FREAK’N SEE Podcast

Mr. Dominus

Welcome to FREAK’N SEE, hosted by Mr. Dominus, the unapologetic space where Black queer men talk openly about kink, fetishes, and non-monogamous living. This weekly podcast brings together voices from across our community with real people, scandalous stories, insights, and expertise in navigating the Black queer kink and fetish world. Whether you’re curious, kinky, poly, or somewhere in between, we’re here to start the conversation, break the silence, and normalize the parts of ourselves we’re often told to hide. From BDSM to open relationships, leather to love, we hold nothing back. This is your permission to tune into our FREAK’N SEE.

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#29
August 24 · 1 hr 6 min
Adult Baby Diaper Lover
This week on Freak’N See, we sit down with Cortez (@muscle_beast93) for an honest conversation about ABDL Adult Baby & Diaper Lover. We’re breaking down what ABDL actually means, the difference between ABDL and age play, and why this community is often misunderstood. We talk about vulnerability, comfort, relationships, consent, intimacy, stigma, and what it’s like navigating ABDL within the kink community as a person of color. Cortez also shares his personal journey discovering ABDL, how he came to understand and embrace this part of himself, and what he wishes people knew about the person behind the kink. 🎙️ Watch Freak’N See every Monday! 🔥 New conversations. Real experiences. Kinks you may be curious about but afraid to ask about. 📲 Follow Cortez: @muscle_beast93 #FreakNSee #ABDL #AdultBaby #DiaperLover #Kink #KinkCommunity #POCKink #BlackKink #QueerKink #KinkEducation
#28
August 17 · 1 hr 16 min
Road To IML
🔥 ROAD TO IML 🔥 In this episode of Freak’N See, we sit down with Honey Davenport for an intimate conversation about his journey on the Road to International Mr. Leather (IML). Honey takes us behind the scenes of his preparation for the competition, sharing the work, discipline, vulnerability, and intention that went into the journey. But this conversation goes far beyond the competition. We talk about what it means to be a Leather man, the influence and responsibility that comes with being a leader in the community, and why Leather is about so much more than what you wear. From service and mentorship to representation, community, identity, and impact, Honey shares his perspective on what it truly means to carry the Leather title and use your platform to make a difference. 🖤 What does it really mean to be a Leather man? 🏆 What does it take to prepare for IML? 🌈 How can Leather leadership create meaningful change in our communities? Join us for Road to IML with Honey Davenport. 🎙️ FREAK’N SEE — Road to IML Featuring Honey Davenport Follow Honey Davenport: @honeydavenportofficial #FreakNSee #RoadToIML #HoneyDavenport #IML #InternationalMrLeather #LeatherCommunity #LeatherMan #LeatherCulture #QueerKink #POCKink #KinkCommunity #LeatherLeadership
#27
August 10 · 1 hr 20 min
DEVIANT
🔥 FREAK’N SEE — SEASON 3: DEVIANT 🔥 We’re kicking off Season 3 with Micah Marquez, creator of DEVIANT, talking about the creation of DEVIANT, Black queer community, kink, sex positivity, and his vision for social and sexual liberation. We talk about how DEVIANT was created, why these spaces are important, and Micah’s vision for helping the Black queer community become more socially and sexually liberated. But this conversation goes WAY beyond nightlife. 💬 We get into: • The origin story of DEVIANT • Creating intentional spaces for Black & Brown queer people • Sex positivity vs. hypersexualization • Darkrooms, consent & safer sex • Body positivity and queer beauty standards • Kink, sexual liberation & education • The importance of Black queer nightlife • Building friendships, relationships & community • Queer joy as an act of liberation • DEVIANT’s growth across the country • Micah’s vision for the future of DEVIANT 🎙️ Episode: DEVIANT 📅 Monday, August 10 Follow: 👤 @micah_marquez 🖤 @deviantevents 🖤 @_counter_culture 🖤 @_thecollectivenyc 🔥 DEVIANT: DUNGEON — THIS SATURDAY! 🔥 📍 Washington, DC 📅 Saturday, August 15 🎟️ Tickets: https://posh.vip/e/dc-dungeon--1 Come experience the culture. Come meet your community. Come get liberated. 🖤 #FreakNSee #FreakNSeePodcast #Deviant #DeviantEvents #DeviantDungeon #DungeonDC #MicahMarquez #BlackQueer #QueerLiberation #SexPositive #QueerKink
#26
May 18 · 1 hr 16 min
Tied Up In Dating
This week we sit down with dating coach J Lamar (@iamjlamar) for one of our realest conversations yet as we dive deep into intentional dating, kink, fetish exploration, sexual honesty, and navigating relationships in the BDSM/kink community with purpose. Too many people are dating for aesthetics, titles, or validation instead of true alignment. In this episode, we unpack: 🔥 Dating with intentionality 🔥 Sexual compatibility vs emotional compatibility 🔥 Why POC communities struggle with shame around kink 🔥 Respectability politics & hiding desires 🔥 Entry-level kinks for beginners 🔥 Navigating relationships with different kink levels 🔥 Communication, boundaries & consent 🔥 Why people ignore sexual incompatibility 🔥 Learning to fully own your desires without shame This conversation gets honest, vulnerable, educational, and necessary — especially for people trying to navigate the kink dating scene while still protecting their emotional health and authenticity. Whether you’re curious, experienced, questioning, or simply tired of surface-level dating conversations, this episode is for you. 🎙️ Watch now, subscribe, and join the conversation. Welcome to FREAK’N SEE — where sexuality, kink, and intentional connection meet without shame. #FreaknSee #KinkDating #BDSMCommunity #BlackQueerVoices #DatingWithIntention
#25
May 11 · 1 hr 4 min
Flogging
This week we’re diving deep into the world of flogging with special guest Master Sango (@1sangorh) 🖤⛓️ This isn’t just a conversation about impact play it’s about technique, trust, consent, power, history, and what it means to navigate BDSM as Black and POC kinksters. We unpack the art of flogging, the difference between pain and pleasure, safety, aftercare, and the emotional realities that come with impact play in our community. From reclaiming narratives tied to historical trauma to creating intentional kink spaces rooted in consent and communication, this episode is raw, educational, and necessary. Whether you’re curious about BDSM, experienced in kink, or trying to better understand the psychology and culture behind impact play this episode is for you. Topics include: ⛓️ Flogging basics & safety 🖤 Consent & power exchange 🪶 Different types of floggers 🔥 Pain vs pleasure psychology ✊🏾 Black perspectives in BDSM 🕰️ History, trauma & reclamation 🤝 Trust, negotiation & aftercare Tap in, learn something new, and join the conversation. #FreakNSee #BDSM #Flogging #BlackKink #LeatherCommunity #ImpactPlay #GayPodcast #BlackGayMen #KinkEducation #ConsentMatters #POCKink #MasterSango #LeatherCulture #QueerPodcast #Aftercare
#24
May 4 · 1 hr 8 min
Rise of the Femme Boy
The wave is here and it’s not asking for permission. In this episode of FREAK’N SEE, we sit down with MXTER XERO RULZ (@mxter_xero) to talk about the rise of the femboy and what it really means beyond the aesthetic. From internet visibility to real-life kink spaces, we unpack how femininity in men is being redefined, desired, challenged and sometimes misunderstood. We get into: 🔥 Why femboys are gaining so much attention right now 💅 The difference between identity, expression, and assumption 🖤 Navigating hyper-masculine kink & leather spaces ⚡ Power dynamics, vulnerability, and control 🧠 Breaking the grip masculinity has had on desirability 🌈 Building community and creating new spaces 😏 And yeah… why femboys got everybody watching right now This conversation is about more than trends it’s about agency, visibility, and redefining power on your own terms. If you’ve ever questioned what femininity looks like in men… or why it challenges people so deeply… this one’s for you. 🎙 Welcome to FREAK’N SEE where kink, culture, and connection meet with intention. #FreakNSee #Femboy #KinkCommunity #BlackGayVoices #Masculinity #QueerCulture #PolyLife #SexPositive #LGBTQPodcast #DMVEvents
#23
April 27 · 1 hr 23 min
How Much Is To Much
“How much is TOO much?” 😏 This week on FREAK’N SEE, we’re getting into the comments… and whew, y’all had A LOT to say 👀 After Jamel (@kxng_jayy97) shared his weekend experience, the internet did what it does best—judge, project, and get all up in somebody else’s business. So we had to talk about it. Was it really “too much”… or just too honest? 🤔 Why does sexual freedom make people uncomfortable? And why do folks act like they’re the CEO of someone else’s life? 😭 We’re unpacking: 🔥 Oversharing vs. living in your truth 👀 The judgment (especially in POC spaces) 💬 Why people project their own fears + desires 🌱 What safe, intentional, and FREE actually looks like At the end of the day… if you’re happy, safe, and honest—who really gets to decide what’s “too much”? 👀 Tap in, join the conversation, and tell us: Are people mad… or just not that free yet? 😏 🎧 New episode of FREAK’N SEE out now — link in bio 💬 Drop your thoughts in the comments (keep it cute… or at least honest) #FreakNSee #SexPositive #POCKink #SexualFreedom #NoJudgment #BeFree #PodcastClips #BlackGayVoices #OpenConversations
#22
April 13 · 1 hr 5 min
We Frolicking
Guest: Lamb (@lookdeeper | @wearefrolic) This week on FREAK’N SEE, we’re getting real about the POC experience in gay nightlife the highs, the shadows, and everything in between. From navigating spaces where you feel invisible… to being hyper-visible in ways that don’t feel human we’re unpacking the truths a lot of people don’t say out loud. 🔥 We talk about: • The emotional toll of code-switching in queer spaces • Racism disguised as “preference” • Fetishization vs. real desire • The unspoken hierarchies in nightlife & kink culture • Why so many POC men feel like they have to “take a gamble” every time they go out And then we shift the conversation… ✨ What happens when you build something better? Lamb takes us inside the vision behind Frolic Weekend a space intentionally created for queer & trans men of color to feel: ✔️ Safe ✔️ Desired ✔️ Seen ✔️ Connected This isn’t just nightlife… this is community, healing, and liberation in motion. From panels and kink education to yoga and intentional social spaces—Frolic is redefining what it means to gather. 💭 If you’ve ever felt like you didn’t fully belong in queer spaces… this episode is for you. 🎧 Tap in now & join the conversation 🔗 Link in bio 🎟️ Don’t forget: Use code FREAKNSEE for 20% off your Frolic Weekend ticket #FreakNSee #WeFrolicking #FrolicWeekend #BlackGayMen #POCQueer #KinkCommunity #SexPositive #QueerPodcast #PolyLife #GayNightlife #ChosenFamily #QueerLiberation #DominusDC
#21
April 7 · 1 hr 14 min
Integrated Play Spaces
Integrated Play Spaces What happens when kink spaces stop separating us… and start integrating us? This episode gets deep into multi-gender, multi-sexuality play spaces where boundaries, power, identity, and desire all collide in real time. We’re unpacking what it really means to share erotic space across differences… and what it takes to do it safely, consciously, and respectfully. 🎙️ Featuring special guest: Goddexx Symphonee (@mx.symphonee) We talk: 🔥 What “integrated” kink spaces actually look like 🔥 Navigating consent, bias, and body politics 🔥 Black kink community dynamics across gender & sexuality 🔥 The tension, the truth, and the unspoken rules 🔥 How to enter these spaces without losing yourself This isn’t just about sex — it’s about unlearning, reclaiming, and redefining community. 💭 Would YOU attend a multi-gender kink space? 👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments 🔁 Share with someone who needs this conversation 🔔 Subscribe for more real, unfiltered dialogue #FreaknSee #KinkTalk #BlackKink #ConsentCulture #SexPositive #PodcastClips #EroticFreedom #QueerCommunity #BDSMConversations #UnlearnAndRelearn
#20
March 24 · 1 hr 23 min
CHEMSEX!
🖤 CHEMSEX 🖤 This week on FREAK’N SEE, we get REAL with special guest David Brandyn (@davidbrandyn), host of Butch Queen After Dark, as we dive deep into the unspoken rules, racial dynamics, and raw realities of dark rooms and chemsex culture. From navigating consent in the dark… to the pressure to “keep up”… to the ways Black & Brown bodies are desired, dismissed, and fetishized—nothing is off limits. We’re talking: 🔥 Dark room etiquette & who gets excluded 🔥 Consent vs assumption in sexual spaces 🔥 Microaggressions & racialized desire 🔥 Chemsex, escapism & survival 🔥 Power, safety & community accountability 🔥 Reclaiming pleasure without losing yourself This isn’t just a conversation—it’s a wake-up call. 🎙️ Guest: David Brandyn (@davidbrandyn) 🎧 Podcast: Butch Queen After Dark https://www.youtube.com/@DavidBrandyn . TUNE IN EVERY MONDAY — NEW EPISODE . . . #FreaknSee #DarkRoomTalk #ChemsexConversations #BlackQueerVoices #POCQueer #KinkCommunity #QueerPodcast #ButchQueenAfterDark #SexPositive #ConsentMatters #QueerCulture #GayBlackMen #PleasureWithPurpose
#19
March 16 · 1 hr 16 min
FURRIES
In this episode, we dive deep into the furry community with our amazing guests Kyle (@mojomadness5) and Basco (@spicydin0). Together we unpack what the furry fandom actually looks like beyond the stereotypes. We talk about everything from fursonas, creativity, and chosen family to the reality of meets, conventions, and the overlap between furries, kink, leather, and pup play. We also get honest about topics people rarely discuss openly — murrsuiting, public misconceptions, race in the fandom, and what it means to be a furry of color navigating these spaces. This conversation is funny, educational, and real. If you've ever been curious about the furry world or wanted to understand the community beyond the internet jokes, this episode is for you. 🐾 In this episode we explore: • How people enter the furry community • What actually happens at furry meets & conventions • The meaning behind fursonas and animal identity • Escapism, expression, and mental health • The connection between furries, pup play, leather, and kink culture • What murrsuiting is and why it's misunderstood • Racism, fetishization, and being a POC furry • Cost, access, and gatekeeping in the fandom • What the world constantly gets wrong about furries At FREAK’N SEE, we believe that sexual expression, creativity, and community deserve honest conversations — and the furry community is a perfect example of how identity, art, and chosen family can come together. 🐾 Follow our guests: Kyle — IG: @mojomadness5 Basco — IG: @spicydin0 🎙️ If you enjoyed this episode: 👍 Like 💬 Comment 🔔 Subscribe for more conversations about kink, culture, and connection. #FreaknSee #FurryCommunity #POCFurries #KinkEducation #QueerPodcast #ChosenFamily #FurryFandom #SexPositive
#18
March 9 · 1 hr 20 min
Daddy/Boy Dynamics
Daddy/Boy Dynamics In this episode of FREAK’N SEE, Dominus sits down with special guest King David Lyncoln to talk about the realities of Daddy/Boy dynamics within the POC kink community. We dive into what this relationship dynamic really looks like beyond the stereotypes exploring power, care, emotional connection, structure, and accountability. Together we discuss how Black and POC kinksters navigate these dynamics while building trust, communication, and healthy boundaries. This conversation also touches on: • What defines a Daddy/Boy dynamic • The emotional and psychological sides of the relationship • Navigating power exchange with respect and intention • Misconceptions people have about Daddy/Boy relationships • Advice for people curious about exploring the dynamic FREAK’N SEE is an unapologetic space where we talk openly about kink, fetish culture, and intentional sexual expression, especially within Black and queer communities. 🎙 Listen to Freak’N See every Monday Available on YouTube and all streaming platforms Guest: King David Lyncoln Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kingdavidlyncoln
#17
March 2 · 1 hr 11 min
FISTING
FISTING 101👊🏾🔥 This week we sat down with Emmett Frost for a real, unfiltered, and educational conversation about fisting — without shame, without myths, and without fear. 🎬 In this episode we cover: 🖤 How curiosity begins & first experiences 🖤 Misconceptions people get wrong 🖤 Mental vs. physical preparation 🖤 Patience, pacing & beginner mistakes 🖤 Safety, body awareness & aftercare 🖤 Consent conversations & power dynamics 🖤 Trust, intimacy & emotional connection 🖤 Community responsibility in kink & leather spaces 🖤 Masculinity, anal play & unlearning shame This isn’t just about the act it’s about communication, trust, and intentional exploration. If you’ve ever been curious, nervous, misinformed, or just wanted grown, sex-positive dialogue in a Black queer space this episode is for you. We talk freaky. We talk intentional. We talk grown. IG: @incinerlloyd JJF @Emmett_FrostXXX Tap in. Watch. Learn. Explore at your own pace.
#16
February 16 · 1 hr 14 min
Dom & Sub Dynamics
Dom & Sub Dynamics Step into an unapologetic, real, and deeply insightful conversation on Dom/Sub Dynamics with Master Mufasa Ali. In this episode, we explore power exchange, negotiation, consent, safety, cultural perspectives, and the lived experiences of navigating kink and leather spaces as a person of color. From breaking down the fundamentals of Dominant/submissive relationships to discussing red flags, aftercare, and community values, this dialogue offers both education and affirmation for anyone curious about or actively exploring these dynamics. We also dive into the importance of representation, mentorship, and creating safer spaces within the POC kink community. Featuring a powerful voice from the leather world and a founding member of Onyx Kink and Leather Club, this is a conversation about authenticity, trust, identity, and intentional power. Follow Master Mufasa Ali: @blkliononyx #DomSubDynamics #KinkEducation #LeatherCommunity #Onyx #POCKink #PowerExchange #ConsentMatters #Aftercare #FreakNSee #SexPositive #BlackQueerVoices
#15
February 9 · 1 hr 21 min
Non-Hierarchical Poly
Non-Hierarchical Poly 101: Navigating Love, Jealousy & Community as POC What does polyamory really look like when you’re navigating love, sex, jealousy, and community as a Person of Color? In this episode of FREAK’N SEE, we sit down with Miguel (@ipapamigz) and Dale (@drob1980) for an honest, layered, and necessary conversation about polyamory through a POC lens. From Poly 101 foundations to real-life jealousy, boundaries, red flags, and wins — nothing is off the table. We talk about: 🔥 Different poly structures (hierarchical, non-hierarchical, solo poly, relationship anarchy) 🔥 Managing jealousy without shame 🔥 Dating new partners while honoring existing relationships 🔥 Boundaries, agreements, and emotional accountability 🔥 Racism, fetishization, and safety in poly spaces 🔥 Building community and mentorship for POC 🔥 Lessons learned the hard way — and the moments that made it all worth it This episode is for the curious, the seasoned, the messy, the intentional, and anyone ready to unlearn monogamy scripts and build relationships with honesty and care. ✨ Poly isn’t about having more partners — it’s about having more communication, accountability, and self-awareness. 👇🏾 Drop a comment: What’s the biggest question or fear you have about polyamory? 🔔 Like, subscribe, and share with someone who needs this conversation.
#14
February 2 · 1 hr 8 min
Leather Mentorship
🔥 FREAK’N SEE – Leather Mentorship 101 (Season Premiere) 🔥 Guest: J. Tebias Perry (Sir Tebias) What does real leather mentorship look like beyond titles, hierarchy, and control? In this season premiere of FREAK’N SEE, we sit down with J. Tebias Perry (Sir Tebias) to unpack leather mentorship through an intentional, ethical, and POC-centered lens. Drawing from his books Leather Mentorship and Principles of Leather Leadership, Tebias breaks down mentorship as a pathway to growth, safety, accountability, and transformation not ownership or exploitation. This episode is essential for anyone entering leather spaces, seeking mentorship, or committed to ethical leadership and community care. 📚 Books by J. Tebias Perry • Leather Mentorship 👉 https://www.amazon.com/Leather-Mentorship-J-Tebias-Perry/dp/B0C9KFNPVQ • Principles of Leather Leadership 👉 https://www.amazon.com/Principles-Leather-Leadership-Collection/dp/B0G2RTZ9TX 🔗 Connect with Our Guest 📸 Instagram: @jtebias.i.am #FreakNSee #LeatherMentorship #POCLeather #BlackLeather #KinkEducation #LeatherLeadership #EthicalMentorship #QueerPodcast
#13
Dec 13, 2025 · 1 hr 11 min
Kinky Lessons
🔥 Season Finale of FREAK’N SEE 🔥 We made it to the end of an unforgettable season, y’all — and we’re closing it out with a full recap of the kinks, fetishes, wild moments, and real lessons we’ve explored along the way. This episode, we’re pulling back the curtain and introducing Daddy Baldwin, the co-producer of Freak’N See — the man behind the lens, behind the magic, and behind so much of what makes this show hit. Thank you to everyone who rocked with us, learned with us, got curious with us, and embraced this sex-positive space for Black gay men and the entire kink community. 🖤🔥 We’re wrapping this season with gratitude and hype because we’ll be back in February with a whole new list of bold, unapologetic, and deeply engaging topics. Until then… stay freaky, stay curious, and stay tuned. 🎙️👅 #FreakNSee #SeasonFinale #KinkCommunity #SexPositiveSpace #BlackGayPodcast #KinkEducation #DaddyBaldwin
#12
Nov 18, 2025 · 1 hr 11 min
Creating Space For POC's In Leather Communities
Creating Space for POCs in the Leather Community w/ Domion of ONYX | FREAK’N SEE Podcast In this episode, we sit down with Domion of ONYX — one of the most powerful brotherhoods for Black and brown men in the leather and kink community. We’re diving deep into the roots, the history, and the radical need for spaces created by us and for us. From the origins of ONYX to the evolution of Blackout, we explore representation, unity, erotic liberation, and what it means to build community in a world that wasn’t designed with us in mind. This conversation goes beyond leather — it’s about identity, healing, connection, and reclaiming our place in kink culture without apology. 🖤 Topics we get into: • The history and purpose of ONYX • Brotherhood and leadership as a Black man in leather • The divide in queer/kink spaces — and how we bridge it • Blackout as a sacred, sexy, affirming space • Mentorship, legacy & visibility for the next generation • What “Black unity through leather” truly means If you’ve ever been curious about ONYX, Blackout, or what it looks like to build community rooted in kink, culture, and connection… this episode is for you.
#11
Nov 3, 2025 · 1 hr 9 min
Sexual Freedom
This week on FREAK’N SEE, we’re talking all things SEXUAL FREEDOM with our guest star Lamb (@lookdeeper) — the brilliant mind and CEO behind @wearefrolic and @frolicweekend. 🌈🔥 Lamb opened up about his personal journey toward liberation and how Frolic has grown into a movement a safe, educational, and experimental space where people of color can come together to explore their kinks, express their desires, and embrace freedom without shame or judgment. From redefining what it means to be sexually free, to creating a community that celebrates healing, pleasure, and connection, Lamb’s story is powerful and deeply inspiring. He reminds us that sexual liberation isn’t just about sex it’s about reclaiming joy, rewriting narratives, and allowing ourselves to fully be. We had an incredible time with Lamb full of laughter, vulnerability, and real talk about community, body autonomy, and the future of sex-positive spaces for Black and Brown folks. 🎧 Watch the full episode now and join the conversation! 💥 New episodes drop every Monday on YouTube and all major streaming platforms. Follow and connect: 🎙️ Podcast: @FreakNSeepodcast 🌈 Guest: @lookdeeper | @wearefrolic | @frolicweekend #FreakNSeePodcast #SexualFreedom #WeAreFrolic #FrolicWeekend #BlackGayPodcast #QueerLiberation #KinkCommunity #SexPositiveSpaces #BIPOCQueerVoices #PleasurePolitics #HolisticFreedom
#10
Oct 20, 2025 · 1 hr 11 min
Hanky Code
This week on FREAK’N SEE, we’re getting into the color-coded, leather-scented, and unapologetically kinky world of the Hanky Code with my guest Kaleidoscope Onyx (@kittykalei). Once a secret language used in underground queer spaces, the hanky code told you everything you needed to know about someone’s desires—who they were, what they wanted, and how they liked it. But what happens when we look at it through a Black and POC queer lens? Kitty and I dive deep into how this code of signals and seduction connects to our own sexual identities, our kinks, and the ways we show up in play spaces and community. We talk about visibility, desire, and how we’ve created our own ways of communicating pleasure and power when the mainstream often leaves us out. From red flags to yellow fantasies, left pockets to right—this episode peels back the layers of what turns us on, what frees us, and what the hanky code still teaches us about sexual liberation today. 💦 Tune in, tap in, and let’s get freaky. 🎧 New episodes every Monday — you definitely don’t want to miss this one. #FreakNSee #HankyCode #QueerHistory #BlackKink #POCQueerSexuality #LeatherCulture #KinkEducation #SexPositivity

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