Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

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Multiamory offers support and advice for modern relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we’re here for you. Multiamory is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com.

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534 episodes
Updated July 28

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Oct 14, 2025 · 55 min
551 - My Partner Dates People Just Like Me: Listener Q&A
Today we're tackling a question from a listener about managing jealousy and fear around a relationship where your partner dates other people like you. We'll be discussing insecurity, jealousy, self-love, and more while we break down this question and try t
Oct 7, 2025 · 59 min
550 - We Still Play Medieval Dating Games
Today we're joined by a special guest we've had on the show before, Professor Annalisa Castaldo, to explore 'The Art of Courtly Love,' a medieval manuscript written 900 years ago that resembles a strange combination of romance novel, pickup artist manual,
Sep 30, 2025 · 54 min
549 - What's Really Driving Your Love Life: The 8 Worldly Concerns
Today we're discussing the Eight Worldly Concerns, or four things we desperately chase and four we desperately avoid, that have driven human behavior for more than 2500 years. We'll go over the origin and history of these eight concerns, why they matter
Sep 23, 2025 · 1 hr 7 min
548 - Conversations to Have Before Moving in Together
Today we're dusting off an old episode about cohabiting with a partner. In it, we talk about why people move in together, questions to ask yourself about possibly moving in with a partner, and of course, conversations to have with your potential living par
Sep 19, 2025 · 4 min
Help us make history: The biggest non-monogamy study ever conducted!
Participate in this anonymous 20-30-minute survey here: <a href="https://chapmanu.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_3qvDjh6xlTrjEZE?Source=MAFeedDrop">Chapman University Study</a> This year, we've partnered with OPEN and Dr. Amy Moors at Chapman University,
Sep 16, 2025 · 36 min
547 - Help! My Partner is Dating My Best Friend: Listener Q&A
Today we're back with another Q&A episode from one of our Supercast subscribers. We'll be talking about relationship dynamics and what to do when a partner is dating a close friend, how to navigate the situation, and tips on better communication for everyo
Sep 9, 2025 · 1 hr 6 min
546 - Therapy Myths That Hurt Your Relationships (with therapist Joe Nucci)
Today we're welcoming therapist Joe Nucci to the show to talk about myths about therapy and the effect they can have on your relationships. Joe is a licensed psychotherapist and content creator. His debut book, published by Harper, is called Psychobabble
Sep 2, 2025 · 1 hr 2 min
545 - AI Relationships: Ethics, Intimacy, & Algorithms with Dr. Julie Carpenter
Today we're chatting with Dr. Julie Carpenter about AI and its role in our relationships. Dr. Julie Carpenter is a social scientist who studies how people relate to AI in its many forms, and how these interactions inform evolving ideas about self, identit
Aug 26, 2025 · 58 min
544 - Are You Sabotaging Your Relationships by Seeking Security?
Today we're discussing our drive to seek security in relationships, especially as economic uncertainty increases, and how sometimes, that can turn around and bite us. We'll be talking about why we seek security in relationships, some paradoxes of security,
Aug 19, 2025 · 48 min
543 - My Metamour Refuses to Meet Me: Listener Q&A
Today we're fielding another question from one of our Supercast subscribers. We'll be discussing how to handle your metamour not wanting to meet you or be a part of your life. If you want one of your questions answered on a future Q&A episode, become one
Aug 12, 2025 · 58 min
542 - Is Emotional Intelligence the Key to Getting Out of Our Own Way?
Today we're talking about emotional intelligence, self-sabotage, and being objective about our thoughts and emotions. Have you ever had a thought that won't go away for a long time, especially a negative one about yourself? Sometimes our insecurities take
Aug 5, 2025 · 55 min
541 - Make Agreements with Yourself, Not With Your Partner
We're revisiting agreements, but this time with ourselves, not others. We're going to be talking about agreements, self agreements, how they differ from boundaries, and ways to generate self agreements so that you can start exploring what you expect from y
Jul 29, 2025 · 59 min
540 - Banish the Ghost of Relationships Past
This week we're bringing back a remastered episode about the ghosts of relationships past...and getting into a good relationship after being in a bad one. Do you have trouble trusting a good relationship? Are you always waiting for the other shoe to drop a
Jul 22, 2025 · 43 min
539 - Introducing My Polyamorous Partner to My Monogamous Parents: Listener Q&A
This week, we're answering a question from one of our subscribers: how do I introduce my polyamorous partner to my monogamous parents? We'll be discussing ways to approach coming out to family, share some tips on how to make social situations run smoothl
Jul 15, 2025 · 1 hr 5 min
538 - When Knowing Better Doesn't Mean Doing Better
Today, we're discussing why we struggle to put the communication and relationship lessons we learn into practice. Current generations are more therapy-literate than ever, but that doesn't mean our relationships are healthier. What happens when everyone kno
Jul 8, 2025 · 56 min
537 - Breaking the Cycle: Releasing the Grip of Control
Welcome back to our series on control! This week, we're talking about control from the perspective of the person who wants to have the control or power in the relationship. There are a multitude of reasons why someone might want to control another person,
Jul 1, 2025 · 59 min
536 - Finding Your Voice: Navigating Control and Taking Back Your Power in Relationships
Welcome to part one of our deep dive into control in relationships! Every relationship has power dynamics, but when they get out of control it can be devastating. In this episode, we'll be discussing the experience of loss of control in a relationship, why
Jun 24, 2025 · 38 min
535 - How Do You Maintain Equity Across Multiple Relationships? Listener Q&A
Today we're tackling a question from one of our Supercast subscribers about equity in multiple relationships, feel prioritized, and how to handle tough conversations about energy, money, and mismatched desire in relationships. Become one of our Supercast
Jun 17, 2025 · 1 hr 6 min
534 - When We're Asked to Change (and When It's Okay to Refuse)
This week, we're diving into what happens when a partner asks you to change, whether it's a small behavioral change or a big fundamental or values change. Regardless of what kind, change can be difficult, for both the one asking for change and the one bein
Jun 10, 2025 · 1 hr 9 min
533 - How to be Dateable with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu
Today we're joined by Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu from the podcast Dateable to talk about--you guessed it--how to be dateable. We're going to be talking about traditional dating advice, dating archetypes, different perspectives on dating, and more! Julie a