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Multiamory offers support and advice for modern relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we’re here for you. Multiamory is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com.

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  • Jun 10, 2025 · 1 hr 9 min

    533 - How to be Dateable with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu

    Today we're joined by Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu from the podcast Dateable to talk about--you guessed it--how to be dateable. We're going to be talking about traditional dating advice, dating archetypes, different perspectives on dating, and more! Julie a

  • Jun 3, 2025 · 1 hr

    532 - Is Attachment Theory Just Bullsh*t?

    We're returning to attachment theory this week as we go over some of the criticisms it has faced since rising in popularity. For some, attachment theory has been a powerful tool of self-discovery, but others dismiss it as pseudo pop psychology. Where do yo

  • May 13, 2025 · 1 hr 3 min

    529 - Yes, You Can Think Your Way Out of Your Feelings (Sometimes)

    Today we're discussing cognitive reappraisal, or the notion of thinking your way out of a negative emotional response to a given situation. We'll be going over research available on cognitive reappraisal, what it looks like in real life, and whether or not

  • May 6, 2025 · 1 hr 5 min

    528 - The Art of Stepping Back: De-escalation

    This week we're getting into the nitty gritty details of ending relationships, whether it's by breaking up or de-escalating. We'll be discussing all the different ways relationships constantly change, defining some terms for uncoupling, how to navigate the

  • Apr 29, 2025 · 1 hr

    527 - Why Your Search for Closure Isn't Working

    Today we're talking about a universal human experience: wanting to feel better after a relationship ends. However, a lot of us end up seeking the wrong type of closure, and we can stay stuck in pain for even longer. In this episode we're going to discuss t

  • Apr 15, 2025 · 1 hr 4 min

    525 - Your Metamour is Not the Villain with Alex Alberto

    Today we're talking about metamour relationships with Alex Alberto. Alex is a queer author, publisher, and filmmaker. Last year, Alex published their memoir, “Entwined: Essays on Polyamory and Creating Home” through Quilted Press, a collective of independe

  • Apr 1, 2025 · 46 min

    523 - How do I cultivate polyamorous community? Listener Q&A

    We're back with another Q&A episode! Today we're answering some questions from our Supercast subscribers about organizing local polyamory meetups, how to handle guilt you feel even when a partner is telling you not to feel guilty, and strategies to deal wi

  • Mar 28, 2025 · 3 min

    Our Audiobook is here!

    Our audiobook is out now at all major audiobook retailers! Learn more at <a href="https://www.multiamory.com/book">multiamory.com/book</>

  • Mar 25, 2025 · 58 min

    522 - The Power of Denial: Are You Lying to Yourself?

    Today we're tackling a heavy topic: denial. Most of us have dealt with this at one point or another, especially when it comes to relationships, whether it's denial that that relationship is over or whether or not someone is attracted to you. We'll be doing

  • Mar 18, 2025 · 1 hr 2 min

    521 - Finding Fairness in Non-monogamy

    Today we're talking about equity, equality, and fairness in all relationships, but particularly non-monogamous ones. We'll discuss the differences between equity and equality, perceived fairness, equity among multiple partners, and more! As always, we'll h

  • Mar 11, 2025 · 53 min

    520 - Do You Treat Your Partner Worse Than You Treat Your Friends?

    Today we're chatting about romantic relationships, friendships, and the ways we often treat the two differently. Why do we think of our romantic partners as our most intimate and important connections, and yet sometimes don't treat them with the same respe

  • Mar 4, 2025 · 57 min

    519 - Competing for Attention: Why Your Partner's Distraction Hurts

    Today we're talking about attention and attentiveness as a relationship resource. It's natural for us to want to feel loved, important, and listened to, especially by our partners and family. But distraction happens, particularly nowadays in a digital age,

  • Feb 25, 2025 · 1 hr 5 min

    518 - Talking to Kids about Non-Monogamy (with Evolving Love)

    Today we're answering some more listener questions, and we're also being joined by Abbey and Liam from the Evolving Love Project to get their perspectives on non-monogamy and parenting. We'll be discussing some questions about parenting, meeting like-minde

  • Feb 18, 2025 · 54 min

    517 - Breaking the Approval Cycle

    Today we're talking about the need for approval many of us feel every day and the impact it can have on our relationships. We're discussing what approval-seeking and people-pleasing are, whether seeking approval is always harmful in a relationship, pros an

  • Feb 11, 2025 · 50 min

    516 - Is Solo Polyamory Right For You?

    This week we're focusing on solo polyamory! We'll be covering what solo polyamory is, its variations and the different forms it can take, and why you might want to be solo polyamorous. We'll also go into detail about criticism of solo polyamory and what it

  • Feb 4, 2025 · 58 min

    515 - Romanticization: Friend or Foe?

    Today we're talking about romanticization and its role in our relationships, our lives, and more. We all idealize something, whether it's a place, a person, or a choice, but what happens when our idealized version clashes with reality? We'll be discussing