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Self Obsessed

Tam Kaur

Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth.
‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions.
So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.

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September 4 · 19 min
5 steps to Manifest Your Dream Partner in a Self-Obsessed Way
[ad] Text CHECK to 82228 to sign up for CoppaFeel!’s free monthly text reminder service, and they’ll remind you to check your chest every month. PRE-ORDER MY PRODUCTIVITY JOURNAL manifesting true love can feel like it’s all about finding the right person, but the healthiest relationships begin with the relationship you have with yourself. in this video, i’m sharing my 5-step self-obsessed guide to manifesting the kind of love you actually deserve. we’ll talk about strengthening your self-concept, becoming the partner you hope to attract, healing unhealthy attachment patterns, setting standards that protect your emotional safety, and getting intentional about what you want without becoming attached to when or how it arrives. love should never require you to put your own life on hold, so instead of waiting for someone else to complete it, focus on creating a life that already feels fulfilling on its own. CHAPTERS: Tip 1 — 2:06 Tip 2 — 5:01 Tip 3 — 9:32 Tip 4 — 12:48 Tip 5 — 17:14 BOOK JOURNAL WEBSITE PODCAST VLOGS INSTAGRAM TIKTOK For brand and press enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com
August 28 · 17 min
watch this before you go back to school for confidence [pep talk]
going back to school or university can feel like the perfect opportunity to reinvent yourself, but real confidence starts with changing how you see yourself. in this video, i’m sharing 8 mindset shifts that will help you stop living through other people’s opinions and start making choices based on the person you actually want to become. we’ll talk about how to stop chasing validation, handle rejection without letting it define you, intentionally build a new identity through your actions, and so much more. you only get this chapter of your life once, so don’t let insecurity or fear decide how much of it you allow yourself to experience. BOOK JOURNAL WEBSITE PODCAST VLOGS INSTAGRAM TIKTOK For brand and press enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com
August 21 · 13 min
watch this when you feel behind in life | comparison, self-doubt, and finding your own path
feeling like everyone else is moving forward while you’re falling behind in life? i’ve been there. in this video, i’m sharing 10 reassuring facts and mindset shifts to help you stop comparing yourself to others and trust your own timeline. we’ll talk about navigating self-doubt, letting go of the pressure to have it all figured out, and finding your own path. whether you’re questioning your progress or grieving where you thought you’d be by now, this is your reminder that you’re not behind—you’re building a life that actually feels right for you. BOOK JOURNAL WEBSITE PODCAST VLOGS INSTAGRAM TIKTOK For brand and press enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com
August 5 · 29 min
MID YEAR RESET 2026: the 1% plan to become unrecognisable in 6 months
if you've been waiting for a sign to reset your life, let this be it. the middle of the year is one of the most powerful times to pause and reflect because you still have enough time to completely change how this year ends. in this video, we'll talk about what a true mid-year reset actually looks like and why the second half of the year can completely change the direction of the first. from letting go of what no longer serves you to being more intentional with your time, energy, attention, and money, this is about creating a life that feels aligned with the person you're becoming. because you don't need a new year to start over. you just need the willingness to begin again. chapters: 01:34 chapter 1: mid-year rest 06:08 chapter 2: mid-year cuts 13:00 chapter 3: mid-year investments 19:44 chapter 4: mid-year reset BOOK JOURNAL WEBSITE PODCAST VLOGS INSTAGRAM TIKTOK For brand and press enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com
July 24 · 23 min
mastering your self-concept is the answer to your desires
if you've ever felt invisible, believed you were "just shy," or convinced yourself that confidence was something other people were born with, this conversation is for you. we explore why your self-concept is the foundation of every change you want to make, and how the identity you've carried for years may be quietly shaping your reality without you even realizing it. when you stop using your past as proof of who you are, you create the space to become someone new. confidence isn't something you wait to feel—it's something you begin to embody the moment you choose a different story about yourself. chapters: 02:40 01 — the pitfalls you're stuck in 08:59 02 — how it transforms your life and manifestations 13:57 03 — the ultimate self-concept method BOOK JOURNAL WEBSITE PODCAST VLOGS INSTAGRAM TIKTOK For brand and press enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com
July 17 · 15 min
why are women getting dumber on purpose?
if you've ever caught yourself saying "i'm just a girl," embracing girl math or girl dinner, or believing that helplessness is part of being feminine, this conversation is for you. we explore how the identities you repeat shape your self-concept, confidence, and self-worth, and why social media trends can quietly reinforce limiting beliefs. true confidence isn't about playing small or pretending you don't know something. it's built through emotional intelligence, financial independence, and becoming a woman who trusts herself. so, it's time to stop shrinking and start building a life rooted in capability instead of helplessness. chapters: 01 — the cult of girlhood 02:12 02 — your self-concept doesn't know you're joking 07:03 03 — you are manifesting your limitations 08:15 04 — competence is part of the glow up 09:32 05 — the self-obsessed woman 12:03 BOOK JOURNAL WEBSITE PODCAST VLOGS INSTAGRAM TIKTOK For brand and press enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com
July 9 · 12 min
why undeserving people always seem to succeed
if they could do it without the credentials, the only thing standing between you and that outcome is not capability, it is belief. if you've ever wondered why people with less experience or fewer qualifications are achieving the success you want, this video is for you. we explore how your self-concept, confidence, and self-worth shape your reality, why comparison on social media fuels scarcity and limiting beliefs, and how jealousy can reveal what you truly desire. it's time to overcome imposter syndrome, build genuine confidence, develop an abundance mindset, and create success on your own terms by becoming the highest version of yourself. BOOK JOURNAL WEBSITE PODCAST VLOGS INSTAGRAM TIKTOK For brand and press enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com
June 29 · 13 min
why quitting man hating was the most feminist thing i ever did
this video is for the woman who believes that hating men is the same thing as healing. somewhere along the way, man-hating became synonymous with female empowerment. it became the proof that you had healed, evolved, and finally de-centered men. but what if true feminism requires something entirely different? in this video, i break down the 7 reasons why letting go of man-hating changed the way i viewed healing, self-worth, dating, and female empowerment. from emotional attachment and unresolved hurt to avoidance, resentment, and the surprising similarities between man-hating culture and the manosphere, we unpack why the goal was never to spend your life loving men or hating them. the goal was always to make yourself the main character. ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 01 — STILL OBSESSED 1:51 02 — THE OPPOSITE OF LOVE 2:36 03 — HEALED OR HURT? 4:05 04 — THE AVOIDANCE STRATEGY 5:51 05 — PICK-ME IN REVERSE 7:41 06 — SAME OBSESSION 9:30 07 — FREEDOM 10:30 BOOK & LINKS: BOOK JOURNAL WEBSITE PODCAST VLOGS STAY CONNECTED: INSTAGRAM TIKTOK For brand and press enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: Epidemic Sound
May 29 · 22 min
REALITY CHECK: why you still don't have the love you want
if you’re constantly overthinking texts, stuck in situationships, comparing yourself to girls in relationships, or feeling like everyone else finds love so easily except you...this reality check is for you ❤️ in today's video, we’re talking about self concept, attachment styles, manifestation, boundaries, confidence, detachment, and the small daily choices that either move you closer to healthy love or keep you stuck in the same toxic cycle. if you’re tired of settling, obsessing over unavailable people, or feeling like you always have to earn love, this video is for you. because the healthy, secure relationship you want starts with becoming the version of you who truly believes she deserves it ✨ 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL MANIFESTATION JOURNAL PODCAST INSTAGRAM LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS MY OTHER LINKS For business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder! Epidemic Sound
May 22 · 17 min
how to transform your life before summer (you have one month)
this is your mid-year reminder that you do not need to wait until january to become the woman you said you wanted to be. in this video, we reset your space, your phone, your mind, and your habits so you can stop avoiding your goals and start rebuilding discipline, self-trust, and momentum before 2026 slips away. if you have been feeling stuck, burnt out, inconsistent, or disconnected from your future self, this is your 30-day reset to get back in alignment ✨ ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 02:30 Chapter 1: The Reset 12:59 Chapter 2: The Method 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL MANIFESTATION JOURNAL PODCAST INSTAGRAM LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS MY OTHER LINKS\ For business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!
May 12 · 21 min
how to finally silence your inner critic (for the women who have already done the work)
this one is for the woman who has already done the work. who knows the tools. who has grown and who keeps hitting the same wall every time she tries to go higher. your inner critic does not disappear when you evolve. it evolves with you. it gets quieter, subtler, and far more dangerous. it stops sounding like self-hate and starts sounding like wisdom. and that is when it does the most damage. this video covers the neuroscience behind why the inner critic gets loudest exactly when you are closest to your next level, the specific methods to silence it at the root, and the daily identity work that makes the silence permanent. this is not beginner self-help. this is the advanced version. watch until the end. ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 02:30 Chapter 1: Meet Your Built-in Bully 10:09 Chapter 2: The Self-love Protocol 16:12 Chapter 3: Identity Homework 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL MANIFESTATION JOURNAL PODCAST INSTAGRAM LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS MY OTHER LINKS For business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!
May 8 · 21 min
how to be a b*tch — why being nice is sabotaging your entire life
you already know how to be a b*tch. parts one, two, and three gave you the tools. part four goes somewhere the others never did. this one is about the bigger picture. why being nice is quietly sabotaging your goals, your self-esteem, your energy, and the company you keep. why your body is paying a physical price for every emotion you've swallowed to keep the peace. why the women who get treated well in relationships aren't always the kindest...they're the most self-possessed. and how to build a daily life that actually reflects the woman you are becoming, not the one you were conditioned to be. ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 01:06 Chapter 1: Good Girl Syndrome 07:34 Chapter 2: The New Mindset 16:05 Chapter 3: The Bad B*tch Lifestyle 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL MANIFESTATION JOURNAL PODCAST INSTAGRAM LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS MY OTHER LINKS For business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!
April 21 · 21 min
why women who put themselves first win every time
for the woman who has always been the reliable one. the one who shows up, gives everything, and somehow still ends up last on her own list — without being able to explain why. this video is the explanation. and the way out. there is a system built into friendships, families, relationships, and culture itself that keeps women small. it does not announce itself loudly. it uses guilt, shame, and a single word to ensure you never fully choose yourself. this video dismantles it completely. we cover the cultural mechanism behind why women are punished for self-prioritisation, the exact patterns keeping you stuck at level one of your own life, and five non-negotiable actions to finally ascend.featuring lola and athena of course. watch until the end. ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 01:18 Chapter 1: The Con 07:06 Chapter 2: The Proof 16:52 Chapter 3: The Ascent 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL MANIFESTATION JOURNAL PODCAST INSTAGRAM LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS MY OTHER LINKS For business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!
April 16 · 18 min
how to ACTUALLY be yourself (when you've forgotten who that is)
feeling disconnected from yourself and tired of second-guessing everything you say, do, and want? in this video, i’m talking about how people-pleasing, fear of rejection, and old survival patterns can quietly pull you away from who you really are, until you barely recognize your own voice. we’re getting into why authenticity can feel so hard, how social media, relationships, and the need to be liked can shape a version of you that feels safe but not fully true, and what it actually looks like to come back to yourself with more honesty, self-trust, and confidence. ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 02:34 Chapter 1: Why You Lost Yourself in the First Place (The Diagnosis Before the Cure) 08:18 Chapter 2: What Authenticity Actually Means (It's Not What You Think) 15:06 Chapter 3: Homework and Actionable Steps 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL MANIFESTATION JOURNAL PODCAST INSTAGRAM LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS MY OTHER LINKS For business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!
March 27 · 15 min
the ULTIMATE guide to becoming your own version of an "it girl"
hey girlies, i lost the outro clip during filming, so that’s why the ending is a little abrupt 😭 but i hope you guys still enjoyed the video. let me know your favorite part in the comments 💌 becoming the IT girl starts with realizing you were never missing “it” you just needed to stop searching for it in trends, attention, or other people’s validation. in this video, we’re talking about what it really takes to become her through mindset shifts, self trust, and the daily habits that shape the way you move, present yourself, and create your life. this is for the girl who knows she is meant for more, is outgrowing old versions of herself, and is learning how to stop shrinking, stop trying to fit in, and fully step into her own energy 🩷 ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction 01:18 Chapter 1: Redefining the "It Girl" (The New Mindset) 08:22 Chapter 2: The Transformation 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL MANIFESTATION JOURNAL PODCAST INSTAGRAM LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS MY OTHER LINKS For business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!
March 23 · 15 min
watch this when you want to give up
watch this when you want to give up and need a reminder that this difficult season of your life is not where your story ends. in this episode, we’re talking about feeling stuck, unmotivated, behind, or like nothing is working even though you’re trying your best. this is for the girl in a slump or in the messy middle who wants to keep going, trust her journey, and stay committed to becoming the woman she knows she can be. if you’ve been feeling discouraged, let this be the video you return to when you need perspective, comfort, and a push to keep going. ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction 01:06 Closest to Change 03:15 The Messy Middle 04:24 Brain vs Comfort 05:23 Hindsight is Clarity 06:22 Future You Begs to Not Give Up 07:29 Nothing Is Permanent 09:00 Outgrowing Yourself 09:33 You Are Doing Better Than You Think 10:55 Baby Steps Only 12:05 Future Self Thanks You 14:50 Final Reminders 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL MANIFESTATION JOURNAL PODCAST INSTAGRAM LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS MY OTHER LINKS For business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!
March 14 · 21 min
the ULTIMATE guide to fake friends | subtle signs to watch out for & friendship advice
hi girlies! guess what... it’s my 400th video! 🎉 i’m so grateful for your continued support and love through the years ❤️ and since you have also come a long way in your self-love journey, give yourself a pat on the back for your consistency because that’s a big deal. to celebrate my 400th video, we’re talking fake friends and why they’re not always obvious. i’m breaking down the signs of toxic friendships and jealous friends like constant comparison, “i could never” comments, disrespect disguised as jokes, gossip, and the weird energy when you’re winning. if you’re outgrowing friends or going through a friendship breakup, i’ll share how to protect your peace with self-love, boundaries, self-respect, aligned values, and slowing down who you trust because you deserve friendships that feel safe, supportive, and aligned with the woman you’re becoming. ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction 01:48 Chapter 1: Signs You Have a Fake Friend 09:23 Chapter 2: Getting the F*ck Over It 14:04 Chapter 3: Protecting Yourself 20:12 Final Reminders 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL MANIFESTATION JOURNAL PODCAST INSTAGRAM LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS MY OTHER LINKS For business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!
February 24 · 23 min
8 harsh truths you need to hear to achieve REAL growth
Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today at http://shopify.com/AU 💐 LAST CHANCE TO ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters! AMZ if you’ve been feeling stuck, here are 8 harsh truths i wish someone told me sooner. in today’s video, we’re breaking down mindset, limiting beliefs, and why the version of “reality” you’re living in is often shaped by old stories and identity patterns. i’m also sharing why discomfort, embarrassment, and imposter syndrome are actually signs you’re growing, and how choosing self-respect over people-pleasing and family expectations is what builds real confidence and higher standards. if your glow up or personal growth feels stagnant, this video is for you 🤍 ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction 01:37 Harsh Truth #1: Dating Is On You 03:54 Harsh Truth #2: Reality Is A Choice 05:58 Harsh Truth #3: Run Toward Fear 07:52 Harsh Truth #4: Alignment Over Popularity 11:53 Harsh Truth #5: Adversity Has Purpose 13:42 Harsh Truth #6: Pick Your Struggle 16:20 Harsh Truth #7: Self-Love Sets Limits 18:20 Harsh Truth #8: Stop Living For Others 22:14 Final Encouragement 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL MANIFESTATION JOURNAL ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS PODCAST INSTAGRAM MY OTHER LINKS For business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!
February 13 · 30 min
GIRL TALK: juicy dating dilemmas, relationship & self-love advice (VALENTINES EDITION)
Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today at http://shopify.com/AU 💐 LAST CHANCE TO ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters! AMZ it’s that time again, girlies!!! 💌✨ girl talk: valentine’s edition!!! in today’s episode, we’re having a cozy one-on-one bestie chat where i’m answering your juiciest dating questions, relationship dilemmas, situationship scenarios, and more. plus, i’m sharing self-love tips, confidence mindset shifts, and actionable steps you can actually apply to your self-love journey all year round. so grab your favorite beverage, a little snack, get comfy and let’s get into it. 🤍 ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction: Happy Valentine's! 00:55 Relationship & Dating 19:46 Self-Love 28:52 Final Thoughts 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL MANIFESTATION JOURNAL ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS PODCAST INSTAGRAM MY OTHER LINKS For business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: Epidemic Sound*my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!
February 6 · 27 min
how to date once you realize you don't need a man
Sign up today for your £1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today at http://shopify.co.uk/ Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today at http://shopify.com/AU 💐 ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters! WTS | AMZ dating gets easier when you’re already anchored in self-love ✨ in this video, we’re talking about healing old patterns, rewiring your beliefs about love, and dating from confidence — not craving. we’ll cover high standards, staying loyal to your solo life, and the shift from auditioning to observing (because you’re not here to convince anyone to choose you) 💐 ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction to Self-Love Journey 03:44 Step 1: Learning that Love is Safe 06:17 Step 2: Condition Your Mind 08:44 Step 3: Rewiring Your Belief 12:38 Step 4: Self-love Is an Ongoing Process 14:53 Step 5: Revisit Your Expectations and Standards 18:44 Step 6: Find the Balance With Your Independence 20:07 Step 7: Be Prepared to be Disappointed 24:15 Step 8: Observe Instead of Auditioning for Love 26:03 Conclusion 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL MANIFESTATION JOURNAL ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS PODCAST INSTAGRAM MY OTHER LINKS For business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: Epidemic Sound *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

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