On Attachment

#107: Q&A: Mismatched Libido & Anxious-Avoidant Sexual Dynamics

Sep 7, 2023 · 16 min · 12.2 MB
0:00-16:52

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Mismatched libido in a relationship is a challenge that a lot of couples face. In today’s episode, I’ll be answering a listener's question of how to navigate mismatched libido in a relationship, particularly in an anxious-avoidant dynamic. I’ll guide you on strategies to break the anxious-avoidant spiral, by initiating open dialogue and finding a middle ground between both partners.


We’ll cover:

  • Why it's unrealistic to expect your libidos to be in sync all the time
  • How anxious and avoidant attachment styles relate to sex and intimacy
  • Tips for reframing a partner's lack of interest in sex


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