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Self Obsessed · June 29 · 13 min

why quitting man hating was the most feminist thing i ever did

this video is for the woman who believes that hating men is the same thing as healing. somewhere along the way, man-hating became synonymous with female empowerment. it became the proof that you had healed, evolved, and finally de-centered men. but what if true feminism requires something entirely different? in this video, i break down the 7 reasons why letting go of man-hating changed the way i viewed healing, self-worth, dating, and female empowerment. from emotional attachment and unresolved hurt to avoidance, resentment, and the surprising similarities between man-hating culture and the manosphere, we unpack why the goal was never to spend your life loving men or hating them. the goal was always to make yourself the main character. ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 01 — STILL OBSESSED 1:51 02 — THE OPPOSITE OF LOVE 2:36 03 — HEALED OR HURT? 4:05 04 — THE AVOIDANCE STRATEGY 5:51 05 — PICK-ME IN REVERSE 7:41 06 — SAME OBSESSION 9:30 07 — FREEDOM 10:30 BOOK & LINKS: BOOK JOURNAL WEBSITE PODCAST VLOGS STAY CONNECTED: INSTAGRAM TIKTOK For brand and press enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: Epidemic Sound

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this video is for the woman who believes that hating men is the same thing as healing. somewhere along the way, man-hating became synonymous with female empowerment. it became the proof that you had healed, evolved, and finally de-centered men. but what if true feminism requires something entirely different? in this video, i break down the 7 reasons why letting go of man-hating changed the way i viewed healing, self-worth, dating, and female empowerment. from emotional attachment and unresolved hurt to avoidance, resentment, and the surprising similarities between man-hating culture and the manosphere, we unpack why the goal was never to spend your life loving men or hating them. the goal was always to make yourself the main character.


♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
01 — STILL OBSESSED 1:51
02 — THE OPPOSITE OF LOVE 2:36
03 — HEALED OR HURT? 4:05
04 — THE AVOIDANCE STRATEGY 5:51
05 — PICK-ME IN REVERSE 7:41
06 — SAME OBSESSION 9:30
07 — FREEDOM 10:30


BOOK & LINKS:
BOOK
JOURNAL
WEBSITE
PODCAST
VLOGS


STAY CONNECTED:
INSTAGRAM
TIKTOK


For brand and press enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com


Music Used:
Epidemic Sound

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