They Think It's All Sober

They Think It's All Sober Podcast

Join Jamie and Tom each week as they interview musicians, artists, influencers and athletes about cutting alcohol and other substances from their lives.

Hear about how they did it, their motivations and the benefits of sobriety, with a few gory stories of the sesh along the way.

Jamie and Tom are also joined weekly by counsellor / psychotherapist David Gibbs to give professional context to the discussions and provide some great resources for people looking to change their relationship with alcohol.

No preaching, no judgement, just honesty.

They Think It’s All Sober, it is now!

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123 episodes
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January 8 · 1 hr 13 min
Lucy Spraggan: Alcohol, Fame, and Losing Myself
Welcome back for Season 8! It’s Dry January and we’re starting strong with an absolute belter featuring singer-songwriter Lucy Spraggan! Woo Lucy first burst onto our screens on The X Factor in 2012 with her iconic song! BUT this conversation goes way deeper into a side of Lucy you might not know... She opens up about her relationship with alcohol from the age of 7, the role it played in coping with her identity and wanting to be a man, and how those experiences fed into the music that got her on stage and ultimately led her to sobriety after many years of sending it too hard! A great episode to listen to on your Dry Jan journey which really put health & wellness at the heart of everything T/W: This episode includes discussion of sexual abuse and suicide, please only listen if it feels safe! Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Nov 27, 2025 · 1 hr 14 min
Millie Mackintosh: Bad Drunk
Millie Mackintosh is in the studio!! That's right - Mum, author, Instagram favourite and former Made in Chelsea star joins Jamie and Tom for the Season 7 finale! Millie opens up about her decision to quit drinking, the turbulent relationship she had with alcohol, and the personal experiences that shaped it. She talks honestly about how alcohol showed up during Made in Chelsea, ADHD and how she’s fallen back in love with mornings. Millie’s brand-new book 'Bad Drunk' is out now so go check it out if you like what you hear! Thank you for sticking with us this season! We’ll see you in Season 8! And if you miss us, you know where we are: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Remember, you got this! T/W: This podcast contains conversation around sexual abuse. Please only listen if it feels safe to do so. Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Nov 20, 2025 · 31 min
Sober Coaches….Legitimate Or Cashing In On Vulnerability?
In this penultimate episode of Season 7, Jamie and Tom tackle a topic they’ve been side-eyeing for a while.... sobriety coaches. Do you really need one? What makes someone qualified to guide your recovery? And how do you tell genuine support from someone capitalising on your vulnerability? Jamie and Tom break down the hype, the red flags, and the real value (or lack of it) so you can make an informed choice about what actually supports your journey. Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Nov 13, 2025 · 1 hr 19 min
Fred Webb (1991): No Shots, Just Double Drops
Drum and bass DJ Fred Webb, AKA '1991', joins Jamie and Tom on They Think It’s All Sober! Fred has had a meteoric rise in DnB, recently becoming part of the first act within the genre to headline the iconic Red Rocks! As well as sold out shows all over the world, millions of streams and countless huge festivals, he has done it all! But after years of sending it too hard, he’s now 14 months sober (woo!). Fred chats to the boys about swapping booze for real connection, the chaos of his drinking days, and what it’s like going sober alongside his partner! It’s a funny, honest conversation with someone who is party of our existing community, perfect for all you sober & the sober-curious listeners! Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Nov 6, 2025 · 34 min
The Elephant In The Room: Do Drunk People Ruin Events?
When the crowd’s drunk and you’re not, everything hits differently! This week, Jamie and Tom talk about what it’s like seeing big nights out from the sober side - the funny bits, the frustrating bits, and the general surprising lessons sober days bring! Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Oct 30, 2025 · 1 hr 21 min
Georgie Mitchell: Wedding Expert Talks Sober Weddings
This episode is all about sober weddings - are they even realistic? Jamie and Tom are joined by podcaster, author, and wedding planner Georgie Mitchell! Host of the unfiltered bride and founder of Georgina Rose Events. Having overseen nearly 400 weddings (including Tom’s!), Georgie knows exactly what makes a celebration memorable. But as someone who isn’t sober, she’s curious - can you really have a great wedding without alcohol? Together, they dive into the pros, pitfalls, and planning tips for sober or low-alcohol weddings. Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Oct 23, 2025 · 42 min
Making Peace With Your Sober Self
This week, Jamie and Tom explore what it really means to sit in your sobriety - to slow down, reflect, and appreciate where you are on your recovery journey! They share honest thoughts on gratitude, patience and staying present through life’s ups and downs... A reminder to go easy on yourself! You got this! Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Oct 16, 2025 · 1 hr 7 min
Jamie Butler: Be The Example, Not The Lesson
Swords, Football & Pints - proper lads chat this one! Jamie and Tom are joined by friend and sober legend Jamie Butler Jamie has had a real interesting relationship with Alcohol over the years! A career in banking saw him drinking heavily as a young man, but as soon as he left his job, he dropped the booze. His mindset is about taking each day as he comes and being flexible - because of this he turned back to booze and sent it again! Now in his latest version of self, he has decided to leave it behind again and shares his lessons on why. This podcast is three sober geezas opening up about grief, friendship circles and mindsets around sobriety. Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Oct 9, 2025 · 44 min
Are Friendships Harder When You Get Sober?
Wow! This week on the podcast it’s a powerful stream of consciousness as Jamie and Tom open up about friendships in sobriety. They reflect on old experiences, new connections, and how their relationships have shifted since getting sober - and share honest thoughts on finding peace with it all. Our Patreon is live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Oct 2, 2025 · 1 hr 14 min
Alex Trueman: Facing Anxiety Without Alcohol
For our first episode of the season, Jamie and Tom chat with TikTok and Twitch creator Alex Trueman (@smallex4ft11) about what it’s really like dealing with anxiety when you’re sober. Alex has been alcohol-free for over two years, and in the episode opens up about a recent moment where she nearly gave in to drinking again. The three swap stories about sober life, relate about the quirks that come with it, and get real about a new flavour of anxiety sobriety can bring! Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Sep 25, 2025 · 36 min
Sobriety, Struggles & A New Season
We're back for series 7!! AHH!! If you’re new here, welcome to our safe space for honest chats on sobriety, mental health, and recovery. If you’re a regular, you know the drill! Get those headphones ready! In this episode, Jamie and Tom reflect on a sober summer, open up about health anxiety, and give you a sneak peek at what’s coming this season. Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Jul 31, 2025 · 33 min
The Final Sip Of Series 6
Thank you again for joining us for another epic series of They Think It's All Sober! It’s the finale of Series 6, and it’s time to reflect. Jamie and Tom take it all in, chat about their alcohol-free mindsets, and set the direction for Series 7. If this is your first time listening, we’ve got loads of useful episodes for you to dip back into while we prep for the next series. To stay in the loop with the community and all things podcast, head over to our socials @theythinkitsallsober and check out our Patreon page - any support is massively appreciated! Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Jul 24, 2025 · 1 hr 10 min
James Marriott: Sobriety Aligns With Success
It’s a BIG final interview for Series 6 with the one and only James Marriott - singer, songwriter, and YouTuber! You might know James for his music (that’s right he’s just had a NUMBER 1!!!) YouTube videos and huge social presence but in this episode, he opens up about going sober at 25. Hungover more than he’d like, James realised alcohol was holding him back from the life he really wanted and made the decision to quit the drink. He shares how sobriety has changed his life! From boosting his productivity to deepening his understanding of himself. James talks about therapy, dating when sober and the power of trying it for a month. Why not start today? Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Jul 17, 2025 · 1 hr 12 min
Daniel O’Reilly (Dapper Laughs): Being Accountable For Mistakes
This week on They Think It’s All Sober, Tom and Jamie are joined by Daniel O’Reilly aka Dapper Laughs – and trust us, this one took us by surprise. In this brutally honest chat, he opens up about addiction, nearly losing everything, and how sobriety helped him save his life and his marriage. We also get stuck into why blokes need to stop bottling it all up – and start talking before it all goes sideways. Raw, real, and important. This one hits hard. T/W: This episodes contains conversation around suicide. Please only listen if it feels safe to do so. Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Jul 10, 2025 · 1 hr 13 min
Sean Daniels: Be Unafraid To Try
Sober playwright on the pod? Completed it mate. This week we’re joined by the amazing Sean Daniels – writer, director, and all-round theatre legend. He opens up about his journey from drinking through the theatre scene to getting sober 13 years ago. We chat about his new play The White Chip, out now at Southwark Playhouse, which tells his powerful (and funny) story of recovery! https://southwarkplayhouse.co.uk/productions/the-white-chip/ £10 OFF DISCOUNT: AWARE22 T/W: This episodes contains conversation around suicide. Please only listen if it feels safe to do so. Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Jul 3, 2025 · 39 min
Why Staying Accountable Matters
Jamie and Tom unpack what accountability really looks like! When you're trying to hold yourself accountable, resisting the temptation to drink can feel isolating. How do you stay the course when no one’s cheering you on? And how can your community support you on your decision? The boys get into it in this episode Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Jun 26, 2025 · 1 hr 21 min
James Veck-Gilodi: I Put Drink Before Everything
This week on the podcast, Jamie and Tom are joined by old friend - James Veck-Gilodi - lead singer of Deaf Havana!! Presenter Jamie was actually James’ first-ever manager! And the two spent years on the road together. In this episode, they take a trip down memory lane and reflect in real time on just how bad James’ drinking got during his career... Now a two months sober, James opens up about how alcohol and drugs took hold over everything in his life - as he explains, he would find any excuse to drink, no matter the situation. He shares what it feels like to finally step back, reevaluate, and commit to reshaping his life after years of living in a cycle of drinking and chaos. T/W: This podcast contains themes of suicide. Please only listen if it feels safe to do so. Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Jun 19, 2025 · 40 min
One Won't Hurt? Will It?
We’ve all been there - caught in a nostalgic daydream about sunny afternoons in pub gardens, cold drink in hand. But if you’re deep into your sobriety journey, that familiar craving might come with a bigger question: Would one drink really hurt? This week, Jamie and Tom dive into the myth of moderation and whether “just one” is ever truly just one. From grogginess and triggers to tolerance and addiction, they unpack the emotional and physical layers behind relapse temptations - and why, for some, the best answer might be to leave that door firmly closed. Have you ever faced that “what if” moment? Let us know what you think on Instagram! Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Jun 12, 2025 · 1 hr 9 min
220 Kid: Back On Track
The boys are joined by record producer and DJ 220 Kid (Will Graydon) to talk through the highs and lows of his sobriety journey! After going sober for 9 months, one misstep with medication triggered a relapse - but now he’s back on track and more determined than ever! Best known for his chart-topping remix of 'Wellerman' with our very own host Tom, 220 Kid opens up about what their wild nights used to look like, how alcohol and drugs impacted his self-worth. This episode explores the shame cycle of addiction, the pressure of the music industry, and how choosing sobriety has helped 220 Kid reconnect with the life he always wanted for himself! Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com
Jun 5, 2025 · 40 min
Tackling Loneliness In Sobriety
You asked, and we listened! This week, our sober psychotherapist David Gibbs returns to the podcast! He joins Jamie and Tom for a reflective episode exploring loneliness and sobriety. Going alcohol-free is challenging on its own, but when you’re the only sober person in your group, feelings of isolation, anxiety, and self-sabotage can easily creep in. The three explore how to reframe your mindset and thrive in sobriety by tapping into the power of community and connection. You’re never truly alone on this journey! Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsober Follow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com