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Self Interrupted With Kit Costello

Kit Costello

Coined as the “transgender Carrie Bradshaw” model, podcaster and writer Kit Costello shares stories from her life in her brutally honest, candid and yet comedic way. Romantic endeavours, romantic breakdowns, friendship high and friendship lows, conversations laced with sincerity and topped with comedy; nothing is left out of an episode as Kit shares all on her globally charting podcast Self Interrupted with Kit Costello.
Honest tales of a coming of age, join Kit Costello by listening to weekly episodes of Self Interrupted where she will interrupted herself, but never you.

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S6 · E17
September 16 · 53 min
The helplessness in feeling behind.
How can you be behind in a life that is yours? In today's episode I'm understanding why feeling behind in life means that you're actually more on track than you may realise. Thank you for being here. Enjoy ☆ Find podcast merch here!⁠ https://www.kitcostello.com/category/all-products Thank you to Eugenia Melian (Author of WildChilds) for sponsoring this season of Self Interrupted with Kit Costello. Purchase WildChilds here: ⁠⁠https://www.kitcostello.com/wildchilds⁠
S6 · E16
September 9 · 59 min
The loneliness of having standards.
One day someone will meet my standards but until then, am I going to be lonely? In this weeks episode I discuss my recent understanding that I have evolved out of previous standards when it comes to dating and find myself in a place where I expect more. However when what I expect has yet to come, how do I stop myself from going back to old habits? Thank you for being here. Enjoy ☆ Find podcast merch here!⁠ ⁠https://www.kitcostello.com/category/all-products⁠ Thank you to Eugenia Melian (Author of WildChilds) for sponsoring this season of Self Interrupted with Kit Costello. Purchase WildChilds here: ⁠⁠https://www.kitcostello.com/wildchilds⁠
September 6 · 33 min
Stop waiting for someone to choose you.
Relationships with no label, not feeling chosen and having standards are some of the topics that are touched on within this premier episode of 'Interrupt me.' I hope that you can take something away from the advice given to the listeners who left these submissions and that you feel less alone. Thank you for being here. Enjoy ☆ Leave a submission here: ⁠https://www.kitcostello.com/interruptme⁠ Find podcast merch here!⁠ ⁠https://www.kitcostello.com/category/all-products ⁠ Thank you to Eugenia Melian (Author of WildChilds) for sponsoring this season of Self Interrupted with Kit Costello. Purchase WildChilds here: ⁠⁠https://www.kitcostello.com/wildchilds⁠
S6 · E15
August 26 · 1 hr 1 min
Breakup, breakdown, burnout.
When your ex comes back, how do you deal with the emotional overwhelm of not reaching back out? In this weeks episode I discuss the honest emotions that I felt after being contacted by an ex and why it sent my into an emotion spiral. Thank you for being here. Enjoy ☆ Find podcast merch here!⁠ https://www.kitcostello.com/category/all-products Thank you to Eugenia Melian (Author of WildChilds) for sponsoring this season of Self Interrupted with Kit Costello. Purchase WildChilds here: https://www.kitcostello.com/wildchilds
S6 · E14
August 19 · 57 min
Is there ever really closure?
Where does closure come from, yourself or others. In this episode I pose the question 'is closure real?' which is something I was asked while actively seeking it. After some introspection I came to an acute and nuance of what closure really means to me. Thank you for being here. Enjoy ☆ Find podcast merch here!⁠ https://www.kitcostello.com/category/all-products⁠ Thank you to Eugenia Melian (Author of WildChilds) for sponsoring this season of Self Interrupted with Kit Costello. Purchase WildChilds here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.kitcostello.com/wildchilds⁠⁠⁠
S6 · E13
August 12 · 57 min
Love as distraction.
Am I craving love or am I craving distraction? In this episode I attempt to understand how and why I tend to find comfort in distraction within the form of having a crush. I also discuss the concept of being distracted by the potential of a relationship whilst being in a relationship that doesn't emulate the end goal. A conversation that concludes with an understanding of self. Thank you for being here. Enjoy ☆ Find podcast merch here! Thank you to Eugenia Melian (Author of WildChilds) for sponsoring this season of Self Interrupted with Kit Costello. Purchase WildChilds here: ⁠⁠https://www.kitcostello.com/wildchilds⁠⁠
S6 · E12
July 29 · 1 hr 4 min
Date me like we will never have sex.
Do you want me or my body? After a clip from my podcast became polarising online I thought that I would dedicate an episode to the idea of dating someone like you will never have sex. A concept that really allows you to get to know the person beyond the physical. Is it a possibility within our dating generation? I hope you are able to take something from this episode and gain an understanding of what you want and what your boundaries are. Thank you for being here.Enjoy ☆Thank you to Eugenia Melian (Author of WildChilds) for sponsoring this season of Self Interrupted with Kit Costello. Purchase WildChilds here: ⁠⁠https://www.kitcostello.com/wildchilds⁠⁠
S6 · E11
July 22 · 49 min
The subtle art of befriending your body.
A conversation about understanding the purpose of your body and it's beauty beyond aesthetic appeal for others. This episode is raw and honest and I can only hope that it makes people struggling with body image feel less alone. Thank you for being here. Enjoy ☆ Thank you to Eugenia Melian (Author of WildChilds) for sponsoring this season of Self Interrupted with Kit Costello.Purchase WildChilds here: ⁠https://www.kitcostello.com/wildchilds⁠
S6 · E10
July 15 · 58 min
The embarrassing pursuit of love.
Seeking love feels embarrassing, but why? In this episode I talk candidly about my honest thoughts on the dating scene and what is going wrong within my dating life. I talk situationships, if it's ever really casual and how learning more about yourself allows you to move through the dating scene with less embarrassment. I really enjoyed creating this episode and I hope that you can gain something from it. Thank you for being here. Enjoy ☆Thank you to Eugenia Melian (Author of WildChilds) for sponsoring this season of Self Interrupted with Kit Costello. Purchase WildChilds here: https://www.kitcostello.com/wildchilds
S6 · E9
July 8 · 1 hr 2 min
Befriending failure.
I have understood just recently that the failure of past, present and future is not only something thats inevitable but it's something that I want to happen. I want to learn, I want to evolve and a way of evolving is by learning through failing. I enjoyed unravelling my recent learnings of failure in this weeks episode. Thank you for being here.Enjoy ☆ Thank you to Eugenia Melian (Author of WildChilds) for sponsoring this season of Self Interrupted with Kit Costello.Purchase WildChilds here: https://www.kitcostello.com/wildchilds
S6 · E8
June 24 · 52 min
Getting back with an ex, friendship betrayal, fear of being alone: Advice Session
What should you do when an ex wants to get back with you? Or when a friend stops speaking to you? How will you conquer the fear of being alone? I'm so excited to be back giving out my unqualified yet heartfelt advice this episode on submissions sent in by listeners. I hope that you can take something away from this episode.Thank you for being here.Enjoy ☆
S6 · E7
June 17 · 1 hr 5 min
Becoming an avoidant bitch.
The quote 'you either die the hero or live long enough to become the villain' springs to mind when I think of my dating life at the moment. Past experiences have formed my current actions while dating and attaching terms like 'avoidant' don't do much other than give it a label. So how can I evolve and become the version of myself that believes in love? Thank you for being here. Enjoy ☆
S6 · E6
June 10 · 56 min
Resetting life after rockbottom.
You've reached rockbottom, now what? When you reach a place in your life where you searching for a fresh start, a reset, how can you feel inspired when you're at an all time low? In this episode I talk candidly about my recent sadness and how I'm shifting my perspective and finding inspiration again. Thank you for being here. Enjoy ☆
S6 · E5
June 3 · 54 min
The dramatic pursuit of validation.
Everyone craves validation but when the craving takes over what can you do to ground yourself? In this episode I'm dissecting my recent obsession with external validation and understanding the why. Why do I crave it? Thank you for being here. Enjoy ☆
S6 · E4
May 20 · 1 hr 2 min
Sex shame, first dates, heartbroken jealousy: Advice Session
What happens when you the person you have sex with ghosts you? What happens when a heartbreak becomes entwined with jealousy? How should you feel on a first date? Elated to be back and giving my unqualified but heartfelt advice on submission sent in by listeners. I hope that you can take something away from this episode. Thank you for being here. Enjoy ☆
S6 · E1
May 13 · 57 min
Performing through sadness.
There are days, weeks and months where sadness blankets you and all you're left with is hope and performance. Hope that you will make it out and a performance that you put on for others around you. In this episode I discuss how I have been feeling recently and share what has made me see hope in the hopeless. Enjoy. Thank you for being here.
S6 · E2
May 6 · 58 min
The subtle art of missing someone.
In this episode of Self Interrupted I'm extending my thoughts on an essay I wrote entitled 'The subtle art of missing someone'. How do you go about missing someone? Is there are right way? How do I personally go about it and what have I learnt that I can share with you? I'm really proud of this episode. Enjoy. Thank you for being here.
S6 · E1
April 29 · 1 hr
I've loved and I've lost. (Season Premiere)
It’s the season premiere of Self Interrupted and after a six month break I’m back and catching you up on love and loss that has taken place in my life since last talking to you. Thank you for being here. Thank you to Eugenia Melian (Author of WildChilds) for sponsoring this season of Self Interrupted with Kit Costello. Purchase WildChilds here: https://www.kitcostello.com/wildchilds
Dec 24, 2025 · 1 hr 4 min
A Very Self Interrupted Christmas
Deck the halls and celebrate as Self Interrupted presents its very first Christmas special "A Very Self Interrupted Christmas". Join Kit as she hosts her first Christmas special where she talks about topics like; how to be single over the holidays, how to feel as though you belong and why to not responds to an ex's "Merry Christmas" text. Kit also answers questions from listeners and a couple of festive Am I The Asshole submissions. And finally, of course, Kit catches you up on what she has been up to since season 5 wrapped in the Christmas catch up. Happy holidays. Enjoy
Oct 22, 2025 · 55 min
All of a sudden, I was happy being single (Season Finale)
It's the season finale of Self Interrupted with Kit Costello season five and I think I might have just left my favourite episode until last. I really love how in this episode I'm the most open and honest about dating I have ever been on this podcast. I talk about breaking up and getting into dating over and over again throughout this season and how that has really made me feel. I also talk about how I'm going to be putting the love I was so ready to hand out to men into myself and why I'm finding that hard. Of course, I also catch you up on my week talking about good food, crying and touching grass! Enjoy this episode and I will see you next season! Sending love (as ALWAYS), Kit ☆ Thank you to Eugenia Melián for sponsoring Self Interrupted Season Five! Check out Wildchilds here: www.kitcostello.com/wildchilds Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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