Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

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Multiamory offers support and advice for modern relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we’re here for you. Multiamory is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com.

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534 episodes
Updated July 28

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March 10 · 1 hr 18 min
570 - Play as Resistance: featuring Gary Ware from Breakthrough Play and Normalizing Non-Monogamy
This week we're featuring an episode from our friends Emma and Fin at Normalizing Non-Monogamy with guests Gary Ware and our own Jase Lindgren! Emma, Fin, Gary, and Jase talk about play during this interview, how important it is for our health and wellbein
March 3 · 1 hr 12 min
569 - Why is Everyone So Tired of Dating?
Today we're tackling a concept that's on a lot of people's minds lately: burnout. Specifically, we'll be discussing dating burnout and fatigue, which seem to be rife on social media, dating apps, articles, what have you. We'll be diving into what the data
February 24 · 1 hr 7 min
568 - When You Want More Time But Your Partner Won’t Give It
Today we're talking about time, both quality and quantity of it, and what to do if you and your partner end up clashing over it. We're going to discuss some research about shared time together as well as some of the different types of time you could be lac
February 17 · 49 min
567 - Is Toxic Individualism a Real Problem?
Today we're answering a question about toxic individuality, inspired by a post about not being able to share certain things with a partner. We'll touch on the idea of how much is too much information to share with partners about each other, managing compul
February 10 · 1 hr 16 min
566 - More Than a Numbers Game: Dating Truths from Feeld's Data Team
Today we're diving into one of our favorite things - data! We're excited to welcome Sy Dusk and Alexandra Kilpatrick from Feeld. Sy is a data analyst and Alexandra is the head of UX research at Feeld, and both of them helped analyze our co-sponsored resear
February 3 · 1 hr 3 min
565 - Results Are In: The Largest Non-Monogamy Study
Today we're excited to be joined by Brett Chamberlin and Dr. Amy Moors to discuss the recent results of the largest non-monogamy survey done to date. Brett Chamberlin (he/him) is the Founder & Executive Director of OPEN, a grassroots nonprofit advancing
January 27 · 37 min
564 - Help! My partner's dates are difficult to endure! Listener Q&A
Today we're tackling a listener question from one of our Supercast supporters. We'll be discussing in depth how to help regulate yourself when your partner goes on dates, even if you have a solid self care plan in place.
January 20 · 53 min
563 - The Episode to Share with Your Parents: Remastered
This week, we're sharing a remastered version of an episode that aired back in 2023. This is the episode to share with parents, family, or other loved ones when you've come out as non-monogamous to them. For those who've had a loved one come out recently
January 13 · 54 min
562 - Polyamory in a Red State with Stacey McLarty
We're excited to invite Stacey McLarty to the show as our guest today! Stacey is a Texas attorney who supports individuals and chosen families through affirming, wholistic legal services. She combines two decades of legal experience with her own lived ex
January 6 · 48 min
561 - Level Up Your Polyamory: Common Newbie Mistakes (and How to Fix Them)
Happy New Year to you all! For our first episode of the new year, we bring you our hot new take with much wizer eyes on an older episode from back in 2016 about five mistakes newbies make in polyamory. Get the accompanying PDF on Supercast here: <a href=
Dec 16, 2025 · 49 min
560 - I'm Solo Poly, But I Want More: Listener Q&A
Today we're tackling two listener questions about being solo polyamorous and wanting a more entangled or anchored relationships, either with existing partners or while seeking such a relationship. We'll talk about the feasibility of escalating existing par
Dec 9, 2025 · 1 hr 11 min
559 - The Struggle of Loneliness
We're covering the topic of loneliness in today's episode. In 2023, the U.S. Surgeon General declared loneliness a public health crisis, and the physical health risks associated with loneliness are indeed staggering. We're going to dive into why loneliness
Dec 2, 2025 · 1 hr 13 min
558 - This Is Your Brain on (Jealousy) Drugs
Today we're bringing back a remastered episode from way back in the day. We're going to be revisiting our first episode about jealousy, diving into the science behind it, why we feel it in certain situations, what's happening inside our bodies, and some ti
Nov 25, 2025 · 50 min
557 - Is Sexual Rejection Hurting Your Relationships?
Today we're exploring rejection, specifically sexual rejection, and how it can affect our relationships. We'll first get into rejection itself and bids for connection, then discuss why we struggle with this. We'll go over Emily Nagoski's Dual Control model
Nov 18, 2025 · 46 min
556 - How Much is Too Much Information About My Other Relationships? Listener Q&A
Today we're tackling a listener question about sharing information within polyamorous relationships. We'll be talking about how much information is okay to share in relationships and how to make sharing it easier so everyone involved retains their autonomy
Nov 14, 2025 · 4 min
Let's Have Some Fun For a Change! See You On The Foosball Court - Relationship Recess 2026
Get your tickets now before prices go up at the end of January! Tickets and details here: <a href="https://multiamory.link/recess2026">multiamory.link/recess2026</a>
Nov 11, 2025 · 1 hr 4 min
555 - Reclaiming Spirituality as a Queer, Polyamorous Person with Brian G. Murphy
We're thrilled to be welcoming back Brian G. Murphy as a guest to the show! Brian is an organizer, author, and certified relationship coach helping LGBTQ+ and polyamorous people build thriving relationships on their own terms... without shame or "should"s
Nov 4, 2025 · 55 min
554 - Persuasion or Coercion? Navigating Polyamory Under Duress
Today we're talking about polyamory under duress (PUD). Being non-monogamous comes with its own set of challenges, and sometimes when external pressure or internal conflicts can make it even more stressful. Dealing with polyamory under duress can be very d
Oct 28, 2025 · 1 hr 24 min
553 - What Can Swingers and Polyamorists Learn From Each Other? With Mr. and Mrs. Jones of the We Gotta Thing Podcast
We're excited to present a collaborative episode with Mr. and Mrs. Jones of We Gotta Thing podcast! Mr. & Mrs. Jones are the hosts of the We Gotta Thing podcast. They are social swingers who place the highest importance on their primary relationship whil
Oct 21, 2025 · 1 hr 2 min
552 - Why Your Partner Doesn’t Plan Stuff (And What You Can Do About It)
Today we're talking about planfulness, or thinking ahead and planning things like scheduling time together, managing life's obligations, or making date or travel plans. Some of us struggle with this, while others are skilled at it. We'll be discussing the