
Why Change Feels So Wrong (And Why That’s A Good Sign) | Alexandra Milne
Growth is supposed to feel uncomfortable, and that feeling isn't a sign you're on the wrong path.This week I sat down with Alexandra Milne, for one of my favourite conversations yet. We talk about why your brain is biologically wired to resist change, how to get comfortable being uncomfortable, and why most of the "huge" decisions keeping you stuck are actually two-way doors. Alex also shares why work-life balance for high achievers isn't a perfect equilibrium but a series of seasons, and why the female stress response means we hold onto things so much longer than men do.We also get real about accountability, self-talk, and the pressure of being a fitness creator online, plus the daily "I am" mindset practice Alex uses to rewire her brain and stay on track with her goals.If you've ever stayed stuck because change felt scary, beaten yourself up for not being perfect, or struggled to hold yourself accountable, this episode is for you!In this episode we cover:• Why discomfort is a sign of growth (and the caveman biology behind it)• One-way vs two-way door decisions and how shame keeps us stuck• Why balance is a myth and how to shift between work and life seasons• How the female cortisol response works and why knowledge builds self-acceptance• Stopping the excuses: accountability, data, and being honest with yourself• Using "I am" statements every morning to rewire your mindsetFollow Alexandra on Instagram @alexandramilne_ and check out her coaching membership, Zone Six.Connect with me 💌👩🏼💻 Enquiries: morgan.eld.rett@gmail.com📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mindsetloungepodcast/📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/morganeldrett/📲 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@morgan.eldrett?_r=1&_t=ZS-94yTIxHuFrE🖥️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@morganeldrettTIMESTAMPS:00:00 – Intro00:31 – Controlling your thoughts in a hard season05:08 – Why balance doesn't exist (it's seasons)08:56 – Why growth feels so uncomfortable12:01 – One-way vs two-way door decisions16:42 – The female vs male stress response20:52 – Hormones, your cycle & why knowledge is power24:56 – Accountability: stop lying to yourself31:19 – Just keep going: failure, pivots & perspective39:22 – The pressure of being a fitness creator online46:09 – Rewiring your brain with "I am" statements51:01 – Where to follow Alexandra