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The Iron Table

Tristan van Eck

The Iron Table is a space for honest conversations about faith, growth, and what it means to become a man of God. Around the table, we share real stories, lessons, and struggles from our own journeys as we explore discipleship, purpose, leadership, and character. It’s about growing together, asking deeper questions, and having the conversations men don’t always have enough of.

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  • 13 episodes
  • Avg 41 min
  • English
  • #13
    July 31 · 43 min

    What Happens When The Fire Fades

    In this episode of The Iron Table, we explore what happens when the fire begins to fade. When passion turns into routine, prayers feel unanswered, and following Jesus becomes more difficult than it once was. Together, we have an honest conversation about navigating seasons of spiritual dryness, disappointment, and waiting. We share our own experiences, wrestle with what Scripture teaches about perseverance, and discuss how God often uses the quiet seasons to deepen our faith, refine our character, and draw us closer to Him. If you've ever wondered how to keep following Jesus when you don't feel the same passion you once did, this conversation is for you. We hope you enjoy this week's episode. See you at The Iron Table.

  • July 24 · 42 min

    What We Belive Then Vs What We Believe Now

    In this episode of The Iron Table, we reflect on the beliefs we once held and how faith, life, and experience have reshaped them over time. What did we think success, relationships, purpose, and following Jesus would look like—and what have we come to believe now? Together, we share honest stories of the lessons we've had to unlearn, the mistakes that have shaped us, and the convictions God has built within us. We explore how true maturity comes from remaining humble, teachable, and allowing Christ to continually transform the way we think, live, and lead. If you've ever looked back and realised how much you've changed, this conversation is a reminder that growth is one of the greatest evidences of God's work in our lives. We hope you enjoy this week's episode. See you at The Iron Table.

  • #11
    July 17 · 35 min

    The Fear Of Becoming Nobody

    In this episode of The Iron Table, we dive into the fear of becoming nobody—a struggle that quietly affects so many of us. In a world that constantly tells us our worth is found in success, recognition, and achievement, how do we find our identity in Christ instead of our accomplishments? Together, we have an honest conversation about purpose, comparison, ambition, and the pressure to have life figured out. Through our own stories and the truth of Scripture, we explore what it means to live faithfully, trust God's timing, and discover that our value has never been determined by what we do, but by whose we are. If you've ever questioned your purpose or worried that your life won't matter, this conversation is for you. We hope you enjoy this week's episode. See you at The Iron Table.

  • S1 · E10
    July 10 · 44 min

    Building Bridges Across Generations

    In this episode of The Iron Table, we explore what it means to build bridges across generations and why those relationships matter now more than ever. In a world where many young people struggle to trust older generations—and older generations often struggle to understand the younger—we ask how we can close the gap. What can we learn from those who have gone before us? And what responsibility do we have to invest in those coming after us? Through honest conversation and personal experiences, we unpack what Scripture teaches about honour, wisdom, humility, and discipleship. We discuss the value of mentorship, the importance of listening, and how God uses every generation to shape and strengthen His Church. Whether you're looking for a mentor, investing in someone younger, or simply navigating relationships across different stages of life, we hope this conversation encourages you to build bridges rather than barriers. We hope you enjoy this week's episode. See you at The Iron Table.

  • #9
    July 3 · 39 min

    Comparison and Loneliness

    In this episode of The Iron Table, we dive into what comparison and loneliness can look like in today’s world for single men and women, as well as married couples. Why do we often feel lonely? Why do we struggle to find genuine community? And how can comparison against the world and others quietly steal our joy, identity, and even distract us from the purpose God has called us to? Together, we explore how these struggles can stop us in our tracks and how Scripture invites us to wrestle with God in seasons of loneliness, uncertainty, and seeking affirmation. We discuss where we tend to look for purpose, how we’ve personally learned to navigate these seasons, and some of the areas we still wrestle with ourselves. I again have the privilege of being joined by my close friend, Cale Hastie, as we have an honest and vulnerable conversation around these topics and remind ourselves of who God has called us to be and where our identity is truly found. We hope you enjoy this week's episode. See you at The Iron Table.

  • #8
    June 26 · 58 min

    Sex,Purity and Relationships

    In this episode of The Iron Table, we dive into an honest conversation around sex, purity, and relationships through the lens of Scripture. Joined by close friend Cale Hastie, we explore what it means to live as Christians in a culture with very different views on intimacy, dating, and sexual purity. We reflect on our own journeys, mistakes, and lessons learned, while discussing what Scripture teaches and the convictions God has developed within us. Together, we unpack how men and women can pursue purity, grace, and God-honouring relationships without falling into shame or legalism. This is a raw and vulnerable conversation around a topic often treated as taboo within the church, yet one that remains deeply relevant to every believer’s walk with Christ. We hope you enjoy this week's episode. See you at The Iron Table.

  • S1 · E7
    June 19 · 35 min

    Anger and Emotional Control

    In this episode of The Iron Table, we dive into the topic of anger and emotional control, exploring why these are such important areas for men to address. We share our own experiences, struggles, and lessons learned, while discussing how unchecked emotions can impact our relationships, leadership, and walk with God. Together, we look at what Scripture teaches about anger, self-control, and emotional maturity, and how God calls us to be men who walk in peace without compromising the strength and authority He has given us. Join us as we have an honest conversation about learning to respond with wisdom, discipline, and Christ-like character. See you at The Iron Table.

  • S1 · E6
    June 12 · 30 min

    Iron Sharpens Iron

    In this episode of The Iron Table, we explore how God uses relationships and community to shape us into the likeness of Christ. We discuss the importance of accountability, the invitation we give others to speak into our lives, and how genuine brotherhood and sisterhood help us grow in faith. We reflect on what we can learn from those who have gone before us, while also considering our responsibility to invest in the next generation. Through meaningful relationships, we not only learn more about one another, but we also gain a deeper understanding of God and His work within our communities. As we walk together with both gentleness and honesty, we discover that growth often happens around the table, in conversation, and through the relationships we build. We hope you enjoy this week's episode. See you at The Iron Table.

  • S1 · E5
    June 5 · 30 min

    Faith That Shows Up In Real Life

    Faith That Shows Up In Real Life Faith was never meant to be confined to Sunday mornings or private moments with God. It is meant to be lived out, seen, and demonstrated in the way we serve, love, lead, and engage with the world around us. In this episode of The Iron Table, we explore what it means to have a faith that shows up in everyday life and why God calls us to be effective and influential within our communities. Together, we unpack the teachings of Matthew 5:16 and Acts 2:42–47, examining how the early church lived out their faith in practical ways and how we can do the same today. We discuss the importance of authentic discipleship, community, servant-hearted leadership, and being a visible reflection of Christ wherever God has placed us. Join us as we challenge one another to move beyond belief alone and into a faith that actively impacts the people around us. We hope you enjoy today's episode, and we look forward to welcoming you back to The Iron Table.

  • May 29 · 28 min

    Fruit Begins Within

    In this episode of The Iron Table, we explore what it truly means to bear fruit as Christians and as men of God. Looking at John 15 and Jesus’ words, “I am the vine, you are the branches,” we discuss how real fruit is cultivated from within through obedience, faith, and walking closely with God. We reflect on Jesus as the ultimate example of a fruitful life and ask whether we are more focused on appearance than true transformation. To bear lasting fruit, we must first cultivate the soil of our hearts.

  • #3
    May 22 · 46 min

    Suffering and Perspective in our walk with God

    In this episode of the Iron Table Podcast, we unpack John 9 and the powerful story of Jesus healing the blind man. Together, we explore how suffering shapes our faith, our perspective, and our walk as disciples of Christ. We discuss the tension between sin and suffering, and how easily our language and assumptions can shift during difficult seasons. As a community of believers, are we encouraging one another towards truth, grace, and a godly perspective — or are we unknowingly becoming like the Pharisees Jesus warned about? The conversation also dives into the condition of the heart: how sin can either harden us or lead us into deeper conviction and transformation through the Holy Spirit. We reflect on the difference between salvation and sanctification, and what it means to pursue godliness without becoming critical, self-righteous, or disconnected from humility and gentleness. This episode is an honest and thoughtful conversation about suffering, discipleship, conviction, grace, and walking closely with Jesus in a world filled with brokenness.

  • S1 · E2
    May 15 · 51 min

    Godly Character

    In this episode, we have an honest conversation about what godly character looks like and how it’s shaped through faith, mistakes, discipline, and growth. We reflect on lessons learned in relationships, community, and everyday life as we continue pursuing Jesus and becoming more like Him

  • S1 · E1
    May 7 · 54 min

    Go Make Disciples

    In this, our first episode we share more around the heart of The Iron Table, who we are and the vision we have for this podcast and the community we hope to build on this journey as we invite you to be apart of it. We hope you enjoy and please leave comments on your thoughts and topics you would like to hear. The Iron Table.

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