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Kingdom Sexuality is the Christian sex podcast for married couples who want a thriving, God-honoring sex life.


We’re Alana, Kyle, and Tiera — three friends tackling the questions the church forgot to answer. Through interviews, “sex-timonies,” listener Q&As, and real talk from our own marriages, we’re here to help you grow a fulfilling, passionate, and deeply connected sex life.
Kingdom Sexuality. The Christian sex podcast that goes where the church won’t.


Because yes, Christians can talk about sex too!

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  • S12 · E35
    Monday · 23 min

    305: Questions You’re Too Afraid to Ask About Sex

    SEEDS: Download the free SEEDS app and take one small step today: plant your first seed and see what God can grow. Tune into this Q&A episode as the KS Team talks candidly about sex when you are exhausted, building "pounding" stamina, navigating postpartum sex drive changes, and how to have deep conversations if your spouse has a hard time with them. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Pubic hair episode Resources: Out Of Sync Audio Course Orgasm Course Waitlist (Waitlisters will get an incredible deal!) ⁠My Counselor Online⁠ ⁠Better Help⁠ ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: 00:08 — Welcome & Community Invitation 01:02 — Today’s Verse: Matthew 6:34 01:32 — Q&A: Intimacy for Tired Parents 06:21 — Out of Sync Course Break 07:32 — Q&A: Stamina and Lasting Longer 10:29 — Q&A: Talking About Sex and Deep Emotions 12:48 — Q&A: Postpartum Desire and Connection 16:45 — Q&A: Rewaiting for Marriage 18:20 — Q&A: Navigating Grooming Preferences Tactfully 19:54 — Closing Prayer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • S12 · E34
    September 7 · 18 min

    304: Q&A! When Sex Isn’t Going the Way You Expected

    SEEDS: Download the free SEEDS app and take one small step today: plant your first seed and see what God can grow. Ending off the summer with a few Q&A's the KS team tackles YOUR questions! They chat through painful sex, collaborating when one of you wants change in the bedroom and the other doesn't, and what to do when sex doesn't really feel good. You won't want to miss this series! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Episode 143 - Painful Sex, Vaginismus with Jess Seitz Episode 190 - Intimacy Without Intercourse Episode 162 - Meet Me Under The Mistletoe Episode 112 - Deep Dive Into Anatomy Episode 203 - Better Sex Through Mindfulness Our Products: Figuring Out What I Like Guide Yes No Maybe Resources: Orgasm Course Waitlist Come As You Are Gift Of Sex ⁠My Counselor Online⁠ ⁠Better Help⁠ ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: 00:00 — Welcome & Fruit of the Spirit 01:37 — Patreon & Sponsor Break 02:20 — Painful Sex After Marriage 05:17 — Making Out When One Partner Isn’t Interested 06:52 — When Sex Doesn’t Feel Good 10:17 — Work and Travel Boundaries 12:00 — Collaborating When Partners Want Different Things 15:13 — Will the Spouses Join the Show? 16:16 — When Both Partners Have Responsive Desire 16:48 — Closing Prayer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • S12 · E33
    August 31 · 41 min

    303: Ladies Q&A! When Motherhood Changes Your Sex Life

    In this special ladies-only Q&A, Tiera and Alana tackle the big, awkward, real-life questions women actually ask about sex, shame, pleasure, and postpartum changes!! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Losing the Lover in the Mother Kim & Darlene Unrau episode 292 Our Products: Orgasm Course Waitlist His Pleasure Resources: ⁠My Counselor Online⁠ ⁠Better Help⁠ ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: 00:00 — Ladies’ Q&A intro 01:43 — Welcome back + patron shoutout 03:45 — Opening scripture 04:16 — Pregnancy, postpartum, and motherhood questions begin 06:02 — First-time mom fears and feeling unqualified 09:26 — Breastfeeding, feeling touched out, and body changes 13:12 — Confidence after prolapse and sex after pregnancy 18:09 — Creative ways to be intimate postpartum 21:11 — Reconnecting with your body sexually 28:20 — Libido postpartum and keeping your husband feeling loved 37:50 — Finding time for sex when exhausted 42:27 — Sex scheduling with more kids and teenagers 46:32 — Closing thoughts and prayer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • S12 · E32
    August 24 · 28 min

    302: Ladies Q&A! Moving from Purity Culture to Pleasure

    This ladies-only Q&A gets practical fast. You’ll hear encouragement for retraining your brain to see sex as good, not dirty, plus what to do when arousal disappears on the pill, why penetration is not enough for orgasm, and how to stop feeling like your pleasure is a burden to your husband! Ladies, tune in!! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Birds & Bees Episode The Higher Desire Wife Menstrual Cycle Episode Thoughts During Sex episode Our Products: Figuring Out What I Like Guide Resources: Orgasm Course Waitlist KS Sex Challenges Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off Birds and Bees Courses: Use code KINGDOM20 for 20% off the course Awaken Love Cycle Syncing Resource The Eden Feeling Sexy book ⁠My Counselor Online⁠ ⁠Better Help⁠ ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: 0:01 — Intro / ladies’ Q&A setup 0:59 — Verse of the day 1:23 — Topic overview: purity culture, pleasure, and random questions 1:56 — How to retrain your brain to enjoy sex instead of seeing it as dirty 4:14 — Resource: Hannah Ward / The Eden 4:59 — Feeling sexy for my husband feels sinful 8:13 — How to talk to your kids about sex 9:30 — Married a year and still don’t know what I like 10:45 — Retraining your brain after purity culture 11:03 — Not seeing my pleasure as a burden to my husband 14:18 — Shame about having desire at all 16:28 — Wanting lovemaking to be more interesting 18:07 — Loss of arousal on the pill 18:46 — How to tell my husband I’ve been faking it 20:07 — Orgasm only on top / grinding 20:30 — Types of touch based on your cycle 22:01 — Why penetration alone doesn’t lead to orgasm 23:17 — Is it lust to want pleasure? 25:06 — How to stay present and not let your mind wander 26:40 — Closing prayer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • August 20 · 29 min

    301: Extra Spicy Q&A: Spouse is Kinkier, Body Augmentation, is Reading Smut Okay?

    This spicy Q&A episode gets honest about the stuff couples actually wrestle with: mutual orgasms, body image, exploring positions, and all the awkward sex questions people usually avoid. You asked, and we answered!! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Fellatio episode Anatomy Episode Anal Sex episode part 1 Anal Sex episode part 2 Our Products: Yes No Maybe Freebie Orgasm Course Waitlist Resources: Passionista Flirtation Experiment Feeling Sexy Good Pictures Bad Pictures Christian Friendly Sex Positions website ⁠My Counselor Online⁠ ⁠Better Help⁠ ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: 00:00 — Spicy Q&A: Smut, Porn, and Bedroom Ideas 00:40 — Welcome, Instagram Update & Verse of the Day 01:10 — Advice for Partners with Different Kink Levels 04:20 — When Orgasm Feels Unequal 06:26 — When a Spouse Doesn’t Enjoy Oral Sex 09:07 — Is Reading Smut Okay? 11:44 — Is Anal Sex Okay in Christian Marriage? 12:15 — Exploring New Positions as a Couple 13:20 — Is Masturbation Okay? 14:36 — Does a Man Need to Ejaculate Every Day? 15:08 — Breast Augmentation, Aging & Body Image 19:54 — Overcoming Selfishness in Marriage 25:46 — Closing Prayer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • S12 · E30
    August 10 · 29 min

    300th Episode! Sharing Your Kingdom Sexuality Testimonies

    In this special 300th episode, we reflect on the years of ministry, sharing heartfelt voice memos sent in from listeners whose lives have been transformed through the power of these faith-based conversations around sex, marriage, and intimacy. To all our faithful listeners- THANK YOU!! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Kyle's Sextimony- Episode 94 "My Husband Was Addicted To Porn" Episode 96 "The Impact of His Porn Addiction on Me" Episode 97 Resources: ⁠My Counselor Online⁠ ⁠BetterHelp⁠ ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: 00:00 - Introduction and celebration of 300 episodes 00:26 - Empowering listeners to share this content with friends and family 01:25 - Reflection on God's mercy from Lamentations 3 02:03 - First listener voice memo: overcoming struggles with porn in marriage 03:50 - Testimony of renewed intimacy and gratitude for Kingdom Sexuality's impact 04:16 - Listener appreciation for deepening marriage connections 05:03 - The role of couple’s conversations and recovery stories 06:33 - Special acknowledgment of longtime listeners and their stories 07:44 - Listener from Minnesota shares how infertility and postpartum became part of her journey 08:59 - Impact of the resource during significant life events like pregnancy and infertility 11:15 - Broader perspective on building healthy, joyful sexuality within faith 12:30 - Transformation from shame and broken trust to confidence and pleasure 14:13 - The ripple effect: sharing with church groups and community 15:40 - Listener celebrating overcoming sexual struggles within marriage 17:08 - Personal stories of growth through podcasts and therapy 18:30 - The normalization of sexual joy in Christian marriage 22:23 - A journey from purity culture to enjoying sex as God designed 25:42 - Closing thoughts on sharing testimonies and upcoming community initiatives Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • S12 · E29
    August 3 · 35 min

    299: Butt Stuff- All About Anal Sex Part 2

    Huge thank you to Dwell Bible App who sponsored today’s episode!⁠ Get it for 25% off now! Today's conversation is the continuation of last week's episode, all about anal sex and the Christian perspective. If you missed part one, go start there first, since that's where we lay the foundation. In this episode we tackle questions that you guys had around the topic of butt stuff! Tune in! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Butt Stuff episode part 1 Resources: Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off Coconu Lube: Use the code KINGDOM for 15% off Evree Lube: Use the code KINGDOM for 10% off! The anatomy image mentioned ⁠My Counselor Online⁠ ⁠BetterHelp⁠ ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: 00:00 — Welcome & episode framing 01:06 — Health considerations 06:41 — Sanitation & preparation 08:48 — Types of anal play 14:05 — Pain, comfort & going slow 15:47 — Sponsor message 17:24 — Safety & hemorrhoids 19:01 — Orgasm, prostate stimulation & shame 24:33 — Grooming preferences 26:08 — Anal vs. vaginal sex 26:38 — Trying again after a painful experience 27:41 — Pegging 29:52 — Finishing, cleanup & safety 31:33 — Closing thoughts & prayer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • S12 · E28
    July 27 · 29 min

    298: Patron's Choice! Butt Stuff - All About Anal Sex Part 1

    Tune in as the KS team chats about one of the most requested topics... butt stuff. In part one of this conversation (part 2 is coming next week!) the team discusses anal play and where biblical wisdom fits into the conversation. It’s a practical conversation about how couples can navigate boundaries, consent, and curiosity without losing connection. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: https://www.gotquestions.org/ My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link Better Help: Get 10% off your first month with our link ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: 00:00 — Opening teaser 00:34 — Welcome and episode introduction 01:07 — Why this conversation matters 04:57 — Setting expectations and disclaimer 06:11 — What the Bible says 10:26 — A biblical framework for decision-making 12:34 — Defining anal play and sexual boundaries 17:40 — Why couples may explore this topic 19:54 — How to start the conversation with your spouse 22:09 — Consent, boundaries, and respecting a no 25:39 — Closing thoughts and next episode preview 26:13 — Closing prayer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • S12 · E27
    July 21 · 31 min

    297: Different Drives Q&A: Is It Reasonable To Masturbate? How To Get My Spouse To Want Sex More? How Can I Up My Drive?

    Have a different drive than your spouse? Tune in as we answer follower questions around the desire gap! Whether you're the high or low desire spouse, this episode is packed with insights to help you connect and communicate better! ⁠Watch the episode on YouTube!!⁠ Our Episodes: ⁠ Dr. Morgan Cutlip episode⁠ Our Products: ⁠OUT OF SYNC Audio Course!⁠ ⁠Get on the waitlist for our Orgasm Course here!⁠ ⁠Figuring Out What I Like Guide⁠ Resources: ⁠Everlywell⁠: use that link to get 15% off! ⁠⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Bible Verse Discussion - 1:02 Listener Questions Introduction - 1:33 Question: Lower Drive Concerns - 2:01 Medical and Medication Advice - 2:35 Responsive vs. Spontaneous Desire - 4:27 Tips for Spontaneous Spouses - 6:38 Overcoming Guilt in Relationships - 11:46 Productive Conversations - 17:08 Masturbation and Marriage - 21:03 Course Promotion and Conclusion - 26:49 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • S12 · E29
    July 13 · 21 min

    296: Q&A! Can You Have Too Much Sex? Pushing Through Exhaustion To Connect

    You asked. We answered. In this Q&A episode, nothing is off-limits- from low desire and postpartum sex to foreplay, boundaries, and the questions everyone’s Googling but not saying out loud. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: What’s Not Allowed In The Bedroom Resources: Just Between Us App Awaken Love Better Sex Through Mindfulness Esense app website Mentionables: Use the code KINGDOM for 10% off Coconu: Use the code KINGDOM for 15% off Beating 50%: Use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Episode Overview - 0:22 Product Promotion - 0:50 Verse of the Day - 1:27 Q&A Introduction - 1:49 Question 1: Tips for Connecting with Spouse - 2:13 Question 2: Ideas for Couples with Low Drive - 5:28 Question 3: Sex with a Newborn - 7:14 Question 4: Fun Pillow Talk Options - 7:43 Question 5: Husband's Lack of Interest - 8:49 Question 6: Bedroom Boundaries - 11:10 Question 7: Convincing Wife about Foreplay - 12:41 Question 8: Lasting Longer During Different Activities - 13:25 Question 9: Squirting - 14:20 Question 10: Arthritis and Sex - 16:49 Question 11: Wife's Lack of Interest in New Intimacy - 18:09 Closing Prayer - 19:10 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • S12 · E28
    July 6 · 23 min

    295: Q&A! Spicy Sex Positions, Where To Buy Sex Toys, & Mind Wandering During Sex

    Got questions about intimacy that you’re not sure who to ask? The KS team is diving into listener-submitted questions about safe places to buy toys, initiating with more confidence, sex positions, and more!! Tune in now! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Initiation 101 Intimacy Without Intercourse Resources: Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off Evree: Use the code KINGDOM for 10% off! Coconu: Use the code KINGDOM for 15% off Flirtation Experiment book Mentionables: Use the code KINGDOM for 10% off ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:11 Sharing and Support - 0:38 Bible Verse Discussion - 1:04 Q&A: Buying Lube or Toys - 1:14 Intimacy After C-section/Postpartum - 5:23 Initiation and Lingerie - 9:10 Mind Wandering During Sex - 14:19 Feeling Disconnected from Spouse - 16:19 Closing and Prayer - 20:07 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • S12 · E26
    June 29 · 39 min

    294: Sex When You Have Chronic Pain with Brook & Elizabeth Mosser

    The Wonder Project: Subscriber support makes more great content like I Gotta Ask with Annie F. Downs possible. The Wonder Project subscription on Prime Video is available in the U.S. for $8.99/month or $89.99/year after a 7-day free trial.Visit ⁠⁠IGottaAsk.com⁠⁠ to learn more! Join part two of our conversation with Brooke and Elizabeth Moser as they candidly explore the challenges of marriage intertwined with chronic pain, intimacy, and faith. If you haven't listened to part one- go do that first! Watch the episode on YouTube!!⁠ Our Episodes: Last weeks episode with Brook and Elizabeth ⁠Past interview with Brook Mosser⁠ Resources: ⁠Intentional Parents.org⁠ ⁠Raising Passionate Jesus Followers book⁠ ⁠Intentional Parents Podcast⁠ ⁠My Counselor Online⁠: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link ⁠Better Help⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Guest Introduction - 0:20 Discussion on Body and Intimacy - 0:59 Chronic Pain and Marriage Dynamics - 5:28 Navigating Intimacy Challenges - 9:38 Communication and Understanding - 12:20 Faith and Perseverance - 15:45 Grief and Lament in Marriage - 28:23 Closing Thoughts and Prayer - 33:42 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • S12 · E25
    June 22 · 32 min

    293: Sex When You Have Special Needs Kids & Tough Seasons Of Life with Brook & Elizabeth Mosser

    The Wonder Project: Subscriber support makes more great content like I Gotta Ask with Annie F. Downs possible. The Wonder Project subscription on Prime Video is available in the U.S. for $8.99/month or $89.99/year after a 7-day free trial.Visit ⁠⁠IGottaAsk.com⁠⁠ to learn more! In this episode, Brooke and Elizabeth Moser open up about their journey through chronic pain and their children's diagnoses, revealing how these challenges reshaped their marriage and faith. Don't miss this raw and inspiring look at how love and faith can endure through life's toughest trials. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Past interview with Brook Mosser Resources: Intentional Parents.org Raising Passionate Jesus Followers book Intentional Parents Podcast My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link Better Help ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:31 Guest Introduction: Brooke and Elizabeth Moser - 1:07 Intentional Ministry Overview - 2:04 Family and Parenting Journey - 6:07 Health Challenges and Impact - 8:26 Marriage and Relationship Dynamics - 17:31 Finding Strength and Unity - 24:39 Conclusion and Teaser for Part Two - 29:32 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • S12 · E24
    June 15 · 31 min

    292: The Surprising Power Fathers Have to Shape Their Kids’ Views on Sex with Kim and Darlene Unrau

    The Wonder Project: Subscriber support makes more great content like I Gotta Ask with Annie F. Downs possible. The Wonder Project subscription on Prime Video is available in the U.S. for $8.99/month or $89.99/year after a 7-day free trial.Visit ⁠⁠IGottaAsk.com⁠⁠ to learn more! In part two of our chat with Kim and Darlene, they dive into the transformative power of faith and connection in marriage. They explore the intriguing "two brains" theory, the role of fathers in shaping their children's views on love, and how aging can positively influence attraction. Don't miss it! Our Episodes: Episode 136: Creating a Radical Relationship with Kim and Darlene Last weeks episode with Kim and Darlene Resources: Kim's book: Talking With Jesus RadicalRelationship.love The 5 Sex Needs of Men and Women Gary and Barbara Roseberg ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction and Importance of Parental Guidance - 0:00 Interview with Kim and Darlene Unrau - 0:28 The Concept of Two Brains - 1:22 Attachment and Monogamy - 2:31 Shame and Marriage - 9:36 The Six Second Kiss - 14:00 Public Display of Affection - 18:26 Father's Influence and Heart Necklace - 22:15 Book Recommendations and Resources - 25:58 Closing and Prayer - 27:47 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • S12 · E23
    June 8 · 34 min

    291: ⁠What Every Father Needs to Hear with Kim and Darlene Unrau

    The Wonder Project: Subscriber support makes more great content like I Gotta Ask with Annie F. Downs possible. The Wonder Project subscription on Prime Video is available in the U.S. for $8.99/month or $89.99/year after a 7-day free trial.Visit ⁠⁠IGottaAsk.com⁠⁠ to learn more! We’re joined by Kim and Darlene Unrau to talk about emotional connection, healing, and what really helps marriages feel close again. We chat Father’s Day, emotional orphancy, how Jesus meets our unmet needs, and they share simple, practical tools to help couples build deeper emotional intimacy. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Past episode with Kim and Darlene Resources: Awaken Love book Connection Codes ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Expectations - 0:00 Welcome to Kingdom Sexuality Podcast - 0:19 Verse of the Day - 0:54 Introduction of Guests: Kim and Darlene - 1:26 Discussion on Father's Day and Encouragement - 3:25 Emotional Orphancy and Fatherhood - 4:28 Intimacy and Connection in Marriage - 6:14 The Role of Jesus in Relationships - 8:15 Practical Steps for Emotional Connection - 10:31 The Connection Code Exercise - 20:33 Emotional Intimacy and Vulnerability - 28:16 Conclusion and Prayer - 30:34 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • S18 · E22
    June 1 · 33 min

    290: Patron's Choice! Quickie Sex

    The Wonder Project: Subscriber support makes more great content like I Gotta Ask with Annie F. Downs possible. The Wonder Project subscription on Prime Video is available in the U.S. for $8.99/month or $89.99/year after a 7-day free trial.Visit IGottaAsk.com to learn more! Quickies get a bad rap, but they might be exactly what your marriage needs in busy seasons. In this episode, we talk about when quickie sex works, when it doesn’t, and how to make it connecting instead of rushed. If you’ve got kids, jobs, and about five spare minutes, this one’s for you. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: Christian Friendly Sex Position Website Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off Coconu Lube Single Packs: Use the code KINGDOM for 15% off ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Patreon Support - 0:00 Episode Topic: Quickies - 1:45 Sponsor Message - 2:12 Tease Listener Bloopers - 2:24 Bible Verse Discussion - 2:55 Defining Quickies - 4:11 Pros and Cons of Quickies - 5:18 Making Quickies Intentional - 8:07 Common Quickie Mistakes - 19:53 Listener Bloopers Continued - 25:32 Closing Prayer - 30:22 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • S12 · E21
    May 25 · 19 min

    289: Having A Confident Wedding Night

    Getting married is an exciting milestone, but the wedding night often comes with a mix of anticipation and uncertainty! From managing expectations to embracing those awkward moments, this episode will help guide you through making your special night unforgettable. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: When Sex Is Painful Our Products: Wedding Night Guide ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Episode Overview: The Wedding Night - 0:20 Bible Verse Discussion - 0:50 Importance of Communication - 2:50 Expectations vs. Reality - 5:14 Common Wedding Night Surprises - 7:07 Understanding the Female Cycle - 10:04 Prayer and Spirituality in Marriage - 13:41 Guide Introduction and Details - 14:45 Closing and Prayer - 17:09 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • S12 · E20
    May 18 · 21 min

    288: Patron's Choice! How To Say What You Like In Bed

    Want better sex but don’t know how to say what you like? This episode breaks down how couples can communicate sexual preferences with kindness and confidence. Not sure what you like in the bedroom? Don't worry- we cover that too! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Get the "Figuring Out What I Like Guide" here!! ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Episode Overview - 0:20 Verse of the Day - 0:45 Sponsor Break - 1:13 Why We Don't Talk About Preferences - 1:38 Purity Culture and Desire - 2:11 Communication in Marriage - 3:07 Exploration and Self-Discovery - 4:15 Guidance and Communication Levels - 8:24 Challenge for the Week - 17:11 Closing Prayer - 18:33 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • S12 · E19
    May 11 · 48 min

    287: The Sex Talk You Never Got with Sam Jolman

    What if your sexuality was meant to be approached with awe instead of fear? In this episode, Kyle and Tiera chat with Sam Jolman about shame, the difference between arousal and desire, and how reclaiming sensuality as sacred can lead to healing, and freedom! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: The Sex Talk You Never Got Better Sex Through Mindfulness Sam Jolman’s Substack ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Discussion on Sexuality and Faith - 1:20 Sam's Personal Journey - 3:08 Exploring Masculine Sexuality - 6:24 Arousal and Desire - 13:41 Sensuality and Spirituality - 15:52 Shame and Evil - 33:49 Conclusion and Prayer - 44:25 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • S12 · E18
    May 4 · 37 min

    286: Losing The Lover In The Mother

    Ever feel like you love your kids and your marriage, but you’re exhausted and wondering where you went? In this episode, we talk honestly about the tension between motherhood, marriage, and identity, and how to get back into "lover" mode. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Is The Mental Load Killing Your Sex Life? With Dr. Morgan Cutlip Our Products: Her Turn Sex Challenge After Hours: Parents Edition Sex Challenge Resources: A Better Share ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Verse of the Day: Proverbs 31 - 1:17 Losing Identity in Motherhood - 1:39 Balancing Motherhood and Marriage - 3:00 The Mental Load of Motherhood - 4:09 Postpartum Changes and Challenges - 8:40 Husbands' Role in Supporting Wives - 14:39 Reclaiming Identity and Intimacy - 21:30 Practical Tips for Couples - 25:01 Closing Thoughts and Prayer - 33:57 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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