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Self Obsessed

Tam Kaur

#26 in Education this week

Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth.
‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions.
So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.

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  • January 31 · 30 min

    how to be self-obsessed | become confident, magnetic, and emotionally unbothered in 2026

    Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today at http://shopify.com/AU 💐 PRE-ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters! WTS | AMZ self-obsession isn’t selfish— it’s the foundation of confidence, self-love, and emotional discipline ✨ in this video, we’re talking about what it really means to be healthily self-obsessed and how embracing this energy can help you stop people pleasing, build self-trust, and finally raise your standards. i’m sharing the mindset shifts that helped me protect my peace, regulate my emotions, and glow up from the inside out, along with daily habits for self-love, tips to romanticize your life, and how to set boundaries without guilt. if you’ve been craving feminine energy routines, a confidence reset, or practical personal growth advice, this is your guide to becoming your most magnetic, self-assured self. whether you’ve been feeling disconnected or overstimulated, this episode will help you reclaim your energy, realign with your future self, and step fully into your glow-up era 💌 ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 01:17 Introduction: Are You Self-Obsessed? 02:54 Chapter 1: Redefining Self-Obsession 18:12 Chapter 2: Practical Ways to Be Self-Obsessed in Your Daily Life 27:11 Chapter 3: Homework 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL MANIFESTATION JOURNAL ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS PODCAST INSTAGRAM MY OTHER LINKS For business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: Epidemic Sound *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • January 24 · 25 min

    REALITY CHECK: let 2026 be the year you become untouchable

    Shopify UK: Sign up today for your £1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today for at ⁠shopify.co.uk⁠ Shopify AU: Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today for at ⁠shopify.com/AU⁠ 💐 PRE-ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters! WTS | AMZ 2026 is the year you will become untouchable ✨ in this episode, we’re talking about what it really means to be healthily self-obsessed. i’m sharing the mindset shifts, self-love habits, and emotional regulation tools that helped me stop caring what people think, stop overreacting, and start prioritizing my future self, peace, and power. if you’ve been giving everyone access to you while abandoning yourself, this is your sign to become the main character for 2026. ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Reality Check: Are You Truly Untouchable? 00:48 The Key to Self-Leadership and Growth 03:39 Defining Untouchable: Beyond Dating 04:40 Tips for Becoming Untouchable 07:28 Resilience and Self-Protection 10:32 The Power of Self-Love and Self-Obsession 16:21 Setting High Standards and Boundaries 22:57 Final Thoughts and Encouragement 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTIONuse my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL MANIFESTATION JOURNAL ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS PODCAST INSTAGRAM MY OTHER LINKS For business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: Epidemic Sound *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • January 24 · 32 min

    10 “normal” habits that will secretly keep you stuck all 2026

    Learn a new language and get up to 60% off your subscription at http://babbel.com/SELFOBSESSED⁠ Shopify UK: Sign up today for your £1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today for at shopify.co.uk Shopify AU: Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today for at shopify.com/AU 💐 PRE-ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters! WTS | AMZ welcome to your 2026 glow-up mindset reset ✨ in this episode, we’re talking about the subtle ways you self-sabotage without realizing it, and how to shift into future-self energy in a way that’s actually sustainable. i’m sharing the mindset shifts i swear by whenever i’m rebuilding my routine, my confidence, and my overall energy for a new season. this is for the girl who’s ready to stop waiting, stop second-guessing herself, and start moving like the version of her that already has the life she wants. you’re going to love this one 🤍 ♡ WHAT’S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction 04:33 Silent Mistake #1: Stop “Trying” to Be Something You Already Are 07:46 Silent Mistake #2: Acting With the Most Logical Next Step 10:50 Silent Mistake #3: Only Acting When You “Feel” Confident 14:13 Silent Mistake #4: Basing Emotions on Today 15:54 Silent Mistake #5: Adding Your Way Into a Better Life Without Subtracting Anything 18:36 Silent Mistake #6: Missing Things or Feeling Nostalgic 19:59 Silent Mistake #7: Accepting Resistance and Difficulty in Your Life 22:14 Silent Mistake #8: Trying to Fix Symptoms Instead of the System 23:46 Silent Mistake #9: Addiction to Routine 25:41 Silent Mistake #10: Not Scheduling Friendships 27:50 Conclusion 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL MANIFESTATION JOURNAL ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS PODCAST INSTAGRAM MY OTHER LINKS For business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: Epidemic Sound *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • Dec 26, 2025 · 22 min

    the self-obsessed girl’s blueprint for january

    Find out your Hype Type with the Hype Type Revealer on the FCA InvestSmart website. Become a smarter investor today: https://www.fca.org.uk/investsmart 💐 PRE-ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters! WTS | AMZ the 2026 january reset that helps you stay consistent all year round ✨ in this video, i’m sharing my exact january routine for goal setting, discipline, and sustainable habits, plus the mindset shifts that help you stop repeating old patterns and start becoming her. we’re taking big goals and turning them into small, realistic steps, choosing a focus for each month, and building a routine that works on your average day so you can stay consistent even when motivation dips. if you’re ready to lock in and set the standard for 2026, this is your sign 💌 ♡ WHAT’S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction: Embracing January's Energy 01:58 Chapter 1: Breaking Down January 12:48 Chapter 2: January Mindset Shifts 17:46 Chapter 3: Self-Obsessed Habits and Homework 21:25 Conclusion: Making 2026 Your Best Year 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL MANIFESTATION JOURNAL ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS PODCAST INSTAGRAM MY OTHER LINKS For business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used:Epidemic Sound*my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

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