The Dildorks

Billy Lore, Kate Sloan

Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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Apr 19, 2017 · 56 min
Episode 31: Merry 'Juana!
This week is 4/20 so we decided to get high and ask each other goofy hypotheticals. How do you suck a 6-foot dick? What are our desert-island dildos? And which two Beatles would be the best threesome buddies? Podcasting High | [#DildorksLive](https://twitter.com/search?f=tweets&vertical=default&q=%23DildorksLive&src=tyah) | Magic of Editing | Dick-Sized Persons | Sex on Food | Grocery Store | Edible Toys | Cheese | Labia-Swappin' | Good Pups | Gender Constructs | Beatles | Subby Wolf | Podca
Apr 12, 2017 · 1 hr 7 min
Episode 30: What Mood, Dude?
Why are people so terrified of "ruining the mood" during sex? This week, we investigate alleged mood-ruiners, like consent conversations, technique criticism, and laughter. Spoiler alert: if the mood is good, it's hard to ruin! Silent Sex | Hard Conversations | Yes, And... | And Then What? | Laughing | Consent | Redirects | Princess | Safer Sex | [Reid Mihalko's Elevator Speech](http://reidaboutsex.com/safersexelevatorspeech/) | Escalation | Compliment Sandwich | Positive Feedback | Check-In
Apr 5, 2017 · 1 hr
Episode 29: A Veritable Pornucopia
Porn makes great jerk-off fodder, but it's also so much more than that! This episode, find out why Bex doesn't really watch porn, why Kate's mom is a sex-positive superhero, and why we both get hard and wet for authenticity. Consumption Styles | Porn vs. Fantasies | Gagging | [Heather Harmon](http://thoughtcatalog.com/hersh-bavnik/2013/12/the-legend-of-heather-i-deepthroat-an-incomplete-story-of-americas-greatest-porn-star/) | Bushes & Butches | Kate's Mom | Audio | Authenticity | [Dylan Rya
Mar 29, 2017 · 45 min
Episode 28: Picky Sluts Unite
This week we're joined by smart, savvy sex educator [Dirty Lola](http://dirtylola69.tumblr.com/)! We chat with her about ethical polyamory, what makes someone a slut, and why Bill Nye needs to host a sex ed show. [Sex Ed A Go Go](http://sexedagogo.com/) | Bill Nye | Sharing Details | [Unfollow Me](http://girlyjuice.net/why-you-should-never-follow-the-person-youre-dating-on-twitter/) | Poly Tips | Sluttiness | Sex Matters | Science Experiments | Online Dating | #SlutProblems | Non-Disclosure
Mar 22, 2017 · 58 min
Episode 27: G Marks the Spot
Today we discuss the much-debated G-spot! Why does Bex find big muscles hot? Why do Kate's partners not even know where her G-spot is? And how do we deal when we unexpectedly squirt all over everything? Prehensile G-Spot | Is It a Thing? | Magic Button | Clit Stim | [Squirting](https://maisonneuve.org/article/2015/11/17/wee-dispute/) & Spurting | Pelvic vs. Pudendal Nerve | Emotional Bonding | [A-Spot](http://girlyjuice.net/lets-learn-about-the-a-spot/) | [Njoy Eleven](http://girlyjuice.net/
Mar 15, 2017 · 56 min
Episode 26: Enthusi-gasm!
As per usual, we're enthusin' about enthusiasm! Find out the strangest sex compliment Bex ever received, what Kate's boobs have in common with Mario the plumber, and why tourism induces better sex. French Fries | Picky Sluts | Blowjob Quests | Authenticity | Desirability | [Passion](http://girlyjuice.net/ask-these-3-questions-you-might-fall-in-love/) | Before, During and After | Anxiety | [Compliments](http://girlyjuice.net/how-to-give-a-killer-compliment/) | Out-of-Towners | "Thank You" | O
Mar 8, 2017 · 55 min
Episode 25: You Got Served
Service isn't just unpaid labor; for us, it's a kink, too! In this episode, find out how cleaning can be hot, what craft beer has to do with kink, and whether semen is a good reward... Helpful & Useful | Is It a Sex Thing, Tho? | Falling In Kink | Vanilla Confusion | Anxiety | Structure | Threesomes | What Should I Do? | The Marketplace | Sexual vs. Nonsexual Service | Remembering Preferences | Taking Pain | Giving Head | Kink-Negging | Cum | Verbal Praise | Surprise & Delight | Boundaries |
Mar 1, 2017 · 1 hr
Episode 24: Use Your Nerds
This week we're joined by our buddy [Brent "Brentalfloss" Black](https://twitter.com/brentalfloss), game dev, [YouTuber](http://youtube.com/user/brentalfloss), and podcaster extraordinaire! We found out what sex jokes he had to cut from his forthcoming party game, which sex toys he hates, and what celebrity impressions he likes to do during sex. [Trends Like These](http://trendslikethese.com/) | Sex Nerds | Pavlovian Arousal | Dildos | Jar of Horrors | [Use Your Words](http://useyourwords.lo
Feb 22, 2017 · 1 hr 13 min
Episode 23: Dildo-Slingers
There's more to selling sex toys than you would think! This week, retail guru Bex shares their cock-hawkin' wisdom with retail noob Kate. Find out how we deal with creepy customers, what we wish our stores carried, and why coworker crushes are fantastic. Organizing Seeds | Late For The Interview | Emotional Labor | Self-Care | [MiMi Soft](http://www.shevibe.com/je-joue-mimi-soft-waterproof-rechargeable-silicone-vibrator.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Form 2](http://www.shevibe.com/jimmyjane-form-2-wate
Feb 15, 2017 · 49 min
Episode 22: Romancipation
Flowers and chocolate are so played out, but does Valentine's Day still have any value? In this episode, we ruminate on romance. Find out what Bex's fourth-grade suitor bought them, why Kate just doesn't "get" romantic sex, and how menstrual cramps made us both ponder romance. Robo-Bex | Valentine's Day | [Dog People vs. Cat People](http://reidaboutsex.com/date-your-species/) | Platonic Romance | Comfort & Consistency | Grand Gestures | Perseverance | Romantic Attraction | Making Love | Kiss
Feb 8, 2017 · 53 min
Episode 21: Attraction Abstraction
Human attractions are mysterious phenomena! In this episode, we unpack what draws us to people and what repulses us. Why is Kate doomed to date game devs forever? How does Bex weigh good dick against bad politics? And why do our feelings on dweeby blazers differ so drastically?! Pillow Forts | High Sexts | Physical vs. Mental | Improv Crushes | Sartorial Appropriateness | Tinder Bros | Beauty Standards | Game Devs | Bad Politics | Bad Spellers | The Meaning of Monogamy | [Spot of Delight](ht
Feb 1, 2017 · 38 min
Episode 20: Funnyboners
Humor is one of the most popular traits people look for in a partner, and in this week's episode, we talk a little bit about why. Find out if we think laughing during sex kills the mood, why Starbucks will always make Bex think of failed cunnilingus, and what exactly is a dom-edian? Attraction to Humor | Humor & Intelligence | [Talk Flirty to Me](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2017/01/talk-flirty-to-me/) | Humor Masking Vulnerability | Improv | [My Brother, My Brother and Me](http://www.maximumf
Jan 25, 2017 · 48 min
Episode 19: Living Loudly Online
This week we're joined by [Cooper S. Beckett](http://coopersbeckett.com/) – [author](http://coopersbeckett.com/books/), [podcaster](http://swingset.fm/), [relationship coach](http://coopersbeckett.com/coaching/), and swinger! The three of us chatted about being publicly sexy online, navigating consent with the people we write about, and the various personas we juggle. Swinging Resources | Sharing Experiences | [Crista Anne](http://www.cristaanne.com/) | Breaking the Social Contract | Anxiety
Jan 18, 2017 · 1 hr 8 min
Episode 18: Orgasms 'n' Outrage
Ever wonder which sex toy marketing trends we want to light on fire and banish to hell? In this episode we rant about the toy-marketing tropes that really rustle our jimmies. Find out which companies we hate, which ones we admire, and why a penis tuxedo provoked the ire of sex toy reviewers worldwide. Sex Toy Retail | [JeJoue MiMi Soft](http://www.shevibe.com/je-joue-mimi-soft-waterproof-rechargeable-silicone-vibrator.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Gendered Lube](../../review-pink-gun-oil-lubes/) | [Bi
Jan 11, 2017 · 54 min
Episode 17: Whisper Tweet Nothings
Our hearts are all a-twitter over the fine art of social media flirting! In this episode, we share tips for communicating interest in timeline posts and tweet-sized chunks. Find out why Bex loves giving flirting advice, how Kate met her fave FWB on Twitter, and why tweet-liking is our favorite secret flirt code. Pungle Cruise | Flirting Mind Palace | Courtesy Swipes | [Dr. Nerdlove](http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2011/07/pick-girls-facebook/) | Facebook Flirting | Strategic Tweet-Faving | Sli
Jan 4, 2017 · 1 hr 4 min
Episode 16: Jerking Hard, or Hardly Jerking?
How did we come so far (and so many times!) without talking about masturbation?! In this episode we wax poetic about whackin' off. Find out how we fumbled our way to our first orgasms, what we fantasize about mid-wank, and what Mr. Incredible has in common with a Hitachi Magic Wand. Jerking Off | Elbow Sex | God's Plan | [Religious Fisting](http://sexinchrist.com/fist.html) | How Many Fingers? | Homejerk | [Puberty Book](http://www.powells.com/book/its-a-girl-thing-how-to-stay-healthy-safe-a
Dec 28, 2016 · 1 hr 7 min
Episode 15: Auld Wang Syne
2017 is looming and we're doing our best to stay cocktimistic. In this episode, we discuss our sex goals for the coming year, and how we plan to achieve them. Find out why Kate is stepping back from dating for a while, what Bex hopes to have done to them in front of an audience, and why we both need to stick our faces in some vulvas real soon. Comics as Spanking Implements | Sunstone | Promiscuity and Empathy | Cockadile Hunter | [Bipolar II](../../im-an-obsessive-intense-weirdo/) | Love Add
Dec 21, 2016 · 1 hr 16 min
Episode 14: Twentydicksteen
Kate and Bex bring us a 2016 round-up the only way they know how: by talking about all the times they got fucked the way 2016 fucked us all. Hear their most vital sex stats, including how many people they fucked, where they boned them, and how often they came. Find out what sex act Kate only realized she was into this year and hear about how Bex realized they were a pup. They discuss the parts of their life that cockblocked them the most this year and even brainstorm what a Dildorks drinking gam
Dec 14, 2016 · 1 hr 14 min
Episode 13: Swipe Right For Disappointment
OkCupid and Tinder are garbage fires, but occasionally you can find a diamond in the trash heap. In this episode, we give you the low-down on online dating: our favorite sites, our successful and not-so-successful dates, and our best tips for better matches. Plus, find out how Bex managed to have a threesome on a first date, and why Kate's one-night stand from Minneapolis sent her an apology a month later. Tinder vs. OkCupid | South Park | Show, Don't Tell | Compatibility Percentages | The E
Dec 7, 2016 · 1 hr 22 min
Episode 12: Spank You Very Much
It's time for us to talk smack about smackin'! Let us regale you with tales of Bex's birthday spanking party, Kate's mid-bang spanking lesson, and the saddest paddlin' either of us has ever participated in. We also tell you our favorite toys to hit people and get hit with! (Content note: this episode contains a minute-long discussion of self-harm at the 37:30 mark, and mentions bruises throughout.) Early Morning Podcasting | Rainbow Bagels | [#BirthdayBruises](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2016