“On Kink & Status in the Rationalist Community” by johnswentworth
This whole thing started with various crazies on bluesky writing hit pieces on the rationalist and AI alignment communities, as one does. One of their main beats was to note social ties between the AI alignment community and the Red Means No (RMN) consensual non-consent sex party community, then gesticulate wildly and claim that the AI alignment community is a dangerous sex cult. As one does. It felt to me like the responses I saw to those hitpieces from my own in-groups were… not consistently candid. It seemed obvious to me that the hitpieces were partially pointing to real things, even if those real things were wildly overblown and not actually problematic in practice. And I was pretty frustrated at my in-groups’ refusal to acknowledge what seemed to me obvious kernels of truth; it felt like my own friends were playing public relations games rather than being honest. I have now updated. I think I was wrong, there are actually fewer kernels of truth to the attacks than I thought, and in fact I was pretty surprised at just how few. This post is mainly about the story of that update, what I previously believed obvious, and what I [...] --- Outline: (01:20) The Story (03:01) What I Previously Believed (04:58) What I Now Believe (06:50) Propagating That Update (08:40) An Apology The original text contained 1 footnote which was omitted from this narration. --- First published: October 8th, 2026 Source: https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/dHGjqpbfmdEN7TssX/on-kink-and-status-in-the-rationalist-community --- Narrated by TYPE III AUDIO.