adam Sandler)
A dose of nostalgia, a dash of sass, and a lot of wisdom

🎙️ New episodes every Wednesday.

💬 Don’t forget to leave a review, share with your people, and follow us on Instagram and YouTube @WickedPsychotherapists.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional therapy or mental health care, and listening does not create a therapist–client relationship.

Stay Wicked… and keep your mind well.

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S4 · E17
Wednesday · 49 min
Sandy Wexler: The Lies We Tell to Feel Enough
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. Tanya and Erin dive into Adam Sandler's Sandy Wexler (2017) — a loosely-autobiographical tribute to Sandler's real-life manager, played as a lovable, compulsive liar trying to hold his career and relationships together with exaggeration and charm. Beneath the 90s nostalgia and stacked celebrity cameos, the hosts unpack what's really going on with Sandy: isolation, fear of not being "enough," and a pattern of performing confidence instead of feeling it. The conversation turns into a broader discussion about imposter syndrome — something the hosts see constantly in their work as therapists, and in themselves. Plus: a bonus round on which celebrity each host would want as a real-life friend. Stay Wicked. And keep your mind well. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S4 · E16
July 29 · 48 min
Adam Sandler's Pixels: What Video Games Can Teach Us About Life
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. This week we're continuing our Adam Sandler movie series with Pixels (2015)—and this episode is extra special because Erin's son, Jayden, joins us as our guest co-host! Having watched Pixels more times than we can count, Jayden brings observations that surprised even us. Together we explore why this movie is more than just giant Pac-Man, Donkey Kong, and classic arcade nostalgia. We discuss: 🎮 Why Pixels still holds up today 👾 The psychology of competition vs. having fun 🤝 Friendship, teamwork, and belonging 🧠 What gaming teaches us about resilience and problem-solving 😂 Our favorite Adam Sandler moments 🕹️ How arcades brought people together before online gaming 🌍 Which video game we'd choose if we had to save the world! Jayden also shares some thoughtful insights about playing fairly, why cheating ultimately backfires, and how video games have changed from one generation to the next. Whether you grew up feeding quarters into arcade machines or you've only discovered these games through movies like Pixels, this episode is packed with laughs, nostalgia, psychology, and a fun family conversation. Question of the Week: If you had to save the world by entering one video game...which game would you choose? Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S4 · E15
July 8 · 37 min
The Wedding Singer: Why Adam Sandler's Sweetest Character Still Resonates
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. 🎙️ Originally released in January, we're bringing this fan-favorite episode back at the perfect time! With Adam Sandler making headlines again, we thought it was the perfect opportunity to revisit one of his most beloved films: The Wedding Singer (1998). Is Robbie Hart simply a goofy wedding singer, or is he actually one of Adam Sandler's most emotionally intelligent and lovable characters? In this episode, licensed psychotherapists Erin Gray and Tanya revisit The Wedding Singer through a psychology lens, exploring emotional regulation, attachment, grief, self-worth, healthy relationships, and why this classic '90s comedy continues to resonate nearly three decades later. We also discuss: Adam Sandler's evolution as an actor Robbie Hart's emotional sensitivity and resilience Julia's struggles with self-esteem and unhealthy relationships The psychology behind finding purpose and meaningful work Why kindness is often mistaken for weakness The unforgettable supporting cast, including Steve Buscemi, Billy Idol, and Drew Barrymore Our fun "food barter" challenge question at the end! Whether you're an Adam Sandler fan, love psychological movie analysis, or simply enjoy revisiting classic '90s films, this episode blends humor, nostalgia, and meaningful conversation. 💬 Join the conversation! What's your favorite moment from The Wedding Singer? Do you think Robbie Hart is Adam Sandler's sweetest character? Let us know in the comments! ⭐ If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who loves movies, psychology, or both! Connect with Wicked Psychotherapists: 🌐 https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com 🔗 https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Disclaimer: The Wicked Psychotherapists podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy, mental health treatment, or medical advice. Listening to this podcast does not establish a therapeutic relationship. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S4 · E14
July 1 · 1 hr
The Hidden Psychology of Adam Sandler's Spaceman
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. This week on Wicked Psychotherapists, we're diving into Adam Sandler's Spaceman and exploring the hidden psychology behind one of his most thought-provoking performances. At first, we weren't quite sure what to expect from this quiet sci-fi film, but it quickly became a fascinating look at loneliness, emotional isolation, unresolved trauma, grief, attachment, and the importance of human connection. We discuss Jakob's emotional journey, Hanush's surprising role as an unlikely therapist, and how the movie reflects struggles we often see with clients in real life. We also talk about the symbolism throughout the film, why relationships can suffer when we disconnect from ourselves, and why healing often begins by allowing someone else to truly see us. Along the way, we admit the parts that completely confused us, laugh about Adam Sandler's signature basketball shorts, wonder where Steve Buscemi was hiding, and finish with one of our signature fun questions. Have you seen Spaceman? We'd love to hear your interpretation of the movie and what you think we may have missed! 🎙️ Wicked Psychotherapists is where two licensed psychotherapists explore movies, television, and pop culture through a mental health lens—with insight, curiosity, and plenty of laughs. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S4 · E13
June 10 · 41 min
You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah: Why Middle School Still Haunts Us
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. This week, Erin and Tanya discuss Netflix's You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah and find themselves unexpectedly transported back to the awkward, confusing, and sometimes painful years of crushes, friendship drama, embarrassing moments, and trying desperately to fit in. From Stacy's obsession with the "cool" soccer player to friendship betrayals, social status, and learning how to take accountability for your actions, the movie does a surprisingly good job capturing what it feels like to be 13. The conversation also explores people-pleasing, repairing friendships after trust is broken, social media's impact on today's kids, and why so many adults still carry middle school wounds decades later. Along the way, Erin and Tanya share stories from their own adolescent years, debate Bat Mitzvah themes, and wonder why every town seemed to have that one older guy hanging around teenage parties. Whether you loved middle school, hated it, or blocked most of it from your memory, this episode is a funny and thoughtful look at growing up, making mistakes, and learning that being mature sometimes means admitting when you're wrong. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy, mental health treatment, or professional advice. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S4 · E12
May 27 · 49 min
The Cobbler Is Way Deeper Than We Expected!
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. In this episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, we dive into the surprisingly layered Adam Sandler film The Cobbler — a movie that didn’t exactly win over critics, but absolutely won over us. What starts as a quirky, magical-realism story about a cobbler who can literally become other people by wearing their shoes quickly turns into something deeper: identity, loneliness, generational patterns, grief, and what it means to finally step outside your own life long enough to really see someone else. We talk about Max’s emotional isolation, family legacy, hidden trauma, and those subtle “wait… that’s actually profound” moments that sneak up on you in this film. Plus, yes—we get into pickles, Steve Buscemi appreciation, and why this movie hits way harder than its Rotten Tomatoes score would suggest. If you’ve ever felt stuck in your own story or wondered what life looks like from the inside of someone else’s world… this one’s for you. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S4 · E11
May 14 · 45 min
Chuck & Larry: Our Take
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. This week on Wicked Psychotherapists, we revisit the 2007 Adam Sandler and Kevin James comedy I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry and ask: did this movie age poorly? We’re not film critics — we’re therapists who love (and sometimes question) Adam Sandler movies and what they reveal about people, relationships, and culture. What felt like a light comedy in 2007 hits very differently today. We talk through the humor, the stereotypes, and the way the film portrays friendship, masculinity, grief, identity, and partnership through a modern psychological lens. We also dig into the emotional side of the story — grief, loyalty, long-term friendship bonds, and what happens when systems force people into impossible choices. Along the way, we explore first responder culture, relationship dynamics, and why certain parts of the movie still work emotionally even when others don’t. It’s a nostalgic rewatch, a psychology conversation, and a very real-time reaction to a movie that feels very much like its era. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S4 · E10
April 29 · 58 min
From Pauly Shore to Click: Back in the Adam Sandler-verse
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. We kick things off with a very quick review of Pauly Shore Is Dead (yes, really), then dive into Click—and what it says about doomscrolling, burnout, and living life on autopilot. We talk about work, distraction, emotional avoidance, and what it looks like when life starts feeling like it’s on fast-forward without your permission. And as always, we wrap it up with a question that might make you think differently about your own “remote control” moments. Disclaimer: This episode is for entertainment and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy, diagnosis, or professional mental health treatment. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S4 · E9
April 16 · 43 min
We Watched Adam Sandler’s Bulletproof (1996) So You Don’t Have To
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. Let’s just say… this one was definitely a very 90s experience. We’re breaking down the buddy-cop chaos with Damon Wayans, the over-the-top action scenes, visible stunt doubles, classic Adam Sandler humor, and all the cheesy moments that somehow still make it entertaining to talk about. From friendship and betrayal to ridiculous plot twists and full-on nostalgia, we give our honest take on whether this forgotten Adam Sandler movie is worth revisiting — or better left in the 90s. Do you remember Bulletproof? Is it a hidden gem, a cult classic, or just plain bad? Let us know your favorite 90s buddy-cop movie in the comments. 🎙 Follow Wicked Psychotherapists for movie reviews, psychology takes, and all things Adam Sandler. Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment, educational commentary, and discussion purposes only. The opinions shared are our own and are not a substitute for therapy, mental health treatment, diagnosis, or professional advice. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S4 · E8
April 1 · 48 min
Heathers Revisited: 37 Years Later & 6 Degrees of Adam Sandler
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. “Greetings and Salutations!” We’re doing a special re-release of our Heathers episode in honor of the 37th anniversary of the film’s release (March 31, 1989). You might be wondering, “Is Adam Sandler in this movie?” He’s not—but Heathers is only six degrees from Adam since Winona Ryder starred in Mr. Deeds. We dive into the twisted relationship between Veronica and JD, explore the film’s dark humor, high school hierarchy, and deep psychological layers. Plus, we discuss a fascinating fan theory about JD and debate whether Veronica’s ending is as triumphant as it seems. Join us for an 80s nostalgia trip full of wicked insights! Stay wicked and keep your mind well. This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S4 · E7
March 20 · 37 min
The Psychology of Music: Why Certain Songs Hit So Deep
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. One of our most popular episodes is back—and it’s just as powerful as ever. Music isn’t just something we listen to—it’s something we feel. In this re-released episode, Erin and Tanya explore the deep connection between music and mental health, and how the songs we love can shape our emotions, memories, and healing. They share personal stories and real-life moments where music became a coping tool—helping process difficult feelings, shift moods, and create a sense of comfort during challenging times. From nostalgic throwbacks to discovering new music through Peloton rides and favorite TV shows, this conversation highlights how music evolves with us—and why certain songs hit so differently depending on where we are in life. Whether you lean on music for grounding, motivation, or emotional release, this episode invites you to get curious about your own patterns. So we’ll leave you with this: What songs have carried you through—and what would be the soundtrack to your life? Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S4 · E6
March 6 · 50 min
Our Adam Sandler Journey Continues: Breaking Down Punch-Drunk Love (2002
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. Our Adam Sandler movie journey continues, and this week we’re diving into the 2002 film Punch-Drunk Love starring Adam Sandler. In this episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, we explore Barry Egan — a lonely, anxious, emotionally overwhelmed man trying to navigate a world that often feels confusing and hostile. While Sandler is best known for his loud comedy roles, this performance shows a much quieter, more vulnerable side of his acting. Through a therapist’s lens, we unpack the complicated psychology behind Barry’s character and the family dynamics that seem to shape him. In this conversation we talk about: • How growing up with seven critical sisters may have shaped Barry’s identity • Social anxiety, emotional overwhelm, and communication struggles • What happens when someone never learns healthy ways to process anger • Family systems and the impact of being labeled the “problem” in the family • The strange but powerful connection between Barry and Lena • Why this film marked such an unexpected turn in Adam Sandler’s career We also get into the bizarre Healthy Choice pudding miles storyline, the uncomfortable family scenes, and the surreal tone that makes this movie feel so unique. If you enjoy looking at movies through a psychological lens, this episode is a fascinating one. And if you’ve been following along with our ongoing Adam Sandler exploration, this chapter of the journey might be one of the most interesting yet. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The information shared is not intended to provide mental health diagnosis, treatment, or therapy. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapist-client relationship. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S4 · E5
February 18 · 46 min
From Goofy to Heartfelt: Adam Sandler in The Wedding Singer
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. Join Erin and Tanya on Wicked Psychotherapists as they rewind to the 90s with The Wedding Singer! 🎤💔 Laugh along as they explore Adam Sandler’s journey from goofy comedy to heartfelt, emotionally raw performances. From angsty Cure-inspired songs to Robbie Hart’s loyal friends and quirky fans, they dive into love, trust, self-worth, and what really makes someone “successful.” Packed with humor, nostalgia, and sharp psychological insight, this episode proves that Sandler’s 80s-inspired comedy is more heartfelt—and hilarious—than you remember. Disclaimer: This episode is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S4 · E4
February 12 · 43 min
Hustle: Adam Sandler as Your Therapist-Coach (Underdogs, Mindset & Mental Toughness)
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. This week on Wicked Psychotherapists, we’re breaking down Hustle (2022) starring Adam Sandler—and wow, this one hits different. 🏀✨ We dive into Sandler’s powerful shift from comedy to coach, exploring the psychology behind motivation, mental resilience, and what it really takes to believe in someone when the world doesn’t. From Bo Cruz’s underdog story to Stanley’s leap of faith, this film gives us a masterclass in passion, grit, emotional regulation, and the impact of having just one person who truly sees your potential. We talk about: The underdog mindset and overcoming adversity Mental toughness, sensitivity, and emotional triggers in high-pressure environments Coaching as a therapeutic relationship (yes, really!) Passion vs. obsession: when drive becomes transformative How past mistakes shape identity—and how growth rewrites the story Whether you’re a therapist, athlete, or just someone trying to stay motivated in your own life, Hustle offers powerful lessons about resilience, purpose, and trusting your gut—even when it risks everything. Adam Sandler shows a serious, grounded side here, and we are absolutely here for it. If you love sports psychology, character growth arcs, and stories about second chances, this episode is for you. 🎧 Listen in as we explore the mental health themes behind Hustle and why this film is more than just a basketball movie—it’s about belief, mentorship, and becoming who you’re meant to be. Follow & connect with us here: https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S4 · E3
January 30 · 37 min
Don’t Say It 3 Times! Revisiting Beetlejuice, the Cult Classic
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. In this episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, Tanya and Erin venture into the bizarre, iconic world of Beetlejuice (1988), Tim Burton’s cult classic starring Michael Keaton, Winona Ryder, Catherine O’Hara, Alec Baldwin, and Geena Davis. They dive deep into the film’s eccentric charm, unpacking the psychological and intergenerational themes hidden beneath its quirky, dark humor. From the symbolism of the Maitlands’ home and the absurd bureaucracy of the afterlife to reflections on family dynamics, depression, identity, and personal struggle, this episode explores why Beetlejuice still resonates decades later. With a mix of nostalgia, pop-culture commentary, and therapist insight, Tanya and Erin also speculate on what a sequel could hold and why characters like Lydia Deetz and Delia Deetz remain so psychologically compelling. Whether you’re revisiting this spooky favorite or watching it through a mental-health lens for the first time, this conversation offers a fresh perspective on a film that’s far deeper than it appears. Tune in for a fun, thoughtful discussion that will make you see Beetlejuice in a whole new way — just don’t say his name three times. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S4 · E2
January 21 · 58 min
That’s My Boy: Adam Sandler, Stupid Humor, and the Effects of Trauma
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. In this episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, Erin and Tanya dive into That's My Boy, one of Adam Sandler’s most controversial and over-the-top comedies. On the surface, the film leans hard into intentionally stupid humor, shock value, and deeply inappropriate jokes. But underneath the chaos is a surprisingly clear portrait of unresolved childhood trauma, emotional immaturity, and the long-term impact of neglectful parenting. We unpack Donnie Burger’s impulsivity, poor boundaries, and stalled emotional development, alongside Todd’s anxiety, rigidity, and intense need to reinvent himself as an adult. Through a mental health lens, we explore how humor often functions as a defense mechanism, how trauma can freeze emotional growth, and why children of chaotic parents often grow into hyper-controlled, anxious adults. Equal parts uncomfortable and revealing, That’s My Boy gives us plenty to laugh at—and even more to clinically side-eye. Education only: This podcast episode is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy or mental health treatment. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S4 · E1
January 7 · 54 min
Man-Child in the Classroom:Billy Madison's Tenure
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. In this episode, we revisit Billy Madison through a psychological lens, exploring what happens when emotional growth lags far behind chronological age. While Billy is technically repeating grades, he’s also emotionally regressing—relying on privilege, humor, and avoidance instead of accountability and skill-building. We break down arrested development, entitlement, impulsivity, and identity confusion, asking whether Billy is truly incapable or simply underdeveloped. With humor, insight, and our signature therapist commentary, this episode digs into what “growing up” really means when no one ever required it in the first place. For educational and entertainment purposes only. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S3 · E43
Dec 24, 2025 · 29 min
The Psychology of Hallmark Movies: Why We Keep Coming Back for Comfort, Predictability, and Hope
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. Why are Hallmark movies so comforting—and why do so many of us come back to them again and again? In this re-released episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, we dig into the psychology behind Hallmark movies and explore what makes them so emotionally satisfying. From predictable storylines and familiar characters to themes of safety, belonging, and redemption, these films offer something deeper than “easy watching.” We talk about: Why predictability can be soothing for the nervous system How Hallmark movies function as emotional regulation and stress relief The role of nostalgia, attachment, and hope in comfort viewing Why people often reach for these movies during times of anxiety, grief, or burnout Whether you love Hallmark movies, love to hate them, or secretly watch them when no one’s looking, this episode explores why they resonate on such a psychological level—and what that says about our need for connection and safety. ✨ Re-released by popular demand, because comfort content always deserves a comeback. 👉 Find us here: https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S3 · E42
Dec 17, 2025 · 32 min
Stand By Me (1986): Why This Coming-of-Age Story Still Hurts (in the Best Way)
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. In this rereleased episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, hosts Tanya and Erin revisit the 1986 classic Stand By Me—a film that continues to shape how we understand friendship, growing up, and emotional resilience. Through a therapist’s lens, they explore the psychological themes woven throughout the story, including childhood trauma, grief, identity development, and the deep bonds formed during adolescence. The conversation highlights the unforgettable performances by River Phoenix, Wil Wheaton, Corey Feldman, and Jerry O’Connell, and why these characters still feel so real decades later. Tanya and Erin also reflect on the film’s origins as a Stephen King novella and how Rob Reiner’s thoughtful direction helped transform a simple coming-of-age story into a lasting cultural touchstone—one that speaks to anyone who has ever navigated loss, loyalty, or the bittersweet transition from childhood to adulthood. Whether you’re returning to Stand By Me or discovering it with fresh eyes, this episode offers insight, nostalgia, and a deeper look at why stories about connection—and the friends who shape us—never truly leave us. 🎧 Listen wherever you get your podcasts. 👉 Explore all things Wicked Psychotherapists: https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists
S3 · E41
Dec 4, 2025 · 42 min
Why Adam Sandler Movies Work: The Psychology of Grown Ups 2
Send us a Text Message we would love to hear what you thought of the show. This week we slip into Adam Sandler’s middle era — the years where comedy meets identity, family meets frat boys, and basketball shorts somehow become a personality trait. We’re not reviewing Grown Ups 2 as much as using it as a gateway into Sandler’s evolution: the humor that aged with him, the themes that stayed constant, and the way he reflects real-life transitions on screen, intentionally or not. We explore midlife shift energy, the vulnerability of being seen differently by your kids, the weird grief of losing youth while trying to keep the fun alive, and why Sandler’s pack-mentality friendships feel like chosen family across decades. There’s Taylor Lautner wolf-pack chaos, questionable quarry decisions, the sacredness of small-town traditions, and yes — we talk Steve Buscemi, because how could we not? If you grew up with Adam Sandler, or you’re curious how comedy becomes identity as we age, this episode is your tribe. Connect with us! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wickedpsychotherapists/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Wickedpodcasts/ Linktre.ee : https://linktr.ee/thewickedpsychotherapists Website : https://www.wickedpsychotherapists.com Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@Wickedpsychotherapists

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