Beyond the Bump

Sophie Pearce & Jayde Couldwell

Beyond the Bump is a podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Sophie Pearce. It began in the baby years and has grown right alongside us, because motherhood keeps evolving long after the baby stage ends.

This is a place for real conversations and honest questions, no matter how hard, about the parts of motherhood that often go unspoken. The mental load that changes shape rather than easing. The identity shifts. The stage where life doesn’t suddenly feel simpler. Wherever you are in it, the aim is the same: to leave you feeling lighter, more understood and a little less alone after every listen.

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Sep 11, 2024 · 52 min
💙 BYTB: Mum Vs Dad: What Is Your Mental Load?
Welcome to EP03 of Beyond The Balls. This episode is a frank chat between hosts Jayde Couldwell & Chi Lo about a mother’s mental load and also how better understanding of this by dad can only lead to good things. We also explore dad guilt and how it differs from mum guilt. Along the way we relate some stories about how we improved our own communication with our partners and some of the stumbling blocks new parents might encounter. We hope you enjoy this as much as we did and there’s much more to discuss on this topic so stay tuned! Resource links: Fair Play Cards Beyond the Bump episode with Chi, SAHD - Is it the same as being a SAHM?! - with Chi Shurn Lo Beyond the Balls is a fatherhood podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Chi Lo, a Beyond The Bump production. This podcast is targeted at dads, dads to be, their partners and anyone interested in the journey of fatherhood. We believe that every dad wants to be the best they can be so our purpose is to entertain, educate and empower our audience. We promise to have open and honest discussions in the hope to leave you feeling more supported after every listen. Join us in celebrating the ups and downs of fatherhood today! Yeah the dads! Follow us on Instagram: @beyondtheballs.podcast Follow Jayde on Instagram: @londonxboston Follow Chi on Instagram: @chi_lo Follow @yummmchi for some cooking adventures! This episode of Beyond the Balls is proudly sponsored by Bambi Mini Co! Ballers AND Bumpies (I know you're listening) whether you’re looking for the perfect gift or just want to refresh your little one’s wardrobe, Bambi Mini Co. has got you covered. We’re thrilled to have them on board and can’t wait to share more about their products with you.
Sep 9, 2024 · 1 hr 6 min
You’ve made the decision to separate, now what? - with Rebecca Thompson, Family Lawyer
Welcome to Episode 250 of Beyond the Bump! This week, we chat with family lawyer Rebecca Thompson about all things separation. We dive into what you need to consider if you're going through a divorce, but also what to know before you tie the knot. With nearly 50% of marriages ending in divorce, it's important to think about the practical stuff—finances, custody, and more. Rebecca also busts some common myths around separation. We hope you find this episode both enlightening and reassuring. Thanks for listening, and as always, enjoy! Resource Links: wire.org.au 1800 RESPECT White Ribbon Australia Fair Family Law Beyond the Bump is a podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Sophie Pearce! A podcast targeted at mums, just like you! A place to have real conversations with honest and authentic people. Follow us on Instagram at @beyondthebump.podcast to stay up to date with behind the scenes and future episodes. Join our Facebook chat Beyond the Bump Community Chats! Sign up to our newsletter HERE Email us HERE
Sep 4, 2024 · 49 min
💙 BYTB: Myth Busting! Breaking down fatherhood myths - with Rob Sturrock
Welcome to EP02 of Beyond the Balls. This week, hosts Jayde Couldwell and Chi Lo chat with the amazing Rob Sturrock, author of Man Raises Boy, about debunking fatherhood myths: “You can’t help at all at the start because you can’t breastfeed.” “Pregnancy means a horny wife.” “You have a kid now; welcome to no-sex land.” “You probably won’t bond with your kid until later.” “Welcome to your new dad bod.” “Taking paternity leave is career suicide.” “Your favorite pub has burned down.” “You can’t do as good a job as Mom at parenting.” Listen in to see what we think is true and what isn’t. Resource links: Man Raises Boy, by Rob Sturrock on Amazon and Allen & Unwin Australian Breastfeeding Association Lifeline: The Push-Up Challenge Follow Rob Sturrock on LinkedIn Beyond the Balls is a fatherhood podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Chi Lo, a Beyond The Bump production. This podcast is targeted at dads, dads to be, their partners and anyone interested in the journey of fatherhood. We believe that every dad wants to be the best they can be so our purpose is to entertain, educate and empower our audience. We promise to have open and honest discussions in the hope to leave you feeling more supported after every listen. Join us in celebrating the ups and downs of fatherhood today! Yeah the dads! Follow us on Instagram: @beyondtheballs.podcast Follow Jayde on Instagram: @londonxboston Follow Chi on Instagram: @chi_lo Follow @yummmchi for some cooking adventures! This episode of Beyond the Balls is proudly sponsored by Bambi Mini Co! Ballers AND Bumpies (I know you're listening) whether you’re looking for the perfect gift or just want to refresh your little one’s wardrobe, Bambi Mini Co. has got you covered. We’re thrilled to have them on board and can’t wait to share more about their products with you.
Sep 2, 2024 · 1 hr 14 min
Mum guilt, am I the only one feeling this way? - with Dr Sophie Brock, motherhood sociologist
Welcome to Episode 249 of Beyond the Bump! This week, we dive deep into the topic of mum guilt—a feeling so many new mothers know all too well. Sophie Brock joins us to explore where this guilt comes from, why it affects us so deeply, and how societal expectations can play a role. This conversation is both eye-opening and comforting, as we tackle an emotion that’s often left unspoken but deeply felt. We hope you find it enlightening and reassuring and as always, we hope you enjoy!! Resource Links: Release Working Mum Guilt - use code 'beyondthebump' for a 70% discount for Mums in paid work who are looking for help with guilt. Good Enough Mother podcast Beyond the Bump is a podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Sophie Pearce! A podcast targeted at mums, just like you! A place to have real conversations with honest and authentic people. Follow us on Instagram at @beyondthebump.podcast to stay up to date with behind the scenes and future episodes. Join our Facebook chat Beyond the Bump Community Chats! Sign up to our newsletter HERE Email us HERE
Aug 28, 2024 · 26 min
💙 BYTB: Welcome to Beyond the Balls!
Welcome to the debut episode of Beyond the Balls! In this episode of Beyond the Balls, hosts Jayde Couldwell and Chi Lo, together with guest Sophie Pearce (co-host of Beyond the Bump), dive into what this podcast is all about—creating a space for dads, dads-to-be, and their partners to have real, open, and honest conversations. They chat about the lack of resources for dads and how this podcast aims to fill that gap by combining education, humour, and heartfelt discussions. The trio highlights the importance of supporting each other through the challenges of fatherhood, covering topics like mental load, postpartum life, and the evolving role of dads today. Tune in for a refreshing take on fatherhood that’s relatable, fun, and genuinely supportive! Resource links: Beyond the Bump episode with Chi, SAHD - Is it the same as being a SAHM?! - with Chi Shurn Lo Beyond the Balls is a fatherhood podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Chi Lo, a Beyond The Bump production. This podcast is targeted at dads, dads to be, their partners and anyone interested in the journey of fatherhood. We believe that every dad wants to be the best they can be so our purpose is to entertain, educate and empower our audience. We promise to have open and honest discussions in the hope to leave you feeling more supported after every listen. Join us in celebrating the ups and downs of fatherhood today! Yeah the dads! This episode of Beyond the Balls is proudly sponsored by our Besties at Betty's Burgers! Betty's Burgers is the perfect place to create memories with Dad this Father's day, so for the perfect parenting hack, head into your local Betty's restaurant and leave the cooking to the experts!
Aug 26, 2024 · 1 hr 13 min
How Can We Teach Our Toddlers, Tweens And Teens About Boundaries, Respect And Healthy Connections? - With The Big Sister Experience, Bianca And Kritz
Welcome to Episode 248 of Beyond the Bump! Today, we’re joined by the incredible Bianca and Kritz from The Big Sister Experience. We're chatting about how to help our kids recognize what healthy connections and relationships look like—whether it’s spotting signs of jealousy or possessiveness, or trusting their gut when it comes to friendships. There’s so much packed into this episode, and we’re excited to share it with you! As always, we hope you love it! Resource Links: The Big Sister Experience Beyond Blue 1800 RESPECT Beyond the Bump is a podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Sophie Pearce! A podcast targeted at mums, just like you! A place to have real conversations with honest and authentic people. Follow us on Instagram at @beyondthebump.podcast to stay up to date with behind the scenes and future episodes. Join our Facebook chat Beyond the Bump Community Chats! Sign up to our newsletter HERE Email us HERE
Aug 19, 2024 · 1 hr 41 min
Bumpies On Board With Sophie - Cystic Fibrosis, PND & PNA Requiring Admission And ect.
Welcome to Episode 247 of Beyond the Bump! In this Bumpie on Board episode, we sit down with Sophie to hear her powerful story of living with cystic fibrosis and her experiences with postnatal depression (PND) and postnatal anxiety (PNA). Sophie bravely shares the challenges and dark moments she's faced along the way. A huge shoutout to Sophie for her vulnerability and openness. We hope you enjoy this episode, legends! Trigger warning: This episode discusses PND, PNA, and the emotional struggles tied to these conditions. Resource Links: Lifeline - call 131114 Beyond Blue PANDA Gidget Foundation Beyond the Bump is a podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Sophie Pearce! A podcast targeted at mums, just like you! A place to have real conversations with honest and authentic people. Follow us on Instagram at @beyondthebump.podcast to stay up to date with behind the scenes and future episodes. Join our Facebook chat Beyond the Bump Community Chats! Sign up to our newsletter HERE Email us HERE
Aug 12, 2024 · 1 hr 6 min
How Can We Help Our Kids Handle Criticism? - With Kasey Edwards, Author
Welcome to Episode 246 of Beyond the Bump! This week, we're back with the fabulous Kasey for round three, and if you loved her last episodes (which were total BANGERS!!), you're in for a treat. This time, we're diving into the nitty-gritty of handling criticism—because let’s face it, we all get it, and it’s no fun! But don’t worry, we’ve got tips on how to help our little ones tackle it like pros too. We hope you enjoy legends! Resources mentioned: Raising Girls Who Like Themselves Bringing Up Boys Who Like Themselves Listen to previous BTB episodes with Kasey: EP181: How can we raise our girls to like themselves? EP188: How do we bring up boys who like themselves? A FREE mini-course to teach your child to handle criticism (in just 10 minutes!) Beyond the Bump is a podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Sophie Pearce! A podcast targeted at mums, just like you! A place to have real conversations with honest and authentic people. Follow us on Instagram at @beyondthebump.podcast to stay up to date with behind the scenes and future episodes. Join our Facebook chat Beyond the Bump Community Chats! Sign up to our newsletter HERE Email us HERE
Aug 5, 2024 · 1 hr 6 min
Germs, Bugs, Sickness - When Does It End? Talking Winter Bugs - With Penny, Paediatric Nurse
Welcome to Episode 245 of Beyond the Bump! This week, we have the pleasure of chatting with the wonderful Penny from Sick Happens. If you don't follow her on social media yet, Penny is an incredible resource for parents and a dedicated paediatric nurse. We dive into the sick season, discussing common illnesses, how to prepare, and handling that nerve-wracking first day of daycare. Penny also shares practical tips to help you manage sickness before it becomes overwhelming. We had a great time, and we hope you find this episode as helpful and enjoyable as we did! Resources mentioned: sickhappens.com.au Follow Penny on IG: @sick.happens Health Direct: 1800 022 222 Beyond the Bump is a podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Sophie Pearce! A podcast targeted at mums, just like you! A place to have real conversations with honest and authentic people. Follow us on Instagram at @beyondthebump.podcast to stay up to date with behind the scenes and future episodes. Join our Facebook chat Beyond the Bump Community Chats! Sign up to our newsletter HERE Email us HERE
Jul 29, 2024 · 1 hr 20 min
Who Even Am I? - With Yara, Psychologist
Welcome to Episode 244 of Beyond the Bump! This week, we're excited to catch up with the wonderful Yara, a psychologist who specialises in motherhood. We've had the pleasure of chatting with her a few times before. Yara runs Life After Birth Psychology, and today, we're diving into the topic of identity loss—a feeling many of us experience but don't always know how to put into words. Join us for an honest and heartfelt conversation about navigating this part of the motherhood journey. We hope you enjoy legends and we’re so happy to be back!!! Resources mentioned: fairplaylife.com lifeafterbirth.com.au Beyond the Bump is a podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Sophie Pearce! A podcast targeted at mums, just like you! A place to have real conversations with honest and authentic people. Follow us on Instagram at @beyondthebump.podcast to stay up to date with behind the scenes and future episodes. Join our Facebook chat Beyond the Bump Community Chats! Sign up to our newsletter HERE Email us HERE
Jul 1, 2024 · 52 min
One And Done - Am I Truly Done?! - With Hayley, Mother Of One
Welcome to Episode 243 of Beyond the Bump! This week, we chat with the incredible Hayley about her choice to be "one and done." This is a topic many of you have requested, and we were thrilled to hear Hayley’s refreshing perspective and her unapologetic attitude towards her family's decision. We absolutely loved this conversation and hope you will too! Enjoy the episode! Beyond the Bump is a podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Sophie Pearce! A podcast targeted at mums, just like you! A place to have real conversations with honest and authentic people. Follow us on Instagram at @beyondthebump.podcast to stay up to date with behind the scenes and future episodes. Join our Facebook chat Beyond the Bump Community Chats! Sign up to our newsletter HERE Email us HERE
Jun 24, 2024 · 1 hr 7 min
Code Red: Why Has My Period Changed Since Having A Baby? Are My Hormones Okay? - With Dr Preeya Alexander
Welcome to Episode 242 of Beyond the Bump! This week, we had an amazing chat with Dr. Preeya Alexander. Dr Preeya is a GP and we brought her on because we've both noticed that our periods and cycles have changed so much since having kids, and we wanted to understand why. Dr. Alexander breaks it all down for us, explaining what's going on with our bodies and what we can do about it. We learned so much from this conversation and hope you will too. Beyond the Bump is a podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Sophie Pearce! A podcast targeted at mums, just like you! A place to have real conversations with honest and authentic people. Follow us on Instagram at @beyondthebump.podcast to stay up to date with behind the scenes and future episodes. Join our Facebook chat Beyond the Bump Community Chats! Sign up to our newsletter HERE Email us HERE
Jun 17, 2024 · 1 hr 20 min
Bumpies On Board With Nikeesha - Solo Mum By Choice, Sperm Donation, Chronic Illness And More
Welcome to Episode 241 of Beyond the Bump! This week, we’re excited to chat with Nikeesha, another amazing Bumpie. In this special Bumpie on Board episode, Nikeesha shares her inspiring journey as a solo mum by choice. She discusses selecting a sperm donor, navigating IVF alone, and managing her chronic illness throughout the process. Nikeesha’s story is truly a breath of fresh air. As always, we hope you enjoy the episode! Beyond the Bump is a podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Sophie Pearce! A podcast targeted at mums, just like you! A place to have real conversations with honest and authentic people. Follow us on Instagram at @beyondthebump.podcast to stay up to date with behind the scenes and future episodes. Join our Facebook chat Beyond the Bump Community Chats! Sign up to our newsletter HERE Email us HERE
Jun 10, 2024 · 1 hr 3 min
4 Year Olds, Is Everything Okay?! - With Child & Family Therapist, Sarah Bolitho
Welcome to Episode 240 of Beyond the Bump! This week, we’re talking to Sarah all about four-year-olds—how they're doing, and perhaps more importantly, how their parents are holding up. Tune in for an insightful discussion filled with tips, advice, and reassurance for navigating this pivotal stage of childhood. As always, we hope you enjoy!!! Beyond the Bump is a podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Sophie Pearce! A podcast targeted at mums, just like you! A place to have real conversations with honest and authentic people. Follow us on Instagram at @beyondthebump.podcast to stay up to date with behind the scenes and future episodes. Join our Facebook chat Beyond the Bump Community Chats! Sign up to our newsletter HERE Email us HERE
Jun 3, 2024 · 58 min
Work & Parenthood, Can We Juggle It All? - With Erica, Psychologist & Career Coach
Welcome to Episode 239 of Beyond the Bump! This week, we’re thrilled to chat with the amazing Erica, a psychologist, HR expert, and career coach. Join us as we delve into the complexities of balancing work and parenting. Can we truly excel at both, or does one inevitably suffer? Erica shares her professional insights and practical tips on how to manage these dual roles effectively. As always, we hope you enjoy!!! Beyond the Bump is a podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Sophie Pearce! A podcast targeted at mums, just like you! A place to have real conversations with honest and authentic people. Follow us on Instagram at @beyondthebump.podcast to stay up to date with behind the scenes and future episodes. Join our Facebook chat Beyond the Bump Community Chats! Sign up to our newsletter HERE Email us HERE
May 27, 2024 · 1 hr 5 min
Is this really a Fair Play game? Divvy up the mental load with Harry & Jayde
Welcome to Episode 237 of Beyond the Bump! This week, we have another round of Fair Play cards, and if you missed the first episode, it's all about divvying up the mental load in the household, out and about, travel, kids, you as a couple, cleaning, and everything in between—except this time we’ve flipped the participants and it’s Jayde and Harry’s turn!! Resource Links: Fair Play Cards Beyond the Bump is a podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Sophie Pearce! A podcast targeted at mums, just like you! A place to have real conversations with honest and authentic people. Follow us on Instagram at @beyondthebump.podcast to stay up to date with behind the scenes and future episodes. Join our Facebook chat Beyond the Bump Community Chats! Sign up to our newsletter HERE Email us HERE
May 20, 2024 · 1 hr 16 min
Bumpies on Board with Clare Watson - mum of 2, CMPA, tongue ties, PND & PNA
Welcome to Episode 236 of Beyond the Bump! This week, we're excited to kick off our first Bumpies on Board episode with our lovely VA, Clare Watson. Clare shares her heartfelt journey as a mum of two, discussing everything from CMPA (Cow's Milk Protein Allergy) and tongue ties to her struggles with postnatal anxiety and depression. Her honesty and warmth make this episode truly special. We hope you enjoy it as much as we did! Resource Links: Fair Play Cards Beyond the Bump is a podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Sophie Pearce! A podcast targeted at mums, just like you! A place to have real conversations with honest and authentic people. Follow us on Instagram at @beyondthebump.podcast to stay up to date with behind the scenes and future episodes. Join our Facebook chat Beyond the Bump Community Chats! Sign up to our newsletter HERE Email us HERE
May 13, 2024 · 1 hr 6 min
Hey Google, Should I have a third child?! - with Maggie Chretien
Welcome to Episode 236 of Beyond the Bump! This week, we chatted to Maggie Chretien about a much requested topic: how do you know when to add another child to your family, whether it's going from two to three or any other number for that matter? Things got a bit heated during this episode, and to be honest, we're not sure where we landed on the issue. But hey, we hope you enjoy it!! Beyond the Bump is a podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Sophie Pearce! A podcast targeted at mums, just like you! A place to have real conversations with honest and authentic people. Follow us on Instagram at @beyondthebump.podcast to stay up to date with behind the scenes and future episodes. Join our Facebook chat Beyond the Bump Community Chats! Sign up to our newsletter HERE Email us HERE
May 6, 2024 · 1 hr 5 min
Would you say this is a raw dogging episode?! - with Sophie & Jayde
Welcome back to all our beautiful Bumpies listening! We hope you’ve missed us. This episode is going to be an absolute mixed bag—or as we like to call it, "raw dogging it"! You guys have sent us some questions you want answered as we discuss some topics we're eager to dive into. It’s been a while since we've given an update, and we suppose not much and yet everything has changed for both of us since then. As always, we hope you enjoy this episode! Beyond the Bump is a podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Sophie Pearce! A podcast targeted at mums, just like you! A place to have real conversations with honest and authentic people. Follow us on Instagram at @beyondthebump.podcast to stay up to date with behind the scenes and future episodes. Join our Facebook chat Beyond the Bump Community Chats! Sign up to our newsletter HERE Email us HERE
Apr 15, 2024 · 1 hr 5 min
Sex toys: where do we even begin?! - with Rach, from LBDO
Welcome to Episode 234 of Beyond the Bump! Today, we're chatting with Rachel Baker, the founder of LBDO, all about sex and intimacy. We reckon these topics are huge parts of parenthood often brushed under the rug, leading to heaps of shame and guilt. Our Bumpies have flooded us with questions about sex and intimacy, so we're tackling them head-on. Questions like, "Help! I feel like I've totally lost my libido post-kids. Will it ever come back?" Or "What do you do when you and your partner have mismatched sex drives?" We hope you enjoy this episode! Resources: LBDO Emily Nagoski Beyond the Bump is a podcast brought to you by Jayde Couldwell and Sophie Pearce! A podcast targeted at mums, just like you! A place to have real conversations with honest and authentic people. Follow us on Instagram at @beyondthebump.podcast to stay up to date with behind the scenes and future episodes. Join our Facebook chat Beyond the Bump Community Chats! Sign up to our newsletter HERE Email us HERE