We Don't Have Time For This

Gemma Peanut & Kate Reeves

Two full-time working mums with lots of opinions and no time. Featuring childhood besties Gemma Peanut and Kate Reeves.

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Jul 7, 2025 · 56 min
Lu’s Here and She’s Bringing the Chaos
Revz is in her show editing cave and Gem has roped in Revz's sister, Lu, and buckle up, because she is UNHINGED in the best way. She’s got opinions, she’s got regrets, and she’s got kids who think she’s a walking ATM. She’s out here un-training the sleep she painstakingly trained in the first place (make that make sense), dating men who flirt via dad jokes, and getting most of her life advice from TikTok and ChatGPT. Gem is spiralling down sister envy lane and needs to pick Lu’s brain on this one. Then before we go, Lu drops a bomb and it has quite honestly left us… speechless. We love you DLs. Thanks for sticking around for the madness x #Notspon: Lu: Joe Dispenzer Meditations Gem: Candy Claws - Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jul 3, 2025 · 10 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline: My Husband Went To A Brothel
This week's caller has uncovered a devastating secret. - Get your LIVE SHOW MERCH Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jun 30, 2025 · 50 min
There’s A Better Way: The Gem and Revz Story
We struggled to write the show notes for this ep. It goes everywhere, strap yourself in…. Notspons: Gem: Apple Divider Revz: Maths roller Stamper (aff link) Mentions: Crumble Air Fryer Arlo and Co Stick on Timetables - Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jun 26, 2025 · 12 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline: My Toddler Hates Her Name
Today's caller's 3 year old wants to change her name. - Get your LIVE SHOW MERCH Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jun 23, 2025 · 43 min
Is His Mental Health, My Problem?
Gem’s now a matcha girlie — congrats on your new grown-up drink, babe! It’s giving wellness AND expensive pond water. We also discovered the wholesome corner of the internet that is “Dad, How Do I?” and it’s giving us all the feels. Then Revz throws a lil thought experiment our way, making us get all reflective about our fave and least fave parts of parenting. Which somehow leads us straight to her next big relationship milestone. Then things take a turn, as Gem brings a heavy (but important) comment from the Facebook group into the chat — following on from our convo about men’s mental health. It’s raw, real, and leaves us asking: how much of our partner’s mental health is our responsibility... and where do we draw the line? Is it reason to leave? It’s a big one. Not sponsored: Revz: Luxe Bin Covers Gem: Apple AirPods Mentions: Ep219: Average Mum, Amazing Aunty Dad How Do I - Subscribe for MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe for MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jun 19, 2025 · 9 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline: How Do I Talk to My Kid About Sperm Donor Babies?
This week's caller is struggling to tackle the topic of sperm donation. Mentions: D&M: My Baby By Sperm Donor - Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jun 16, 2025 · 39 min
Hot Takes with a Shot of Americano
The bad news is Gem’s away, but we couldn’t leave your ear holes empty this Tuesday so we roped in a surprise new co-host! Americano is on the mic and spilling everything: from the first time he met Revz, to his elite snack line up and the icks that he doesn’t have. We talk couples therapy, navigating life as a team, and what it really means to show up for your person. Plus, he gets all gooey and tells us why he absolutely adores our Revzy — cue the collective awww. #Notspon: Revz: Dreaming with Mikki Podcast Americano: Frozen Berries Mentions: The Daily interview with Dr Terry Real - Subscribe for MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe for MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jun 12, 2025 · 15 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline: I Regret My Husband's Vasectomy
This week's caller is struggling with her unexpected baby fever. - Get your LIVE SHOW MERCH Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jun 9, 2025 · 51 min
The Baby Names That Got Away
This week, we kick off with a standing ovation for our knight in shining armour — Show Daddy — who bravely waded into the comment section of our viral reel to battle trolls with nothing but logic and Show Daddy energy. Then we dive into the DL poll results that left Gem absolutely shooketh. But not as shook as she is about discovering that people are out here actually meal prepping? Like… on purpose? We also take a nostalgic stroll through the baby names that never made the cut, and unpack the weird and wonderful world of 2024 baby name trends. #Notspon: Gem: Quartz Jewellery Tray Revz: Cocobella Chocolate Coconut Water - Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jun 5, 2025 · 12 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline: I've Inherited My Mum's Body Shame
This week's caller wants to break her generational trauma. - Get your LIVE SHOW MERCH Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jun 2, 2025 · 1 hr 7 min
Sushi Trauma & Taco Drama
Boobs first, always. Go on, give ‘em a check. We’ll wait. Revz is back with a very uplifting curse update — but if you like sushi, maybe sit this one out (or at least put your chopsticks down). Yes, it’s that gross. Yes, we issued a trigger warning. And yes, we spiral into a very important chat: when exactly do you need a trigger warning for rank stuff? In other news, Revz has finally locked in her birthday plans and we can all breathe a sigh of relief. Then things take a dark turn: Gem comes out swinging against hard shell tacos, and we spiral into the biggest disagreement of 2025. Oh and while we’re in the kitchen, Gem wants to learn how to cook now so welcome to our new podcast, Domestic 101. #Notspons: Gem: Miss Amara Rugs Revz: @onesydneymum - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
May 29, 2025 · 17 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline: Should I Apologise for My Kid's Swearing?
This week's caller is f*cking embarrassed. - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
May 26, 2025 · 52 min
A May (Trauma) Dump
We're kicking off with a good ol’ Revz Hack™️ (because who doesn't love a shortcut that makes parenting slightly easier?) But buckle up, DLs, because after that, things take a turn. A sharp one. Revz is feeling the heaviness of the internet right now — the trolls, the pressure, the performative noise — and she’s not sure she wants to keep showing up in a space that’s starting to feel more toxic than supportive. Is it the algorithm? Is it the curse? Is it just... collective burnout? We get into the deep feels — imposter syndrome, school bully flashbacks, and the general emotional whiplash of trying to be vulnerable online. Thanks for holding space, DLs. You are the reason we keep showing up. #Notspon Revz: Kmart Pyjamas Gem: Witchery Stitch Detail Blazer - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
May 25, 2025 · 11 min
2025 Live Show FAQs
Our 2025 Live Show "Who Is She?" goes on sale 10am Monday 2nd June. We answer all of your burning questions. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
May 22, 2025 · 20 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline: Did My Nan Cheat?
This week's caller has found herself in a DNA dilemon. - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
May 19, 2025 · 46 min
My Relationship Is More Important Than My Kids
The Curse Continues. Revz’s car is plagued with fruit flies, we know what you’re thinking… what the actual f*ck? Just when you think it can’t get weirder, something not mail turns up in her letterbox and we’re one spooky coincidence away from staging a full moon cleansing. Someone call a reiki master? PLUS — we’re dropping the biggest news of 2025: WHO IS SHE? is coming to a stage near you. It’s giving wine-fuelled, belly-laughing, scream-crying Mum’s Night Out energy. Round up your ride-or-dies and stalk the socials for all the juicy deets. We asked, you answered — and now we’re taking out the parenting trash. From nappies to car seats, we’re deep-diving into the stuff you’re absolutely DONE with. Which, naturally, sends us spiralling into a debate about relationship priorities. Just your standard emotional rollercoaster — welcome aboard. Not Spon: Gem: Luxuriate Candles Revz: Pea Fritter Recipe Mentions: Ep 219: Average Mum, Amazing Aunty - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
May 15, 2025 · 11 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline: How Do I Lift A Curse?
Today's caller is stuck in a bad luck ditch. - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
May 12, 2025 · 46 min
Is Cosmetic Surgery A Betrayal of All Women?
Serious question to kick things off: how do you order your coloured pencils? Because there is one correct way and the other 63 are chaos. Next up, 92% of you have major party anxiety and this is not helping Revz’s 40th plans. And speaking of turning 40… Gem’s having feelings about cosmetic surgery. Are we betraying body positivity by making augmentations or is it choice feminism? Is it internalised shame? Social judgement? Or is it just… wanting to feel good in your skin? We love a midlife spiral. Let’s unpack it. #Notspon: Gem: Kollab X Rhythm Revz: Aunt Flo Hipster Period Undies Mentions: Ep 217 Hot 40th, Cold Feet - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
May 8, 2025 · 15 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline: My Husband Needs Toilet Training
Today's caller's husband pees on the toilet seat. Gross. - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
May 6, 2025 · 7 min
🛍️ Help Me Shop: New Mum
We've got you covered this Mother's Day. Here are our top picks to gift the new Mum in your life. Links: Dinner Ladies Meals Soak Bathhouse Linen House The Palazzo Plush Robe LX Collection Candle Maya Brenner Initial Necklace See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.